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Topic: Signs are for the weak [...] Or so I thought?
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AmelieRose81
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posted November 09, 2014 03:27 PM
  
Yeah he is awkward full stop.
Every relationship he's had is dysfunctional to some degree. Multiple breaks ups, mental health issues and drink problems, abusive partners.I dont make.myself too avaliable but I have a busy life anyway. I dont have to play....there will always be dates in a given week im.not free. ALL of my friends looked at the.messages back and forth between us and they said hen isn't interested full stop. But these texts took place during merc retro and he wasnt actually saying he didnt want to see me again. We had a lovely evening and he was cuddling me a lot. IP: Logged |
MineAgain
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posted November 09, 2014 03:37 PM
My Pisces talked about "love" and "never letting me go" on our last date. I wonder where all of these romantic declarations are now. He, too, are dysfunctional relationships. He told me most of the girl he dated he wasn't attracted to but he dated them because they were "nice". Then he dated someone who was engaged. He's clearly out of his mind. Once that one crumbled, he came back to me. I was the rebound I believe. He told me he found me very very attractive and smart. He kept complimenting me all the time and all of the sudden he was gone. Sure. To be honest, if a man is into you, he will chase you no matter what. He wouldn't want you to find someone else. IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted November 09, 2014 03:40 PM
See I dont get this guy. He was talking of future plans then he ended it.now he ia talking of my future plans again and his. I threw an ex into a conversation to see what he'd do and he scowled. Then he demanded to know I was on vacation with. Why is he bothered? IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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posted November 09, 2014 04:45 PM
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
It isnt just being a Pisces tho. Mine has a load of Aquarius placements including the moon.....distant?Also relationships should be easy not a"challenge". Why would you want someone to make it hard for you and play hard to get unless you're teenagers.
@mineagain@amelierose
Yes a relationship should be easy, but to get you to "commit" to a relationship with me shouldn't be. That's what I meant with a "challenge"
Easy come, easy go
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AmelieRose81
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posted November 09, 2014 04:50 PM
Ok well that's weird.Every single relationship advice on here and other sites I have ever read says that it shouldnt be "work" early on. How many times have I read on here it shouldnt be this hard in the beginning. ...if it is it wont work. Dating someone you are really into should be easy and come naturally. You shouldnt have to try and win someone over in the beginning as you suggest. Why do you want to have ton chase a girl who isn't that bothered about youu at the outset Easy come, it's meant to be I say. or is this the Pisces love for hardship coming out. Why would you want someone who you have to fhase and win over and convince to be in a relationship with you? IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted November 09, 2014 04:56 PM
For example, this Pisces guy who is wishy washy with me and is a challenge....should I chase saying it shouldnt be easy early on or hes not worth having?Everyone has said it shouldn't be hard and its a sign he's not interested. Why is it any different for the sexes reversed. Dont say it is, thats sexist. Why would you want to have to convince and chase someone? It's horribly frustrating and I doubt I'll bother with this charade much longer. IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted November 09, 2014 05:08 PM
And here's an interesting question.....My Pisces guy had a short relationship end in January nearly a year ago now. Buuuut he keeps making his profile pic online one of him that his ex gf took of him. Its him at her house with his pet. Is it possible his behaviour with me is because he's not over her. Do they really hang on so long to a short lived relationship? IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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posted November 09, 2014 05:12 PM
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
For example, this Pisces guy who is wishy washy with me and is a challenge....should I chase saying it shouldnt be easy early on or hes not worth having?Everyone has said it shouldn't be hard and its a sign he's not interested. Why is it any different for the sexes reversed. Dont say it is, thats sexist. Why would you want to have to convince and chase someone? It's horribly frustrating and I doubt I'll bother with this charade much longer.
First off, women should never chase men, ever! period.
Unless they did the guy wrong (cheating for me, for example) women chasing men is just against mother nature, it's like snow in august. And for me personally its a turn off. If a guy doesn't pursue you, chase you, or whatever you wanna call it, then he's definitely not interested. Pisces or not. IP: Logged |
MineAgain
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posted November 09, 2014 05:13 PM
Guys, with all due respect, I'd really appreciate it if we were to stick to the subject of the thread (signs, synchronicities, so on and so forth). I really do appreciate your input. However, this thread isn't exactly about Pisces men. Thank you very much for your understanding. IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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posted November 09, 2014 05:17 PM
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
And here's an interesting question.....My Pisces guy had a short relationship end in January nearly a year ago now. Buuuut he keeps making his profile pic online one of him that his ex gf took of him. Its him at her house with his pet. Is it possible his behaviour with me is because he's not over her. Do they really hang on so long to a short lived relationship?
Not sure on that one. As a Pisces sun myself,I have hung on short lived relationships before.
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AmelieRose81
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posted November 09, 2014 05:18 PM
The subject of the thread has been answered.
Youve had a reading from someone who told ylu not to contact.
I think you should do it. So do others. Dont rely on readings or facebook was the consensus. Unless you contact him and give us his reaction we cant really tell you if it was signs or not so we've reached an impasse here. Personally I think you have to do what I did amd contact him. either he will answer you or he wont but the what if will end. Or he will do what my Pisces does and comes on strong and goes quiet and does it again and goes quiet lol x IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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posted November 09, 2014 05:21 PM
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Guys, with all due respect, I'd really appreciate it if we were to stick to the subject of the thread (signs, synchronicities, so on and so forth). I really do appreciate your input. However, this thread isn't exactly about Pisces men. Thank you very much for your understanding.
I'm a firm believer in signs and whatnot.
I would contact him if I were you, just contact once, don't chase ! IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted November 09, 2014 05:26 PM
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
First off, women should never chase men, ever! period.Unless they did the guy wrong (cheating for me, for example) women chasing men is just against mother nature, it's like snow in august. And for me personally its a turn off. If a guy doesn't pursue you, chase you, or whatever you wanna call it, then he's definitely not interested. Pisces or not.
A couple of years ago a woman did just that with my bf. She chased him knowing he had a gf. She got him...... Also can you explain that if Pisces are chasers, why there is a disproportionate number if threads on this site all about Pisces men being passive and confusing? Particularly (as with mine and mineagains guys) they have aqua placements too. When there are threads all about Pisces men they most always have aqua placements and the stories are ALWAYS the same. Disappearing, confusing, wishy washy.... I never really see threads saying confusing taurus, Sagg, Aries, they have disappeared ot blow hot cold etc. I have rarely seen such threads about other signs but with Pisces there's one or more on every page. it does seem to be a big issue with Pisces men. IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted November 09, 2014 05:33 PM
The problem is: you decided to give up and had all these signs that made you think.If you contact him and he responds, it was a sign. If you contact and he ignores, it wasnt a sign and there's nothing in it.. Most people have told you to do it. Until we know his reaction we cant really advise on while was it synchro / a sign. Just do it. He cant get in touch with you so it has to be you x its a horrible position to be to feel you have / had a connection and not knowing if you'll ever see them again. Perhaps it will help you either way x I know you feel so scared about rejection with him as I did with mine. I still do every time I contact him. If you don't take this opportunity it may not come again x IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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posted November 10, 2014 08:08 AM
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
A couple of years ago a woman did just that with my bf. She chased him knowing he had a gf. She got him......Also can you explain that if Pisces are chasers, why there is a disproportionate number if threads on this site all about Pisces men being passive and confusing? Particularly (as with mine and mineagains guys) they have aqua placements too. When there are threads all about Pisces men they most always have aqua placements and the stories are ALWAYS the same. Disappearing, confusing, wishy washy.... I never really see threads saying confusing taurus, Sagg, Aries, they have disappeared ot blow hot cold etc. I have rarely seen such threads about other signs but with Pisces there's one or more on every page. it does seem to be a big issue with Pisces men.
i am passive and confusing as well according to many, i don't know why your guy and hers are like that, i have mercury aqua and Aries moon..i think my Aries moon makes me act spontaneously and makes me pursue the woman i love to the end of the universe and back. i also read somewhere that astrologers have the hardest time deciphering pisceans. we are the most complex. IP: Logged |
Abc333
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posted November 10, 2014 08:26 AM
This happens with my ex fiance and I all of the time. We haven't spoken in well over a year and yet he still pops up in my dreams and his name constantly pops up everywhere. The last instance was that he ran into a friend of mine a few times in less than a week at a job she's been on and off at for over a decade. During that time he ran into her I dreamt of him each time. I found out from another friend of mine that is his roommate that he stopped going there since he ran into her (the reason wasn't stated but the time frames matched perfectly). We have a telepathic connection. I won't contact him though regardless of the multitude of signs that pop up.IP: Logged |
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