posted February 04, 2015 01:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
You`re hurting him and if you keep acting this way, you`re going to lose him.

Sorry for the blunt delivery, but maybe you can learn from my mistakes.
There is only so long a guy will wait for you to make up your mind (visibly) and ind f he feels that you are not interested, he will go and look for someone who is!

I get it that you are shy, but from all you write here , he IS interested. So just start talking to him already. Maybe just a little small-talk now and then, and just see where it will lead to.

Maybe to nothing. Maybe to a friendship. Maybe into a relationship. Thing is you will never know if you donīt start sending him consistent messages (and there is nothing wrong in liking him)

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Hi Ceridwen,

Thanks once more for your help...

Well you know what? I'm hurt, too. Yes, yes, I am.

And I so get it and I so understand that being flirtatious is a natural component of the Gemini makeup, but, it still makes me feel a way when he's flirting with girls right in front of my face. I will give him some credit however, as I believe I have observed that he tries to curb it when I'm around.

For instance: Just the other day we were in a small study group and there his tail goes flirting with our supervisor (albeit she flirted with him first)..like...HELLO!!! Wouldn't you try to be on your best behavior if the person you liked were sitting right in front of you?

posted February 04, 2015 01:44 PM            

I had it done for a few people I had an odd feeling for...they seem nice but my intuition said otherwise and his astrological reading especially with the asteroids help to validate what I was feeling. Some of them thought I was their soulmate and I either should marry them but my gut said no.

I say trust your feelings. No one else can tell you what to really do if your intuition is telling you to do something else.

You would need his exact birth time, birthday, and place of birth to be accurate. So maybe this is a project you can do to confirm what it is you're feeling.

I was persistent with my TF in getting his time of birth as I wanted confirmation to why I feel the way I feel. It's not an end all be all but just a productive step in combating your frustration.

Also perhaps he flirt to evoke a reaction out of you although it's probably not the best thing to do in your case. Perhaps a bit kiddish on his part. If you guys are meant to be a little hard to get doesn't hurt. Geminis are inquisitive little thing...I have mercury in Gemini and I get bored easily so I know.

posted February 04, 2015 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Sabine:
@VM...you know if you want to know if there's some karmic thing going on with him may I suggest using Tameem...iQ astrology services to check out what's going on?

I had it done for a few people I had an odd feeling for...they seem nice but my intuition said otherwise and his astrological reading especially with the asteroids help to validate what I was feeling. Some of them thought I was their soulmate and I either should marry them but my gut said no.

I say trust your feelings. No one else can tell you what to really do if your intuition is telling you to do something else.

You would need his exact birth time, birthday, and place of birth to be accurate. So maybe this is a project you can do to confirm what it is you're feeling.

I was persistent with my TF in getting his time of birth as I wanted confirmation to why I feel the way I feel. It's not an end all be all but just a productive step in combating your frustration.

Also perhaps he flirt to evoke a reaction out of you although it's probably not the best thing to do in your case. Perhaps a bit kiddish on his part. If you guys are meant to be a little hard to get doesn't hurt. Geminis are inquisitive little thing...I have mercury in Gemini and I get bored easily so I know.

And perhaps with the mission of the retrieval of birth time you guys can talk about it after your confirmation and you can meet on a dinner date to talk about it but not before. Make it a mystery for him. Geminis love that. 😊

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Thank you, Sabine.

Never heard of Tameem but this sounds like a great idea. I will try to find out his birth details so I can get this going.

Yea, it's just a weird feeling I get sometimes like "what the hell does he want with me?"

I could totally be blowing this out of proportion too as in true Virgo style, I often overanalyze like there's no tomorrow.

I'm also weary because he hasn't asked me out on a proper date yet which I now understand could be completely contingent on me actually opening up and engaging him in some kind of dialogue over a period of time.

Yes, I remember he would blurt out compliments to another female in our circle and it just felt like he was doing it to get under my skin. I think after seeing that it had no effect on me, he stopped. I'm still however, trying to figure out the eyeball thing and the angry look.

posted March 05, 2015 01:45 PM            

Just a little update:

Well, I have made a solid decision to finally let this thing go once and for all. I still can't bring myself to talk to him (I know, I know) and when I'm almost there, I clam up, so it's done because it's just ridiculous at this point.

One more thing: he's now taken to flirting with a close buddy of mine. Nothing heavy. Just light stuff, like calling her "princess", and I've noticed he seems to make sure to do it when I'm around. Like if her and I are talking, he will come over to where we are and tell her this.

She also told me the other day that he told her this again, however, I wasn't there this time.

Btw, she knows NOTHING about my feelings towards him. I have kept her completely in the dark about this entire thing.

Any thoughts?

posted March 05, 2015 09:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Healing Mystic Melody:
Maybe the eyeball thing is him noticing you are looking down and away and averting your gaze and being shy.

Maybe the flirt thing with the friend is to see if you will give a reaction. Be crabby about if you can't do anything else. Show your feelings. Make a joke about him not ever liking YOU enough to give you a nickname (like Princess). Say ANYTHING.

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Hi Healing Mystic Melody,

Yea, I really do feel he is trying to make me jealous by flirting with her. Stupid though, because it only makes me draw back. Boys are dumb.

posted March 06, 2015 08:24 AM            

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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
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Hi geminihal2805,

posted April 05, 2015 12:27 PM            

He seemed so happy that I talked to him.

posted April 13, 2015 03:54 PM            

Are you there?

posted June 12, 2015 12:29 PM            

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Originally posted by VirgoMaiden:
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Well, he left. He's moving. I am so sad. He was still trying to connect with me, I am too shy for this!

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posted June 16, 2015 04:09 PM            

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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Tell him how you feel.. Give him your email tell him you want to keep in touch.

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