posted December 09, 2009 05:11 PM            

The sex appeal in this relationship for you is the thought of having more of it and for your mate is tears of relief in knowing that one phase in his life is over and this new one has begun.

Normally, your emotional displays are brilliant, seductive and persuasive. For your mate, their emotional displays may show how difficult it may be for them to break through feeling like they lack the emotional tie that you and this relationship needs.

You are fair and giving to your mate and your mate is bold, ready and discovers new things about you and this relationship, all the time.

You respond with sensitivity with your mate. You are wise, loyal and understanding. Your mate responds by having a joy of living, appreciating positive experiences and looks forward to creating good memories.

Psychological, the challenge for you is wondering if you have enough skills and mastery to be involved with this man. For your mate, the challenge is commitment, being able to wait and dedication.

What is gratifying for you is having the ability to pay attention, to speak what is on your mind, soul and heart. For your mate, is being in good cheer and feeling like this relationship with you is enough.

Sexually, for you, it's the end of reminiscing about past lovers and the fact that this relationship with him is a 'new leaf'. For your mate, it's the release and feeling like being with you in this relationship is his way of escaping everything else.

The anticipated result for you is having a clear conscious about being in this relationship and for your mate, it's yearnings and possibilities this relationship has.

posted December 09, 2009 05:36 PM            

Your relationship really needs to be thought out and the actions needs to be thought out. If you and your mate don't think or act - your relationship is the equivalent of that. this relationship is restless, most things are done in haste - there is no discipline.

You give a lot and it looks like you give control of this relationship to your mate or they give over control of this relationship to you - the amount of control you/they hand over to them/you is more than you/they THINK you/they have and can handle. You both are not on equal footing as far as control of this relationship is concerned.

Both of you listen to this relationship with your heart and intuition but you don't think enough and long enough on the course of action both of you should take. It looks like everything is done without enough respect for the relationship to think of it as a true relationship, at all. Could it be that one or both of you don't believe in it enough?

You both could consider that this relationship is going to take a lot of hard work but it CAN be successful. You both need to think on what's working, what you've learned, the hard work and effort you both put into it. In turn, you both need to think - are we or aren't we succeeding as a individuals and as a couple in keeping this relationship going? Do I/We want to? Work towards that decision.

posted December 09, 2009 06:04 PM              

Thnak you for that reading.

well..i have a licence to drive but i dont drive really...i take public transportation.

I guess i might have made a confused question,cause here is the thing:

im already 26 and with a degree but in a scientific field-the one that is not my passion.i finished that degree in 2006 but never worked on that area.

The are i am passioned about - Fashion Adviser - is one that really i know i feel good about it,and might very well be sucessful.i have no course on that area,but there is one begining next year,but that is too expensive..i cant afford it...
that is when i thought about why not try it at slow,with no degree,and then try to get it when i could afford it?

since i asked the question - it was told to me that i might have a chance to get a job in my degree area ( scientific one)that might start to develop in january.

as it is the thing im not passioned,but i need the money...i just thought:i put this situation in Godīs Hands and letīs see what is reserved to me,by the Divine Plan...

but by reading your answer,i got the idea that YES,My intuition is right-the One i should pursue is my Passion,

posted December 09, 2009 07:01 PM            

ALSO - I promised I would start posting a list of people who I think are phenomenol. So far, here they are, if you are curious and willing:
www.mastershealinglightacademy.com
Excellent source of programs to help people heal and make stronger connections - it's sort of like taking on a course of study and getting certified at the end, but even better
www.myspace.com/geocosmicvalentine
Excellent chart readings, solar returns, etc. Clear, concise and long-lasting.
http://www.tamsoft.co.in/readings.html
Excellent personal past life, hidden skills, untapped power and individual asteroid explanations
www.daykeeper.com
Crystal Clear gives excellent energetic and cleansing spells
www.lovepsychic.com
Excellent, to the point and date, psychic readings without the sugar-coating and lengthy explanations. Also has bath spiritual cleansers at a very affordable price.
www.gypsyadvice.com
Excellent spells, blog, podcast, excellent understanding of OBE, Tele, Astral, soul groups, spirit guides/guardians relationships and past lives (emphasis on lives and the relationships within them)
www.tanahoy.com
Excellent meditation and energy techniques and connection to guides/guardians
http://www.chakrabalanceing.com/
Excellent aura readings
http://www.touchadream.com/
Excellent spiritual readings, excellent energy exercises per your individual need

I apologize beforehand but if I had your links, I would have posted them:
Eleanor, here at lindaland, does phenomenol lexigrams.

Ra, here at lindaland, is very good with dream interpretations.

posted December 16, 2009 02:26 PM            

I would also like to ask for a reading, IF and WHEN it feels right for you. There is absolutely no pressure. It is also about a relationship that I would like to grow, but there are some ethical issues surrounding it that conflict me. I will lay out the facts: I met him at work not too long ago, there is a lot of affinity between us. I believe he likes me, but he has someone. I do not wish to interfere in their relationship and I haven't shared my feelings. I am interested to know if there is a possibility for us to be together in the next couple of years, hopefully when he would be single again.
Thank you for doing this. Please only do the reading if it feels right to you.

posted December 16, 2009 02:50 PM            

Just wanted to say thank you so much for the reading. You were very accurate. I didn't give you details either and you were spot on.

posted December 16, 2009 07:02 PM            

LuvinU,

Could you kindly do a reading for me too? I am in a bit of a depression with the state of things in my personal life, and would so much appreciate a reading at this time. My thread is at:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/000750.html

My question has to do with guy A who is sweet, young, but practical in a way that shocks me. He has indicated he has deeper feelings for me, but due to differences in religion, considers this difficult to work out (unless i feel comfortable enough to convert (he doesn't pressure me about this), and I'm not sure if I am, yet, unless I'm sure his feelings are solid). I would consider making some sacrifices for the sake of love, but I worry what if he's given up on us in some sense before we even give this a real chance. That was long-winded, but my question is about whether the reading indicates if we have a future together. Please tell me if there is any guidance if there is anything I can do to make this happen..

If there's anything I can do for you, LuvinU - a horary reading - I would be glad to do it.

posted December 18, 2009 08:35 AM              

you know that isnt it? professional area is the one concerning me most really.

i think that the material side it appeared on LuvinU reading, appeared cause i really want to be more independent.and im with the debts that my fathers company had,before closing,as they are in my name,i really feel overwhelmed.

i pray that some miracle happens and the money appears...i now know how important money is,for us to feel free.

cause i really dont feel im a free person.that is why i am trying to find a way..and yes,,material security for me is important.and to take the course on the Fashion Adviser,i need money too...so all is wrapped around this matter.

some synchros happened that led me into this area of beauty,and as i believe there arent coicidences...it might be a way of the universe telling me that my intuition is right.

the bad thing about this is that this area is still new in my country,and it is a closed market.i dont really know anyone of this area,neither wehre they work.i just know that to enter it, i need to really be good at it ( which i believe i am).