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inamotion
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From: AZ
Registered: Dec 2010

posted December 17, 2010 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for inamotion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everyone!

I really like a Cancer man. He's young, only 21 years old, and I have read that it is difficult for the Cancer to open up. How do I know when the Cancer man I like has opened up to me? What are some things he may say or share that ordinarily they would not? What are some signs I should look out for? We're just friends for the moment, but I would like to pursue something in the future when I get to know him better. I'm a Taurus, by the way,

Thanks in advance everyone!

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coconutcancermoon
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From: Brooklyn, NY
Registered: Nov 2010

posted December 18, 2010 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for coconutcancermoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It depends on his past relationships . . . has he been hurt in the past, if so that may delay the process. My advice is to be there and be as genuine as you can, don't push or use force, then eventually one quiet night he will let you in, not all the way . . . a little at a time. Hope this helps

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Isolaede
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From: Sunny CA
Registered: May 2009

posted December 21, 2010 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isolaede     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think one of the great secrets with Cancers is that we aren't truely closed off - we just don't volunteer information. I know Scorpios that have walls a mile thick, and truely don't want to talk about themselves. They'll tell you what they want you to know when they feel like it. But Cancers secretly yern to have someone that cares enough about understanding them to try to figure them out. But you have to ask - we won't just "open up" and start telling you our life's stories. Additionally, to get to the deeper bits, you have to start by showing an interest in smaller surface things.

So, ask him questions about himself. Tons of them! Think of creative ones - like what super powers he'd want if he spontaneously developed them, or sentimental ones, like what was his favorite memory from childhood or the most beautiful thing heís ever seen. Ask him about his favorite books, movies, his family, favorite fictional character, dreams. Cancer's aren't like other water signs - we might not open up voluntarily but we do truly want others to want to know us. When he starts talking, listen avidly, and follow up with more questions. Show him you are genuinely interested in him, and he won't be able to resist falling in love with you. I think in the heart of every cancer is a sad crab that wonders why no one cares enough to try to really understand him or her.

You are already ahead of the game being a Taurus. It might just be me, since Iím a Cancer with a Taurus moon, but Iíve never met a Taurus I wasnít instantly fond of. Our signs are just very compatible. : )

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