posted August 23, 2013 02:27 PM            

From my own personal experiences, I will never again date an Aries, Aquarius, Gemini or Leo.

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posted August 23, 2013 02:59 PM            

I am not letting sun sign ruin my romantic forecast but I will probably be wary of..

-LIBRA, undisputed 1st place
-Cancer
-Capricorn
-Virgo
-Leo

posted August 23, 2013 03:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Awwwwwwww but us Aries are so cute and lively! You're missing out!!!

I am not letting sun sign ruin my romantic forecast but I will probably be wary of..

-LIBRA, undisputed 1st place
-Cancer
-Capricorn
-Virgo
-Leo

More or less in this order. Some of them I have dated already, so there you go. Rules meant to be broken!

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Yes "wary" is definitely a good word. Proceed with caution! Sun signs seem to be an accurate forecast as to whether I'll mesh with a person. I used to ignore signs but I pay more attention now, since everything I read about "compatibility" seems to be true. Nothing against Aries but my Aries relationship was the worst in my life! LOL

posted August 23, 2013 03:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Hahaha! Well I'm not too crazy about Scorps either, but I've heard there are benefits! lmao So hey, if the benefits are good and you put up a good fight, Aries will be there. lol

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posted August 23, 2013 03:22 PM            

I've had only attempts at relationships with Scorps, they died in the courtship phase because you Scorps blow hot and cold and I'm impatient and too proud to put up with it.

posted August 23, 2013 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Lol! So I've heard..

I've had only attempts at relationships with Scorps, they died in the courtship phase because you Scorps blow hot and cold and I'm impatient and too proud to put up with it.

Most Scorps I've had flings with had their Sun in the very first degrees. Conjunct my Saturn. Guess they found me too controlling! *said the pot to the kettle*..

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posted August 23, 2013 03:44 PM            

However, my Aries planets cannot help themselves and flirt with everything that moves.

posted August 23, 2013 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by ScorpionAz:
Aint that the truth! However, I'm tired of conflict and drama. I don't want challenging. Getting too old for that! LOL I just want some peace in a relationship. At least that's what I tell myself but I often wonder, based on my choices in men .....

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posted August 23, 2013 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Lol! So I've heard..

I've had only attempts at relationships with Scorps, they died in the courtship phase because you Scorps blow hot and cold and I'm impatient and too proud to put up with it.

Most Scorps I've had flings with had their Sun in the very first degrees. Conjunct my Saturn.

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Hello. You rang?

posted August 23, 2013 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Awwwwwwww but us Aries are so cute and lively! You're missing out!!!

I am not letting sun sign ruin my romantic forecast but I will probably be wary of..

-LIBRA, undisputed 1st place
-Cancer
-Capricorn
-Virgo
-Leo

More or less in this order. Some of them I have dated already, so there you go. Rules meant to be broken!

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Without going into too much personal detail... could you explain each of these?

posted August 23, 2013 04:15 PM            

Ok, so you want me to explain why I wouldn't date those signs.. Well.. Libras are too indecisive and people-pleasing to the point that they become spineless and doormatsy. Plus, I couldn't possibly date someone prettier than me. Just no. Cancers are clingy and whiny. Too passive-aggressive and mommy issues. Mno. Caps are most often than not either workaholics or depressed or too closed down. I may have enough FIRE to melt their iceberg but not the patience. Virgos I actually appreciate the most from that list, but nobody (or more specifically, *I* don't) likes to be constantly criticized and reminded that they missed a spot, have their undies arranged by 3 criteria or having to walk on eggshells around their neurotic better half. Leos are attention seeking %$*#%^ and it's all about them, when in fact it should be all about ME. So we just don't work.

posted August 23, 2013 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
OMG! Hello, Blackbird-Scorpy! How you doin' today?

Ok, so you want me to explain why I wouldn't date those signs.. Well.. Libras are too indecisive and people-pleasing to the point that they become spineless and doormatsy. Plus, I couldn't possibly date someone prettier than me. Just no. Cancers are clingy and whiny. Too passive-aggressive and mommy issues. Mno. Caps are most often than not either workaholics or depressed or too closed down. I may have enough FIRE to melt their iceberg but not the patience. Virgos I actually appreciate the most from that list, but nobody (or more specifically, *I* don't) likes to be constantly criticized and reminded that they missed a spot, have their undies arranged by 3 criteria or having to walk on eggshells around their neurotic better half. Leos are attention seeking %$*#%^ and it's all about them, when in fact it should be all about ME. So we just don't work.

What are your signs to be avoided, Blackbird?

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I'm doing well, thank you. I should be working diligently, being a perfect little worker bee instead of lurking here and e-stalking you but other than avoiding Friday-afternoon tedium, having a great day here.

Although I have placements in some of those signs that you don't like... I like to think that the better qualities in those signs neutralize the bad qualities in each other. For example... Libra can be indecisive and Virgo can be critical, but put them together and you get someone that tries to be helpful and positive with their pickiness; a diplomat that will quietly, politely brush a bit of lint off your shoulder, because he wants you to look your best. Oh, and with that sensual Virgo buzz, he's always looking for an excuse to touch...

So far, I could say Libra, because my mother is a Libra Sun and she drives me nuts most of the time... but good heavens, all the Libra women I've seen look great. And as I said, I have a few Libra placements myself. After the two dates with the bizzare Aqua hippie flower girl, I'd say I'm going to avoid Aquas, but there are some very smart, coherent Aquarius people here on LL that would disprove that stereotype in an instant.

Nah, I'm going to pick on Aries a little instead. Hot-headed, impulsive, no decorum and selfish.

posted August 23, 2013 11:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Newrise:
^ Lol Hera, I've somewhat a very similar outlook, and I am also an Aries. How about Tauruses and their possessiveness? Plus, what are your other placements?

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Ahh.. I'm Taurus Venus so I kinda like them bulls.. Not when they're possessive but then again I haven't experienced that with them. I guess I picked the Uranian types

posted August 23, 2013 11:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Blackbird:
I'm doing well, thank you. I should be working diligently, being a perfect little worker bee instead of lurking here and e-stalking you but other than avoiding Friday-afternoon tedium, having a great day here.

Although I have placements in some of those signs that you don't like... I like to think that the better qualities in those signs neutralize the bad qualities in each other. For example... Libra can be indecisive and Virgo can be critical, but put them together and you get someone that tries to be helpful and positive with their pickiness; a diplomat that will quietly, politely brush a bit of lint off your shoulder, because he wants you to look your best. Oh, and with that sensual Virgo buzz, he's always looking for an excuse to touch...

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Hahahaha, actually if it's sexy beasts like you doing the e-stalking, please continue!

I was talking about Sun signs strictly. As you can see, Scorpio was not on the list.

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Originally posted by Blackbird:
Nah, I'm going to pick on Aries a little instead. Hot-headed, impulsive, no decorum and selfish.

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posted August 25, 2013 04:23 AM            

I did as requested. You can always start another topic, though for your protection, I would suggest editing first names and location from the charts. You never know who lurks out there.