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ceedeekay
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posted February 23, 2012 02:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ceedeekay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm hoping this page can help me with something. I'm really confused as to why someone I haven't seen in 5 years would pop into my head all of a sudden.

I don't have any information on my chart and never had one done. I am a Female, Gemini, Born June 9th at 12:31am. The person I'm talking about is a male born February 17th (Unknown time).

Last February (2011) a guy I knew between the years of 1997-2006 popped into my head out of nowhere. He was not someone I had a crush on during those years & wasn't someone I dated. He was in a band that I liked (not famous) and I used to go to a bunch of concerts.

I started to use google to figure out what was going on in his life that made me think of him all of a sudden and why I couldn't get him out of my head. Eventually I found out he broke up with a longtime girlfriend around the time he popped into my head.

(side note: my mom is slightly psychic I have no idea if I carry traits for this)

After this happened, something in my gut kept telling me to contact him via email. However, I have a severe case of anxiety/social anxiety that's preventing me from doing this. That same anxiety preventing me from really talking to him after the shows I went to. A few shows, he would come up to me to try to talk but I couldn't. Is this unusual for a Gemini to have an issue like that? I'm very outgoing other than that. For some reason, I have an issue if I feel the person is "famous."

Due to some severe work stress from the previous year, my TMJ was so bad I was seeing many different docs/dentists, Massage Therapist and eventually did acupuncture. This is where I had two scary experiences.

Normally a girl who was training would put the needles in me. I had no issues with her and never had any "reactions" during treatment. However when the doctor put the needles in me (one was placed on the part of my forehead where the 3rd eye would be located - they said it was for sinuses) I had a reaction that sent me through the roof (a warm/tingling feeling from head to toe, a panic attack, & feeling like my lungs couldn't fill with air). During this reaction, the person popped into my head again while my head was blank to begin with.

In the fall, I went to a concert in a small club and I had no idea that this person was going to be there performing. I did speak to him briefly afterwards - nothing big. I started the conversation with "I don't know if you remember me ..." He said "Well of course I do." and gave me a large hug. We talked for a bit and then I left. The problem is, I have no idea why I keep on thinking about him.

I feel as thought if I don't contact him, I may be missing out on something. My other feeling is if I do contact him, I wouldn't get a response & that would hurt as well. (I'm not sure if he really knows my first name - he knows me by sight) Of course by doing nothing is bothering me.

Can someone just explain to me why I would start to think of someone out of nowhere that I never had any romantic feelings towards or even a crush on?

Thanks. (if you need any other info please let me know - after writing this I feel like I'm a teenager writing about a crush)

Chris.

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Sashar
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posted March 26, 2012 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sashar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No one replied to you... I'm new and don't know much about anything... but I'll give it a shot even though it's been about a month since you've posted.

People tend to liken feelings with experiences. I get this a lot with the smell of Storm Watch candles and I liken it to spring time. It isn't the smell that reminds me of spring but the feeling it produces which is the same feeling that I get in the spring.

So, you getting that severe panic attack likened itself to the feelings of this guy. It may not be the panic that brought up the feelings, it could be something else that came up with it... but since the panic was so strong, it kind of over rode the others.

Or it could be that you are experiencing a transit that you experienced during an important time when you knew him.

As for psychic... I don't personally ascribe to that belief. But the human brain is capable of some seriously amazing things, so it IS possible that you started thinking about him as a precursor to seeing him. It happens a lot, but I wouldn't rely on it if I were you.


I will tell you one thing. I have severe anxiety as well, to the point that sometimes I have issues even making it out of the house (it sounds worse than it actually is)... and I say, If you're thinking about contacting him, DO IT.

A study of human emotions has proven that the bad outcomes we fear are never as difficult on us emotionally as we imagine.

If there's something you feel you should do (unless it is harmful to yourself), just do it. It's the best defense against that anxiety, even if it's hard as heck to do. Even if it's something as "simple" as trying to contact a person that you use to know because you've been thinking about him lately. Even if you don't get a response, you're coming out with a net gain.

I don't know if any of this is still viable. But, I hope it helps.

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Randall
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posted March 26, 2012 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome! You should ask for a reading in Personal Readings. How has it gone since you posted?

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ceedeekay
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posted March 28, 2012 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ceedeekay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks so much! I posted in that thread!

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ceedeekay
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posted March 28, 2012 02:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ceedeekay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I should have added, I have yet to get past my anxiety to contact him. Fear that I'll write something stupid. Fear that I wont get a response. Fear that I will and it will be generic.

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Randall
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posted March 31, 2012 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We are all connected by a river of flowing energy. If you think of someone, it is because that person is thinking of you (or soon will be or recently has)...or vice versa.

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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Mystic Melody
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posted April 01, 2012 08:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awww Randall said mine

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lilithpluto
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posted April 03, 2012 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
We are all connected by a river of flowing energy. If you think of someone, it is because that person is thinking of you (or soon will be or recently has)...or vice versa.


I really believe in that!

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ceedeekay
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From: NY
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posted May 01, 2012 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ceedeekay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
We are all connected by a river of flowing energy. If you think of someone, it is because that person is thinking of you (or soon will be or recently has)...or vice versa.


That's sweet I honestly didn't think he knew I existed until I saw him again late last year.

The gut feeling is still there to contact. I need to just forget the fear and just do it.

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