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Topic: Magnetic Attraction
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Gracha
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posted January 15, 2014 06:38 PM
  
Hi ladies and gents!! I have a story/question.
I went to ship a package to a relative and became instantly attracted to one of the employees whom id never seen before until now, come to the front to assist with taking care of customers. It's weird because ive gone there numerous times to mail things, im thinking he must be new or whenever i came he was in the back or wasnt there. I did some searching online (its public information) and found out he's been working there for 5+ years. I was on my cellphone reading when i noticed a figure someone coming, then i saw him and thought, wow, wow, who is that. I was attracted to him right away which has never happened to me. There was something about him that i cant explain. He ended up helping me send out my package, i was very nervous and on top of that, he kept staring at me and staring. I couldnt wait to leave because i felt that everyone was staring at us because of my "obvious" attraction to him, and the air felt thick. His voice was so low i could barely hear him. Let's just say i practically ran out of there once finished. This was on Jan 3rd. Haven't gone back since. I believe he was attracted to me as well, i could just feel it. I even asked the tarot cards what he thought of me, i got the wheel of fortune and ace of wands. Has anyone ever experienced anything like this and if so, what did you do about it it? Do you think soul mates would be instantly attracted to one another or would it be a slow burn or mixture of the two? I'm not saying he's my soul mate but its got me thinking how one recognizes their soul mate.
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charmainec
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posted January 15, 2014 10:59 PM
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Hera
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posted January 15, 2014 11:36 PM
Yup, has happened to me, too many times to count. I think it's mostly coz my chart is mostly fire, I get heated up like that fast. Sometimes it goes away, sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes it was with soulmates, sometimes it was random. Physical attraction is usually magnetic, the good type anyways  . I feel this needs some more exploring!  When are you mailing something again? And do keep us posted! IP: Logged |
Gracha
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posted January 16, 2014 10:02 AM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Yup, has happened to me, too many times to count. I think it's mostly coz my chart is mostly fire, I get heated up like that fast. Sometimes it goes away, sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes it was with soulmates, sometimes it was random. Physical attraction is usually magnetic, the good type anyways . I feel this needs some more exploring! When are you mailing something again? And do keep us posted!
ha im an aries sun and mars, but i'm rarely attracted to just any cute guy. There has to be something about him that attracts me especially the mind. But oh my was i attracted to this guy. I'm thinking its just pure animal lust lol, blame my 12th house gemini moon because my mercury in pisces is being pushed aside no matter my feelings. I need a rational explanation for these feelings. I feel silly because i know i have to go back at some point and see him again but i feel like id look desperate but at the same time i don't give a crap its like i want to really really really get the guy and i don't care what it takes. <<<<this is what I'm afraid of.
On top of that he was wearing a wedding band on his right hand third finger, my immediate thought was that he lost someone and he seemed sad but i could tell he was attracted to me. I googled the band on right hand and its usual meaning is deceased spouse. I even asked my sister about the right hand band and she immediately said the wife is more than likely deceased. I'm thinking it could be anything. I want to find out if he's married or not. If he's married then i will let it go, not worth it, imo immoral and I'm not interested in bad karma. I have to send another package on friday, maybe. What did you do about your attraction? How did you know it was soulmatey? I understand about physical attraction but this felt different, it was magnetic like id been touched by some unseen force its hard to describe. My friend thinks i need to talk to him and she even wants to see him so she could get that man for me lol…i even found his Facebook but saw no mention of a spouse. I will keep updates going. IP: Logged |
Gracha
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From: NY USA
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posted January 16, 2014 10:36 AM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Yup, has happened to me, too many times to count. I think it's mostly coz my chart is mostly fire, I get heated up like that fast. Sometimes it goes away, sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes it was with soulmates, sometimes it was random. Physical attraction is usually magnetic, the good type anyways . I feel this needs some more exploring! When are you mailing something again? And do keep us posted!
ha im an aries sun and mars, but i'm rarely attracted to just any cute guy. There has to be something about him that attracts me especially the mind. But oh my was i attracted to this guy. I'm thinking its just pure animal lust lol, blame my 12th house gemini moon because my mercury in pisces is being pushed aside no matter my feelings. I need a rational explanation for these feelings. I feel silly because i know i have to go back at some point and see him again but i feel like id look desperate but at the same time i don't give a crap its like i want to really really really get the guy and i don't care what it takes. <<<<this is what I'm afraid of.
On top of that he was wearing a wedding band on his right hand third finger, my immediate thought was that he lost someone and he seemed sad but i could tell he was attracted to me. I googled the band on right hand and its usual meaning is deceased spouse. I even asked my sister about the right hand band and she immediately said the wife is more than likely deceased. I'm thinking it could be anything. I want to find out if he's married or not. If he's married then i will let it go, not worth it, imo immoral and I'm not interested in bad karma. I have to send another package on friday, maybe. What did you do about your attraction? How did you know it was soulmatey? I understand about physical attraction but this felt different, it was magnetic like id been touched by some unseen force its hard to describe. My friend thinks i need to talk to him and she even wants to see him so she could get that man for me lol…i even found his Facebook but saw no mention of a spouse. I will keep updates going. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted January 16, 2014 02:49 PM
Are you sure it was a wedding band? On his middle finger? Maybe it was just a regular ring, not necessarily a wedding band. Ha! I am Aries Sun and Mars too! But with Sag Moon. I would pursue this. Fortune favors the bold, fellow Ram.  May I ask how old you are? IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted January 16, 2014 02:55 PM
To answer your question, I pursued most of my attractions, even the ones I knew were totally bad for me. I believe there was a reason I had to go through all those experiences and each one made me into the person I am today. I am currently engaged to a wonderful man and I honestly believe I might have behaved differently or passed him by had I not been through all the romantic experiences (and failures!) I have previously. Most of them hurt like hell, which is why I appreciate what I have now, more. Not saying your attraction will end in hurt in disappointment - we have no way of knowing that. But even if it does, it's ok. It is not the end of the world. It could be the love of your life. We don't know that either. You can plan and try to control the outcome all you like, but love is unpredictable and irrational and MAD and turns your everything upside down. It is the most magnificent experience of your life, because of that.  I don't know about you, but I would rather regret the things I've done than the ones I didn't do. ------------------
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Gracha
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posted January 16, 2014 04:53 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Are you sure it was a wedding band? On his middle finger? Maybe it was just a regular ring, not necessarily a wedding band. Ha! I am Aries Sun and Mars too! But with Sag Moon. I would pursue this. Fortune favors the bold, fellow Ram. May I ask how old you are?
I'm assuming it was a band on his finger because it was engraved and gold. It looks like a wedding band. Maybe it was a regular ring but now my mind is saying i was looking at the wrong hand and that he is really married. Lol im confused but i have to go back for sure. I'm 30! He's in his early 40s. You're right i have to seize the day and this could be a learning lesson in helping me along the way irregardless of what happens. If i fell, it doesnt matter at least i tried.
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Hera
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posted January 16, 2014 05:33 PM
We must be born like 2 weeks apart then!  IP: Logged |
Gracha
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posted January 16, 2014 08:26 PM
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We must be born like 2 weeks apart then!
oh yeah! March 21st i am. When is your birthday? Congrats on your engagement! IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted January 16, 2014 11:24 PM
I am April 4th! And thank you!So, which Friday did you say you must go back to the postal office? This one or the next? IP: Logged |
Gracha
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posted January 17, 2014 05:33 PM
You're welcome!I'm going back next Friday. I'm mailing out a package. Got any advice? IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted January 17, 2014 11:42 PM
Don't drink coffee that day, it might make you more nervous. Rather a nice calming cup of tea. Look clean, but casual. Natural looking make-up but flawless. You don't want to look like you're putting too much effort lol. Act like you normally would in that situation. If you see him around, make conversation. Tell him thank you for his help last time, say he really made a difference. If he takes the bait and sticks around to chat, I would ask him for a cup of coffee sometime.. maybe during the week-end? Baby steps, but fearless ones. Don't be disappointed if it doesn't work out. He might be busy or preoccupied by something else, so don't take it as disinterest. This is so exciting!!  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted January 18, 2014 01:27 PM
I'd say "karmic mates".
Usually when you feel a strong pull it means you have something to work on with that person. Could be your subconscious recognizing a familiar pattern and therefore, being attracted based on that. If you have a negative relationship pattern in your life then this could be another "test" to make you grow/ learn your lesson for good.IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody
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posted January 18, 2014 02:52 PM
Venus/Pluto Since you've already stalked by his Facebook profile you could check if there's a bdate there and do the synastry. Do what Hera said first though, real life is much more fulfilling that fantasy astro relationships. IP: Logged |
Gracha
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posted January 21, 2014 12:50 AM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Don't drink coffee that day, it might make you more nervous. Rather a nice calming cup of tea. Look clean, but casual. Natural looking make-up but flawless. You don't want to look like you're putting too much effort lol. Act like you normally would in that situation. If you see him around, make conversation. Tell him thank you for his help last time, say he really made a difference. If he takes the bait and sticks around to chat, I would ask him for a cup of coffee sometime.. maybe during the week-end? Baby steps, but fearless ones. Don't be disappointed if it doesn't work out. He might be busy or preoccupied by something else, so don't take it as disinterest. This is so exciting!!
wow, thank you for the excellent tips Hera!!! I'm going to do just that come Friday. If something happens, it happens, if not, no harm done! IP: Logged |
Gracha
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posted January 21, 2014 01:01 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I'd say "karmic mates".
Usually when you feel a strong pull it means you have something to work on with that person. Could be your subconscious recognizing a familiar pattern and therefore, being attracted based on that. If you have a negative relationship pattern in your life then this could be another "test" to make you grow/ learn your lesson for good.
Karmic mates, this is my first time hearing that term. I don't really have a negative relationship pattern. Im very picky about who i get involved with and have had one long term serious relationship that lasted eight years. But I've been told that i was very wise about men considering my age and experience. Ive always been super careful about not getting involved with the wrong guys, minimum heartbreak on my end. I've never felt a pull like this towards anyone else. Maybe it was a pheromones type of ordeal, but i know he felt it too, i could just feel it. There could be some type of karma there i don't know really. IP: Logged |
Gracha
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posted January 21, 2014 01:07 AM
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Venus/Pluto Since you've already stalked by his Facebook profile you could check if there's a bdate there and do the synastry. Do what Hera said first though, real life is much more fulfilling that fantasy astro relationships.
Stalked it several times lol and i definitely checked for a birthday but its hidden. I agree real life over fantasy relationships are enriching. Its funny you said venus/pluto because whenever I've crushed on a guy i found my venus (taurus) to be opposite his scorpio sun and/or pluto, or he was very plutonian. But this attraction is something totally different than what I'm used to feeling. I have a feeling he's got pluto there too IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted January 22, 2014 11:57 PM
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wow, thank you for the excellent tips Hera!!! I'm going to do just that come Friday. If something happens, it happens, if not, no harm done!
Yes. In my experience so far, maintaining realistic expectations is foolproof for avoiding disappointment and heartache. It is a bit hard for us Aries because we're naturally optimistic and tend to have high hopes fast. Aww too bad you don't have a birth date for him! But maybe you can ask him that on one of your encounters. Good luck tomorrow! ------------------
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Gracha
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posted January 24, 2014 01:30 PM
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Yes. In my experience so far, maintaining realistic expectations is foolproof for avoiding disappointment and heartache. It is a bit hard for us Aries because we're naturally optimistic and tend to have high hopes fast. Aww too bad you don't have a birth date for him! But maybe you can ask him that on one of your encounters. Good luck tomorrow!
Just as I was getting ready to go to the post office, my work called asking me to come in because of an emergency dealing with medical. I work in the health field.  I decided to go into work to help out for a few hours. I can't go Saturday because I'm working. I'll have to go on Monday to the post office. Everything happens for a reason, I guess. What will be will be.
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posted January 26, 2014 10:47 AM
Ahhh just a little delay, Gracha! Don't let it get you down! You will see him tomorrow. I work in health too and I hate it when that happens. ------------------
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Hera
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posted January 29, 2014 12:15 AM
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Mystic Melody
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posted January 29, 2014 09:55 PM
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posted January 30, 2014 02:16 PM
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Gracha
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posted January 31, 2014 12:52 AM
Okay!! Thank you everyone for following my story and i will continue to report.Well I went to the post office on Tuesday because i couldn't make it that Monday. But, he wasn't there I will say this shamefully, while "stalking" his FB one of his friends pics caught my eye so i went onto his page and even googled him and found that this friend is an author with a website….and i sent the friend a message on his website because i thought it was very informative and it looked abandoned. The friend ended up emailing me back instantly and we're kind of "slowly" hitting it off via email so far (its been about two weeks so far). His friend seems like a great guy so I'm keeping things cordial and purely intellectual. Ill attempt to go back to the post office next friday for some stamps. I will definitely keep updates going etc. IP: Logged |
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