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frankie2912
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posted October 22, 2012 09:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I already posted this in Personal Readings but I wanted to post it here, too, because it is fitting. I'd like to get more insight on this man in particular, based on his chart, but also on men in general who put up a shell around their emotions.

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The guy that I've been seeing told me that he has "a thick wall" around his heart. Based on his chart, how do you think one would break through that wall? I don't want to play games with him, I'm just very very curious now I've never been with a man who has a Gemini moon or much Earth and he has both..so..what do you think it takes to cut to the core of this man?

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Randall
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posted October 23, 2012 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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AscTaurus
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posted November 01, 2012 05:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Its not a "wall" per se. Its more like layers and layers of thoughts.lol

His moon-saturn opposition in air/fire gives him that impression.

Yes, moon in gemini is an emotionaly detached sign(but not heartless, no one is) and the opposition to Saturn in Sagittarius doesn't help either.

He probably struggles to choose between expressing how he feels(moon in air) and what he "should" be feeling(Saturn in Sagittarius). This can cause all sorts of frustration in him that blocks emotional intuition.

His Venus forms a trine with erratic Uranus. He like them far out and diffrent/ emotionaly detached too or coming from a completely different background. He may even be into cross-cultural dating(Uranus in Sag).

He also has a Cap Mars ; which adds to the "coolness" in projection. But I wouldn't say he is far out of reach.The opposition with his Sun in Cancer suggests that his personality is far more conventionaly "feeling" and "in tune" then what is projected.

But be weary of the Moon-Satrun opposition, it could make him averse to "over-emotional" people OR THE "non-think" type whilst the Venus-Uranus trine is full of suprises.

His Sun forms a trine with Pluto and an opposition with Neptune: No wonder he speaks of "walls". We only build "walls" to protect something more precious and vulnerable(Neptune-Sun opposition).

Those 'walls" do come down though; especially if their made of flammable stuff like layers and layers of intellectual disguize(moon-saturn opposition).

Just be extra cautious of his Sun in Cancer; seeming to be so far off the chart from others. It could make him use his intuitive abilities for his own self-interests and that can hurt.

There is a Sun, Jupiter, Pluto grand trine(if you discard the orbs and work on whole sign aspect). This to me is much liek having a water rich chart but, then again, orbs really do count hey....


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frankie2912
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posted November 01, 2012 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AscTaurus - very interesting analysis, it gives me some more to think about..

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MadameButterfly
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posted November 05, 2012 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MadameButterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Considering he is a Lunar ruled Cancer, his Moon is a fundamental part of his make-up. Seeing as though it's opposing Saturn, he may very well have Mother issues, which would greatly hinder his relationships with other women.

The key here I think would be Trust. Get close to him by getting to really know him, share his interests and ideals.. Show kind gestures. Just try not to get too close too fast. Prove to him you're trustworthy. This takes time.

Good luck

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frankie2912
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posted November 06, 2012 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MadameButterfly - he told me before we started dating that trust is a huge issue for him. he says every woman he's been with has cheated on him..and he says he's never cheated on anyone.

also, his mother played a large role in his life - actually his mother died when he was 16. before that, she was forcing him to go to a strict, private southern baptist school and he really resented that. i think there are a lot of conflicting feelings there.

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