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geminichoo
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posted March 10, 2014 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminichoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there, I was in a relationship with this Leo girl. She’s 27. But we broke off recently. During our time together, I gave her all the best attention she can get. She even let the whole world know by posting on her Facebook of what I did for her and how much I dote on her. However, we broke up recently due to a small misunderstanding but it is nothing major and I did not hurt her. Furthermore, As she’s very image conscious, she mind about my thinning hair. But I’ve told her that I already had plan to do a hair implant soon. The reason she left me this time is because of her friends' commenting that why is she with an "old man" and Is she trying to cheat my money all these. She felt hurt by those comments. As it was painful for me to keep holding on to her if she don’t loves me anymore, I told her to just let me go and stop contacting me for the time being. I need to heal my broken heart. She said ok. But she still text me, asking me how am I, telling me about her days and still asked me out. And she’s still jealous over certain things about me. I’m at my wit end as what should I do with this girl. Yes, I do admit I still love her but I do not wanna hold on anymore if she has no intention to carry on this relationship with me. Or will she eventually ignore about her friends' comment and come back to me?
*Note: During our times together, she’s kinda possessive which I don’t mind, stick with me almost everyday and I have never let her down or hurt her at all. I’m a Gemini guy and I’m 14 years her senior. We do not have problem communicating.

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Ellynlvx
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posted March 14, 2014 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hullo Geminichoo!

Very nice to have you here. I wonder if you would like to do a Synastry Reading?

If so, just leave birth information for both of you, and I will put one up for you.

(Leo's Rock!)

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Randall
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posted March 14, 2014 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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geminichoo
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From: Singapore
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posted March 15, 2014 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminichoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Hullo Geminichoo!

Very nice to have you here. I wonder if you would like to do a Synastry Reading?

If so, just leave birth information for both of you, and I will put one up for you.

(Leo's Rock!)


Hi. Thanks a lot. I do not have much info about her birth time. I only have her birthday and place of birth. I wonder if that's sufficient?

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Ellynlvx
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posted March 15, 2014 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yup.

That and yours!

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geminichoo
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posted March 15, 2014 11:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminichoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Yup.

That and yours!


Me: 11 June 1973.
Hers: 3 August 1987

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Ellynlvx
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posted March 16, 2014 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay, I've got it so far. You can edit.

Need time and place, as much as you have.

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geminichoo
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posted March 16, 2014 05:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminichoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Okay, I've got it so far. You can edit.

Need time and place, as much as you have.


Hi, I'm sorry but I do not have her time.

Me:
Time: 1600- 1700 hrs.
Place: Singapore.
Hers:
Time: unknown.
Place: Singapore.

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Ellynlvx
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posted March 16, 2014 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here you go, Geminichoo:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/004845.html

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geminichoo
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posted March 17, 2014 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminichoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Here you go, Geminichoo:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/004845.html


Hi. Thanks a lot for the report. Really appreciate it.

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Odette
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posted March 25, 2014 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How could she be 27 if she was born in August '87?
Did you get the year wrong?
Or is she turning 27 this year?

I wanted to look at the synastry and give you advice.. but I thought I'd make sure the info is correct

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geminichoo
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posted March 26, 2014 08:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminichoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
How could she be 27 if she was born in August '87?
Did you get the year wrong?
Or is she turning 27 this year?

I wanted to look at the synastry and give you advice.. but I thought I'd make sure the info is correct


Hi Odette,
Yes. She is born in 1987. Turning 27 in 2014.
Thanks in advance for your kindness.

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I'm so cappy
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posted March 26, 2014 12:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you really think it's worth being in a relationship with her? I'm afraid you care about her much more than she cares about you.

quote:
The reason she left me this time is

So how many times have been there?

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 27, 2014 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey there I see you have a tight love stellium square pluto in composite. The rest of the composite is also nice. Your synastry is nice too except that your sun opposes her uranus. This means that she will act hot and cold towards you. This is by no means a light relationship for either of you, though. Your heaviest weighted aspect on http://reallovecalc.com shows that this is very intense, possibly one of the most consuming of both your lives (I had it before with someone). It's obviously from the composite she loves you very much just like you do, it's just her uranus opposite your sun which is making her run away. Uranus is impulsive and rebellious. I had this aspect with an ex of mine and we also had a this same composite like you and her, and it led to him being very committed to the relationship while we were dating but showing a certain reluctance to completely give in and express emotions fully, which is also a way for this aspect to act out in synastry ---uranus is acting distant too even though the person may be really committed. Once he felt I had mistreated him it led to him acting inconsiderately towards me yet he could never let me go either no matter how much we argued and it's been a year and he still texts me constantly and though he doesnt like to admit his real feelings he confessed to lying about how he feels and saying he cant move on and feels we are soulmates. I would say that the effect the sun-uranus opposition has in synastry with that composite chart of love stellium square pluto is that this person is supposed to be an "awakener" for you in your life but the relationship is not meant to last long. Tight Love stelliums hard aspect pluto are very bonding as well...you will always remember each other and there is real love there for sure and so much passion too.

Uranus is certainly an awakener. So yes she does truly love you, it's just that uranus makes her act impulsively. I acted impulsively all the time with my ex too. I always broke it off with him then got back with him then broke it off again so yes on/off behavior is common. Its just the instability this aspect brings like you never know whats gonna happen between you.

So i would take this relationship as something that is supposed to awaken you but be short-lasting. It definitely starts out very very passionate and then breaks off suddenly...then results in a strong of on/off and getting back together. So if you're wondering if it will ever become stable..it wont. She will leep changing her mind. But it isnt because she doesnt have strong feelings. She does. It's just the energy you bring to each other of impulsivity and carelesness. If you expect it to become stable dont...it never will. But know that she does love you just as strongly and probably always will.

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geminichoo
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posted March 27, 2014 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminichoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Hey there I see you have a tight love stellium square pluto in composite. The rest of the composite is also nice. Your synastry is nice too except that your sun opposes her uranus. This means that she will act hot and cold towards you. This is by no means a light relationship for either of you, though. Your heaviest weighted aspect on http://reallovecalc.com shows that this is very intense, possibly one of the most consuming of both your lives (I had it before with someone). It's obviously from the composite she loves you very much just like you do, it's just her uranus opposite your sun which is making her run away. Uranus is impulsive and rebellious. I had this aspect with an ex of mine and we also had a this same composite like you and her, and it led to him being very committed to the relationship while we were dating but showing a certain reluctance to completely give in and express emotions fully, which is also a way for this aspect to act out in synastry ---uranus is acting distant too even though the person may be really committed. Once he felt I had mistreated him it led to him acting inconsiderately towards me yet he could never let me go either no matter how much we argued and it's been a year and he still texts me constantly and though he doesnt like to admit his real feelings he confessed to lying about how he feels and saying he cant move on and feels we are soulmates. I would say that the effect the sun-uranus opposition has in synastry with that composite chart of love stellium square pluto is that this person is supposed to be an "awakener" for you in your life but the relationship is not meant to last long. Tight Love stelliums hard aspect pluto are very bonding as well...you will always remember each other and there is real love there for sure and so much passion too.

Uranus is certainly an awakener. So yes she does truly love you, it's just that uranus makes her act impulsively. I acted impulsively all the time with my ex too. I always broke it off with him then got back with him then broke it off again so yes on/off behavior is common. Its just the instability this aspect brings like you never know whats gonna happen between you.

So i would take this relationship as something that is supposed to awaken you but be short-lasting. It definitely starts out very very passionate and then breaks off suddenly...then results in a strong of on/off and getting back together. So if you're wondering if it will ever become stable..it wont. She will leep changing her mind. But it isnt because she doesnt have strong feelings. She does. It's just the energy you bring to each other of impulsivity and carelesness. If you expect it to become stable dont...it never will. But know that she does love you just as strongly and probably always will.


Hi, I can't say how much I appreciate what you had done for me. I'm really touched by all the people here that offered their kind advice and giving me all these reports which I didn't even know where to get it. From the bottom of my heart. I thank you. 😊
Another thing, do you think you can do another one for this friend of mine which I happened to get along very well recently? Incidentally, she's also a Leo.
Her data are such:
Birthday: 12 August 1986.
Birth place: Singapore.


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AscTaurus
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posted April 11, 2014 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, judging from a numerological point of view, you are a life path 1 and she is a life path 9.

Life path 1 suggests a strong, pioneering and assertive spirit. You develop your talents best when taking the lead and being in control

Life path 9 is compassionate and endowed with a humanitarian element. Somewhat very impersonal and even "lost", but nevertheless enigmatic.

Together, 1 leads this relationship and 9 is fine with being in the background. However, the externally focused nature of 9 does take a lot of attention away from the self centered 1. This could bring in some trouble.

The day of birth number is always therein the life path number. It is often the initial expression of the personality.

She was born on the 3rd of the month and this complements her personality (9)by adding the following qualities;

3 is lively, curious, scattered, intriguing but has little follow through. 3 is also very vain, has a short attention span and can be restless.

You were born on the 2nd of the month and this modifies your personality by giving you;

2 is warm, romantic, passionate, likes home, is sentimental,emotional and loving. You can also be very demanding of attention- especially when feeling insecure.


2 and 3 are compatible. 3 brings liveliness, freshness and enthusiasm whilst 2 grounds,soothes and calms. These two work well as long as the 3's attention is not hovering around elsewhere.

Your friend-the one born on the 12th of the month has a similar compatibility with you-as described above.She is also a 3

Your life path number however(the date of birth added together) can go either way.Your friend is an 8.

8's can be rigid, methodical and instructive people. They tend to have very strong convictions and opinions.

When you 1 and 8 get along,mountains can move. When there is disagreement, it is also just as dramatic.1 and 8's compatibility can be unpredictable.

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 14, 2014 08:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Geminichoo, you have venus opposite mars and venus square venus with the new girl which is what causes the attraction. The composite has a semisextile love stellium (close to the real thing, but not the real thing..) square pluto once again. Venus square uranus which means the relationship lasts only for as long as it is exciting, and it has to have something taboo about it for it to be exciting, maybe she is currently with somebody else, and you find it exciting to think about being with her? Well once the relationship is stable and quite "ordinary" it wont be exciting to you anymore.

In synastry again you have sun opposite uranus like you had with the first girl. That aspect will make things on and off. Venus square venus and venus opp mars means you have different values...she will not respect your values and you will not respect hers..so ultimately this will not work out. Mercury opposite mars guarrantees arguments. Also the composite doesnt show as much passion as with the first girl since it not a real love stellium.

Plus, this girl is a tiger. You are an ox. You are stable loyal dependable, a hardworker, conservative, emotional...

The leo tiger is a showoff, promiscuous, overly playful, naive, overly optimistic, aggressive, demanding, jealous, insecure, self-centered.

She will get on your nerves once you get to know her better.

Look for a snake or rooster, or your soulmate The rat.
Second most compatible is the monkey and the dragon.

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