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Topic: PISCES WOMAN AND SCORPIO MAN
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ricanbeauty25
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From: miami, fl
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posted November 20, 2014 11:47 AM
  
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fiery_fish
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posted November 20, 2014 12:47 PM
2nd Best combo ever, 1st is a Pisces man, scorpio womanIP: Logged |
bumblebee
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posted November 20, 2014 03:10 PM
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2nd Best combo ever, 1st is a Pisces man, scorpio woman
Actually it's the way around. Even Linda says it in her Love signs. IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 21, 2014 02:39 AM
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Originally posted by bumblebee:
Actually it's the way around. Even Linda says it in her Love signs.
Maybe, but its true,1st or 2nd..its still ranked the highest, a scorp/Pisces is just unf**ing believable.
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ricanbeauty25
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posted November 21, 2014 09:43 AM
I messed up when submitting the post...  I've been dating a Scorpio man for almost 2 years now. And it wasn't until about 4 or 5 months ago that I felt a shift in treatment and in him. I've read that Scorpio will not trust easily, and I always felt that vibe from him - that he was watching me, not trusting me at all. So, I held steady and was consistent. I figured it would eventually pay off with us. And thank goodness it did, as a typical Pisces, I am very easy going and most take me for a doormat. One thing he did triggered me and I immediately held my ground, without fighting or fussing. I also opened up a bit more and since then I felt him change toward me. The way he treats me now makes me feel like i'm in the clouds at all times, he is very caring and protective. He shows it now, alot.But I've noticed as well that he seems to need more reassurance. Is that normal with Scorpio man that is opening up? I mean, I feel he trusts me now and I was real excited when I felt the changes, but here and there he will ask certain things that he would have never asked before... Things like "are you going to miss me while I'm out of town?" He asked that twice in one night. He travels for work at times and he has NEVER asked that. And one day he didn't hear from me at all -I was super busy at work... he texted me "why aren't you thinking of me!"
The first year was real tough with us - he kept me at a distance. And whenever we made any progress and he noticed - he'd shut down again.
Just curious I guess, this is the first Scorpio man I've dated (and hopefully the only ;-) LOL) I am just not familiar with what happens when they start opening up...
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Koniucha
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posted November 21, 2014 10:01 AM
I actually recently met a Pisces man with moon in Scorpio. I am Scorpio with moon in Cancer.There was definitely an instant attraction. He told me that he found it hard to leave me alone. He did not say much to me, but was always near me. Unfortunately he lives in a different state and is having some personal issues. I really hope that we can get to know each other more. IP: Logged |
Vajra
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From: Europe
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posted November 21, 2014 10:27 AM
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fiery_fish
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From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 21, 2014 10:32 AM
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Originally posted by ricanbeauty25:
The first year was real tough with us - he kept me at a distance. And whenever we made any progress and he noticed - he'd shut down again.
How did you work around the shut down ?
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ricanbeauty25
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From: miami, fl
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posted November 21, 2014 10:33 AM
Thank you Vajra!I guess I do underestimate him, since when we met and the whole first year he has been the strong and silent type. I will definitely show I miss him so he doesn't have to question as much IP: Logged |
ricanbeauty25
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posted November 21, 2014 10:40 AM
fiery_fish ... The shutdown - well at first I would fight it. And when I saw it made him clam up more, I relaxed. I just told myself -- he isn't clamming up for anything i did wrong - this is something he has to work out on his own and me pressuring will not help. So when another shut down came around I'd keep calm, keep busy with my daily routines and just check in. When I'd check in though, It wasn't pointing fingers or trying to get my way... I let go of trying to get my way. The recent shutdown right before his shift in treatment towards me - I felt he was shutting down because he thought I was trying to control him. And that's when I opened up, I let him know I wasn't wanting to control or change him - that I love him just as he is. And I pointed out some things he thought were flaws of his and told him why I liked it so much. He stared at me like he was trying to see if I was lying or not. And when that night was coming to a close, he told me "You are a good woman - and I really appreciate you." After that, he has been opening up little by little. He doesn't shut down when issues arise - he just addresses it, we talk and we move forward. Before, I felt he would get nervous when he had something serious to tell me - almost like he was preparing for me to fight intensely or to leave his side. And when he saw it wasn't the case - he was almost surprised. He hasn't told me much of his past relationships but the bits and pieces he has given me, I can see he was fiercely judging me on what other women have done. And I decided instead of telling him I'm not them - I'd just show him. And I guess its finally working. IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 21, 2014 11:00 AM
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Originally posted by ricanbeauty25:
fiery_fish ... The shutdown - well at first I would fight it. And when I saw it made him clam up more, I relaxed. I just told myself -- he isn't clamming up for anything i did wrong - this is something he has to work out on his own and me pressuring will not help. So when another shut down came around I'd keep calm, keep busy with my daily routines and just check in. When I'd check in though, It wasn't pointing fingers or trying to get my way... I let go of trying to get my way. The recent shutdown right before his shift in treatment towards me - I felt he was shutting down because he thought I was trying to control him. And that's when I opened up, I let him know I wasn't wanting to control or change him - that I love him just as he is. And I pointed out some things he thought were flaws of his and told him why I liked it so much. He stared at me like he was trying to see if I was lying or not. And when that night was coming to a close, he told me "You are a good woman - and I really appreciate you." After that, he has been opening up little by little. He doesn't shut down when issues arise - he just addresses it, we talk and we move forward. Before, I felt he would get nervous when he had something serious to tell me - almost like he was preparing for me to fight intensely or to leave his side. And when he saw it wasn't the case - he was almost surprised. He hasn't told me much of his past relationships but the bits and pieces he has given me, I can see he was fiercely judging me on what other women have done. And I decided instead of telling him I'm not them - I'd just show him. And I guess its finally working.
I had a huge struggle with a scorp woman. I would ask her what high school you went to and she would answer "are you crazy" with exclamations marks, as if I am up to no good. When all I was trying to do is to get to know her.. She has since withdrawn from everything related to me, tells me she hates me, had yada yada,,now communication is zero, especially when I told her that I love her I'm heart broken. Its complicated since were both married to differet people and she told me she doesn't love her hubby. I need to give up my mind says, but heart says keep trying. Life is cruel IP: Logged |
ricanbeauty25
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From: miami, fl
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 21, 2014 11:12 AM
fiery_fish ... I'm so sorry...That is really difficult. I have an Aries ex... we dated in college that tried to take it more serious with me - I wasn't ready and swam for safety. 9 years later.... Him married and me divorced, he saw me again and told me he hasn't stopped loving me. My heart hurt so much. To see him unhappy and then to say that so many years later.I can understand... Scorpio is very difficult though - he and I have had plenty of run ins... him to keep control and me not to be controlled, but the more the trust grows - the more we mend greatly. I can honestly say, the day I met him - I knew he was different - and fireworks went off with us. IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 21, 2014 11:31 AM
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Originally posted by ricanbeauty25:
fiery_fish ... I'm so sorry...That is really difficult. I have an Aries ex... we dated in college that tried to take it more serious with me - I wasn't ready and swam for safety. 9 years later.... Him married and me divorced, he saw me again and told me he hasn't stopped loving me. My heart hurt so much. To see him unhappy and then to say that so many years later.I can understand... Scorpio is very difficult though - he and I have had plenty of run ins... him to keep control and me not to be controlled, but the more the trust grows - the more we mend greatly. I can honestly say, the day I met him - I knew he was different - and fireworks went off with us.
She did tell me once that she wishes she was married to me.
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ricanbeauty25
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From: miami, fl
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posted November 21, 2014 11:46 AM
fiery_fish -- I would believe her. I've learned with Scorpio man, he is a man of few words but when he speaks - he means it.IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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From: Seattle
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 21, 2014 11:48 AM
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Originally posted by ricanbeauty25:
fiery_fish -- I would believe her. I've learned with Scorpio man, he is a man of few words but when he speaks - he means it.
So what to do now, she doesn't reply to any text, message, phone call..just anything. I'm a Pisces like yourself. IP: Logged |
ricanbeauty25
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From: miami, fl
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 21, 2014 12:06 PM
I had a time with Scorpio man that he completely ignored me. I had apparently upset him with a sarcastic remark I made. Anyway, I texted, called and texted and called for about 5 or 6 days with nothing from him. Day 6 my upset feelings had gone away and I was more clear or being able to express what I really felt. So I texted him what I was feeling, but I made sure to tell him in the text --- I don't expect a response nor do I want one. I just want you to know...And from there I let everything out and then I let go of expecting a response. A day later he called and acted like nothing happened. I don't know, in your situation if this would help. But I believe the only reason it actually worked for me was because I was actually ready to let go. They say Pisces are intuitive, Scorpios are as well. They can sense if you are playing or when you are dead serious and walking away. I know you don't want to... IP: Logged |
Bluejay
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posted November 21, 2014 04:51 PM
Fiery_fish, you sound an awful lot like usc277. I got that vibe as soon as I read a comment from you. If it is, I can't believe you're still after this Scorpio.IP: Logged |
Bluejay
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posted November 21, 2014 06:01 PM
Ricanbeauty25, I'm a Scorpio Sun woman. I've never been romantically involved with a Pisces Sun, but my sister is one and I grew up with a Pisces Sun friend since the age of 5. My dad also has several planets in Pisces. I have trouble trusting all of them. Pisces often withholds information because they want to "protect" people from the ugly truth. I absolutely hate that mindset, and anything short of full transparency with someone I'm close to is unacceptable to me. It makes me feel like they are hiding something, and only revealing what they want me to see. I can see through them, and at different times I have confronted all three of them to tell me the truth. They lied straight to my face, so my trust is gone. That simple. My trust is very hard to earn, but easy to lose. My sister is the worst, her lies and coverups are so much worse than the truth. She also has a 12th house Moon, so she's full of secrets. When I meet a Pisces Sun, I just assume I'm meeting one of their many different personalities that they have shape shifted into, so I'll like them. I'm not saying this to be rude, it's just my experience with Pisces as a Scorpio. I think your Scorpio guy is needing reassurance from you because he is either feeling suspicious of you, or he is fearing his powerful feelings he has for you. It could be a combination of both. If you really care about him, be willing to open up to him, and make sure your actions match what you're telling him. Scorpios will test you to see if you're trustworthy. One thing I find a bit strange though, is that in two years he hasn't opened up to you much. Scorpios are secretive, but usually once you get past that wall, nothing is off limits. That's how I am anyway. Something about that part sounds weird to me. Were you being really secretive or elusive towards him before? Maybe that would cause him to be very guarded towards you. IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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From: Seattle
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posted November 22, 2014 02:52 AM
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Originally posted by Bluejay:
Fiery_fish, you sound an awful lot like usc277. I got that vibe as soon as I read a comment from you. If it is, I can't believe you're still after this Scorpio.
I am not the person you refer to, but I researched for her/him and read a story which as you said sounds awfully similar. What advice would you give me ? IP: Logged |
Bluejay
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posted November 22, 2014 03:47 AM
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
I am not the person you refer to, but I researched for her/him and read a story which as you said sounds awfully similar.What advice would you give me ?
Read what I wrote above about Pisces and lying.  I assure you that will not sit well with any Scorpio Sun. I'm an empath, you're the 3rd person to change user names, where I sensed it immediately. No offense, but your energy makes my skin crawl. That's how I knew it was you. There was another girl here and we have conjunct Scorpio Sun and Mercury, and she seemed to have an equally visceral reaction to you. I guess you had to reincarnate after posting fake pictures of yourself. IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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posted November 22, 2014 03:52 AM
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Originally posted by Bluejay:
Read what I wrote above about Pisces and lying. I assure you that will not sit well with any Scorpio Sun. I'm an empath, you're the 3rd person to change user names, where I sensed it immediately. No offense, but your energy makes my skin crawl. That's how I knew it was you. There was another girl here and we have conjunct Scorpio Sun and Mercury, and she seemed to have an equally visceral reaction to you. I guess you had to reincarnate after posting fake pictures of yourself.
Blue, you seem so sure about yourself. I think you need to reevaluate. I'm not who you are referring to.
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Bluejay
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posted November 22, 2014 04:06 AM
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
Blue, you seem so sure about yourself. I think you need to reevaluate. I'm not who you are referring to.
I bumped threads where you posted your planetary placements. Either that or you must've been separated at birth, and your identical twin is experiencing the exact same scenario with a Scorpio woman. Given my experience with Pisces, that will probably be your story, so you'll stick to it. IP: Logged |
fiery_fish
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posted November 22, 2014 04:31 AM
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Originally posted by Bluejay:
I bumped threads where you posted your planetary placements. Either that or you must've been separated at birth, and your identical twin is experiencing the exact same scenario with a Scorpio woman. Given my experience with Pisces, that will probably be your story, so you'll stick to it.
Omg, are you drunk ?
Here is my chart
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=&sex=t&d1day=27&d1month=2&d1year=1982&d1hour=12&d1min=0&citylist=Seattle%2C+WA+%2853%29%2C+United+States&lan g=en
You can think of me as you wish, whatever makes you happy. But can you say something productive ?
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Bluejay
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posted November 22, 2014 05:25 AM
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
Omg, are you drunk ?Here is my chart
[URL=http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=&sex=t&d1day=27&d1month=2&d1year=1982&d1hour=12&d1min=0&citylist=Seattle%2C+WA+%2853%29%2C+United+State s&lan]http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=&sex=t&d1day=27&d1month=2&d1year=1982&d1hour=12&d1min=0&citylist=Seattle%2C+WA+%2853%29%2C+United+Stat es&lan[/URL] g=en
You can think of me as you wish, whatever makes you happy. But can you say something productive ?
No I'm not drunk, are you? Don't you have any interest in reuniting with your identical twin? He's an international male model, so maybe you could do a Doublemint commercial or something. You can also compare notes about your Scorpio women.  You said you're a Taurus ASC, but that says you're a Cancer ASC. Is your birthtime noon? You have a T-square with Moon opposite Pluto, both squaring Venus. You also have a wide 5th house taking up most of Libra and Scorpio. This explains why you were so instantly drawn to this Scorpio, and why you're being obsessive. Venus is in the 8th house, and Pluto is in hard aspect to both of your planets that influence how you relate to women. You might be prone to stalking too. You probably had an overbearing or controlling mother with that Moon/Pluto opposition. If the birthtime is off then ignore the house placements.
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ricanbeauty25
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posted November 22, 2014 06:27 AM
Hey bluejay! Thanks for the input. I'm surrounded by Scorpios, like you by Pisces... My mom, sister, 2 close friends, and now my boyfriend. And what's funny is they all have acted the way you state your Pisces act! I do understand what you mean about Pisces, I believe many stick to those traits you have mentioned. I value honesty and cannot stand being lied to so I give what I expect in return. I have not lied to him. When we first met I observed, just like I do in any new situation in dating, friendships, or work. I watch to see if I can trust. He did the same. It was almost a mirror effect with us, and when I realized that was happening, I knew one of us had to break that cycle. And so I took the first steps. But lying, no way... That's disrespectful and I truly care for him too much.
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