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Lioness
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posted January 17, 2013 09:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I give up on having any normal type of relationship...
I'm done with men and dating and any type of looking for real love..

Its just not meant for me...
Its to complicated and it just really sucks..

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Randall
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posted January 18, 2013 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's when you will find someone typically.

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"Fall down 100 times, get up 101...this is success." --ME

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Haplesschild*
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posted January 18, 2013 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah it's always when you've gone through a lot and can't possibly sink any deeper when something good comes Into your life. Keep your head up, don't give up just yet, you shouldn't let douchebags dictate how your future is going to pan out.

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hippichick
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posted January 18, 2013 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Yeah it's always when you've gone through a lot and can't possibly sink any deeper when something good comes Into your life. Keep your head up, don't give up just yet, you shouldn't let douchebags dictate how your future is going to pan out.

purrrrrfect!

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hippichick
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posted January 18, 2013 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This thread is giving me alot of peace...cause I am so darn heart broken now, I could just ball up and never come out...
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/001029.html

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fairy22
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posted January 20, 2013 10:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fairy22     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They (meanig the people on this site) shouldn't give you false hope. You know what you are talking about from your experience.

These men are obviously not meeting your needs.

You know what to do next.

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hippichick
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posted January 20, 2013 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont think any false hope was given nor intended...

From thirty five years of relationships with men, I absolutley know that we dont know, what will happen and I also absolutely know that IF I let some man cause me to become a bitter ol' ***** , then he has won~

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Haplesschild*
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posted January 20, 2013 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think we're just saying that giving up shouldn't be an option, and no one deserves to have so much control over your future, especially when they were a bast ard.
Also, based on my experiences, a couple of good guys DID eventually come, after the bad guys, so it's not feeding her false information lol. That's what I experienced.

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Evolved1
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posted January 20, 2013 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Evolved1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"That's when you will find someone typically."

So very true, but Ive known ppl to just simply settle on finding a good mate vs desiring true love because they gave up and felt like you did, they would never get it...But just as they settled on good enough True love showed up and now they don't know what to do...Dont give up and don't settle..

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Lioness
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posted January 20, 2013 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks

At the very least i need a break.. I'm emotionally drained, and can't really take men at this time...

I honestly feel true real love will not come my way..
I give up on the fantasy of love.. Sure caring for someone is different.. But I'm startin to think real love
Is only a fantasy....
I did met a Leo, but euhh. I can't do this.. I can't get into him at all..
I was suppose to go out with him tonight, but i canceled.. I would rather be home..

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Evolved1
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posted January 21, 2013 08:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Evolved1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I promise you True Love is not a fantasy....It shows up when you're not looking and yoh least expect it...

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hippichick
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posted January 21, 2013 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Thanks

At the very least i need a break.. I'm emotionally drained, and can't really take men at this time...

I honestly feel true real love will not come my way..
I give up on the fantasy of love.. Sure caring for someone is different.. But I'm startin to think real love
Is only a fantasy....
I did met a Leo, but euhh. I can't do this.. I can't get into him at all..
I was suppose to go out with him tonight, but i canceled.. I would rather be home..


Awwwww.....weren't you the one invloved with a Pisces?

I understand your needing to step back...and I too understand that you feel a relationship will never be for you.

Here are my thoughts on that.

Women of power are difficult to "deal" with and it takes a very, very special man to deal with a woman who is intouch with herself.

I am fifty, been dealing with this forever...

No man has ever been able to "handle" me, my spirituality, my independence, my love, my independence.

There was one, and I found out later he is married...

pooh!

Dont ever give up on the ideal of "love", but dont look either. Care for yourself, life always hands things when we are ready~

blessins!

terri~

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Lioness
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posted January 22, 2013 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah.. I was/am dealing with a Pisces..

Nuff said!!!!

Lol

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hippichick
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posted January 22, 2013 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Yeah.. I was/am dealing with a Pisces..

Nuff said!!!!

Lol


A relationship with a Pisces is never "easy" am one dated one....

AND if you are a Leo, I forget but I think you are and IF you have alot of fire, basically his water could put out your fire and your fire could make his water (emotions) boil...

Not easy.

Yes step back and treat yourself kindly, regain your fire...

t~

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hippichick
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posted January 22, 2013 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gosh, Lioness,, the more I think about this the more I feel sad~

I know as a lady Pisces I leave men shaking heads...tho I think my Scorp asc and huge Aqua influence has alot to do with it...

But the Pisces is squirmy, we have to wiggle and escape when we are too overwhealmed.

Personally, I have nearly a Fire void, only a Venus in Aries 0 deg, and I can usually only tolerate the energies of Saggies for too long.

So when things get too heated for me, this Fish swims.

Having said that, there is Love.

Love can and does rise above the planetary influences, with time and patience all things are possible!

Going back to your original statement, dont ever give up, dont look, just be you and I feel a very lovely you from your energy...

Gain yourself back and what will be will be~

love and blessins~

t~

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Lioness
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posted January 22, 2013 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ahh don't feel said... I'm a pisc asc so idk the swimming away thing doesn't phase me...

That's not the issue..

I can't get him to release me and let me go..
I feel obligated to him.. I want to get away from that..
But he has to release me.. He won't do it..

I'm trying and working very hard to move forward.. But i can't cuz of him..
I've tried to date but euhhhh.. These other men just aren't working...

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hippichick
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posted January 22, 2013 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
o....sweetie...

blessisn to ye!

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Mystic Melody
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posted January 24, 2013 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hippichick Hippichick Hippichick and Lioness <3 have some tea,
have some tea...

love is real, but we are mean to people and they are mean to us no matter what. Expecting more is the problem. The mean will Be... we just have to forgive. It is a journey of acceptance and forgiveness. You know that. <3 I know this because the Universe gave me a perfect, beautiful angel of a pure soul in my daughter and I am screwing up her purity right and left just by co-existing with her in this world. I am also mean. I tell her to watch out for MEAN MOM and then I roar. She forgives me.
Because she still remembers sweetness and innocence and peace and beauty and .... well... adults are worse.

But that doesn't mean they aren't worth loving. Just adjust your expectations. Accept. Forgive.

You know it's True.

one lump or two?

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hippichick
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posted January 25, 2013 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi MEL!

I just lectured, kindly on my last failed relationship...he said he does not know if he can ever forget the "harsh" words between us, and they were not even harsh!

I told him dont forget, forgive....

I got scolded for quoting the bible or some self help book...told him, naaaa just out of my head.

I forvige too easy, but I never, ever forget~

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