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Junethird
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posted August 09, 2012 08:05 PM
  
How would you go about writing/starting a love letter?Expunging the depth of your heart and soul... Putting your raw vulnerable heart on the table...  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 10, 2012 08:30 PM
I think if you really want to go way deep, you have to write it when your in an emotional state...
Maybe after watching a really good love story (the notebook..lol) or listening to music, and then let the feelings about how you feel stew and build up inside you..
When your ready write it down.. Just let the words flow naturally. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 10, 2012 09:01 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I think if you really want to go way deep, you have to write it when your in an emotional state...
Maybe after watching a really good love story (the notebook..lol) or listening to music, and then let the feelings about how you feel stew and build up inside you..
When your ready write it down.. Just let the words flow naturally.
Thank you Lioness!!! That is a very good idea...  Have you yourself ever written a love letter? Iam hoping to give it to my lover before i say goodbye and set him free  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 10, 2012 09:26 PM
Truth be told, no Ive never written a love letter to anyone..
I never really "felt it"
BUT to be honest.. (and your going to laugh)
I'm always thinking of love stories, and making them up in my head..
Sometimes I live in the stories 
chalk that off to my Leo Stellium,Pisces Asc, and Mars sq neptune.. lol What can I say Im a true romantic at heart. Anyways I come up with phrases that well you probably wouldnt want to tell some guy.. He might think your a stalker.. LOL My stories have phrases like
you make my spirit soar through the sky
when I see you my eyes sparkle with delight.
when I look into your eyes, I see your soul, your heart and deepness..
euhhh.. lol Anyways I forgot to add, write the letter when your in your emotional state.. But dont send it until you prof read it out of that emotional state... LOL
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Junethird
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posted August 10, 2012 09:34 PM
LOL oh Lioness you make me smile. you have a sweet playful spirit. I can feel it thru your words No worries... He wont think iam a stalker. The deeper the meaning the better... I want it to be soulful, heart wrenching and dramatic. I have a rough draft but not happy with it. I need some inspiration. So if you feel like letting your imagination run wild, iam here to read IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 10, 2012 09:36 PM
OOO OOOO Romantic thoughts!!
I love it... Just up my alley...
Can you give me a rough estimate of the relationship and why your saying bye?
What do you want to say in the letter..
Ill be glad to help...
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Junethird
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posted August 10, 2012 09:45 PM
Mmm... Well you can read my post in sweet peas titled "why is he like this" but at 30 i need a definition, progress not be at a standstill. Fork in the road. Wy does a man come back to a woman, to his past, after 4 years after if he is not gonna fight or put the effort into us? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 10, 2012 09:51 PM
Ok.... Let me think for a while.. Ill get back to you. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 10, 2012 10:02 PM
So short version.. You want to set him free cause he's not willing to commit? correct IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 10, 2012 10:06 PM
A small sample...The spirit of my speech is that i want him to be happy, even if its not with me. No tricks or guilt trips, but i must bare my heart and soul. Ive never denied you my forgiveness, but I want to be happy too and i need and want more. I didnt turn around 4 years later to be put on the backburner. I came back for you. I chose you again because i realized that for me you are the reason why its never worked out with anyone else. I want this summer to be about having fun, laughs, tears of joys,, kisses under the stars, picnics by the lake, a romantic getaway or two and get to know each other again. Fall inlove all over again. We had all the time in the world and i didnt want to spend another minute without you... IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 10, 2012 10:08 PM
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So short version.. You want to set him free cause he's not willing to commit? correct
Honestly idk anymore, but i need to do this because my heart cant take it anymore. If you love someone, set them free and if they come back again then its meant to be. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 10, 2012 10:14 PM
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Honestly idk anymore, but i need to do this because my heart cant take it anymore.If you love someone, set them free and if they come back again then its meant to be.
THATS WHAT I ALWAYS SAY!!!!! I understand what you want to say.. I get it..
ill be back later, with some thoughts. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 10, 2012 10:26 PM
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THATS WHAT I ALWAYS SAY!!!!!I understand what you want to say.. I get it..
ill be back later, with some thoughts.
Lol, so if he came back to me after 4 years... Hopefully one more leap of faith will put everything on its right and meantful path again. I can only hope IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 11, 2012 01:05 AM
Ok Ive done some thinking.. But bear with me, my house is really hot and stuffy.. Its hard to concentrate. I cant wrap my head around writing at this time.. Maybe I can come up with some thing better tomorrow.. But here goes a few idea's. I would say something like The time we have spent together has been amazing, but I have come to realize that we are currently on different paths in life.
Maybe one day our hearts will unite, but until then, I must set you free to follow your own life path..
My heart belongs to you, if you ever choose to be loved, you know how to find me. One day you may see me on the streets, I may be with another, I may be smiling or laughing but just know my heart is only trying to heal its self, from setting you free...
I wish your life nothing but joy and happiness even if I am not a part of it, because I care for you unconditional.
Everyday when you are in my presences, you made my heart grow stronger and able to face loosing you..
I will miss you, but I understand your not ready for the passion that we share together..
Maybe one day you will, maybe you wont. Either way your forever in my heart! ================
Is it Kinda corny?? lol
IDK its just some thoughts, of course you should adjust the wording to better fit your personality. IP: Logged |
TheManticore
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posted August 11, 2012 09:54 AM
@Junethird
You're breaking up with someone! That makes me very sad, I'm sorry . But it sounds to me like you have done all you can, when it's time, it's time .and getting back together after 4 years, that sounds like some Dog loyalty to me . @Lioness
There AIN'T NO PROBLEM with being super romantic , and I also make up love stories in my head lol, and I'm male! As for me, I write love letters in the form of a poem . I have written a couple for past girlfriends. I would post one but I fear embarrassment lol.
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TheManticore
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posted August 11, 2012 09:56 AM
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Junethird
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posted August 11, 2012 03:10 PM
@Manticore,No not breaking up lol you have to be in a relationship first to do that... Strange i know, but its just an unchaining and setting one free... I have to let go for my own sanity and little heart. So i gotta make it good and say what i need to say before the goodbye kiss Iam not sure if being a dog is a good thing... That loyalty is always being questioned and its not winning or getting me anywhere IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 11, 2012 03:12 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Ok Ive done some thinking.. But bear with me, my house is really hot and stuffy.. Its hard to concentrate. I cant wrap my head around writing at this time.. Maybe I can come up with some thing better tomorrow.. But here goes a few idea's. I would say something like The time we have spent together has been amazing, but I have come to realize that we are currently on different paths in life.
Maybe one day our hearts will unite, but until then, I must set you free to follow your own life path..
My heart belongs to you, if you ever choose to be loved, you know how to find me. One day you may see me on the streets, I may be with another, I may be smiling or laughing but just know my heart is only trying to heal its self, from setting you free...
I wish your life nothing but joy and happiness even if I am not a part of it, because I care for you unconditional.
Everyday when you are in my presences, you made my heart grow stronger and able to face loosing you..
I will miss you, but I understand your not ready for the passion that we share together..
Maybe one day you will, maybe you wont. Either way your forever in my heart! ================
Is it Kinda corny?? lol
IDK its just some thoughts, of course you should adjust the wording to better fit your personality.
@Lioness, Wow!!! thats sme pretty good stuff you got going on lol Thank you!! I liked the parts of "my heart belongs to you" "Maybe one day our heart will unite" "if you choose to be loved, you know how to find me"
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Junethird
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posted August 11, 2012 03:13 PM
I was trying to get my emotions stirred up by watching "dear john" earlierIP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 11, 2012 03:31 PM
listening to this song aswell... http://www.jango.com/music/Joshua+Radin?l=0 Lyrics to Paperweight : (with Schuyler Fisk) Been up all night
Staring at you
Wondering what's on your mind
I've been this way
With so many before
But this feels like the first time
You want the sunrise
To go back to bed
I want to make you laugh
Mess up my bed with me
Kick off the covers
I'm waiting Every word you say I think
I should write down
I don't want to forget
Come daylight
Happy to lay here
Just happy to be here
I'm happy to know you
Play me a song
Your newest one
Please leave your taste on my tongue
Paperweight on my back
Cover me like a blanket
Mess up my bed with me
Kick off the covers
I'm waiting Every word you say I think
I should write down
I don't to forget
Come daylight
And no need to worry
That's wastin time
And no need to wonder
What's been on my mind
It's you
It's you Every word you say I think
I should write down
Don't want to forget
Come daylight
And I give up
I let you win
You win 'cause I'm not counting
You made it back
To sleep again
Wonder what you're dreaming
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Libra Lady
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posted August 11, 2012 04:09 PM
what is his personality like? Is he the super emotional type? or practical?? Your letter will depend a lot on that....coz somewhere deep inside you are hoping for a reaction...IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 11, 2012 04:24 PM
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what is his personality like? Is he the super emotional type? or practical?? Your letter will depend a lot on that....coz somewhere deep inside you are hoping for a reaction...
Mmm... No expectations really. He already knows how i feel... He has told me that when he kisses me, when iam in his arms he can feel me. Sometimes he looks at me funny/suspiciously because he says i make him feel and think about kids, marriage, family too much... So altho He is an ex love, we have known each other six years going on seven. I need this more for me, so i can close this chapter. When i decided to walk away 4 years ago, i wanted to give him a love letter but i chickened out and ive always kinda regretted it. So this time around i want to leave one. IP: Logged |
TheManticore
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posted August 11, 2012 08:08 PM
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@Manticore,No not breaking up lol you have to be in a relationship first to do that... Strange i know, but its just an unchaining and setting one free... I have to let go for my own sanity and little heart. So i gotta make it good and say what i need to say before the goodbye kiss Iam not sure if being a dog is a good thing... That loyalty is always being questioned and its not winning or getting me anywhere
Oh woops, I guess I just assumed he came back and you got back together.
Oh pssh, being a Dog is totally a good thing. You just have to find someone who appreciates the loyalty. ------------------
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Junethird
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posted August 11, 2012 09:18 PM
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Oh woops, I guess I just assumed he came back and you got back together. Oh pssh, being a Dog is totally a good thing. You just have to find someone who appreciates the loyalty.
Aw thank you. I thought scorpios appreciated loyalty but i guess i was wrong lol And i thought we might be a couple but after hitting a wall and getting the cold shoulder... I think its a safe bet that he doesnt love me and perhaps changed his mind about me altogether so i dont want to continue to delude myself and claim a relationship when clearly no effort has been put to continue to resurrect our connection in the first place IP: Logged |
TheManticore
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posted August 11, 2012 09:28 PM
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Aw thank you. I thought scorpios appreciated loyalty but i guess i was wrong lolAnd i thought we might be a couple but after hitting a wall and getting the cold shoulder... I think its a safe bet that he doesnt love me and perhaps changed his mind about me altogether so i dont want to continue to delude myself and claim a relationship when clearly no effort has been put to continue to resurrect our connection in the first place
The bad scorpios don't lol
Yeah... . I still think you are doing the right thing. Sometimes you gotta rip the band-aid so that the wound can heal. btw kind of off topic, but what is his animal? ------------------
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