posted November 12, 2011 09:18 AM            

I asked what's in store for you in terms of your relationship. The first card out is telling you to stand your ground: if you want a relationship with this man I feel you're going to be asked to be patient and determined because his fear of hurt may well delay progress. This is born out by the next card which was 'The Waiting Game'... this indicates that you've worked very hard to set things in motion with this relationship (or keep them going) and it's now a case of waiting for them to come to fruition. I think you're in a very good position because the third card (future position) was Positive movement forward so I truly believe he will overcome his fear and things will move in the right direction. That's reflected by the base card or 'foundation' of the reading which is Fertility (The Empress in traditional Tarot). She's showing me that things between you will blossom and grow and that your relationship will be 'given birth' to. In a sense, it's all going to begin and flourish.

Hope that helps and if you have any questions please ask

posted November 12, 2011 11:43 AM            

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Originally posted by seeker3030:
Ok just got your pic and here's what's coming through to me. He's very into you - he feels comfortable with you and deeply attracted to you however something's blocking him from moving forward and I think it's fear of failure/hurt. Re-reading your post if he's just been through a divorce then he'll be wary of getting into another relatonship. The way he's standing is telling - his arm holds you close but one finger is bent in uncertainty, and one foot (his right) turns toward you, indicating he wants to come towards you, yet the other points forward. So he's torn. I just get a vibe from his picture that he's terrified of taking things to the next level because he's worried it would really topple him if things went wrong. Nothing says that they will... it's simply his fear talking. That's from 'reading' his pic... now the cards.

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Thank you, thank you! xxx
You are so right in reading his posture. This pic was taken back in May, when I went to meet him at a trade fair he organized. It was the 2nd time we met in person, 7mth after our 1st meeting.

I believe he's been divorced for 2yr. This would be recent for some and reasonable gap for others. But knowing his strong remaining feelings he still had for his wife, this probably still feels recent to him. But he has mentioned less about his ex in the last few months, though not mentioning does not mean not feeling.

Haven't got chance for a more recent pic of the 2 of us for you to help me read more recent dynamics.

posted November 12, 2011 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by seeker3030:

I asked what's in store for you in terms of your relationship. The first card out is telling you to stand your ground: if you want a relationship with this man I feel you're going to be asked to be patient and determined because his fear of hurt may well delay progress. This is born out by the next card which was 'The Waiting Game'... this indicates that you've worked very hard to set things in motion with this relationship (or keep them going) and it's now a case of waiting for them to come to fruition.

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As if you saw what I did for the past yr. I knew he's hurt by his ex and from the divorce, so I told myself to be patient (which I could say was not my strong suit).
And that's set out in our synastry - super saturnic. Not going to be easy even if any progress, but delay is one way of exhibiting this saturnic energy (yes, mostly he's the Saturn)

Standing my ground...usually I tried to be patient and supportive without demanding any return, but a few baselines when he stepped on, I did tell him off.

posted November 12, 2011 12:39 PM            

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Originally posted by seeker3030:
I think you're in a very good position because the third card (future position) was Positive movement forward so I truly believe he will overcome his fear and things will move in the right direction. That's reflected by the base card or 'foundation' of the reading which is Fertility (The Empress in traditional Tarot). She's showing me that things between you will blossom and grow and that your relationship will be 'given birth' to. In a sense, it's all going to begin and flourish.

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Fingers crossed X

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posted November 13, 2011 04:47 PM            

I am not sure how close they are, but it is sure an intense line up lol

Man, I can see what brought you together. I have not read the other entries, so I am starting fresh.

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posted November 13, 2011 06:21 PM            

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WOW--he has Eros conjunct Lilith and it is conjunct your Chiron? How does this feel?

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Honest answer is I don't know because I'm not sure what effect I'm looking for there. I know that Eros is kind of eroticised romantic love and Chiron is healing, and we do definitely have all that (in fact I'm starting to panic because he had such a healing effect on me and I don't know what I'll do without him!) but I'm afraid I don't know very much about Lilith in Astrology. In a nutshell, we both felt like we were 'home' with each other. It was playful (make each other laugh til we cry) peaceful, comfortable, comforting, passionate, romantic, supportive and just plain beautiful. And part of me is more than a little scared I won't get that back!

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