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ikja
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posted November 09, 2014 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So, I'm feeling rather pensive at the moment and I'm missing a particular someone. However, due to mistakes (that we both made) things are abit rubbish. Anyway...

Tell me some love stories?

Did you and your significant other overcome difficult synastry/composite aspects?

Did you and your significant other overcome some difficult external circumstances?

Do you think any aspects of your synastry, composite or Davison chart helped you both to overcome the issues you had?

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posted November 10, 2014 08:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
your an aries moon ?

i'm an aries moon, pisces sun..my moon puts me in many awkward situations..childish moon to say the least..i dont know when to quit !

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posted November 10, 2014 08:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
your an aries moon ?

i'm an aries moon, pisces sun..my moon puts me in many awkward situations..childish moon to say the least..i dont know when to quit !


It definitely has its drawbacks. I don't know when to stop until a situation BLOWS up in my face!

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posted November 11, 2014 05:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and your x was a leo moon ?

how did that work, (well obviously he's your x, so no longevity)

but i am in love with a leo moon woman,,,and she says she hates me..but i don't believe her, 8 out of 10 times she replies to my texts and phone calls..its complicated since were both married

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posted November 11, 2014 05:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
married to different people i meant

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posted November 11, 2014 06:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Swift Freeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No. I don't feel so.

Love is a powerful motivation, but ultimately it takes hard work and dedication to overcome all odds.

You can have two people madly in love, but they need to have the desire to work through problems. It cannot be just one person either, it takes two to make a thing go right.

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posted November 11, 2014 06:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Our egos have been a very big problem for our relationship. The love is there, it's just very tiring. He said he needed a break from "us" and I couldn't agree more at this stage lol. We will always have love for eachother, but I think we are nursing our wounds after quite a difficult/passionate retrograde period.

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posted November 11, 2014 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
No. I don't feel so.

Love is a powerful motivation, but ultimately it takes hard work and dedication to overcome all odds.

You can have two people madly in love, but they need to have the desire to work through problems. It cannot be just one person either, it takes two to make a thing go right.


100% *sigh*

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posted November 11, 2014 06:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by fiery_fish:
and your x was a leo moon ?

how did that work, (well obviously he's your x, so no longevity)

but i am in love with a leo moon woman,,,and she says she hates me..but i don't believe her, 8 out of 10 times she replies to my texts and phone calls..its complicated since were both married


We are not talking really (at the moment), but no one has the balls to do a Facebook delete or LinkedIn delete lol. If I text him, he would probably text back and vice versa. So it makes sense lol

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posted November 11, 2014 06:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what advise can you give me to deal with a leo moon woman who acts like she wants me out of her life ?

she's a scorpio sun btw

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posted November 11, 2014 07:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by fiery_fish:
what advise can you give me to deal with a leo moon woman who acts like she wants me out of her life ?

she's a scorpio sun btw


Advice... Hmmm.
I feel like my advice is always a little biased, but I will try. From what you've said, she's with someone else and that to me is a big red flag. Unless they seperate or she makes it clear that she no longer has loyalty to that person. It doesn't sound like a positive situation. It does sounds abit messy. However, me being me, I would need to know what the deal between her and the other person so that I could figure out my next step.

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posted November 11, 2014 07:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ikja:
Advice... Hmmm.
I feel like my advice is always a little biased, but I will try. From what you've said, she's with someone else and that to me is a big red flag. Unless they seperate or she makes it clear that she no longer has loyalty to that person. It doesn't sound like a positive situation. It does sounds abit messy. However, me being me, I would need to know what the deal between her and the other person so that I could figure out my next step.



well, after a month of marrying her hubby,,she made out with me for like 12 hrs non stop ! she told me she doesnt love him

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posted November 11, 2014 07:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
but also said she doesn't love me either..but also said i wish i married you

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posted November 11, 2014 07:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by fiery_fish:
well, after a month of marrying her hubby,,she made out with me for like 12 hrs non stop ! she told me she doesnt love him

Let me share with you my lesson of 2014... Actions and words should coincide. If they don't match each other, 9/10 the person is lying or unsure of what they feel.

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posted November 11, 2014 07:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
but also said she doesn't love me either..but also said i wish i married you

She's confused. Put some space between you. Give yourself time to think and give her time to think.
From what you're saying, she's not consistent and you seem to be more invested in your relationship than she is. That's not a great foundation for any relationship and I say that from a loving and understanding place. I get it. You want to win, but you need to think about the circumstances that your win might be in... Would a 'win' feel good in these circumstances?

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posted November 11, 2014 07:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ikja:
Let me share with you my lesson of 2014... Actions and words should coincide. If they don't match each other, 9/10 the person is lying or unsure of what they feel.


what do you mean ?

her actions match her words..she doesnt love him = makes out with me

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posted November 11, 2014 07:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ikja:
She's confused. Put some space between you. Give yourself time to think and give her time to think.
From what you're saying, she's not consistent and you seem to be more invested in your relationship than she is. That's not a great foundation for any relationship and I say that from a loving and understanding place. I get it. You want to win, but you need to think about the circumstances that your win might be in... Would a 'win' feel good in these circumstances?


she isn't consistent, and yes iam more invested.. i gave her 3 months space and she didn't bother to text or call..then i re emerged and she's not like too excited but excited a little.
yes a win is a win..and i'll do anything to win her heart.. i tried being there all the time and it didn't work much, i tried distance and it didn't work since she didn't care..and i usually get any woman i want !

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posted November 11, 2014 09:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
what do you mean ?

her actions match her words..she doesnt love him = makes out with me


But then she goes back to him and leaves you alone? Alternatively, she says stuff to you and then doesn't follow up on it?

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posted November 11, 2014 09:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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she isn't consistent, and yes iam more invested.. i gave her 3 months space and she didn't bother to text or call..then i re emerged and she's not like too excited but excited a little.
yes a win is a win..and i'll do anything to win her heart.. i tried being there all the time and it didn't work much, i tried distance and it didn't work since she didn't care..and i usually get any woman i want !

I don't usually get what I want lol but I think that's a Mars/neptune thing in my natal lol. What about your marriage? If you feel this strongly maybe you should just tell her straight and be prepared for whatever answer you get?

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posted November 11, 2014 09:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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But then she goes back to him and leaves you alone? Alternatively, she says stuff to you and then doesn't follow up on it?


well im married and so is she..we both need to get divorced,,but its early for that

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posted November 11, 2014 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think that you need to decide what you want to do with your marriage. If you're not happy in it, you need to think about it. If you want to leave your marriage for this woman, you need to think about it. Better still... Forget tthis woman for a minute, you need to decide what YOU want.

Let me not overlook the Aries moon thing. This isn't about winning because you're used to it (or we are used to it) it's about trying to win after thinking things through. Impulsive behaviour is my biggest issue and it could possibly be yours here - take time to think.

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posted November 12, 2014 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ikja:
I think that you need to decide what you want to do with your marriage. If you're not happy in it, you need to think about it. If you want to leave your marriage for this woman, you need to think about it. Better still... Forget tthis woman for a minute, you need to decide what YOU want.

Let me not overlook the Aries moon thing. This isn't about winning because you're used to it (or we are used to it) it's about trying to win after thinking things through. Impulsive behaviour is my biggest issue and it could possibly be yours here - take time to think.


It is impulsive behavior, its terrible. Not sure I'll ever get over my impulsiveness. Damn you Aries moon!

But I really love her.

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posted November 12, 2014 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
It is impulsive behavior, its terrible. Not sure I'll ever get over my impulsiveness. Damn you Aries moon!

But I really love her.


You deserve her to REALLY love you too though - remember that!

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posted November 12, 2014 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You deserve her to REALLY love you too though - remember that!


I know that's the challenge, to make her fall for me. This could take years maybe decades, she lives in a different country...

One of my girlfriend's told me, if a girl says she hates you, that means she loves you.

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posted November 12, 2014 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
I know that's the challenge, to make her fall for me. This could take years maybe decades, she lives in a different country...

One of my girlfriend's told me, if a girl says she hates you, that means she loves you.


You cant "make' anyone fall for you.

If I say I hate a guy, I hate him.

If I have feelings for him I make excuses and am too nice to them.

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