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Topic: King of pents as a lover - any insight into this?
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andstuff
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posted January 13, 2013 10:44 AM
  
I keep getting this sh*t for a future lover and I'm hating itDescriptions come across as totes not me and the opposite of what turns me on. Is there anything good about this type of people? Have you ladies met anyone who is defo a king of pents without being too earthly/too boring/a billion years older/uninspiring/whatevs? Thanks in advance =) IP: Logged |
dadevi
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posted January 13, 2013 11:02 AM
A king of pentacles could simply mean that your lover could be a hard-working dedicated man who has a steady job. That doesn't neccesarily mean that he's a Capricorn.I have a cousin who always comes up as the king of pentacles in my readings, and he's a Gemini. LOL He's very talkative and outgoing, but he's always made straight A's, and he joined the Navy to pay for medical school. But you wouldn't know that to look at him. Just sit tight and wait. You might be pleasantly surprised. IP: Logged |
andstuff
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posted January 13, 2013 11:23 AM
Thanks dadevi  The problem also is that medical school as is is a bit of a turn-off for me, without meaning anything derogatory about your cousin I'm more of a creative type, I love fire, charisma, energy... Knight of Wands seems like my kind of guy if you know what I mean IP: Logged |
dadevi
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posted January 13, 2013 01:04 PM
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Thanks dadevi The problem also is that medical school as is is a bit of a turn-off for me, without meaning anything derogatory about your cousin I'm more of a creative type, I love fire, charisma, energy... Knight of Wands seems like my kind of guy if you know what I mean
I agree with you. I'm a fire sign, and I look for all the things you've listed in a partner. But all that fire and energy isn't neccesarily a good thing, if youve got a lot of it yourself. Here's a site that lists more interpretaions for the King Of Pentacles. I think you'll be pleasantly suprised. http://www.learntarot.com/pkg.htm
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andstuff
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posted January 13, 2013 01:21 PM
I know Im more preoccupied about what he lacks, which is too obvious No imagination, probably no interest in the spiritual side of life...... Basically not someone id love to snog at a gig you know  how can one discuss romance or getting laid if no snogging at gigs can take place? IP: Logged |
andstuff
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posted January 13, 2013 02:29 PM
And on second thoughts what would a calm earthly practical person POSSIBLY need in a half mad immature out there not-meant-to-be-a-mother girl like me?Just sounds like that Aidan idiot from sex and the city, soooooo boring and sooooo useless  IP: Logged |
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posted January 13, 2013 02:55 PM
If you don't want him I'll gladly take him!!
Lol..Maybe he could be a sensual person (earth - physical..touching? caressing?) Idk just a guess. Or it could simply mean that he will remain with you for a very long time..a stable relationship? Edit: like this author says.. http://78notes.blogspot.com/2006/10/tarot-court-king-of-pentacles.html IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 13, 2013 03:48 PM
King of Pentacles means emotionally stable temperament, loyal, hardworking, persistent (as in the type that doesn't give up easily), might be alittle emotionally reserved, has a good job. They are usually earthy in that they enjoy nature/outdoors, food and might be good with their hands. My ex was often the King of Pentacles, he wasn't stuffy at all. He was hilarious and really engaging, but at the same time secure and didn't BS. King of Pentacles don't BS, they're not one for mind games, what you see is what you get  . Though reversed means something different.
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andstuff
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posted January 13, 2013 04:12 PM
@Empress Well your other interps sound less hopeless than the description. I've read that post and it scares me very much. Stability of mind and all that security... Idk it leaves no room for my Scorpio side, and I need those needs satisfied. I don't want someone who can listen to well whatever sonic youth for example and not end up on fire, there's no possibility of connection for me where poignant beauty is absent @Haplesschild* hey thanks for responding. It's just that... I don't feel these qualities are important. Just not turned on, what can I do? Besides you said "often" IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 13, 2013 04:23 PM
^ really? For me those qualities are SO important. What's the point of having a hot guy who's funny if they aren't mature and honest? King of Pentacles is not a wuss with no backbone, it just means a decent guy who won't deceive you. Someone trustworthy.What qualities are important to you? I'm not sure how old you are ( ) but when you get pass 20 you start to realise maturity and emotional stability is incredibly important (and how rare it is in men these days). Hot and cold rollercoaster rides aren't fun. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 13, 2013 04:31 PM
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Originally posted by dadevi:
A king of pentacles could simply mean that your lover could be a hard-working dedicated man who has a steady job. That doesn't neccesarily mean that he's a Capricorn.I have a cousin who always comes up as the king of pentacles in my readings, and he's a Gemini. LOL He's very talkative and outgoing, but he's always made straight A's, and he joined the Navy to pay for medical school. But you wouldn't know that to look at him. Just sit tight and wait. You might be pleasantly surprised.
Ooh he sounds my kinda guy - witty + intellectual = hotness. Med school is such a turn on for me. It suggests the guy has brains, is a hardworker and handles himself well under pressure.
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posted January 13, 2013 04:32 PM
For me love has always been about inspiration and enlightenment. It's really like... when you see the pacific ocean and know it and your lover to exist on the same kind of... scale. As for funny I don't care massively I suppose, I can amuse myself just fine I am a typical mars in pisces. So it's about appreciation of beauty, spiritual awareness, this piscean tenderness for life and living things. This sort of thing http://xms.songmeanings.net/m/song/3530822107858516059/ If I had to choose between stability and no such connection to this type of connection and a tragic ending I'd go for the latter. Even having known the pain of it. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted January 13, 2013 05:22 PM
Well, like I always say to each their own .Me..I would love to have the King of Pentacles around =). Did you read where she also pointed out the sensual side of the King of Pentacles though? He could be passionate, maybe not as fiery/impulsive as the Knight of Wands though. IP: Logged |
andstuff
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posted January 13, 2013 05:25 PM
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Well, like I always say to each their own .Me..I would love to have the King of Pentacles around =). Did you read where she also pointed out the sensual side of the King of Pentacles though? He could be passionate, maybe not as fiery/impulsive as the Knight of Wands though.
Yeah I did. I'm not saying its bad I'm just saying I have emotional/spiritual needs and I don't want to end up feeling emotional hunger. For me this state of resonance is crucial and the king of pents sounds like the opposite of resonance IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 13, 2013 05:34 PM
But King of Pentacles are usually quite protective and nurturing so you're definitely going to be emotionally fulfillled? Unless you're referring to the adrenaline rush you get from unpredictable behaviour?That's why teens date bad boys and end up settling down with good guys. Bad boys are only good for 'fun' not anything serious. IP: Logged |
andstuff
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posted January 13, 2013 05:55 PM
^ maybe. But well one can be nurturing, protective and all that jazz and still be vibeless and contain no promise of enlightenment. Not like it's his fault, but well some people take us to heaven while others don't. And it's not my fault someone can't take me to heaven, lol, if he lacks something surely this cannot be my fault IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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posted January 19, 2013 03:12 AM
Wait until you meet him I believe opposites attract. You wouldn't want to date your self with you!IP: Logged |
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posted January 19, 2013 03:58 AM
I don't think a boring vibeless shy plump blond with rubbish social skills is lovable - just letting you know what my opposite is IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 19, 2013 05:09 AM
Dunno if this has already been said but it could be a guy who you just have only sex with, or a guy who gets you pregnant. King of Pentacles = physical realm of the four suits. IP: Logged |
andstuff
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posted January 19, 2013 05:59 AM
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Dunno if this has already been said but it could be a guy who you just have only sex with, or a guy who gets you pregnant. King of Pentacles = physical realm of the four suits.
Yeah Hanna this makes sense in terms of symbolism It's just that I never have sex without loving the person. And I never have sex with anyone who has no feelings for me. Some kinda rule IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 19, 2013 12:31 PM
Doesn't mean love won't happen or be involved!Another thought that came to mind is he's lazy lol But if I'm getting all hearts and flowers with the description this is a guy you don't have to put on facades for to impress. He likes his women down-to-earth and who are comfortable in their skin. He might be taller, bigger than the guys you normally date. For some reason good food comes to mind so maybe that's important. I've always read the King of Pentacles as a Taurus too. IP: Logged |
andstuff
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posted January 19, 2013 12:49 PM
^ well I am not down to earth and not a massive fan of Taurus And big is a turn off. I am not sexually attracted to big n broad. They will have to look for someone else IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 19, 2013 02:31 PM
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I don't think a boring vibeless shy plump blond with rubbish social skills is lovable - just letting you know what my opposite is
Where are you getting boring plump (lol) and blond from? King of pentacles is usually relatively thin and almost always dark haired. Vibe less? Everyone has a vibe, just so you know...lol. IP: Logged |
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posted January 19, 2013 02:33 PM
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^ well I am not down to earth and not a massive fan of Taurus And big is a turn off. I am not sexually attracted to big n broad. They will have to look for someone else
There is more to a relationship than just looks. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 19, 2013 02:41 PM
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^ well I am not down to earth and not a massive fan of Taurus And big is a turn off. I am not sexually attracted to big n broad. They will have to look for someone else
Then maybe the King of Pentacles isn't about your lover. Maybe it's about something you need to cultivate/grow within yourself.
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