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Natsukashii
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posted March 06, 2012 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natsukashii     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it something within them that blocks it? It is fate? Or something else?

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posted March 06, 2012 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Personally I dont believe in it, and I am one to believe in all things metaphysical...

I have to feel something to be correct, have always relied on my intuition (even purchase cars n houses this way), and this just doesnt feel right to me.

I think we as souls are all connected, maybe some more meaningful than others, I dont know.

But this is one of those things in which IF I dont experience personally, and I dont feel it, then it is not real to me...

I dont disrespect anybody's feelings on this subject, but just my 2Cents worth~

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posted March 06, 2012 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emeraldopal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
as Linda Goodman
tried to convey
in her Star Notes
and to allude to
is, the Twin Soul
relationship
wi11 be the hardest
one of A11

polar opposites
meeting in the Middle
50/50

I Have 100% FAITH in

the Other Half
of Each One of Us. ...

split in two

Male and Female

One cannot Exist
without the Other... .

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All my love, with all my Heart
lotusheartone

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posted March 06, 2012 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bttrklk     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Emeraldopal is there a specific meaning of using number "1" instead of letter "l"? do you indicate the 11 11 connection?

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Emeraldopal
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posted March 06, 2012 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emeraldopal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes, it's really important

1 and 1

are the first two

when they let the winds
of Heaven dance
between them

standing together, but separate
yet still together 2 in 1
equal

50/50

with the Truth. ...

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posted March 06, 2012 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel one only finds their twin flame when they have completed the inner work. once you have united your heart and mind you naturally draw your other half to you to mirror the spiritual completion in this physical reality we live in.

So only really old souls find their twin flames. I feel I have found mine this lifetime.

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posted March 07, 2012 12:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im with athenegoddess.

I feel like you have to go through many life times before you can meet again. (if the twin soul is true)
Each person has to learn lessons.. Different lessons are in different life's.

Think about it, if everyone meet their true twin flame, then what would the search be for??
What would make it truly special? Would each person really appreciate it?

I dont think that we have to totally clear our karma, because thats just impossible.
I think the real test of life, is how to handle and deal with the "bad" Bad will always happen.. We will make wrong choices in life... The goal is to LEARN from those choices..
Our tests are or bad times, how do we "really" handle it??
The good times is our reward..

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posted March 07, 2012 01:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natsukashii     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hippichick:
Personally I dont believe in it, and I am one to believe in all things metaphysical...

I have to feel something to be correct, have always relied on my intuition (even purchase cars n houses this way), and this just doesnt feel right to me.

I think we as souls are all connected, maybe some more meaningful than others, I dont know.

But this is one of those things in which IF I dont experience personally, and I dont feel it, then it is not real to me...

I dont disrespect anybody's feelings on this subject, but just my 2Cents worth~


hippichick, Its never happened for me too and I am inclined to feel the same as you. But I keep seeing and hearing that if one DOESN'T believe it wont happen. I've tried "reaching out" to this unknown, unmet person as recommended by books etc, but there is nothing. I have begun to think that mine does not exist

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posted March 07, 2012 01:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natsukashii     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Emeraldopal:
as Linda Goodman
tried to convey
in her Star Notes
and to allude to
is, the Twin Soul
relationship
wi11 be the hardest
one of A11

polar opposites
meeting in the Middle
50/50

I Have 100% FAITH in

the Other Half
of Each One of Us. ...

split in two

Male and Female

One cannot Exist
without the Other... .


I wish I had your faith Emeraldopal. Sometimes its the Believing and not receiving that hurts the most

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posted March 07, 2012 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natsukashii     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
Im with athenegoddess.

I feel like you have to go through many life times before you can meet again. (if the twin soul is true)
Each person has to learn lessons.. Different lessons are in different life's.

Think about it, if everyone meet their true twin flame, then what would the search be for??
What would make it truly special? Would each person really appreciate it?

I dont think that we have to totally clear our karma, because thats just impossible.
I think the real test of life, is how to handle and deal with the "bad" Bad will always happen.. We will make wrong choices in life... The goal is to LEARN from those choices..
Our tests are or bad times, how do we "really" handle it??
The good times is our reward..


Lioness,my belief system does not subscribe to reincarnation, but if I did believe in it your point would definitely have validity.

I've made wrong choices, definitely. Just because I was afraid to be alone in that sense. But I have a good life otherwise, filled with family and friends and a job I love. Maybe as athenegoddess says, find the love within? Thats hard for me

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posted March 07, 2012 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Keep in mind that just because you may not find your twin soul doesn't mean that you can't find love.

Also finding love within is not that hard esp if you are surrounded by family, friends, and have a good job. Appreciate your life. Appreciate what you have and who you are. This love will help you find your worthy soul mate.

The twin soul is a loftier goal not destined for the majority of us in this lifetime.

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posted March 07, 2012 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emeraldopal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natsukashii,

Have you read Star Signs
and Gooberz?

There were things that happened,
that I truly didn't understand..
until I read these two books..
The knowledge that was within me
was right in front of me, on paper,
in a book! How could this be?
I didn't read Star Signs til 1998..
and 1999 for Gooberz..
in July of 2005, I found this site..

and started pouring out
my Heart and Soul..

Learning and Growing
with all of you...

it takes a great desire
to know Truth, it takes alot
of pain, mistakes, trials
and errors...

I must say..
I know without doubt
100% Faith
that
Love and Magic
do Exist..

this is the deepest, richest
most agonizing Experience

Exist
Experience
Export
Ex-boyfriend, husband

in a body
shell
away from your TrueSelf Soul,
where we have never been apart
from our true Existence, whole
being ALL
and being NOTHING
a to z
Infinity
Eternal

life=file experience

the Tibetan monks chanted..
"This is the World of Illusion"

and there's a song that comes
to Mind..

Row Row Row your boat
Gently down the stream
Merrily Merrily Merrily Merrily
Life is but a dream

what we think is real
and our reality here..
is just part of that
Existence which is True..
Our Experience here on Earth
Is to Know ThySelf
to re-Member

where we truly came from
and what brought us
here and now

for all our
Wishes and Dreams
have been waiting

for us
to blossom
unfold

unveil the Truth

each journey will
be your own, unique
no one can tell you how,
all we can do is share
our own experiences..

Once you've connected
to your OverSoul, your
true whole Self..
this will lead you
to the deal you made..

to separate, and find
each Other

forming the triangle

oversoul in Heaven

to your polarities here

when this trio
is connected

here on Earth

may we all bring
Heaven on Earth...

the magic this duo
really trio can do...

is Miracles

Expect A Miracle

expect many
export many

Exist in the balance

the FLOW. ...

and Express
yourSelf

Communication... ..


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All my love, with all my Heart
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posted March 08, 2012 12:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natsukashii     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by anongrl10:
Keep in mind that just because you may not find your twin soul doesn't mean that you can't find love.

Also finding love within is not that hard esp if you are surrounded by family, friends, and have a good job. Appreciate your life. Appreciate what you have and who you are. This love will help you find your worthy soul mate.

The twin soul is a loftier goal not destined for the majority of us in this lifetime.


Anon, I hear you. I have a good life its true. I do need to appreciate it. Just wish I could share it with someone special

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posted March 08, 2012 12:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natsukashii     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Emeraldopal:
Natsukashii,

Have you read Star Signs
and Gooberz?

it takes a great desire
to know Truth, it takes alot
of pain, mistakes, trials
and errors...


Thats profound and resonates with me. Going to see if I can find this book

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Emeraldopal
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posted March 08, 2012 02:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emeraldopal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natsukashii,

Star Signs and Gooberz are
life-changing books..
books, that brought us a11
here to this site!

along with Linda's astrology books...

Linda wrote about her Twin Soul..
and I know..She was right!

The Universal Laws that are Immutable
govern this World..

Polarities!

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All my love, with all my Heart
lotusheartone

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posted March 08, 2012 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Natsukashii:
Anon, I hear you. I have a good life its true. I do need to appreciate it. Just wish I could share it with someone special

You will, sweetie, you will!
Patience!!

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posted March 08, 2012 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
Im with athenegoddess.

I feel like you have to go through many life times before you can meet again. (if the twin soul is true)
Each person has to learn lessons.. Different lessons are in different life's.

Think about it, if everyone meet their true twin flame, then what would the search be for??
What would make it truly special? Would each person really appreciate it?

I dont think that we have to totally clear our karma, because thats just impossible.
I think the real test of life, is how to handle and deal with the "bad" Bad will always happen.. We will make wrong choices in life... The goal is to LEARN from those choices..
Our tests are or bad times, how do we "really" handle it??
The good times is our reward..


Well, my family is really important to me, as well. So are friends. I sometimes envy those who seem to have it so easy in relationships - as I did when I was a kid, before other things happened to mess me up.

I think the whole point is to become more confident in yourself, in other areas of life, *and* to be able to love and deal well with that. In lower moments, I've thought of "the beautiful people" having it all, and then I remember that beautiful people get cheated on all the time, they get beaten up, too (sometimes by someone trying to control them, or someone who wants to ruin their outer beauty, let alone their inner beauty).

I don't know. I don't know if I believe in it anymore. I also know that people make some stupid decisions concerning love. I was thinking this week, about how I wish I could still just be happy that I dodged a bullet, rather than having my self-esteem be so connected to my age (now) and the fact that I'm still having to dodge bullets. When I told someone last night, that I was thinking of doing something to actually earn the hatred that someone has directed at me, someone said something to me about karma, and I said, "Don't parrot that karma crap at me. What did I do to get into this s**t?!" I have always done my best to do the right thing, without losing my integrity in my own life and screwing others over. And it seems that for the most part, I'm the one who gets s**t on.

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posted March 09, 2012 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natsukashii     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:

I don't know. I don't know if I believe in it anymore. I also know that people make some stupid decisions concerning love. I was thinking this week, about how I wish I could still just be happy that I dodged a bullet, rather than having my self-esteem be so connected to my age (now) and the fact that I'm still having to dodge bullets. When I told someone last night, that I was thinking of doing something to actually earn the hatred that someone has directed at me, someone said something to me about karma, and I said, "Don't parrot that karma crap at me. What did I do to get into this s**t?!" I have always done my best to do the right thing, without losing my integrity in my own life and screwing others over. And it seems that for the most part, I'm the one who gets s**t on.

teasel I'm where you are at the moment. I'm concerned that the years are passing me by and it hurts to see the love and companionship that I yearn for go so easily to those that dont appreciate it

And I'm not a bad person...just someone who seems to get screwed over in every romantic relationship I ever had. They never seem to value me as a person and I have never knowingly or intentionally hurt them

I guess as Anon says we just need to be patient. Who knows why we wait or have to when this world and the word of God promise us abundance...Simply ask and believe they say and you will receive. I used to believe...and hope that I still can


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posted March 13, 2012 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cat lover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Natsukashii:
Is it something within them that blocks it? It is fate? Or something else?

Maybe their not meant to have one. Look to see if they have any aspects in the 12th house, sometimes this can indicate isolation.

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posted March 16, 2012 12:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natsukashii     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As far as I know I have mars in Libra in the 12th.....

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posted March 16, 2012 05:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't believe in twin souls and soulmates as they're commonly described here, though I mean no offense to those who do. I also do not believe in past lives or future lives (again, no offense or anything to those who disagree).

I do believe in soulmates, but that's it. My definition of soulmate is "the one": as in, your best match. I believe that, while there are several people with whom one could be happy and have a compatible match, there is one BEST match. It's kind of like "Highlander": there are several, but in the end, there can only be ONE.

I also don't believe that there is just one correct chart for a soulmate, or that one must fit a certain paradigm to be considered a soulmate. People with excellent charts between them can muck things up or else fall into complacency, especially if they aren't evolved yet, and people with difficult charts between them can prove to be very evolved people who love enough, understand enough, and are willing to put in the effort needed to make it work.

I don't believe that being married/partnered/in a serious relationship is right for everyone. Different paths are right for different people in this case, and it's not really fair, right, or healthy to force a round peg into a square hole. I strongly reject the idea that "partnered = success, single = failure".

I believe that some people do have soulmates, and some people don't. Some people are "called" (to borrow a Christian term) to the single life. I am one of those people. My orientation is ambiguous, even to me, and, after my recent exploration undertaken in January of sex and relationships (I didn't pursue any, but rather really explored my feelings on those topics and confronted them, as I'd run from them previously), I'm sure of this within myself. Being single is what feels right to me. I imagine that there are of course others such as myself for whom singleness is also a natural state.

I also believe that, even if one DOES have a soulmate, this is not a guarantee that things will work out. God/the cosmos gives people gifts, like soulmates, but what we do with the gifts is up to us. One can have a soulmate, but royally muck things up, and then lose said soulmate. So, those who have soulmates have to do their part too. Even in the happiest and healthiest of relationships, both sides need to put in effort, or else the relationship will die.

Some people might not find their soulmate because (a) they might not actually have one; (b) they might not put themselves out there enough; (c) it might happen later in life; (d) something happens to their soulmate; or (e) a host of other reasons.

Whatever the reason is, though, I'd encourage single people not to beat themselves up, not to see themselves as undesirable or failures, and to love themselves. WE have to create our OWN happiness. All of the relationships in the world can't do that. It's an undue burden to others to make them responsible for how WE feel. Our lives are in our own hands, and it's up to us to make them beautiful and worthwhile, not other people.

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posted March 16, 2012 05:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cat lover:
Maybe their not meant to have one. Look to see if they have any aspects in the 12th house, sometimes this can indicate isolation.

I myself have two planets in the 12th

In all honesty, I have seriously thought about religious life. It wouldn't be right for me now, but I'll remain open to it.

I would consider, if not joining a religious community, being involved in some way. I haven't figure out how or when or even if that would be right, but, again, I'm open to that.

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posted March 16, 2012 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Because the other half of yourself is you, no one else

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posted March 17, 2012 04:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by redshoes:
Because the other half of yourself is you, no one else

--EXACTLY.

also, noticed you don't have many posts--welcome, if you're new!

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posted March 17, 2012 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natsukashii     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
RegardesPluto

"Some people might not find their soulmate because (a) they might not actually have one; (b) they might not put themselves out there enough; (c) it might happen later in life; (d) something happens to their soulmate; or (e) a host of other reasons.

Whatever the reason is, though, I'd encourage single people not to beat themselves up, not to see themselves as undesirable or failures, and to love themselves. WE have to create our OWN happiness. All of the relationships in the world can't do that. It's an undue burden to others to make them responsible for how WE feel. Our lives are in our own hands, and it's up to us to make them beautiful and worthwhile, not other people."

I love what you have said here. I dont love myself, never really have bit I am trying to change that. I'm "straight" but put up barriers because of sexual abuse in childhood.

I've begun to pray that if my soulmate isnt out there that my desire for one be taken away. Something happened within me when you said "something happens to their soulmate". I feel that mine is no longer in this world. I only wish the yearning would die too

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