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ueharaa
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posted September 29, 2012 07:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
i just wanted to post again, because I looked at Yoko Ono and John Lennon's composite and they have a similar composite to yours. But very unimpressive synastry. Proves what I'm saying. With this composite setup, the synastry doesn't even matter.

Their composite: Sun semisextile venus = sun conjunct venus.
Mercury semisquare venus = Mercury conjunct venus

^ Love stellium.

Moon semisquare venus with Venus trine pluto.

Sun biquintile pluto.

This fits almost all of the requirements in my ideal compatibility list, except for Double Whammies, moon in aspect to pluto, and all planets being conjunct. However, because I consider sun conjunct venus or jupiter in composite combined with moon in negative aspect to venus and venus trine pluto the most lifechanging setup, it doesn't even matter that they don't have the rest of the stuff on the list.

Richard Burton and Liza Taylor, known soulmates also had the love stellium with sun square pluto, moon sesquiquadrate venus, and venus biquintile pluto. This is very similar to Yoko and Lennon's composite chart except that instead of venus and pluto being trine they are biquintile, and moon opp pluto is also additionally present, probably adding to the passion that the biquintile would take away in comparison to the trine of venus and pluto.


It's quite impressive to find such a pattern. I have read your thread on astrology 2.0 and this combination of aspects: love stellium, moon in hard aspect to venus and aspects from pluto to some either the sun, moon or venus are responsible for strong feelings between two people. It explains really well how I've been feeling, especially the moon square venus and sun square pluto.
I was wondering if somehow the composite could also indicate whether one person would be more affected than the other. Because I am really the only one who was affected by it. Maybe one person can feel the composite more strongly while the other doesn't (I'm not sure this makes sense)?

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ueharaa
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posted September 29, 2012 07:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MillyX:
Hi ueharaa, I remember a few months ago I posted in this thread and I was going through the same thing as you. I am happy to say that I have battled this unrequited love thing. It is possible to get over this. I have been 'sober' for 1 month hehe.
Of course you will remember him but the feelings will fade away. I had to battle my emotions and use my rational thinking. It was actually a psychic who had to knock some sense into me, she knew things about the situation. If you want I can give you her email. I wish you all the best ueharaa, I know that you can do it. Time will heal you, sometimes it takes really long but you have to be patient. Remember to work & take care of yourself. <3 also don't be so hard on yourself everyone goes through it at some point.

Yes, i remember you . I'm glad to know that you have found a way to be done with this. Obsession can be so detrimental to one's health. I am not sure I am ready to talk about it to a psychic. It somehow scares me.
And yes time does help a lot actually, this and actually rationalizing the whole situation. I am still doing better than last year and even better than 2 years ago. Bu in the meanwhile I feel like I've wasted my time because of it (and energy) so I have less patience with the "healing process".
Thank you for those kind words

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posted September 29, 2012 08:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
ueharaa,

I'm exactly like you! I can relate to you completely. I see that your ascendant is 24 cancer, mine is 23 cancer, I don't know if it has something to do with cancer ascendant. I think my capricorn venus plays some role in this. You are also very capricorn influenced.
I don't have any other personal planets in capricorn, just venus.
I can say that venus in capricorn's love survives a very very long time without any nourishment. We are the real hopeless romantics inside...


Yes , actually I'm very tempted to believe that the cancer-capricorn is much about holding on onto things or people. I don't know about you but I know I have the bad habit to always remember past things. I can get every emotional about the past actually and be very nostalgic, which doesn't really help.
And you're probably right about it being a cancer-capricorn influenced people thing, but I fail to realize this as up until now I could easily stop caring about something or someone that turned out to be no good at all. And I've always loved being able to do this because caring for others or about things can be depressing when you're the only one who does. Yet, in this case I can't seem to reach the "no care at all" stage. It's odd, because I've accepted the situation and I wouldn't want things to be any different (or yeah, maybe I sometimes wish I had never met him) so I shouldn't even be thinking about it.

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posted September 29, 2012 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ueharaa:
It's quite impressive to find such a pattern. I have read your thread on astrology 2.0 and this combination of aspects: love stellium, moon in hard aspect to venus and aspects from pluto to some either the sun, moon or venus are responsible for strong feelings between two people. It explains really well how I've been feeling, especially the moon square venus and sun square pluto.
I was wondering if somehow the composite could also indicate whether one person would be more affected than the other. Because I am really the only one who was affected by it. Maybe one person can feel the composite more strongly while the other doesn't (I'm not sure this makes sense)?

Thank you!! I'm glad u see the pattern. Ceridwen told me about how that works once. It was about checking for aspects the composite made to the two people's individual natal charts and seeing what was highlighted. But I'm not sure if I completely understood. Maybe you could look it up on the internet? For me, I always associated saturn squares, conjunctions, and oppositions as being unrequited love. Maybe you have one of those aspects in your synastry?

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