posted October 25, 2014 09:03 PM            

same as Pisces. Push pull / hot cold.

posted November 03, 2014 01:53 AM            

It comes as no surprise that we Libras get a bad rep. for being very Laissez Faire when it comes to relationships, which IMO is totally not true (depending upon your view of what a relationship should entitle.) I actually made posts on a similar topic not too long ago and I am just going to share them again:

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Bingo! That there pretty much is the answer to the mystery of a Libra man's "prowling" eyes. I hate calling this trait as being "unfaithful." Far from it! Once we Libras commit, its usually a life long promise. But we only commit once we have TRULY found our better half; The one who we need to complete us.

Don't take this aspect as a one sided deal ladies; You are entitled to walk away from a relationship as well if you think that a Libra man isn't fulfilling your needs. And trust us when we say that we will completely understand if you think that we aren't the ones for you. Breakups are bad, but what a Libra man hates more than breaking up is being a hindrance for their partner. We are supposed to be your needed half and if we aren't fulfilling all that you desire in a partner then we will walk away ourselves; Nothing pains us more than being a useless lump of coal for a relationship partner.

However, do realize that we expect the same from you. I can't stress enough to the fact that I walked away from quite a few relationships in my youth simply because my partners refused to explore their full potentials. Ladies! We expect you to reach your fulfilling goals in life! We expect you to be Wonder Women! We expect you to be the Amazon Queens! We expect you to be the best that you can be! And if you so choose to do that for yourselves, you can sure bet that we will fulfill your every dream (right down to the girlish ones you can conjure up in your heads .)

Don't limit yourselves to some self appointed homemaker roles (We aren't some momma's boy Cancers or some lame hum drum Capricorns Lol!) We Libras see great potential in you and we are left disappointed when you don't realize those potential in yourselves. Hence why we walk away... And get the unfair label of being "flightly" and "unfaithful."

We see you in such a wonderful light. We just hope that someday, you see yourselves in the same view as well and realize your own potentials.

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I do acknowledge that the possibility exists for a Libra to find someone better to be with but rest assured, they will NOT move on until they are absolutely certain that their current relationship isn't offering that the MAXIMUM possible benefit from being in a partnership. Why would one want to be in a partnership in the first place if one can easily get the same results by being single? A partnership exists so that both parties can mutually gain something in return for their union (love, affection, ability to improve one own self from the other, etc.)

HOWEVER, no Libra EVER takes this course of action lightly. No, we are not cold hearted ******** as is evident with the fact that we tend to stay in touch with a lot of our exes (and yes its purely on a platonic basis.)

I tend to use this video as a perfect illustration of what I am talking about.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JvxHPtEsmFc

I also hope that people don't take a Libra's tendency for being social and making friends as "flirty" behavior . Comeon now... A romantic relationship is just that... A romantic relationship; We have given you our heart but that doesn't means that we don't reserve the right to improve ourselves and we can only do that by surrounding ourselves with the right people with the right personality traits. Rest assured though, relationships with them will only exist on a platonic basis; We form bonds with other people to gain valuable insight from them for self improvement and personal development; And yes we might lightly joke around and laugh with them but that is hardly being a "flirt."

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Now do keep in mind that I have a Leo Moon and a Leo Asc. So yes you are right in the fact that the Moon Sign does effects the Balance of the Scales. So since he is a Pisces Moon, the Vulnerabilities and needs of a Pisces will sway his decision in choosing a partner. I can see why he would be attracted to you. You guys have a history together and that translates to emotional dept and substance; Something that his Pisces Moon craves.

posted November 03, 2014 03:18 AM            

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see great potential in you and we are left disappointed when you don't realize those potential in yourselves.

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^ This part sounds so much like what some of the ones I got involved with in the past said.

To me it always sounded like they thought they knew better than I about myself, what I wanted to do, who I wanted to be and why...etc... At first I appreciated the suggestions, but they didn't get that their suggestions weren't always the best and that I had the choice/reason to either take them or leave them (I have cap sun/asc, aries moon - cardinal galore). In their eyes I was probably stubborn and didn't understand their good intentions. It was as if I were in mind/behavior programming sessions. So I walked.

It's true that they were sweet about "break-ups". No nastiness at all. All of them asked if we could remain friendly. And to a certain extent, they really did care.

But yeah... The libra I'm with... We don't butt head about stuff like that. I appreciate that he quietly backs me up and lets me do what I think is best. He said once that he'd only tend the soil and water the plant, he would not try to direct where or how the plant may grow. So I flourish, expand and push my limits even more passionately, thanks to him.

posted November 05, 2014 02:54 PM            

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posted November 06, 2014 12:34 AM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
I don't know about the reply that say: Libra keep in touch with Exes, and stay friendly after break up. How about 1 night stand?

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I haven't done it so I am no expert on the matter. But the way I see it, if two consenting adults want to spend a night doing nothing but taking a long romp around in the sheets, then so be it. They want to do it, they aren't harming anyone else in the process and no one's feelings are getting hurt.

We had a huge discussion on the matter on this section of the forum:

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/001652.html

I actually encourage you to take part in some of the discussions here since it will give you a new perspective on things. Keep in mind, that the one night stand option goes both ways and is Egalitarian in nature for both sexes .

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My Libra in his college days, have quite some 1 night stand. Bringing girls back to his place to sleep..
I asked him if he keep in touch with those girls in his 1 night stand, he said No.
He said there was no emotional attatchment, it was PURELY PHYSICAL, so he didn't need to take responsibility for it. -- I was kindda offended by his answer though, kinnda cruel the way he see it like that. I feel sorry for those girls.Seriously, anyone find it offended? So he bring them home for sex, afterward it just done, simple like that. No emotional involved, was PURELY PHYSICAL for him, refused to take any responsibility.
I know 2 parties are adult and consensual, but still...
This guy don't even care to send a text saying something like 'Thank you for last night', smh

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There is not enough information to cast judgement on the guy yet. It would be cruel and irresponsible for him if:

- She didn't consented to a one night stand.

- The girl in question entered the one night stand expecting more and wasn't given a clear heads up by him as to what she was getting into.

- He didn't use protection.

- He did things to her against her will.

I understand why you find this offensive. You are a Pisces and emotions and physical pleasure need to be intertwined for you. You need something more than just a quick romp in the sheets.

However, not everyone cares about emotional connectivity. To them, good sex is just good sex.

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Any Libra men here, care to share the afterward of your 1 night stand? Do you have the "Mentality" thinking like this guy?[/B]

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I have had about... 4-5 sexual partners in my life and all of them were with women I was dating at the time (yeah I know, I am boring .) For a long time, I was what you would call a "serial monogamist" . I was in the process of finding my life partner and as such, sex was a way I could show my affection and love for the girl I was involved with at the time. So at some point in the stage of our relationship, we would have sex on a regular basis Lol!

I can't picture myself being a one-night stand kind of person because it didn't interest me and I do need some sort of emotional connectivity with the person I am with to enjoy sex with them. To put it simply, I am happy with sex if my sexual partner is happy (both emotionally and physically,) and I just can't experience that with one-night stands.