posted December 26, 2014 01:50 PM            

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Originally posted by VacantGazer:
that the moon isn't the emotions we are feeling but more how we deal with them? I'm a gemini moon, but I'm a very sensitive girl.

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This is exactly right.

posted December 26, 2014 01:52 PM            

Deep feelings for sure, but also surely needing a lot of time to open up, and what I think is very blatant in your face emotional expression I am showing, often seems to be too subtle for the one on the receiving end to even notice it.

posted December 27, 2014 10:49 AM            

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Originally posted by VacantGazer:
My Boyfriend is an Aqua moon. We were good friends before we started dating. And he is for sure someone who likes his space. I wouldn't say he is cold or detached at all, more reserved than anything. He can actually be a very romantic man. I felt from my friendship with him, he's a very sensitive guy but he doesnt really open up so much emotionally.

He has a T-Square(venus in leo square mars in scorpio square aquarius moon) I should also mention he has mars conjunct uranus in scorpio. He is a bit of a loner. There are times when I don't see or hear from him for a few days but when he's with me he is very affectionate and romantic(which my venus/mars in leo likes ), I do notice a little jealous side to him if I mention any male friends he doesn't like it.

I can handle his need for space very well. I'm a gemini moon(I also have ceres in aquarius).

I do find he seems to make more effort with me if I don't chase after him.

This is a little bit off topic now but actually makes me think that perhaps, is it possible that the moon isn't the emotions we are feeling but more how we deal with them? I'm a gemini moon, but I'm a very sensitive girl.

But in short, no, I don't think Aqua moon men are cold. They just like their space and take their time with anything. They just don't display their emotions as much.

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posted December 28, 2014 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Great description above.

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So are they more likely to pursue you if you give them space and don't contact them.

posted December 28, 2014 12:06 PM              

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
So are they more likely to pursue you if you give them space and don't contact them.

The one I am involved with seems to do just that.

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I'd say that's men generally.

posted December 28, 2014 12:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
I'd say that's men generally.

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posted December 29, 2014 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by VacantGazer:
I would say give them their space, but not overdoing it to the point where they think you are not interested. I just think perhaps not being over demanding emotionally, especially if you are in the early stages. I have another friend who is a capricorn with both venus and moon in aquarius and he has actually complained to me about people we both know being too emotional, but for me I dont think the people in question are too emotional at all. But when he says too emotional, I dont think he means feeling too much emotion just showing too much. Everyone is emotional, it's just how we deal with them is different.

I think in the long term, aqua moons are actually quite predictable, which makes sense as aqua is a fixed sign. I seem to be able to know when my boyfriend will contact me if he doesn't hear from me first. To be honest, the aqua moon in my boyfriends chart doesn't worry me, I would be more concerned about the T-square involving uranus. But so far so good

I wont say dont contact him at all, but dont run after him to the point where he feels suffocated. He would still need to know you're interested. I guess it's just a matter of how you balance it.

What's the rest of his chart like?

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Pisces Sun
Pisces venus
Pisces Mars
Aqua Moon
Aqua Mercury

dont know the ASC as I dont have his birth time.

He has suggested meeting for dinner when he's "better". One of the reasons he blew me out was saying he was ill....I have my doubts as to the truth of it but I'll give him the benefit of it.

He texted on xmas eve to ask how I was. I replied and said ok and asked how he was. Hr said getting better and he'd see me soon. Ended with Xxx from him.

posted December 29, 2014 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
Hmm… I know several water sun / Aqua Moon men and they had no problems pursuing a woman the wanted, and making their interest known unmistakably during the courtship phase. It was only later, when the relationship was well under way and committed, that they would show these famous "need for space" symptoms…but not at the beginning. If someone is so difficult to make dates with or communicate with at the beginning of a relationship, to me that looks like lack of effort, and thus lack of real interest. I could be wrong, of course.

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Yeah I thought that. Give it up, he's not interested so I gave up.

Then he starts contacting me again and asking me out and flaking....!

posted December 30, 2014 07:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Some Pisces are not very shy.

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posted January 01, 2015 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by VacantGazer:
But Isn't mars also about how we go after what we want? I thought mars in pisces might be a little bit on the shy side in that respect.

Also If it's early in pisces it could also conjunct his moon. If it's late in Pisces it could also square his moon. Same applies to Venus. This is why knowing birth time is important.

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He's been very unshy Alot of the time.....

posted January 01, 2015 08:33 AM            

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Originally posted by VacantGazer:
But Isn't mars also about how we go after what we want? I thought mars in pisces might be a little bit on the shy side in that respect.

Also If it's early in pisces it could also conjunct his moon. If it's late in Pisces it could also square his moon. Same applies to Venus. This is why knowing birth time is important.

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He's been very unshy Alot of the time.....

posted January 05, 2015 02:33 PM            

But man oh man. The ICE! It took me a looong time (7 years!) to finally admit to myself that the emotional detachment just wasn't enough for me, it would never be enough, and I needed more warmth and fire. And so I left that relationship ... and now I am much, MUCH happier with a different Aquarius (!) but one with a Cancer moon and Venus/Mars in Aries. These placements make allll the difference; really it is astonishing how on-point astrology can be.

My point is, Aquarius tends to consider their own needs first, or rather they're just busy fulfilling them to begin with and they don't understand why you're over there wallowing around feeling all neglected because they didn't respond to your text from two days ago. Aren't you busy doing your own thing too??? Naturally this doesn't read well for water signs, and sometimes fire.

posted January 22, 2015 02:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
This is exactly right.

The signs show how we express a certain quality, not IF we have it at all.

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