posted May 24, 2011 03:32 AM            

I recently ended things w/ an emotionally unavailable Aqua. Quite unexpectedly I have become enamored of a Taurus. This is the first time I have ever dated anyone but an Aqua!

This guy was on my radar since October of last year, very slowly making his presence known. What I liked was that he was always available when I called and he is surprisingly sweet and physically affectionate. The antithesis of an Aqua! So I really like him.

We went out quite a few times and were getting kinda close when he suddenly started slowing down the contact. Taking hours to return my texts and even ignoring one or two of my calls. What precipitated this was him asking me if he could see me the following day and me telling him I was not available (though I did offer up an alternative day). Its almost like he didn't like chasing me and pulled away. I cant think of any other reason. I got very nervous and upset ( thinking he was pulling an Aqua type disappearance). Long story short, we stopped talking. I sent him an email saying that I didnt understand the sudden change in behavior but I didnt appreciate being played w/, and that I enjoyed our time together but could not be w/ someone who would treat me like that. This was two weeks ago.

A few days ago and I get the sweetest text from him: That he is so sorry I feel that way about him. That he is thinking of me and that he appreciates every bit of time he ever spent w/ me. I write back to him that I appreciate him saying that and maybe one day he will explain to me what happened. He replies that he would love to get together with me, ''and we can backtrack together'', he said. I told him that would be okay. He said he was looking fwd to it. But we never set a date or time to have this talk. That was almost 4 days ago. Should I just reach out to him, or wait and see if he is serious and contacts me? I read that they are notoriously slow and dont catch hints too easily. I mean, the guy thought he was chasing me for months when I dont recall him every asking me out during that time. But he will swear that he did - LOL..I really want him, but I dont want to force it. I would love to see if he comes to me. What to do??? Heres are our charts. TIA!

HIM
Sun Taurus
Rising Leo
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Taurus
Venus Gemini
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Aquarius
Asc node Gemini

ME
Sun Pisces
Rising Taurus
Moon Gemini
Mercury Pisces
Venus Aries
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Gemini
Uranus Libra
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Libra
Asc node Aquarius

posted May 24, 2011 03:44 AM            

they are slow to react, and super secretive, they say the absolute minimum and keep you guessing! i dont know if a gem moon (you) could handle the slow and "seemingly" detached reaction you would get from him. also his scorp moon will make it difficult for him to express his true feelings!