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hippichick
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posted November 12, 2010 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mia

I dont think you can break it down to only the 12 energies of the Zodiac,(ie Pisces women and Aqua men...) there are so, so many other factors involved, including other planetary energies as well as how one was raised, culture, etc.

I am not a Pisces woman who needs to feel emotionally safe, and that is one of the greatest lessons I have learned from Aqua, there is no safety greater than thyself.

Back to the original post, is there hope?

There is always hope, life would suck without hope...

t

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LanaofAugust
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posted November 13, 2010 08:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LanaofAugust     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have to say that there's a lot of truth in what Mia is saying...

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Blissfull
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posted November 14, 2010 04:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blissfull     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Lovely People

First of all thank you for your genuine interest into this situation.

I feel we all learn from relationships and they are an adventure on growth and transformation (btw, I have a kite formation focuses on transformation on my chart) not and end on itself.

Having said that I will give you an update on the situation.

After he let me down on this small work related issue (no money involved) I told him I have lost trust in him. He took it very emotionally and seriously (capricorn ascendant, like me).

And I have detached myself for sometime from him. After a while I have asked him how he feels and he replied with sad and angry tones.

Then he actually wrote a poem! wow!

The poem says that I am with people who understands me and I told him that I want to be alone and he is there all by himself struggling and his heart is in pieces. It is in another language so I am loosely translating it.

Over all tone of the poem is that he was hurt and he does not feel my love and I should keep my distance like I wished.

Frankly I was very surprised to get this strong emotional reaction from him. After that poem I have told him how I really loved him and we obviously are learning from this and growing and we will see where it will take us.

And a little about me. I am not a usual pisces any more. I WAS though but I have been working with my emotions since a long time now and did a lot of meditation retreats and soul searching. Which did work and still working.

I feel very happy and ballaced with myself and emotions. I had a 4 year relationship with an aqua ascendant pisces man and that was one of the transformational periods in my life.

And with this Aqua sun and moon guy: I know and feel that he has strong emotions for me. My heart on the other hand is NOW capable of loving with detachment,(thanks God!) I have learned and experienced the beauty of loving without clinging or expecting. He makes my heart smile, I don't know how long it will last, but I am learning greatly from him.

Three major things: patience, understanding and loving unconditionally.

At this time he is confused (he wrote a huge paragraph about this on facebook) about what he had to be doing in his life. So I am still gently guiding him, having being devoted my life on growth, I have access to a bit more info then him. And he thanked me for that and goes to the workshops, meditation retreats that I send him.

So he is trying on his own pace, I also feel he is feeling a bit insecure, he told me that before. HE told me once that he has no right to hurt me in any way because he learns greatly from me and he appreciates that.

Wow are you still reading

So I sometimes have questions but after that poem I see how he is inside. I tend to forget that!

Yes I still do not trust him, but hey, what is trust. Can I say I won't fall for another guy now, specially in this fog? I can not say that. A scorpio would be great now! )

I even had a dream about this very insightful, it was our engagement day or something like this. his parents and mine were at their house and first I run and hide somewhere, he comes and finds me and then he disappears And his mother calls him on the phone to tell him to come home. And she turns to me and says with a very sad face `I am sorry but he is like this, you talk to him about marriage he runs miles away, my poor boy`

))

I love to share these with you

Love and light,
Blissfull

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Blissfull
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posted November 14, 2010 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blissfull     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and btw to make it more objective, - I feel I got into the details a lot - I would like to share an composite reading done by a very accurate astro chart reader. thanks to him again. casting another light to this type of situation.

here is his interpretation:

"the tsquare of pluto square the saturn/mars opposition is difficult as it shows he will be extreme selfish and set in his ways.there is no compromise,his way or... there is no other way.

the venus/moon conjunction trine to saturn shows a deep understandng love,steady and supporting .

so you have a clear line of tenson with pluto trying to pull the selfishness out and venus/moon emphacizing union,love and completion.

one breaks bonds ,one creates bonds.

with chiron square to mars, there is addition selfish and conniving energies around him.so the question is how can you sustain a emotional expectancy from his straight forward, hard and uncompromising nature.

with pluto square the ascendant,it is doubtful the supportive love can grow in such antigonistic soil.

the sun/jupiter midpoint conjuncts the venus/moon conjunction,so the advantages of marriage are great .this shows that a longterm ,commited relationship is central to the love and bonding.

the glitch here is how,with the incredible love and intimacy ,how could there still be such a hard and uncaring side at times.

with neptune square venus/moon, the physical aspects of intimacy gives a almost "spiritual" connection.let this aspect can also show indescretions in lovers.it can show straight out deception about emotional feelings.
it seems some of that is ar play here,as the emotional connection you thought was being created between you seems to be stronger than his attachment for you.

the mars/uranus midpoint is conjunct neptune which suggest that he has lovers hidden from you.the strong uranian energy also suggest that he wants a "open" relationship or some variation that allows him his dalliances.

the love is so intense and seemingly destined , yet the selfish, cold edge to him will likely never change. and with neptune's influence,there could be alcohol/substance issues.

frankly i am surprised you are still in the relationship as you have put up with so much,changed and tried to mollify him for months and nothing gives."

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hippichick
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posted November 15, 2010 08:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bliss

you sound like quite the emotionally mature lady who can handle and is ready for the lessons of the aqua, they are not easy ones.

my 18 yr old aqua daughter, and she is all aqua and cap with a cancer asc, complains all of the time about how her friends (what are friends to the aqua? everybody on the earth!) get angry with her for not responding to texts, fb postings etc. i just smile cause i know how aquas are.

i have also learned they are very, very forgetful, things just "slip their minds" as my aqua friend told me the other day (as their heads are bouncing from uranus, to saturn and galaxies beyond...)

as i have said, already, one can just not say that one sign and another will never work. we pick up our lessons along the way and hoepfully learn from them.

blessings

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posted November 16, 2010 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Blissfull, A Scorpio would be heaven for you now. They abound, trust me. I just met one with Sun, Jupiter, Venus there.

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hippichick
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posted November 16, 2010 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
O YEA!!!

I have been wanting a Scorp for a man since my first real bfriend, back in 78!!

OOOO, I SO want a Scorp man!!!

ahhh Scorp asc speaking in me?

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pire
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posted November 17, 2010 01:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't read the relationship analysis by the astrologer because it engages only its author.

as far as I am concerned, and regarding your post, I don't understand something. you say everything is ok since you know how he feels about you, ... etc.. but then you say you don't trust him.

that's strange.

I think you do love him, as he is, without pretence being someone else, cause you seem to understand him, but what I think that you are looking for is some reassurance, the type you'd get from a scorpio

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Yes I still do not trust him, but hey, what is trust. Can I say I won't fall for another guy now, specially in this fog? I can not say that. A scorpio would be great now! )

those words are shocking for an aqua, and for a scorpio too by the way

every relationship as its up and down in time, and every relationship as it advantage and disadvantage. if the disadvantage are superior to the advantages, then you should deal with it, but dealing with it doesn't mean breaking up, at least for a fixed sign like scorpio or aqua. talking about it, and expressing it to find a way to accomodate his ways and your needs should be possible, and desried if it is love.

I think at least.

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Blissfull
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posted November 24, 2010 07:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blissfull     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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your wishes coming true

I have just met a scorpio man!!!

Wow.. Just recently, friend of a friend.

And he seems great. Time will tell. Oh btw he is sun scorpio, asc leo, moon sag, venus gemini. me again: sun pisces, asc capricorn, moon and venus aries.

What do you guys say to this now.

But as I say I will wait and see. Aqua seems distant these days.

Love you,
B.

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posted November 24, 2010 07:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blissfull     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and Pire,

you are right about me needing reassurance. thank you for pointing that out. I am working on that.

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posted November 24, 2010 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bliss

one of the greatest lessons of the aqua, to be self-assured and not need reassurance....

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posted November 24, 2010 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
good luck with everything blissful

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posted November 24, 2010 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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And he seems great. Time will tell. Oh btw he is sun scorpio, asc leo, moon sag, venus gemini.

A Scorpio with Venus in Gemini?!?!? Interesting.

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Mama Mia
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posted November 26, 2010 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Blissful: Bet on that Scorpio..It may be more peaceful for you..I have dated a couple Scorps and Pisces can do well with them. Only thing that kind of makes me stand up with your Scorp is that Moon in Sag and that Venus in Gem..Not deemed as stable with those placements and they are opposite of each other. But what do you have to lose..It may just work..Goodluck..

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Blissfull
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posted November 28, 2010 02:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blissfull     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi guys

sorry I got the hour wrong. he has sag in venus and asc and leo moon. makes difference ha.

and he is amazing. wow! caring, intelligent, sharp. such a relief.

we have some hard aspects like moon oposition mars but, I am a very calm person and he is too. so this will manifest in other areas I guess

But in composite sun in the first house, a kite formation pointing mercury (in 12th house)jupiter in the seventh house, venus second,saturn 6th.

I get to learn more and more astrology.

Can you recommend a good tutorial place for me on astrology?

love you all )

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posted January 04, 2011 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraDiva     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have been reading about Aquas so much that my eyes cross at the letters now... ugh

I wish you the best of luck with your Aqua man! You seen to have the love in your spirit and the patience to go through all of his games... I myself am getting frustrated with mine!

Sun Libra
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Libra
Venus Virgo
Mars Cancer
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra

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posted January 06, 2011 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for coconutcancermoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Blissful,

I have been in your shoes once before and I know how painful it can be. Always remember who matters most

Love to you!

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