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I'm so cappy
Knowflake

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posted October 06, 2013 07:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Even if you loved them very much.

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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Hera
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posted October 06, 2013 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What wouldn't YOU do?

You make very interesting threads, Cappy, but you rarely answer them yourself..

SU is a place of sharing, if you want to.

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I'm so cappy
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posted October 06, 2013 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, thanks. You know, I'm not into baring my soul and sometimes I'm not comfortable with it even here. Anyway, I wouldn't...
- get married
- have children
- engage in certain sexual activities
- give up on my individuality and equality

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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Hera
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posted October 06, 2013 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know. It's hard for Caps to bare their souls.. I am glad you answered though!

As for me.. I'd like to think that I wouldn't choose a partner who'd ask me to do the things he'd knew I don't want to do. However, depending on how much I love him, that list may be shorter or longer. lol

On a more serious note, I wouldn't get an abortion, do illegal activities, harm myself or another in any way, compromise myself, my values, my safety or the ones I'm close to in any way, be forced into anything.

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andstuff
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posted October 07, 2013 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I don't mind sharing anything at all, LOL, so/because apparently my sun in capricorn has nothing to do with my personality

Anyway, I wouldn't:

- engage in a number of sexual practices, second that
- do anything considered low (steal, betray, slander, act like a hypocrite), basically wouldn't do anything I personally consider indecent or unethical, i.e. things I would despise myself for
- pretend I enjoy things I don't like (but I can't imagine being in love with a person who has tastes I consider dubious)

can't think of anything on top of that for now, might edit later

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libraschoice77
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posted October 07, 2013 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting topic Cappy! Lets see here what would I NOT do for my partner...


Would not do anything illegal, like harming someone

Would not harm myself physically or emotionally

Would not let myself be taken advantage again whether it be by my partner or someone through my partner

Would not stop caring for and loving animals

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Female_Archer
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posted October 09, 2013 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Female_Archer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would never sacrifice any part of myself for someone else. They have to take me, for me!

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Gabby
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posted October 09, 2013 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sex, a low sex drive is a deal breaker!

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Lioness
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posted October 09, 2013 11:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My job, my kids...

My integrity!!!!!!!!

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AriesLilith
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posted October 10, 2013 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesLilith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What might go against my beliefs and principles, and what I don't feel comfortable with (which has to be thought about, as in how important it is for me to do it VS how uncomfortable it is).

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Mystic Melody
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posted October 10, 2013 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wouldn't sacrifice my true self. My partner had to get to know my real un-repressed self, how I behave with others, and who I love. These things won't change and I refuse to lie to my partner or to myself. I've had to do that before to spare their feelings, and I want something real if I'm going to share my life with someone.


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Randall
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posted October 10, 2013 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Indeed!

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Originally posted by Mystic Melody:
I wouldn't sacrifice my true self. My partner had to get to know my real un-repressed self, how I behave with others, and who I love. These things won't change and I refuse to lie to my partner or to myself. I've had to do that before to spare their feelings, and I want something real if I'm going to share my life with someone.


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AqMoon
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posted October 11, 2013 04:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AqMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
-His or her laundry ugg no way hosey.
-Wipe his or her bum for them.
-beg and plead
-let him or her make decisions for me,tell me what do none of that nagging stuff.

other than that nothing else

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MetalAphrodite
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posted October 11, 2013 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Even if you loved them very much.



I wouldn't sacrifice my kid's safety and well-being for them.

Will not kill other people for them.

Umm... hmm, probably will not do anything that changes my core personality. The last time I tried that, it made me feel super suicidal.

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Randall
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posted October 12, 2013 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Several good answers.

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