posted January 19, 2013 02:58 PM            

I don't need to be told about appearance attributions, as it's simple Maths curiouswoman said opposites attract (which I don't believe) so I just described my opposite, king of pents or servant of shams or whatever.

Who said I said looks is everything? I didn't. Its just that I would prefer being with someone I believe to look desirable. Have you ever had sex AND an aesthetic connection to the guys body/face etc? It's awesome you know. I just can't think of a single reason why I might have to make a choice that excludes this

posted January 19, 2013 03:51 PM            

So, like stability, top of his game and in control.

I sometimes also pull court Kings when it comes to self. I think when that's the case, it usually it talking about my encompassing, or wanting to encompass, the traits of that suit and also being the king of my own kingdom. To not give up my personal power in whatever suit that lands in.

posted January 19, 2013 03:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I think curious woman meant opposite personality wise? Pentacles men are almost always dark haired actually. Cups are more often lighter coloured.

For me personally, the best sex I've had were with the two guys I loved. I've had relationships with several guys, slept with some of them but the best sex was when the attraction ran deeper and was emotional? It was different from lust sex. So don't discount the guy just yet, you haven't even met him yet, or talked to him. Don't jump the gun.

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See above. I've never had sex with anyone I didnt love

And take 2: I'm not an amateur and I know which suit corresponds to which colours. As stated in my previous comment. And I don't believe opposites attract. Emotional opposites or ideological or whatever

posted January 19, 2013 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
I kept getting King of Pentacles for two different Sagittarian men I know, one of them being my boyfriend. I think that being a King of Pentacles is something he definitely wants to cultivate in his life.

So, like stability, top of his game and in control.

I sometimes also pull court Kings when it comes to self. I think when that's the case, it usually it talking about my encompassing, or wanting to encompass, the traits of that suit and also being the king of my own kingdom. To not give up my personal power in whatever suit that lands in.

For example, I've often drawn the King of Swords to describe me. I would say that could be an encouragement to not let certain ways of thinking cloud my overall judgment and that I have more control than I give myself credit for. Sexually, it could be someone who is more methodical when it comes to love making and doesn't lose his or her cool to passion. Just some thoughts.

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Thanks MetalAphrodite

posted January 19, 2013 06:09 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Thanks MetalAphrodite

This is interesting. So are you saying the ones you know are not all about KoP qualities? Can they be fiery? Dynamic? Emotional?

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Of course the KoP can be fiery! Capricorns (using it as an example for earth signs) are always described as stick in the muds but I've never found this to be true about their personalities. They're always very goofy and into partying (the ones I know that are my age, and even ones in their late 20's.)

posted January 19, 2013 06:18 PM            

King of pentacles are emotional, but they aren't impulsive or temperamental, they keep their cool and will have a whole other side too. If you're thinking unemotional and aloof, that's more swords because pentacle men are quite warm.

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Of course the KoP can be fiery! Capricorns (using it as an example for earth signs) are always described as stick in the muds but I've never found this to be true about their personalities. They're always very goofy and into partying (the ones I know that are my age, and even ones in their late 20's.)

The thing about Tarot is one card often doesn't describe a whole person. Maybe it is saying your lover will be materially generous, or he loves nature, or owns a house. You should make up your own meanings for Tarot cards from things you experience in your life and then the Tarot will start making more sense.

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posted January 19, 2013 07:21 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Thanks MetalAphrodite

This is interesting. So are you saying the ones you know are not all about KoP qualities? Can they be fiery? Dynamic? Emotional?

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I like to think of King of Pentacles as someone who is focused on trying to be a more stable type of family man. Sexually, he's a smouldering individual who may set his sights on you with the follow through like a hunter who watches his prey, with enough energy(because he knows how to ration his energy) to still do the dishes or watch the kids afterwards.

For me particularly, King of Pents always represents the type if guy who is ready to be husband/family material to me. He's not into mind games and is ready to get down and dirty with you with whatever you're going through. He wants to take care of all your needs. Sexually and otherwise lol. If anything, this guy is like a full course meal. The idea of my Sag being a King of Pents one day excites me because of the bright Sagittarian fire he has combined with the stability of the earthy King of Pents.

posted January 20, 2013 03:06 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Of course the KoP can be fiery! Capricorns (using it as an example for earth signs) are always described as stick in the muds but I've never found this to be true about their personalities. They're always very goofy and into partying (the ones I know that are my age, and even ones in their late 20's.)

The thing about Tarot is one card often doesn't describe a whole person. Maybe it is saying your lover will be materially generous, or he loves nature, or owns a house. You should make up your own meanings for Tarot cards from things you experience in your life and then the Tarot will start making more sense.

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Well I have found this to be true. Have met quite a few Caps who sort of wish they could be properly mad and on fire and just lack everything it takes. Looks pitiable of anything. Besides I have a Cap sun myself (but well very weak sun, but still I spend a lot of time wishing I was something fiery or watery at least) and I'm an absolute Saturn hater. I made a rule about never hooking up with Caps, the less Saturn the better.

posted January 20, 2013 04:38 AM            

I wasn't actually telling you how to think, I just think it's probably not a good idea to assume things and discount someone you haven't even met. That is all. And I'm not sure about you, but the two guys I fell in love with weren't reallyy my type? Don't know what happened lol. Emotions work in strange ways.

posted January 20, 2013 07:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Way down to earth about it? So you would rather have a Cancer man who cries over the most trivial things? Or an Aries who explodes when they're emotional? Because I've actually been in both situations lol.

I wasn't actually telling you how to think, I just think it's probably not a good idea to assume things and discount someone you haven't even met. That is all. And I'm not sure about you, but the two guys I fell in love with weren't reallyy my type? Don't know what happened lol. Emotions work in strange ways.

Anyway good luck, hope you meet the guy soon.

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Well I'd rather someone wished me luck finding what I want not some rubbish no one else wants

I have been in love with an Aries with a Pisces moon, and at least it wasn't boring, even though he was a weird mixture of swords and cups, perhaps the worst of both. This is my ideal romance so what. He wasn't good looking btw, but I was moved by his looks. And the whole thing was intense. If love is not intense I don't need it. I just want to leave it to others, all that joyful earthly sex, calm walks in the park whatever. I don't need it. Why is everyone trying to tell me I'm gonna love it when I know I won't ?

posted January 22, 2013 09:33 AM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
The issue here is not the king of pentacles. The issue here is acceptance and being open to something different. Just a thought, you can throw it out or discover its potential, that's all!

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posted January 22, 2013 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
you're funny. why should one be open to things that are not hot or cool?

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posted January 22, 2013 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Because they generally serve you better in the long run (imo)

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posted January 22, 2013 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
what's the point in settling for undesirable things when one know that desirable things exist? signing oneself off as second rate??? why?

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