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Topic: Reading for my Sick mom ... Any Type
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venusdeindia Knowflake Posts: 1614 From: mumbai,india Registered: Nov 2006
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posted May 29, 2008 04:56 AM
My mom was diagnosed with Crohns in last september.since then we have consulted 3 others to confirm .but so far all have concurred. thing is no one her family has it, heck our genetics itself are alien to Crohns. we have ulcerative colitis instead. this has led some other doctors who are acquaintances to raise doubts. on the other hand her condition is worsening. the doctor recently recommended surgery for fissure in her anus. she complains of unbearable pain all the time. this is tearing our family apart i would appreciate any type of reading that can help us. Psychic, Tarot, any cards...astrology whatever. our indian astrologers had told her last year she would undergo some surgery this year. so far.. he is spot on any help is appreciated. blessings and prayers are muchh appreciated. thanx IP: Logged |
Diandra23 Knowflake Posts: 2144 From: portugal Registered: Mar 2007
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posted May 29, 2008 08:05 AM
Hi Venusi just want to say that everything will be allright - she must have as many support has she can get from all of you - and she will get out of that.
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nattie33 Knowflake Posts: 704 From: USA Registered: Aug 2005
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posted May 29, 2008 12:25 PM
Im praying for you and your family Venus.IP: Logged |
sameesadiq Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Rawalpindi, Pakistan Registered: Jul 2006
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posted May 29, 2008 05:53 PM
I am praying for your mother's health Venus.IP: Logged |
sameesadiq Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Rawalpindi, Pakistan Registered: Jul 2006
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posted May 29, 2008 05:53 PM
I am praying for your mother's health Venus. Oops. Double post but it is worth here. Double post, more prayers.IP: Logged |
plutoprincess Knowflake Posts: 226 From: Registered: Mar 2008
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posted May 30, 2008 03:19 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that Venus. I hope everything turns out well. I'm praying for the best outcome. May God be with you IP: Logged |
Charlotte Knowflake Posts: 1764 From: USA Registered: Apr 2004
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posted May 30, 2008 11:20 AM
Venus, My thoughts and prayers are with her and your family. IP: Logged |
sunshine9 Knowflake Posts: 1086 From: Chapel Hill, NC, USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted June 01, 2008 04:41 PM
Your mother is my thoughts and prayers as well, venus. Sunshine IP: Logged |
bombshell Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Registered: Apr 2007
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posted June 01, 2008 08:20 PM
I'm praying for you, your mum and your family. Hang in there!Big Hug, bombshell IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 991 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted June 07, 2008 11:25 PM
Hi Venusdeindia,What is your mother's birth data. I would like to look at her chart and see if I can be of any help. Geocosmic Valentine IP: Logged |
venusdeindia Knowflake Posts: 1614 From: mumbai,india Registered: Nov 2006
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posted June 08, 2008 02:19 AM
thanx Geo her data is 27/3/1960 Jodhpur ( name of the city ), India time : 11 :58 A.M. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 4045 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted June 08, 2008 02:27 AM
hi vdisee how this fits with you. i feel that your mum holds on to things - tightly inside her self - in her stomach - there is this perpetual knot that she feels keeps things together - in that area in her body she is always wound up - tight and this is how it has manifested itself for her attention. she will require the surgery, but i don't feel that it will be the solution or the only one. she has tremendous pride and appearances are important to her - and she needs to let some of this go - it is all these beliefs that she is holding on to. you may not like some of this because i feel that you highly idealise your mum and like us all she is human being as much as an evolving soul. i do feel that she will get better but the process will age her physically and it will be a part of her lessons - constantly reassure her that she is beautiful - you are the perfect person for this because this is the only way you are capable of seeing her. your support for her right now would be invaluable. she is afraid to seem weak but any any appearances of false strength will make her sicker. i hope this makes sense to you and i'm sending you enormous amounts of love and healing. angels by your sides. IP: Logged |
venusdeindia Knowflake Posts: 1614 From: mumbai,india Registered: Nov 2006
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posted June 08, 2008 10:34 AM
thanx PA, u are right about the reasons IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 991 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted June 08, 2008 05:26 PM
Venus de India’s Mother’s ProfileHi VenusdeIndia, I want to emphasize that I’m not a medical practitioner and I am only average at medical astrology, but I know enough to see the suggestions of health warnings in the chart. With that being said, I think PeaceAngel’s suggestions fit here perfectly as well. Here’s what I’ve got for you and I hope it can be helpful: The 12th House and the 1st House are the Health Centers of the chart. I interpret as if the 6th house is a mild echo of the 12th house so I don’t really include it with medical interpretations. Pluto rules your mother’s 12th house health center. Jupiter rules her 1st house health center. Pluto (and Scorpio) rules the lower regions of our bodies, the colon, rectum, anus, genitals; our personal underworld. Saturn rules the skin, bones, teeth, things being “hardened” “stones”, drying things, freezing things, tremendous control. Transiting Saturn is currently in Virgo about to conjunct her natal Pluto for the 3rd and final time. First hit: October 7, 2007 2nd Hit (Saturn RX): March 8, 2008 3rd Hit: June 26, 2008 But I’m sure she’s feeling it now. When Saturn relates to Pluto by hard aspect (conjunction is a hard aspect) or the other way around, Pluto aspecting Saturn by hard transit, these are the most difficult time periods of our lives, but the soul development is tremendous. We are doing a lot of hard, hard, hard work and there will be much accomplishment, but there is also loss that can occur in any area of life. It’s just as PeaceAngel described it, sacrificing beauty/glamour for health. If there are other areas of her life that requires hard work or is a demanding situation, it simply must be addressed. There’s no avoiding or resisting these energies. How ever, some of the most powerful resources are available to her at this time. She can do very, very much! Saturn and Pluto together is PURE POWER with no sugar coating. I want to say that Pluto is not always bad news, or the bad guy. Pluto breaks things down for rebuilding, this must be kept in mind at all times. Your mother is only 48 years old, that’s young and gives her a chance at fighting whatever is going on here. If she was 78, it would be a different story, but a lot of this has to do with radically changing the way she does things in life and the way she thinks about things. Issues of faith are also brought to the surface with Pluto and Saturn together. People either have the ultimate faith in a higher power or they completely throw it away at this time. It doesn’t mean that they don’t pick it up again, it just may be a time when they can only acknowledge a “mustard seed’s amount” of faith, and we all know that’s enough. Jupiter (and Sagittarius) rules her 1st house and is located in the 1st house. Jupiter rules the liver which is our largest organ and most important organ, only second in line to the heart. Pluto will transit her Jupiter on: February 18, 2009; May 21, 2009; December 17, 2009 Ordinarily when Pluto conjuncts Jupiter, it is a major reward transit, however with Jupiter being in her 1st house and being ruled by Jupiter, it could be a major spot to watch for her health issues with the liver and endocrine system. There’s no way to know how it will manifest. My most positive thought or hope is that it suggests better than average fortune instead of difficulties. But that’s my hope and not a guarantee. Knowing all of these dates is beneficial for preventative measures, knowing when it’s time to fight, or when it’s time to cleanse, etc. Pluto contacting Jupiter may be a good time for a liver cleanse, but I AM NOT A DOCTOR OR HOLISTIC HEALTH PRACTITIONER, so don’t take any of my medical advise, just watch the dates and know when it’s time to suit up for a health war. Transiting Uranus is very close to her MC/IC axis right now and will cross over into her 4th house next year. It will cross her IC 3 times. April 22, 2009 September 13, 2009 (September 16, 2009 is a Saturn-MC conjunction, these two together suggests - Breaking away from the old to get to the new.) February 12, 2010. This may signal a geographic relocation for her or a serious re-arrangement of her home and home life, such as redecorating on a mass scale or signally a radically intense new diet. It’s all about new ways of running her home life and nurturing. The MC/IC axis also represents the spine. The lower half of the axis represents the lower back and issues with that region, so it may just be an echo of everything that is going on with her lower back and that region. There may be radically new therapies for her, perhaps some anxiety over all the issues as Uranus intensifies and electrifies everything. I’m sorry I couldn’t clarify the difference between Crohn’s Disease or other colon related issues. As far as I am skilled enough to see, I can only confirm that it is the lower region having to do with the lower end of the digestive system, the colon, rectum, anus, that whole area. You and your Mom are in my thoughts and prayers and I really hope that when Pluto transits her Jupiter that it signals great resourcefulness instead of liver issues. It could go either way, so pray and focus energies on it being the reward energy. Take good care, Geocosmic Valentine Professional Astrologer geocosmicvalentine@yahoo.com . www.myspace.com/geocosmicvalentine ------------------ "Everybody is a star!" Sly & The Family Stone IP: Logged |
venusdeindia Knowflake Posts: 1614 From: mumbai,india Registered: Nov 2006
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posted June 09, 2008 12:54 AM
Geo, ur help is much appreciated. actually u and PA are right...thing is my mom is killing herself over my future. i m determined to be an actress, entertainer istead of following the indian tradition of settling down in an arranged marriage. she thinks i will end up failed, unmarried and miserable, none of which is my intention or potential.when i read ur analysis she asked for a favor from u Geo. she has had a lot of vedic astrologers counsel on my career. some of them told me ..its all doomsday. some others said its ok, not very starry. the ambiguity hasnt relieved her and she asks u to look at my chart and reassure her, in a few words only that i am not going to be miserable, lost and vanquished like so many who struggle in this field. i know this is a lot, but it ould be much appreciated, if u could comment on where i m in life right now in terms of my transits.briefly only, so she is reassured. my data is 21/6/1982 Jodhpur, India 23:58 pm take ur time, i know i m asking a lot. thanx , u are a great astro by the way God Bless SS IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 4045 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted June 09, 2008 01:18 AM
vdii have three children. it is the most natural thing to want your children to be happy. unfortunately, the painful side to that is learning to them go and to trust them to make their own choices and decisions. the failures, the successes - they offer equal opportunity for growth. explain that to your mum - just in a quiet one-on-one moment - and gently - no anger - just two respectful wise women sitting together and tell her that you can only truly be happy when you are making your own choices and by following your dream regardless as to whether it leads to what she views as success or not. tell her that you need her support and understanding too. she will get it - it may take a little bit of time to get through to her - but be gentle, she'll come through for you too. IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 991 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted June 10, 2008 12:25 PM
Hi VenusDeIndia,I want to show you something: You said: "Thing is, my mom is killing herself over my future." That's a TREMENDOUS AMOUNT OF PRESSURE to carry around. I really hope you don't believe that your future or any of your behaviors is responsible for your mother's illness. I have a feeling that if you do believe it, you haven't allowed it to stop you from moving forward. I do remember your announcement about the TV Show. I don't remember the details, but I do remember that it was a really big deal and I congratulated you when you made the announcement. Please continue to strive for what you desire in life. I'm not able to do the reading of your chart right now, I'll let you know if and when I can. But I will do it for YOU and not your mother. My thought is that she needs to let go of controlling you around your career or causing you to feel guilty around your choices in life. This is your planet, too. As much as I and many people on this site believe in reincarnation, there is STILL the chance that we only live once and my opinion is that you should do what fulfills your soul while you can, don't waste your life only striving for security. If you are being real with yourself, as in knowing that the entertainment industry rewards those who have fierce business savvy, then you will be fine. You may also change your career at some point in the future as many entertainers and athletes do. I guess I'm saying that you and your Mom should put down the charts in terms of your career. Let your life breath. I guess I've just ranted for a long time, sorry about that. Last but not least, your Mom needs to stop killing herself over anything, let alone your career. GeOpinion Valentine IP: Logged |
venusdeindia Knowflake Posts: 1614 From: mumbai,india Registered: Nov 2006
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posted June 11, 2008 05:51 AM
thanx geo, i dont blame myself at all for her health. about that announcement, well it didnt wotk out, the programming head loved the pilots that i produced and shot but the channel head didnt so i was left out. anyways not to worry, theres more where that came from... and better thank u for ur kind words, actually my parents had been bullying me to do something more decent and steady like newscasting istead of something like Acting and anchoring entertaiunment shows. i can see their point but my gut, myu inner voice refutes it.
i had Iqhunk look at my chart a few years ago, he told me i WILL be an actress...well i have asteroid Actor conjunct my MC....to the minute u might want to research profession asteroids eh anyways, its enough that cared to reply...do the chart at ease.. bye, love SS IP: Logged | |