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Topic: Does love really have the ability to overcome all odds?
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PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 12, 2014 07:15 PM
  
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
One of my girlfriend's told me, if a girl says she hates you, that means she loves you.
She's an idiot. Don't listen to anything she has to say. I suppose that might be true of her but if so then I feel sorry for any guy she loves (while also despising the ones who have so little respect for women that they ignore her when she tells them to leave her alone) and also wonder what she tells the guys she hates or otherwise wants to leave her alone. But I expect she's confused the fact that those we love can hurt us the most which causes anger (which might result in shouting she hates you when in fact she hates what you've done) with genuine antipathy & contempt...which goes back to her being an idiot who should not be allowed to advise any guy on the nature of women. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted November 12, 2014 08:03 PM
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
well, after a month of marrying her hubby,,she made out with me for like 12 hrs non stop ! she told me she doesnt love him
And btw, maybe your Scorpio desire would get a divorce if you did. Even if she didn't you'd probably be doing your wife a favor anyway, especially assuming she has a typical understanding of what marriage means and would, if she has any self-respect, seek a divorce from you if she knew of your infidelity. Speaking of which, make out with the Scorpio again and send pix over your phone to her hubby! He should know the truth, and it could force a divorce (and/or bodily injury on one or both of you, but all is fair in love, right?). Alternately, you should all work it out on the Jerry Springer show. IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 13, 2014 12:35 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
And btw, maybe your Scorpio desire would get a divorce if you did.Even if she didn't you'd probably be doing your wife a favor anyway, especially assuming she has a typical understanding of what marriage means and would, if she has any self-respect, seek a divorce from you if she knew of your infidelity. Speaking of which, make out with the Scorpio again and send pix over your phone to her hubby! He should know the truth, and it could force a divorce (and/or bodily injury on one or both of you, but all is fair in love, right?). Alternately, you should all work it out on the Jerry Springer show.
Why you being over dramatic,You make it sound like it's the first time you hear about infidelity in a marriage.
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fiery_fish
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 13, 2014 12:37 AM
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
You cant "make' anyone fall for you.If I say I hate a guy, I hate him. If I have feelings for him I make excuses and am too nice to them.
Yes, you can.
There's no reason to be hated by here, and when confronted she doesn't answer why IP: Logged |
GoingDutch
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Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 13, 2014 01:35 AM
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PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 6008
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 13, 2014 10:02 PM
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
Why you being over dramatic,You make it sound like it's the first time you hear about infidelity in a marriage.
Why did you marry, and why do you want to remarry, when its vows mean so little to you?  I ask in genuine curiosity. My own father refused to marry again after divorcing my mom as it was too much of a headache given the legalities involved. I wonder why you're not more like my dad given how little respect you have for it. IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 14, 2014 03:41 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Why did you marry, and why do you want to remarry, when its vows mean so little to you? I ask in genuine curiosity. My own father refused to marry again after divorcing my mom as it was too much of a headache given the legalities involved. I wonder why you're not more like my dad given how little respect you have for it.
Its complicated pixie.
My wife became asexual after our first child was born 1.5 yrs ago. She doesn't want to have sex, she doesn't enjoy it anymore she says, and I have to beg for it every f***ing time, since summer 2013. One night, while we were in Hawaii on vacation this summer, she refused to have sex,and told me to "go find a fuccck buddy but don't fall in love" I immediately went into action, dated 4 women but strangely enough I didn't sleep with any. I couldn't. I need to love before I screw, I'm not 25 anymore. I'm 33. Now I'm a single married man,not dating anyone, but my heart wants a Scorpio woman I met early 2014,and that Scorpio hates me for no reason I can think of, pushes me away, begs to be left alone..and I can't give up. My heart tells me she is the one. Maybe you're right, need to book with Jerry. IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 14, 2014 03:45 AM
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
Its complicated pixie. My wife became asexual after our first child was born 1.5 yrs ago. She doesn't want to have sex, she doesn't enjoy it anymore she says, and I have to beg for it every f***ing time, since summer 2013. One night, while we were in Hawaii on vacation this summer, she refused to have sex,and told me to "go find a fuccck buddy but don't fall in love" I immediately went into action, dated 4 women but strangely enough I didn't sleep with any. I couldn't. I need to love before I screw, I'm not 25 anymore. I'm 33. Now I'm a single married man,not dating anyone, but my heart wants a Scorpio woman I met early 2014,and that Scorpio hates me for no reason I can think of, pushes me away, begs to be left alone..and I can't give up. My heart tells me she is the one. Maybe you're right, need to book with Jerry.
God, this post is actually making my tears fall
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AmelieRose81
Knowflake Posts: 317
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 14, 2014 04:41 AM
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
Yes, you can.
There's no reason to be hated by here, and when confronted she doesn't answer why
Ok then. How do make someone fall for you? IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 14, 2014 05:19 AM
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
Ok then. How do make someone fall for you?
Persistence. IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
Knowflake Posts: 317
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 14, 2014 06:34 AM
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
Persistence.
Ok. How do I get my Pisces guy then? IP: Logged |
GoingDutch
Knowflake Posts: 372
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posted November 14, 2014 08:17 AM
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bumblebee
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posted November 14, 2014 03:45 PM
How much time do you think someone should wait? Cus I am waiting years, trying to convince myself it won't happend but feelings just don't go away...IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 14, 2014 04:33 PM
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Originally posted by bumblebee:
How much time do you think someone should wait? Cus I am waiting years, trying to convince myself it won't happend but feelings just don't go away...
Only you know the answer to that question.
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 695
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 14, 2014 08:27 PM
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Originally posted by bumblebee:
How much time do you think someone should wait? Cus I am waiting years, trying to convince myself it won't happend but feelings just don't go away...
When you gave genuinely exhausted all of your comfortable avenues. Like you may have gathered, I recently stepped away from someone who really started taking ME for granted. I still love him, but love is a two way street and I know (hand on heart) that I've done all I could. I don't feel like I've left anything unturned and he still decides to want an indefinite "break"... What else can you do? I would love to think that love does overcome all. That's why I made the thread, but I just don't know. ------------------
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Odette
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posted November 15, 2014 06:19 AM
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Does love really have the ability to overcome all odds?
Only if both people truly love each other and want to be together. I've always thought this quote was about outside problems... trials and tribulations - not about unrequited love or being rejected. One person's love can't overcome the other's -free will-. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 695
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 15, 2014 07:06 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Only if both people truly love each other and want to be together. I've always thought this quote was about outside problems... trials and tribulations - not about unrequited love or being rejected. One person's love can't overcome the other's -free will-.
You've actually put a whole new spin on this lol - That really does make sense! ------------------
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