posted March 17, 2013 05:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

[b]Was our lunch so boring?! I felt even more shy so chatted to new people with my people and I said bye to him and he kind of looked at me but chatted more to my colleague.
Ouch!!

You seem to be taking it all in stride...Must be that confident Moon in Leo. But bravo to you for putting yourself out there in the first place.

I have a Cancer Moon and it sits in my 3rd house; I am able to express my emotions with words.

The thing about Cancer Moon though, generally speaking from my experience, is that they are not very direct with anything that they don't feel emotionally "in tune" to.

If the energy is too unfamiliar, they can come off cold, distant and aloof. This is because they don't feel "in control". It’s very important they be able to "feel" you out.

Relationships with Saturn Moons: Capricorn and Aquarius are very difficult because of the inability for Cancer to "know" what the other is like.

It is, however, unusual for the same treatment to be served on a Leo moon. Hmmm....

I fail to connect with Cancer Moon's as friends or lovers because I believe I am not yet mature enough to handle similar energy in a relationship or friendship setting.

It's not that we don't get on (far from it), it's just that there is always something deeper that is waiting to be explored, but I just never follow through.

But one thing that I have noted is that they don't like to be pursued; especially by signs out of their element (especially fire and air). This makes them nervous.

Also, as with every guy I know who has this placement, they prefer it if they make the first move (it is a cardinal sign after all) and that you play by their rules (no matter how inconsistent they may be).

If you like a Cancer Moon, you'll have to be patient and back off. Give him attention but don't make it exclusive.

I think you may have, unintentionally, given him the impression that you too "available", too "familiar" with him and he resorted to being childish and keeping you at an aloof distance (which can happen with this placement).
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Aries Ascendant
Mars in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Sun in Sagittarius[/B]

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Hello yes yes, I agree. I am straightforward Sag (you are too...) but yeh....was too happy (like a puppy dog...!) he is not for, he was with an aqua girl before but she was strong too...and he wasnt macho enough for her

I moved on, he wasn't for me.