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Topic: Would you choose Twinflame.. or Soulmate?
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Fleurdelis unregistered
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posted July 13, 2012 06:14 AM
There's a question I need to ask.Let us say you have been with your soulmate for a long time. Your soulmate is just like you in every way. You are very compatible.. But some time later, you actually meet your twinflame. The twinflame, is different.. they are your polar opposite, but extremely complementary to you in every way. Here is the catch: Your twinflame, is the ONLY one in the universe made for you. They are the split half of your soul.
The soulmate, however, is and has been your partner for so long, and also in many incarations. Who would you choose? Note that you almost do NOT feel like you know your twinflame.. You actually FEEL closer to the soulmate since you have been with soulmate for so long. But twinflame, is yet still your DIVINE counterpart. There is only one.. "THE ONE".. Would you 'betray' and leave your soulmate for your twinflame? It is your call.. who would you choose? Your twinflame is here with you for spiritual evolvement.. but you won't kno where it will take you. This also involves abandoning your soulmate, the one whom you have promised to love forever... into the dark abyss.. would you bear it? How BIG is this dilemma.. anyone been through this, and any solutions? IP: Logged |
rustydarch Newflake Posts: 8 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 13, 2012 06:50 AM
I'd IP: Logged |
Fleurdelis unregistered
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posted July 13, 2012 07:24 AM
You will have to hurt one of them.. by not being in a relationship with them..Of course the soulmate would be there for you, but imagine they will be very unhappy if you did not choose them.. you have to choose one and then the other will be a friend.. forever. Imagine if both want your undivided attention and don't like the other in your life like this... at least not romantically... Like say you were going to marry only one of them. You'd still pick the twinsoul, right? Note this situation is complicated.. involves hurt feelings and the credit score for both is almost equal.. that means both are as good as the other. IP: Logged |
ghanima81 Knowflake Posts: 1121 From: Maine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 13, 2012 10:33 AM
Twinflame. I've had to give up on my soulmate for reasons not involving my twinflame, but reasons that are very complex and were devastating. But he is still in my life as a friend and always will be. My twinflame appeared after I had to cut the cord and the bond was instant and grows every day. I know the twinflame is the one I will grow old with, but the soulmate will always be a friend, a life friend, a soul-mate. I am so blessed to have them both in my life, and only one romantically. IP: Logged |
Fleurdelis unregistered
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posted July 13, 2012 11:31 AM
Thanks for sharing, Ghanima! IP: Logged |
Fleurdelis unregistered
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posted July 13, 2012 11:40 AM
Does anyone know any instance where one would pick the soulmate instead of the twinflame? For instance...
The soulmate, would never find anyone else after you.. While the twinsoul, they hardly know you, so the break would not be so bad? And they can also find their soulmate? Wouldn't that be a happily ever after? On what basis, should you friendzone your soulmate, who, didn't do anything wrong, just to pursue a twinsoul? Is it fair for the soulmate to be left behind like this? any takers ? IP: Logged |
Fabulous Knowflake Posts: 168 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 13, 2012 11:59 AM
I like the supposed channeled answer from Arch. Gabriel on this site: http://www.devinemiracles.com/twin-flames.html Scroll down. IP: Logged |
Fleurdelis unregistered
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posted July 13, 2012 12:37 PM
Fabulous,Thanks I have read that article.. still confused Have read a few articles on it... Still not sure about it. Whether it is ethics or a personal decision.. Damn it is complicated lol. IP: Logged |
Anchi Knowflake Posts: 643 From: Planet Vulcan Registered: May 2012
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posted July 13, 2012 03:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Fabulous: I like the supposed channeled answer from Arch. Gabriel on this site: http://www.devinemiracles.com/twin-flames.html Scroll down.
That was a great article! Thank you for posting. @Fleurdelis If I found a true soulmate, who I loved & had a family with, I personally could never leave. But if there were no kids & marriage involved that would be hard. But I've not yet met my twinflame (or if I ever will), so I can't say how that would feel like. Would probably suck & be really hard. I would rather never meet my twinflame at all in that case. But that's just me. I would love to know if it ever happened to anyone in this forum! lol
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Ceridwen unregistered
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posted July 13, 2012 03:25 PM
I would choose the one I love.IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 7028 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 13, 2012 09:35 PM
Note that you almost do NOT feel like you know your twinflame.. You actually FEEL closer to the soulmate since you have been with soulmate for so long. But twinflame, is yet still your DIVINE counterpart. There is only one.. "THE ONE"..Would you 'betray' and leave your soulmate for your twinflame? ======================================================= With that, I would choose the soulmate. IP: Logged |
mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 1044 From: not here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 13, 2012 11:02 PM
I would choose twin flame, because soulmate is karmic and I want to be done with that drama and nonsense!IP: Logged |
Ceridwen unregistered
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posted July 14, 2012 05:46 AM
Oh Jeez, it is not about a LABEL you attach to someone, but about your actual feelings and the actual relationship you have with them.And seriously if you choose your twinflame and end up being sad and depressed and thinking back all the time of your soulmate and missing him, maybe it was the wrong decision. And maybe, just maybe, who you think is your twinflame, is not really the ONE. IP: Logged |
Anchi Knowflake Posts: 643 From: Planet Vulcan Registered: May 2012
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posted July 14, 2012 09:22 AM
I've read a lot about soulmates/twinflames lately, and it seems that twinflames relationships are anything but easy. So for those who think a soulmate relationship is karmic/hard and twinflames are easy&peasy lol good luck with that! I've read all kinds of mixed stuff on twinflames, in one article it even said the relationship is never physically satisfying, cause you are so connected in spirit, that it doesn't work on a physical level. lol who would want that? and i agree with Ceridwen. what if the person you think is your twinflame actually isn't? i've read about that happening too. IP: Logged |
Fleurdelis unregistered
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posted July 14, 2012 10:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Oh Jeez, it is not about a LABEL you attach to someone, but about your actual feelings and the actual relationship you have with them.And seriously if you choose your twinflame and end up being sad and depressed and thinking back all the time of your soulmate and missing him, maybe it was the wrong decision. And maybe, just maybe, who you think is your twinflame, is not really the ONE.
Ok, regarding Love.. There is love for both.. in different ways, but equal.
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Fleurdelis unregistered
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posted July 14, 2012 10:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Anchi: I've read all kinds of mixed stuff on twinflames, in one article it even said the relationship is never physically satisfying, cause you are so connected in spirit, that it doesn't work on a physical level. lol who would want that?
I like this point..
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Fleurdelis unregistered
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posted July 14, 2012 10:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by mercuranian: I would choose twin flame, because soulmate is karmic and I want to be done with that drama and nonsense!
Good point! IP: Logged |
Fleurdelis unregistered
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posted July 14, 2012 10:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Note that you almost do NOT feel like you know your twinflame.. You actually FEEL closer to the soulmate since you have been with soulmate for so long. But twinflame, is yet still your DIVINE counterpart. There is only one.. "THE ONE"..Would you 'betray' and leave your soulmate for your twinflame? ======================================================= With that, I would choose the soulmate.
What they say about twinflames is that they aren't close to you in development.. they are a complement, meaning whatever you lack, they tend to have. You grow apart, each having soulmates as companions through the times. However, they were part of the feminine/masculine split at the beginning of soul formation. So in effect, when it is said that one doesn't actually feel CLOSE, it can be an illusion, because the twinflame is the closest bond ever... they are you. IP: Logged |
fairy22 Knowflake Posts: 236 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 14, 2012 05:40 PM
I think you should go with the one you love the most. Have the strongest feelings for.I agree with rustydarch IP: Logged |
Fleurdelis unregistered
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posted July 14, 2012 10:56 PM
Fairy22Thanks! Yes, exploring the heart to discover which has an edge - which one you love more - is the key. One of them has to go.. it happens. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen unregistered
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posted July 15, 2012 06:36 AM
Who are "they"? And what is the base of their information?----------------------- Honestly, you can read so much stuff on the internet or in books; doesn`t mean it`s all true. And if you read a little bit, then you will have seen that some articles say VERY different things about twinflames and soulmates. But I really mean it, in the end, you need to find out whom you love and who loves you. And that is something no other person can do for you.
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rustydarch Newflake Posts: 8 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 15, 2012 08:03 AM
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violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1800 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 04:45 PM
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Anchi Knowflake Posts: 643 From: Planet Vulcan Registered: May 2012
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posted July 15, 2012 05:12 PM
violet7887 <3 see this is way none of us can judge, because we've never been in such a position. i can only imagine how hard that would be like. can i ask, what is the difference between your soulmate and your twinflame? how do you know the other person is your twinflame? if this is too personal, i'm sorry, you don't have to answer.
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violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1800 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 07:28 PM
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