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Topic: Love to enemies.....
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Dreaming111
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posted March 31, 2012 02:54 AM
  
Why did we become so hateful toward one another?I can't stand him; he probably can't stand me either. IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted March 31, 2012 02:56 AM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/002980.html Can someone else tell me when I'll finally just have a clean break from him where I will not talk to him? Idk if that's done with horary or something else. I just want to be done with this. ....Help... IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 31, 2012 04:30 AM
The flip side of the coin of love is hate. If there were truly no feelings between you, there would be indifference. ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 31, 2012 04:48 AM
^ Bingo!IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted March 31, 2012 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by Randall:
The flip side of the coin of love is hate. If there were truly no feelings between you, there would be indifference.
Wow nicely put Randall!  IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted March 31, 2012 12:36 PM
I guess...I just want to know when I'll get rid of him for good... IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted March 31, 2012 12:40 PM
I honestly don't think it was love. In love you don't hurt the person right?And as I started understanding astrology more, I see nothing that screams love in the synastry or composite. All I see is disillusionment, deception, codependence for unrelated issues. It seems we were only random stepping stones for each other. I honestly feel worse for having known him though. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted March 31, 2012 12:42 PM
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
I honestly don't think it was love. In love you don't hurt the person right?And as I started understanding astrology more, I see nothing that screams love in the synastry or composite. All I see is disillusionment, deception, codependence for unrelated issues. It seems we were only random stepping stoens for each other. I honestly feel worse for having known him though.
how long were you together? hope u don't mind my asking just feel bad for you. you asked, "I just want to know when I'll get rid of him for good..."
The answer to that is when you know you've had enough and you both get tired of hurting each other. http://youtu.be/0R-FGchhwLw
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ariesdragon
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posted March 31, 2012 12:45 PM
He has venus square uranus in his chart and you had it in the synastry also  you should google that and get some info.
Venus square mercury.
Sun square moon.
Sun opposing neptune.IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted March 31, 2012 01:57 PM
Thanks ariesdragon.
I don't mind you asking me any question.
I can't really tell you when we've been together. It's been so hazy.
We met a year and five months ago. We started falling for each other about two months into meeting. He told me he loved me 6 months after meeting. I told him the same 3 weeks after his own admission.
It's been rocky since. I gave up in August after he did something that even he admits was low. And honestly after that we've both tried and been on and off but it never seemed to get anywhere. I just don't feel like I can trust him after what he's done. He tries to get back to our old ways but ...it doesn't happen. I think he wants a shot gun approach. I remember all the slights and it's hard for me to just ignore them. For me it builds up. I honestly feel used as the sun moon aspect indicates. I've told him so too. He's in major denial about his actions.
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Dreaming111
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posted March 31, 2012 02:03 PM
Thank you for the song.
You read my mind. I wish he would just show me...then I would forgive him and try again. Thank you again. Love that song.
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ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted March 31, 2012 02:27 PM
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Thank you for the song.
You read my mind. I wish he would just show me...then I would forgive him and try again. Thank you again. Love that song.
you're welcome dreaming  stay strong and if you need to vent I have a thread on how to heal from a lost love in astro 2.0 xhugsx
p.s. so glad u loved the song
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lilithpluto
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posted March 31, 2012 02:40 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
The flip side of the coin of love is hate. If there were truly no feelings between you, there would be indifference.
True. IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
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posted March 31, 2012 02:50 PM
Love can cause a person to hurt the object of their affection if the person is immature and can't handle those feelings or accept the loss.------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted March 31, 2012 02:56 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Love can cause a person to hurt the object of their affection if the person is immature and can't handle those feelings or accept the loss.
Completely true.
Randall you are full of wisdom. IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted March 31, 2012 04:13 PM
Thanks Randall, Ariesdragon.
I find comfort in your posts. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 31, 2012 06:48 PM
Unfortunately, true wisdom can only be learned through experience, and I have many battle scars.------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted March 31, 2012 06:49 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Unfortunately, true wisdom can only be learned through experience, and I have many battle scars.
AMEN!  IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted April 01, 2012 12:01 PM
Thanks guys. IP: Logged |
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