posted January 15, 2012 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
That synastry is possibly the worst I have ever seen

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posted January 15, 2012 01:36 PM            

Well, his saturn is square to your personal planets and your saturn is also square his personal planets! O_O woahh talk about feeling repressed by each other

posted January 15, 2012 02:12 PM            

(beauty & brains are what libra picks. It has to LOOK good, the two together. the two jobs they have. the house they live in. It has to sound good also.)

I'm not sure if its because they're a first impression sign, or because they're ruled by venus and can easily fall head over heels but.. That's usually how they operate. If he REALLY enjoyed spending time with you those first few sessions, then you'll know.

Another thing it could be. Libra is an air sign, so it likes to have MANY friends... but its also unlike any of the other air signs. Libra is about partnerships as well, so it likes to pair up with people. Never working alone, never making the final decision unless they have all the information down...They always love to have that one best friend they could tell everything to. Most of the other fire or air signs are different in this sense because they trust many people casually but libra puts all of their trust into a few people and just has a casual trust with everyone else. So maybe he feels most comfortable with you and tells you things...
That doesn't neccessarily mean he wants to be with you.
You're most likely his new best friend, but for Libra's friendship and love easily mix.
If you want this guy, you'd have to distance yourself and become more aloof because I don't think THAT is the kind of relationship he 'thinks' it should be like. Be a little unpredictable sometimes. Let him know there is MORE to you then he knows about so maybe your relationship could turn into friendship to love.

posted January 15, 2012 02:13 PM            

I wonder if finding out his real birth time will make that huge of a difference.

posted January 15, 2012 02:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Libra is a special sign.
When he first met you, did he like you as a potential lover even though he couldn't commit to you but was in a relationship, or did he like you as a friend??

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Here's the thing. I can't read people's emotions very well but I can be very intuitive about summing them up and who they are overall, if they're happy or not in their relationship. When I first met him I thought he was gay quite honestly. I've never had a straight guy approach me so quickly to introduce himself. I was being trained in the backroom and he came up to me to say "HI I'M ...." and shook my hand. He stood about 5 inches away from me though, so I was kind of like "Okay..." and his face again looked very HAPPY. I'm probably projecting here but it's how I imagine I look when guys I'm attracted to are paying attention to me.

Then I found out he wasn't gay and had a girlfriend. A couple weeks or maybe a month later him and I had fun closing together and I added him to Facebook. Sure, I did a little creeping and saw his girlfriend. She was always re/deactivating FB and then he deactivated his too. All of this sounds mundane I know, but I'm explaining because it's how I derived at my conclusion about their relationship. I thought "Oh I bet his flirting is ******* her off." because he would constantly be writing on my wall or liking my statuses and I noticed he never did that on our other co-worker's page. At least if he did, it wasn't as much. In any case, I figured he wasn't happy in his relationship or there were problems but I wasn't going to ask because it wasn't any of my business.

ETA: WHY am I mentioning Facebook lmao. Okay, well him and I would always joke on there, and when he deactivated it and I didn't have his number (and wasn't going to ask 'cause I didn't want him to think I was interested, etc.) I told him to reactivate it. And he did.

I also quit my job for a week in favor of another one, however it didn't work out, so I came back and when he found out he gave me a huge hug.

BUT then last night (which he double texted by the way. I never responded to his last text, so he texted me again 5 hours later.) he was very honest in talking about how "delicious" (ew...) one of our female co-worker's butt was when she wore tights. So I was like "Oh okay, friend zone. Cool."

posted January 15, 2012 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Looking from the composite Yes, he does like you.

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posted January 15, 2012 05:32 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
LOLOL...well what i find when a composite has the love stellium and then they have everything in the stellium opposing or square the outer planets like that it means one person likes the other but it isnt reciprocated. Moon square all those outer planets os terrible even for friendship though so i dont even see you being friends for too long. But from my experience with charts like that yes he definitely likes you, but you dont.

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Yeah... I can feel how much he likes me even though he's trying to subdue it (then again this is all my perception. I always tend to think guys like me if they invite me places and pay me a lot of attention). He just invited me out to a pub with one of our mutual friends, even though me and the mutual friend are a bit more at ease with each other. I feel like he didn't invite one of our other co-workers whom he's better friends with because he knows she makes me uncomfortable. Again, this is just a thought that popped in my head. Maybe she was busy or something.

posted January 15, 2012 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
He likes you. He sounds like a catch btw. He is boyfriend material with sun libra, moon in pisces and venus libra. He is my type. I think uou should be open to it develiping further.

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posted January 15, 2012 08:00 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Yeah but what's he doing differently here that you don't see your guy friends doing?

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He is working his way up...he is been careful out of fear of rejection. Libras are more subtle and strategic in their approach and I would think his mas in gemini wants to get to know you better intellectually first before committing to a one on one date.

posted January 15, 2012 08:04 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
He is working his way up...he is been careful out of fear of rejection. Libras are more subtle and strategic in their approach and I would think his mas in gemini wanys to.get to know you better ok intellectually first before committing to a one on one date.

Tell me the truth do you feel a strong attraction for him bc with that composite I would think you do.

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Yes... I'm just not sure I want to take it there. And if he's working his way up he sure as hell isn't wasting any time, lol.

I feel that attraction between us which is why I get thrown off when he was texting me about our co-worker's ass. Although he did mention how although he's thought about sleeping with her he wouldn't because she's unstable.

posted January 15, 2012 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
hmn...??

Yes, there is a dominant square in the pSynastry.

However, the numerology shows high attraction. Your lifepath (2) conjuncts his psychic number (Oct. 2nd = 2), and his lifepath (4) conjuncts your psychic number (July 4th = 4). The psychic # is said to represent the identity/ego, sorta like your sun sign. The lifepath is said to represent your life's mission/key. With such reciprocity it can be said you possess the keys/answers to each other's happiness.

Separately, both charts have "relationship forming" signatures / meeting a romantic partner. Together, however, the charts don't show a growing together.

Verdict: You're his new best friend. The attraction is based on good numerological compatibility & the fact you're both at a developmental stage of romantic bonding.

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1. He did mention how he considers me a friend and not "someone he knows from work" and that I "get" him and his sense of humor.

2. For some reason Astro.com puts first person's birthday backwards, the way Spain or other countries do - so really my psychic number is 7, unless you're basing it off the month in which case it'd be 4 (April 7th, 1989 = my birthday)

posted January 15, 2012 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
hmn...??

Yes, there is a dominant square in the pSynastry.

However, the numerology shows high attraction. Your lifepath (2) conjuncts his psychic number (Oct. 2nd = 2), and his lifepath (4) conjuncts your psychic number (July 4th = 4). The psychic # is said to represent the identity/ego, sorta like your sun sign. The lifepath is said to represent your life's mission/key. With such reciprocity it can be said you possess the keys/answers to each other's happiness.

Separately, both charts have "relationship forming" signatures / meeting a romantic partner. Together, however, the charts don't show a growing together.

The attraction is based on good numerological compatibility & the fact you're both at a developmental stage of romantic bonding. With each other?? Could happen, but it may take a little effort.

Verdict: You're his new best friend.

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What do you think of their composite....it looks fascinating. Someone here mentioned that a lot of conjuncts and oppositions are indicators of twin soul connection. I dont know if this is true but I wonder about it.

posted January 15, 2012 08:23 PM            

Are composites for 'established' romantic relationships, or do they just tell the energy of an established partnership platonic, romantic or otherwise? I am very curious about this. I think I remember someone on the board mentioning established non-platonic partnerships.

posted January 15, 2012 08:50 PM            

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What do you think of their composite....it looks fascinating. Someone here mentioned that a lot of conjuncts and oppositions are indicators of twin soul connection. I dont know if this is true but I wonder about it.

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posted January 16, 2012 02:09 AM            

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Originally posted by FireWire:
So,

Are composites for 'established' romantic relationships, or do they just tell the energy of an established partnership platonic, romantic or otherwise? I am very curious about this. I think I remember someone on the board mentioning established non-platonic partnerships.

This is just a general question, btw. With the talk of the composite above, thought I'd ask rather than starting a complete thread. I might post a composite soon, which is why I am curious.

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posted January 16, 2012 03:38 AM            

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I'm so done with dating, it sucks.

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LOL Join the club!

posted January 16, 2012 03:51 AM            

Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer
Venus in Gemini/12th, Mars in Aquarius/10th.