posted May 22, 2015 12:00 AM            

With your Chiron in the 5th relationship disappointments are difficult to handle but try not to make it more a sore spot than it needs to be

You're a youngman with all your life ahead you'll overcome

Remember Chiron is also the Healer, so your suffering will one day become your strength and you'll be that kind of dedicated man who knows how hard it is to build a relationship but still, is willing to do the job

In the late 20’s and after 30's and beyond this is what girls want ;-) even if by now they don't seem to see you for who you are
Do yourself a favor and don't let others opinion, even friend’s or family’s put you down – be responsible of your own feelings and respect them for they’re telling you where you stand now.
Listen to them, allow them to flow, live them but don’t compare yourself to others for your are unique, no one but you can validate how right or wrong your doings are. If you let yourself do so, you’ll stand still, unshakable and those girls will feel that confidence.
You know it’s kind of old-fashionned but girls need to feel secured by their man.
Live, play,learn, let go of the pain, and one day THAT relationship will come to you.

See, my relationships are also a creepy mess lol, afterwards I always say to myself I'd better never had started them. They end up nearly in violence although I am a quiet woman - but .... I've got Venus and Mars in Libra 8TH House - a Scorpio Sun/Pluto/South Node conjunction and opposed Moon and Lilith - so the "masculine principle" often manifests in creepy way for me... from my father to all "my men" :-)
I got used to it and now I head on in life knowing that one day, when all that unconscious stuff will have been lived, experienced and drained, I'll come across with a kindred mind. In one year or in ten ... who cares ????

Take care ;-)

Greetings from Paris ! ( you’ll excuse my poor english I am a French girl ;-))

posted May 22, 2015 12:41 AM            

Her and that guy looked to be very much in love and it just served as a reminder of how much of a joke my life is."

But you still didn't miss HER.

I agree with Odette.

And unless you're always getting into "misunderstandings"

early on that don't get resolved (hmmm), then

you aren't exempt.

You aren't going to run through life, alone

and unscathed, by the trauma (and the joy) that

necessarily comes with Relationships.

It just doesn't work that way.

Enjoy your independence while you can, because

it's only a matter of time.

~

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Nothing is permanent in this wicked world; not even our troubles.

posted May 24, 2015 08:09 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Eirlys,
This misunderstanding was my sh*t luck plain and simple. You see she is a good girl from a very traditional family. Her family asked around about me and someone told them I'm a deadbeat dad and have a kid that I abandoned. This is obviously crazy because "I DO NOT" have a kid. Obviously whoever her parents talked to had me confused with someone else but her parents believed it and turned their daughter against me. Is that sh*t luck or what? Is there any other way to describe it other than sh*t luck? This girl was everything I would ever want in a prospective partner and she was into me but it was all ripped away by sh*t luck. I think this experience pretty much killed me emotionally because I have gone numb.

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Aquaguy,

I am sorry this happened.

Just as unfortunate as the parents' influence is that fact that the girl did not follow her heart.

That is a hard thing to do when you have a good relationship with your parents, and you trust them, and surely often they have guided you well.

I hope that the truth is revealed, and that she looks into her heart.

posted May 29, 2015 11:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Enjoy your stay, Lily.

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Thanks Randall ;-)