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SparklingSag
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posted May 01, 2011 04:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey all

Not sure what is happening astrologically right now but have felt very frustrated and lonely the last week or so.

Regarding my Mr Aries and I, he is returning from his Japan trip and I realised that he only contacted me when he was feelng lonely on his trip, asked if I would fly out to Japan to be with him, said could he come and see when he was back. He also asked my summer plans and what was I doing.

He is totally INCONSISTENT, in both his words, actions, what he wants/doesn't want. I deserve better than this. Where is the strong Saggie/Leo that is me? Why do I become so accepting of dis-resepctful behaviour?

This is not simply an astrological question regarding compatability, this is human to human level.

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carl
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posted May 01, 2011 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As others have said in other threads, lots going on for Aries, with Uranus moving into that sign. I guess what that means is, they strive for indepenedence and "me" time because of that transit.

There must be another transit that hits his chart (but obviously not my exs) that occasionally makes him feel lonely. Perhaps something to do with a transit hitting his moon.

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SparklingSag
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posted May 02, 2011 07:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Carl

Thanks for your insight. Indeed, I forget that the other person also has things going on and issues.With all the planets hitting Aries (and also Mr Aries has venus in Aries too), perhaps it is not a personal issue with me, may just be lots going on.

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SparklingSag
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posted May 06, 2011 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK, so wen he returned from his trip Mr Aries called me to chat. But not really heard from him this week though and I have been super busy at work too and he had told me he was going to have a hectic month after his trip.

So, what's a girl to do? If he is not interested then that's fine. I have begun to notice other men recently, in a good window shopping kind of way. I think it feels I am ready to start dating someone new. Mr Aries will come back and leave again as he has done (despite him saying he came back for me and never wanted to lose me).

I kinda want to date, meet someone who treats well. I love Aries energy but at times, it can hurt my libra mars and venus which needs a little attention too.

Am I on a losing battle with Mr Aries I wonder?

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SparklingSag
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posted May 09, 2011 09:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
History is most certainly repeating itself, warning signs are here so am stopping this before it goes any further.

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teasel
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posted May 09, 2011 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is where I would sigh, in person, because it isn't just an Aries thing.

I did a little window shopping recently, out in the world (cute guys behind the counter at the bookstore, for example), and on OKCupid. I was reminded of how men are when they're really interested, and it was both flattering and terrifying (the attention).

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SparklingSag
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posted May 09, 2011 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Teasal

Am in total agreement with you. If they are interested, then they let you know....so sad thst I fell for this guy again and he is just doing what he has always done. Lesson learned.


I've also been doing window shopping and a guy asked me for a drink tomorrow night so am going. Might as well try....
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