posted November 22, 2014 06:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
No I'm not drunk, are you? Don't you have any interest in reuniting with your identical twin? He's an international male model, so maybe you could do a Doublemint commercial or something. You can also compare notes about your Scorpio women.

You said you're a Taurus ASC, but that says you're a Cancer ASC. Is your birthtime noon? You have a T-square with Moon opposite Pluto, both squaring Venus. You also have a wide 5th house taking up most of Libra and Scorpio. This explains why you were so instantly drawn to this Scorpio, and why you're being obsessive. Venus is in the 8th house, and Pluto is in hard aspect to both of your planets that influence how you relate to women. You might be prone to stalking too. You probably had an overbearing or controlling mother with that Moon/Pluto opposition. If the birthtime is off then ignore the house placements.

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posted November 22, 2014 06:54 AM            

Let's keep to the topic, and respect people's sensitivities including a need for anonymity especially when it comes to emotional problems, and let's not make them feel unwelcome or judged based on a hunch which may or may not be correct. In the end, RL identity and posting history don't really matter as long as everybody adheres to the rules, contributes useful content rather than trolling the board, and behaves politely towards others.

posted November 22, 2014 09:11 AM            

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He's an international male model

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Wait, USC777 told you he was an international male model? How odd. I added him on FB a couple months back and he told me he was a bodyguard in Jordan (or somewhere in the Middle-East). I'm pretty sure of this.

posted November 22, 2014 01:49 PM            

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Originally posted by fiery_fish:

I was born 12:28 in Olympia WA, Mom died when I was 5 from breast cancer, never stalked a woman, nor would I, I'm not obsessing, I just love her. And I assure you, your wrong.

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I'm sorry about the loss of your mom at such a young age. Loss of the mother is an alternative interpretation of a hard Moon/Pluto aspect because Pluto can also represent death, and the Moon represents the mother. I almost wrote that too, but my post was intended to be in good humor, so I decided not to. The stalker bit was not meant to be taken too seriously, I have Moon conjunct Pluto in the 8th, Venus is there too, along with Saturn and Jupiter. That T-square is very powerful, and it means when you set your sights on someone, that is the only person you want, and you'd probably take a vow of celibacy before settling for someone else. It's obsessive either way you look at it, although it doesn't necessarily mean you'd resort to stalking.

posted November 22, 2014 02:03 PM            

The only thing that I said that was rude was that usc "made my skin crawl" and that was based on things he's said in the past, and how I've seen him act towards women on here. The rest of what I said was in good humor, that's why I used smilies.

posted November 22, 2014 02:39 PM            

That said, I don't understand the point of creating two accounts if it's actually him. The simple solution to this would be to check these users' IPs although I suspect they're the same person. Before I even read your post regarding this, I had figured they might be the same person due to the nature of their posts.

posted November 22, 2014 02:53 PM            

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Originally posted by ricanbeauty25:
Hey bluejay! Thanks for the input. I'm surrounded by Scorpios, like you by Pisces... My mom, sister, 2 close friends, and now my boyfriend. And what's funny is they all have acted the way you state your Pisces act! I do understand what you mean about Pisces, I believe many stick to those traits you have mentioned. I value honesty and cannot stand being lied to so I give what I expect in return. I have not lied to him.

When we first met I observed, just like I do in any new situation in dating, friendships, or work. I watch to see if I can trust. He did the same. It was almost a mirror effect with us, and when I realized that was happening, I knew one of us had to break that cycle. And so I took the first steps. But lying, no way... That's disrespectful and I truly care for him too much.

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Sorry to derail your thread.

That's good that you don't lie. As I said, the Pisces I've been close to lie a lot, and it's usually about trivial things. That makes me constantly suspicious of everything they tell me. I no longer have a relationship with my father or childhood friend because they both lied about very serious things, and even when confronted with the truth, they continued to lie. It's just too phony for me to deal with. My sister and I barely speak at the moment, even though we used to be very close. She only calls me to vent about other family members, or if she needs something. She didn't even call me on my birthday a few weeks ago.

It sounds like your relationship is on the right track. I'm sure the fact that he's been burned by women in the past makes him extremely guarded, and very careful about who he gets close to. If he's wanting reassurance from you, I'm sure his feelings for you are very deep. Caring deeply for a person makes Scorpios very vulnerable, and gives the other person the power to rip their heart out if things go wrong. Scorpios have a reputation for being cold, but that is far from the truth. They are just very guarded because they understand human nature, and that sometimes people hurt the ones they love. Once you prove that you can be trusted, the walls will come down.

posted November 22, 2014 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:

I'm not "trolling the board" and I really don't appreciate you accusing me of such behavior.

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Bluejay,

posted November 22, 2014 05:20 PM            

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Originally posted by ricanbeauty25:
Vajra, if its easier, please delete this thread so it doesn't bother anyone.

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posted November 22, 2014 11:58 PM            

Hope you're feeling better.

posted November 29, 2014 11:02 AM            

But, I can relate to your scenario. I had to learn to be more open with myself years ago. For some reason men didn't trust me, and I was not cheating or doing anything in that nature. I really believe in dedicating and nurturing the relationship I am in. I have also learned to be strong enough to let go when it no longer works. But ending it first before moving to something else. But I did notice I wasn't trusted and so I did some soul searching and saw how my patterns could make someone feel like I was not actually interested or like I was hiding something. I'm usually the open book - if you ask. And that is the key, you have to ask. I don't volunteer information. I have always used it to gauge interest, if they care to get to know me they will ask.