posted March 05, 2014 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by LexaS:
Hm, not exatly.. We're still on "dating stage" where nothing really has happened due this moment because we live in different cities. When we see each other he always acts really sweet! I didn't realize for a long time that he has some interest in me(because I was seeing someone else) but he made different hits to let me know(I'm pretty oblivious, haha).. he took me to a theatre, he gave me his tshirt, one time when we went out he bought me chocolate, when we're in company he always stays near me and usually talks(and tries to form a convo) most of the time with me and many, many other things that show that he likes me(and that started 1.5years ago!) and others could see that too...BUT my biggest problem with him is that he doesn't do anything further.. for example, he always walks me home aaaand nothing happens, he rarely calls me first.. He's really loner-ish, he puts his work first, then himself and then others.. He likes to stay home and he's not a social butterfly but has many friends (paradox). I know that he doesn't call others first, too.. even his best friend, so I try to understand him.
I'm not the kind of person who would admit their feelings even if had a massive crush on someone and I feel he's the same as me. Last time we texted each other I told him that I miss him and I received the "I miss you, too" which I think is a big step in our strange relationship, haha.

Your guy probably felt overwhelmed and needed his time and space alone. Maybe if you first befriend him and you get to know each other on emotional(and even spiritual level) it would make him realize that he really likes you and he'd lose something special. If he's as same as my guy and puts his work first above all, maybe he has a lot to do and his mind in somewhere else atm.

One of my friends told me that Virgos can put their emotions in a box, lock it and place it somewhere in the back of their mind while they do what they have to. But I guess that depends on the rest of the chart and how the person has developed through the years and what he had experienced.

If he was heartbroken before I guess that would be a defensive reaction because he feels that something may go wrong and he's not ready to go through something like that again. Do you know something about his past relationships? Does he have some stressful aspects in the natal?

Sorry for all the questions, just my thoughts are flowing..haha.

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He definitly puts work first..his ex gf that he was with broke up with him threw text message..but that was like 3 years ago, and his best friend thats also my best friend told me that awhile ago (8 years or so) he bought some girl a neclace and she was a ***** and threw it out the window or something..iv been there now for a year and a half like not doing him wrong, being there for him. Its like hes making progress but slowly, like baby steps, hes scared or something