posted November 11, 2011 04:02 AM            

I'd like some feedback on this synastry

Here's the synastry chart.

posted November 11, 2011 08:57 AM            

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posted November 12, 2011 08:54 AM            

Really hoping for some feedback

posted November 16, 2011 08:22 AM            

You have a lot of wonderful things pointing towards great communication. But I’m not seeing anything that tells me that the communication between you will be very heavy. But, this could be therapeutic, just being able to laugh with one another. Do you ever feel that the conversation weighs heavily with you? Or do you leave the conversation feeling happier, lighter? Is communicating with him a positive thing for you?

The moon also has me wondering this. Before I go on I’d like to ask, do you consider him a close friend? And I ask this because I’m getting the feeling that the attraction you’re feeling to him might be more for the support, the ability to converse with him, and not so much about sexual attraction or even romantic attraction. You mentioned that he was recently divorced, so I’m thinking the relationship between the two of you might serve as something that’s fun and light-hearted, a way of escaping into something good.

posted November 16, 2011 09:40 AM            

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Originally posted by scorpiorising744:
Hi Yuting!
Here are some thoughts on your synastry.

Communication between you must be very free and easy, very friendly. Do you feel that you can speak with each other for hours about simple, everyday things? But by the end of the conversation you don’t really know him any better? Is the conversation so easy and flowing that you don’t have to think too much about what to say? I wonder, is the conversation usually very subtle, in that even pauses or periods of silence go by unnoticed? Like there isn’t any pressure to have to keep the conversation flowing, it just does so naturally?

You have a lot of wonderful things pointing towards great communication. But I’m not seeing anything that tells me that the communication between you will be very heavy. But, this could be therapeutic, just being able to laugh with one another. Do you ever feel that the conversation weighs heavily with you? Or do you leave the conversation feeling happier, lighter? Is communicating with him a positive thing for you?

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Most of the communication is mundane. Our communication right now is mainly SMS and email, mostly saying good morning and good night. I am out of town 20+days a mth and he's working 80hr weeks. However, it tends to be quite extreme. It is either those matters, or we talk about metaphysics, buddhism etc. I also feel he would communicate to me when he wants support and encouragement (eg for his work and health). I kinda like this feeling.

I think I have learnt more about him through observing his responses to different things rather than the talking per se (not that we had had chance to talk much, so far 3 real dates and 2 other short meetings)

posted November 16, 2011 09:50 AM            

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Originally posted by scorpiorising744:
I just noticed that you said you met online, and I looked at the Uranus as I’ve always felt Uranus symbolizes technology, computers, internet, etc. Uranus is positively aspecting his mercury, and his uranus is forming quite a few aspects to you, in particular the pluto conjunction and saturn opposition. Do you think your relationship was better, even more intimate before you actually met face to face?

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He was certainly verbally more amorous before we actually met. But that could be because it was the initial attraction and he was trying to charm. Now I feel he is contemplating if he could have something more serious, so maybe that's why he's being more reserved and hesitant.
But when meeting physically, he's quite passionate (actually too passionate than I am ready for at this stage of relationship).
I know I am attracted by him (otherwise, I wouldnt have responded to him out of the many).
I think I must have something he finds instinctly attractive as well (cos he is very popular with women).

posted November 16, 2011 10:32 AM            

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Originally posted by scorpiorising744:
Hi Yuting!
Here are some thoughts on your synastry.

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My relationship with Wing is still some vague, that's why I need someone to help give me insights on what things I could expect. A lot of things about this relationship I am not sure I can give much feedback on at this point. Maybe what you say is accurate, but I have yet to experience those yet

If you'd like more input from me, maybe you can help read my natal. I have more past experience I can relate to.

Here's the link http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/001954.html

posted November 16, 2011 11:57 AM            

But, personally, I think in order to get what you want from this relationship you need to, first, figure out what it is you do want from the relationship and him, and then communicate this with him. Talk with him about what you want and see for yourself if he wants the same. I know this is easier said than done, but regardless what astrology is going to tell you, relationships involve two people and the only way things are going to progress with you two is if you encourage them to. Just be sure you know what you want before you go further in. And if it turns out he doesn’t want the same, then it wasn’t meant to be I suppose.

posted November 19, 2011 09:16 AM            

Would appreciate any feedback.

posted November 23, 2011 06:41 PM            

Would appreciate any feedback.

posted November 24, 2011 08:53 PM            

I would like to bump it up. Also, comment a bit. Please, be aware that I am not an astrologer and don't take everything I say below as the truth. These are my opinions on the aspects you have.

Sun conjuct sun > a lot of energy in the relationship.

Jupiter conjuct sun > He boosts your ego.

Saturn trine sun > He is into having a permanent relationship with you.

Neptune square sun > this one’s tricky. He might be idealizing you instead of seeing the real you

Sun trine moon > natural compatibility

Jupiter trine moon > he makes you feel good. He stimulates your feelings.

Saturn conjuct moon > He feels responsible for your feelings. He does not take your feelings lightly. He might be calculating your feelings against him.

Moon conjuct mercury > He can communicate his feelings with you. But can he be a bit too emotional for your taste ? Still, I think this is a good aspect.

Venus conjuct mercury > You love talking to each other. Even when you argue, it won’t turn into a brutal fight. Intellectual harmony exists.

Mars sextile mercury > He is into having passionate intellectual conversations with you.

Juno conjucts mercury > The concept of marriage he has is compatible with yours intellectualy. He might propose you verbally !

Sun conjuct venus > this is beautiful. He loves you.

Mars square venus > his passion might be a bit too much for you sometimes ?

Jupiter conjuct venus > this is beautiful. I think he will make you love him more in time.

Saturn trine venus > he wants a permanent relationship and this aspect is good omen for longevity & a secure relationship.

I was able to come to this far. But I can say he is very into your intellectual capabilities and from what I understand from the aspects, he has strong feelings for you. I think he loves you. You might be a bit unpredictable & unconventional for him.

Ok. gotta go. 04:00am

posted November 25, 2011 12:38 AM            

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Originally posted by sis:
Hi Yuting

I would like to bump it up. Also, comment a bit. Please, be aware that I am not an astrologer and don't take everything I say below as the truth. These are my opinions on the aspects you have.

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Thanks so much for feedback. We are both astrology lovers, so it is nice to share and discuss. Whether true or not, your comments serve as reference point to help me learn how to read charts & aspects myself. So if he cant be my mate, he can at least be my learning material :P

posted November 25, 2011 12:58 AM            

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Sun conjuct sun > a lot of energy in the relationship.

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hmmm...not interacting enough to notice that.

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Jupiter conjuct sun > He boosts your ego.

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He doesnt praise me or things like that. Actually, he had told me what I was not good at instead. But the thing that boost my ego's that he's quite popular with women and his job puts him in close contact with many pretty young women and still he's interest in me

posted November 25, 2011 10:43 AM            

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Originally posted by sis:

Saturn trine sun > He is into having a permanent relationship with you.

Saturn conjuct moon > He feels responsible for your feelings. He does not take your feelings lightly. He might be calculating your feelings against him.

Saturn trine venus > he wants a permanent relationship and this aspect is good omen for longevity & a secure relationship.

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I dont know about the permanent part, but he seems to be considering very seriously whether he wants a relationship with me at all. I think the part on "serious" and "delay" for Saturn is quite true in our case. Hopefully, slower would make it better in the end

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Neptune square sun > this one’s tricky. He might be idealizing you instead of seeing the real you

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posted November 25, 2011 10:56 AM            

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Originally posted by sis:
Moon conjuct mercury > He can communicate his feelings with you. But can he be a bit too emotional for your taste ? Still, I think this is a good aspect.

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Yes, I think he's quite moody person

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Venus conjuct mercury > You love talking to each other. Even when you argue, it won’t turn into a brutal fight. Intellectual harmony exists.

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So far, I seem to be able to tune down my usually hot-tempered words when writing to him (havent had chance to talk much)

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Mars sextile mercury > He is into having passionate intellectual conversations with you.

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quite so with spiritual topics. Seems like he like sharing his career plans with me too.

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posted November 25, 2011 10:58 AM            

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Originally posted by sis:
Mars square venus > his passion might be a bit too much for you sometimes ?

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Quite so

posted November 25, 2011 02:08 PM            

So true

ý agree, we are astrology lovers and we can help each other to make right assumptions.

I read a lot and try to understand astrology better. There is too
many "opionons" out there, like I am giving to you right now. I think classic astrology is very important. It has a lot more clean borders to start an interpration. Match the keywords, build up a sentence, write the story. This is the technique seems to work for me.

I think you are right on the Neptune part. He is the Neptune person. So, he might be a bit illusive sometimes. Does he have any addictions ? Like alcohol ? Can't see it on the chart strongly but this aspect can point to that as well ? But your Neptune is making flowing aspects to his planets your communacation manner can help me to rise above this square energy.

Because I am a double capricorn, I threat Saturn a bit differently than most astrologers do. It breaks my heart to see how Saturn is pushed around

To me a Saturn trine Venus is a "mature" relationship. You're right it might get better and better in "time"

Moon trine sun; this is a nice flowing of energies between a woman and a man. Natural cooperation.

Mercury conjuct moon;; your mind stimulates his emotions. Intimate conversations. However, don't try to rationalise or analyze feelings too much. Sometimes, all an intimate conversation needs is just listening the feelings of the other person.

Mars opposition sun; yeap, here is your hot temper opposing his ego. sometimes you can get on eachother's nerves but in synastry this aspect can be good for sex.

Jupiter conjuct Uranus; This gives the relationship "electric" quality. Unusual philosphies enhanced in this relationship.

Sun opposes North node which means it conjucts your south node. A karmic relationship here. this aspect is actualy considered as very compatible. South Node person (on a soul level) can relate very well to the Sun person. this is info on the net "However, the South Node person is trying to grow beyond some of their previous bad habits and as a result, may eventually get annoyed at the Sun person displaying these old behavior patterns"

Gotta go now. I think overall it looks good : )

I posted my chart with an ex several days ago, but ours is nothing like yours. If you wanna take a look at it and investigate some aspects you can go to "stuck&can't get out" Especially, if you want to see a chart without venus in peace but love exists

posted November 25, 2011 09:06 PM            

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Originally posted by sis:
I read a lot and try to understand astrology better. There is too
many "opionons" out there, like I am giving to you right now. I think classic astrology is very important. It has a lot more clean borders to start an interpration. Match the keywords, build up a sentence, write the story. This is the technique seems to work for me.

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Originally posted by sis:

I think classic astrology is very important. It has a lot more clean borders to start an interpration. Match the keywords, build up a sentence, write the story. This is the technique seems to work for me.

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I prefer to focus more on classic astrology first, cos I believe that's the core of a person (natal)/synastry & composite (relationship dynamics & relationship). Then the others would provide the subtleties when I have understood the core.

Personally, I'd like to check the patterns & characteristics first before going into the specific aspects, eg elements/energy/house (if birthtime accurate within 1-2hr) distribution/concentration, patterns like grand trine, triangle, t-square, grand cross yod(though I am not quite experienced in looking at grand cross/yod yet). Then the closest aspects, esp when the big 3 are involved. Btw, that's why I use reduced orbs for my charting when using astro.com (natal usually 70-75%, synastry 65%) to screen out those wide orbs.

Natal is easier to handle cos the pattern is easy to see visually. For synastry, whose what is aspecting whose what is still hard for me to see at 1st glance.

posted November 25, 2011 09:12 PM            

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Originally posted by sis:

I think you are right on the Neptune part. He is the Neptune person. So, he might be a bit illusive sometimes. Does he have any addictions ? Like alcohol ? Can't see it on the chart strongly but this aspect can point to that as well ? But your Neptune is making flowing aspects to his planets your communacation manner can help me to rise above this square energy.

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He is addicted to his work

posted November 25, 2011 09:19 PM            

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Because I am a double capricorn, I threat Saturn a bit differently than most astrologers do. It breaks my heart to see how Saturn is pushed around

To me a Saturn trine Venus is a "mature" relationship. You're right it might get better and better in "time"

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You are not alone. I have a certain facination with Saturn as well. Somehow I cannot quite see Saturn as that scary being that many perceive.
I find saturn being the force that has helped me a lot. With Saturn, it might take longer, but when I do get there, I have be well trained and that gives me the confidence.

Eg in my natal chart I see Saturn/MC/Uranus making a grand trine. Therefore the Saturn has helped with my career and dealing with changes in my work. I am not those fast movers, moving up quickly, and I had my fair share of frustrations at work, but when I do move up, I feel secure in my abilities in that role. Conversely, when I do not feel ready for a position, I will try to hold back myself.

Let's see how all those Saturn aspects play out in this relationship. There sure are frustrations & delays. I am looking forward to that supposed security and confidence in the end

posted November 25, 2011 09:26 PM            

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Originally posted by sis:
Mercury conjuct moon;; your mind stimulates his emotions. Intimate conversations. However, don't try to rationalise or analyze feelings too much. Sometimes, all an intimate conversation needs is just listening the feelings of the other person.

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You bet I will over analyze. My Mercury is also very strong in my natal.

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Mars opposition sun; yeap, here is your hot temper opposing his ego. sometimes you can get on eachother's nerves but in synastry this aspect can be good for sex.

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As his sun conj mine, possible I'll project my internal anger on him too.
Mars sq venus as well, too hot to handle?

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Jupiter conjuct Uranus; This gives the relationship "electric" quality. Unusual philosphies enhanced in this relationship.

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