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KathrineKatz
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posted November 20, 2012 05:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've never been on an astrology forum before, so I am unsure what information you need from me, but I would really appreciate any advice or help!!!
Let me know what info you need and I will gladly provide it!

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a_may_gemini
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posted November 20, 2012 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for a_may_gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
here's some astrological and non astrological advice: let the gemini go.

a gemini doesn't get dragged back, they have to come back on their own volition.

geez... i don't understand why there's so many females who want to club and drag a gemini back. we gemini people (both males and females) are not cave people. if we want to run away, let us run away. the more you chase after us, the further we want to get away from you. but that's not just astrology, that's just normal human behavior.

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KathrineKatz
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posted November 20, 2012 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have not been chasing the Gemini. We are still friends, but even though we have been apart for about 2 months I still want to be with him. Itís just so weird the way things are panning out between us.

I just need some advise, not to be patronized.


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posted November 20, 2012 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome Katherine
I would say to put your chart up in the Personal Readings Forum.

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a_may_gemini
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posted November 20, 2012 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for a_may_gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KathrineKatz:
I have not been chasing the Gemini. We are still friends, but even though we have been apart for about 2 months I still want to be with him. Itís just so weird the way things are panning out between us.

I just need some advise, not to be patronized.


who's being patronizing? you're freaking out about a "friend" "leaving" you and wanting to force them to be with you and trying to consult mystical advice to get your way. if that's not patronizing on your part, i don't know what is. a little honesty won't kill you.

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posted November 20, 2012 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome! Everyone, please, play nice. Moving to Soul Unions.

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KathrineKatz
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posted November 20, 2012 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by a_may_gemini:
who's being patronizing? you're freaking out about a "friend" "leaving" you and wanting to force them to be with you and trying to consult mystical advice to get your way. if that's not patronizing on your part, i don't know what is. a little honesty won't kill you.

Okay, a_may_gemini I think we just got off on the wrong foot. I am just a tad stressed with this whole situation and a bunch of other things. I am just putting a little trust in this system and was hoping people would help, so any advise would be great. I already understand the whole concept of "if you chase a man, he will run the other way".. I am probably one of the most logical people you'd meet, but it is something about this guy that I just can't put my finger on. My best friend recommended this site and so I thought "what do I have to lose?"

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KathrineKatz
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posted November 20, 2012 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Welcome Katherine
I would say to put your chart up in the Personal Readings Forum.


Hi Ami,

Thank you! What exactly is my chart? What should I put up?

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Evolved1
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posted November 20, 2012 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Evolved1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
KatherineKatz: You haven't done anything wrong. You are welcome to come here with your concerns and comments just like everyone else. Rather some ppl find them irritating or not...Ive never been with a Gemini so I really cant help you, buot what I have experience is if a relationship did not end badly and two ppl are able to remain friends it could turn around...post your chart and let someone look at it..

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KathrineKatz
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posted November 21, 2012 02:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is my personal Chart.. I think this is what you all mean? I am not sure if I got it from a reliable source or not, but what ever you can tell me that would be great! Thanks

Rising Sign is in 17 Degrees Cancer
Sun is in 03 Degrees Taurus.
Moon is in 08 Degrees Virgo.
Mercury is in 18 Degrees Aries.
Venus is in 13 Degrees Gemini.
Mars is in 11 Degrees Cancer.
Jupiter is in 04 Degrees Leo.
Saturn is in 06 Degrees Aquarius.
Uranus is in 13 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 16 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 19 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 22 Degrees Capricorn.

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Gemmy
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posted November 21, 2012 03:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Aquacheeka
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posted November 22, 2012 11:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yuck. Mutable men. Why would you want one back???

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KathrineKatz
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posted November 24, 2012 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Yuck. Mutable men. Why would you want one back???

He makes me a happier person (not a happy person). We are just a good pair; we click well, have great conversations. I donít know how to explain it; we just vibe really well together. Believe me, if he wasnít worth it I would have dropped him a long time ago. It is just something about our relationship that is preventing that from occurring.

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Haplesschild*
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posted November 24, 2012 01:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you have his birth time and Dob, post his chart, and I'll see what he's like and suggest how things might pan out, right now all we know is he's a Gemini that's gone. If he's got a chart of Taurus or something stable, it'd be different from him having some Cancer, Pisces or Sag. It's hard to say without knowing more about his actual placements.

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KathrineKatz
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posted November 26, 2012 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
If you have his birth time and Dob, post his chart, and I'll see what he's like and suggest how things might pan out, right now all we know is he's a Gemini that's gone. If he's got a chart of Taurus or something stable, it'd be different from him having some Cancer, Pisces or Sag. It's hard to say without knowing more about his actual placements.

I do not know his birth time and I feel like it is a bit awkward to ask him what time he was born. Can I use 12 PM as middle ground?

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Haplesschild*
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posted November 27, 2012 02:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The asc and moon will be off then, but yeah, what are his placements?

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KathrineKatz
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posted November 27, 2012 04:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
The asc and moon will be off then, but yeah, what are his placements?

This is his information, at least I believe this is what you're looking for. I do not know if I got it from a reliable source. Is there a specific web site I can visit for things like this that are consistent? Do you want a synastry chart or an image of his mapping? I have that but I do not know how to post up images. I tried searching, but was unable to find directions.

Rising Sign is in 06 Degrees Virgo
Sun is in 15 Degrees Gemini.
Moon is in 07 Degrees Libra.
Mercury is in 09 Degrees Cancer.
Venus is in 24 Degrees Taurus.
Mars is in 10 Degrees Cancer.
Jupiter is in 21 Degrees Aries.
Saturn is in 18 Degrees Sagittarius.
Uranus is in 25 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 07 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 07 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 09 Degrees Aries.

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Haplesschild*
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posted November 28, 2012 08:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay although Geminis are usually flighty by nature, the fact he has a Venus in Taurus and two Cancer placements shows that he'll have a hard time letting go. Taurus usually hold onto emotions for a while, and Cancers have really good memories and are quite stuck on the past, so there might be a chance in the near future he might contact you.

Why did you guys break up though? What did he say to you the last time you guys talked?

Now he might be a Virgo or a Libra moon. Is he creative and charming? Indecisive and pretty accomodating? Or health conscious, detail orientated, really giving and somewhat anxious and critical at times?

If he's a Virgo moon, they also have a hard time letting go of people they get emotionally attached to. Libra moons overanalyse alot (so do Virgo moons) so in a way his placements suggest that he's probably not the type to forget about someone fast. Just go no contact with him, if he wants you back, you'll know.

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KathrineKatz
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posted November 30, 2012 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Okay although Geminis are usually flighty by nature, the fact he has a Venus in Taurus and two Cancer placements shows that he'll have a hard time letting go. Taurus usually hold onto emotions for a while, and Cancers have really good memories and are quite stuck on the past, so there might be a chance in the near future he might contact you.

Why did you guys break up though? What did he say to you the last time you guys talked?

Now he might be a Virgo or a Libra moon. Is he creative and charming? Indecisive and pretty accomodating? Or health conscious, detail orientated, really giving and somewhat anxious and critical at times?

If he's a Virgo moon, they also have a hard time letting go of people they get emotionally attached to. Libra moons overanalyse alot (so do Virgo moons) so in a way his placements suggest that he's probably not the type to forget about someone fast. Just go no contact with him, if he wants you back, you'll know.


Well, since he wanted to stay friends we usually contact each other maybe once a week or so (whether it be via FB or texting... all most all of the times it is him contacting me first)

We broke up because he felt that at the current state we were in he doesn't see us having a bf/gf type relationship. He explained that he felt like things were very forced between us and that he didn't want to enter a relationship where I had some image of him and him not living up to that standard, which would cause me to resent him later. He said he wanted to stay friends because he considers me one of his closest friends and that I knew more about him than most of his long term friends. Basically, he friend zoned me. He said we could continue the same relationship we have now, but without the intimate side.
The whole time we were talking all I could do was smile, nod and say "ok I understand" . I told him that I saw this coming, but I was hoping it wouldn't have happened and that we could have just worked things out. I didn't cry or beg or plead. I just kinda let it all happen. He texted the next day as if nothing was wrong. We continued with everything as if nothing occurred, all the while I was crying myself to sleep and in a **** ton of pain.

We actually spoke about a few days ago in a very flirtatious manner (most of our conversations are like that.. we tease and have witty banter with each other). He did wish me a happy thanksgiving and we spoke for about an hour or so that weekend.

He is charming, a great listener, very respectful, and is pretty good at giving advice. He is most DEF health conscious! Goes to the gym everyday and eats SUPER healthy.

It's interesting to have read what you posted because as soon as I tell myself that I should start ignoring him and I having not heard from him in a while, he'll like something of mine on my FB page or he'll randomly text me. I don't understand him. It's like I sense he loves talking to me, but now he's keeping a distance? I just cant place it. It is as if he gets his fix of me and then just goes MIA again. That is what irks me and ultimately hurts me the most.

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KathrineKatz
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posted December 03, 2012 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So what should I do???

Today I posted a song on my FB and her messaged me saying: "the song you posted is an express train to my <3"

I was going to ignore it because I am tired of just talking to him and hiding my feelings. It hurts too much

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posted December 06, 2012 08:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mockingbird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ignore that message.

Whether he knows it not, he's playing games at this point.

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KathrineKatz
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posted December 06, 2012 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KathrineKatz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mockingbird:
Ignore that message.

Whether he knows it not, he's playing games at this point.


I responded to it because I become like mush when he talks to me. All my conviction goes out the window. I guess my best bet is to start ignoring him? It's just super hard to do that because we agreed to be friends and I for some crazy reason convinced myself that if I stay friends with him and stay by his side, he'll come back to me. I'm scared to ignore him because I feel like that will be the end of any possibilities.

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