posted April 09, 2013 10:42 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
@imeanj and Enlightened, sure, I will get to yours either tomorrow or possibly tonight

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Great! Looking forward to it!

posted April 10, 2013 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by imeanj:
Tried to post earlier but had technical difficulties...If you don't mind doing another. Thanks in advance!

How does JM feel about me?

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Hey sorry for the delay!

Your position: King of Swords
His position: Ace of Swords
Past: The Tower rx
Current Situation: Ace of Wands rx
Outcome: 4 of Cups

His card is the first of the swords, and yours is the last which is interesting, you guys might be in different stages of a similar thought process. Even if there are strong emotions involved, you may feel the need to sit back and analyze the situation objectively. Him as Ace of Swords shows someone who may have recently had a breakthrough of some kind, either in terms of how he views life or your relationship. He now has a lot of energy to charge ahead with whatever is planned, which could be either good or bad depending on how well thought out his intentions are, or he may be determined to put his point of view before anyone elses, which could bother you since you're trying to be pragmatic.

Tower rx as past position shows you may have chose to overlook certain flaws in each other, or been afraid to face some of the less appealing aspects in your life or your situation together. Or maybe you feared that coming together would force changes in your life that you weren't entirely prepared to deal with.

Ace of Swords rx as current situation plus the cards I drew for him and you shows that you both are probably seeing things more clearly now, but although you both have a lot of mental energy and conviction, there may still be delays and frustrations in terms of how to blend what the two of you are thinking, or ultimately want. You may both be trying to assess what your priorities are and find that they don't always match up, or that things just don't end up coming together as planned.

4 of Cups as the outcome card ultimately shows you guys may need to take some time to sort through everything before making a decision. Just to throw in a little symbolism lol, this card shows a man with three spilled cups in front of him staring off to the side apparently in deep contemplation or thought. On his other side a fourth cup is upright and being filled with wine, but he is so engrossed in his own inner thoughts and turmoil that he appears to be oblivious to this. In your situation, all of the contemplating, or worrying, or trying to make sense of things might leave one or both of you feeling worn out and ready to withdraw from the situation. But the opportunity is there, and will still be there after taking time to reflect on your own needs if necessary. So ultimately if you both think the feelings are worth purusing, it may take time to come to a decision, but I'd say that doesn't mean it won't or can't end well.

Anyway, just wanted to say I had some difficulty trying to piece together all the cards in this spread, especially in terms of what each of you is thinking/feeling individually.. So I'm sorry if this doesn't really do much to answer your original question.. If this seems totally off or is unclear just let me know and I can possibly just do another spread later

posted April 10, 2013 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Enlightened:
I will take one

What are S's feelings for me at this time?

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Your position: 10 of Swords
His position: 2 of Swords
Past: 9 of Swords
Current situation: The Empress rx
Outcome: 7 of Cups rx

Ok overall these cards show a lot of heavy emotion, and this may be a strained or painful situation right now? I'm sorry if that's the case

10 of swords shows you might be feeling hurt and powerless in some way, or like you've been victimized in the situation. This could include betrayal, dishonesty, backstabbing, etc.

Him as 2 of Swords shows he is torn as to how he feels or what he should do, and may be avoiding making a decision. He might feel like whatever choice he makes will still result in a no-win situation, or something may be preventing him from seeing the big picture clearly.

Empress rx as current situation again shows a lot of indecision, and an emotional block between you. You might find it difficult to communicate openly with each other, and you might be so concerned with what the other person is feeling that you hide your own thoughts/feelings as a result, putting more distance between you. There's the sense that there's something preventing your relationship from being truly fulfilling

Nine of Swords as the past indicates there could have been a lot of anxiety or fear surrounding the realtionship, or one or both of you could have been overly-critical of yourselves or each other. This could have created problems that were brought about more by your perspective than actual issues.

7 of Cups rx is the outcome, and since your question was about his feelings, I'd say for whatever reason he doesn't want to deal with the sober reality of what's going on. This is probably his own internal issue and unwillingness to examine what he really wants or why he's in the position he's in now. So instead of dealing with the situation in a straight forward way, he dodges the issue and fills his time with distractions. Basically he's confused and either doesn't know how to do anything about it or doesn't want to yet. But this was in regards to how he feels now, so hopefully things clear up soon.

Anyway I'm sorry these cards weren't more positive, let me know what you think.. Sending you good wishes!

posted April 10, 2013 08:17 PM            

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Originally posted by blindpainter:
Is this still open? If so my question is will me and M be together forever?

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Your position: 6 of Pentacles rx
His position: 10 of Cups
Past: The High Priestess rx
Current Situation: Queen of Pentacles
Outcome: Ace of Cups

As 6 of Pentacles rx, you're probably a very giving and genorous person, but unfortunately this might not always be returned in the same way, and you may find yourself in a position where you've given too much. Maybe in your relationship, or maybe in life in general. Broadly this card could also indicate money problems or debt..

10 of Cups is a very positive card for romantic realtionships, and he's probably feeling happy and fulfilled. Things seem to be harmonious and he is probably very loving and appreciates having you in his life. This card shows the kind of love that can be long lasting

High Priestess rx as the past shows this relationship could have been something you jumped into without taking the time to really reflect internally. Or on a different note, it could mean that together you put a lot of energy and emphasis on the external events going on around you, and haven't carved out enough alone time together to connect on an intuitive level.

Overall you guys seem to be in a good place now though, and Queen of Pentacles shows you guys approach each other in a very nurturing way, and want to express your love by creating a solid and comfortable foundation together. You're learning to balance domestic responsibilities with practical and professional ones, and this card shows you should be able to acheive that.

Ace of Cups is the outcome card, so it looks like yes, this will be a very rewarding and fulfilling relationship for you both most likely in the long term. There is a lot of compassion between you, and the romance could sustain over time. You feel like you can let your emotional guard down with each other, and this creates a deep connection where you can truly be yourselves

So hopefully this spread picked up on the way things are, and if so it's great you've been able to find such a positive experience

posted April 10, 2013 10:39 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Your position: 10 of Swords
His position: 2 of Swords
Past: 9 of Swords
Current situation: The Empress rx
Outcome: 7 of Cups rx

Ok overall these cards show a lot of heavy emotion, and this may be a strained or painful situation right now? I'm sorry if that's the case

10 of swords shows you might be feeling hurt and powerless in some way, or like you've been victimized in the situation. This could include betrayal, dishonesty, backstabbing, etc.

Him as 2 of Swords shows he is torn as to how he feels or what he should do, and may be avoiding making a decision. He might feel like whatever choice he makes will still result in a no-win situation, or something may be preventing him from seeing the big picture clearly.

Empress rx as current situation again shows a lot of indecision, and an emotional block between you. You might find it difficult to communicate openly with each other, and you might be so concerned with what the other person is feeling that you hide your own thoughts/feelings as a result, putting more distance between you. There's the sense that there's something preventing your relationship from being truly fulfilling

Nine of Swords as the past indicates there could have been a lot of anxiety or fear surrounding the realtionship, or one or both of you could have been overly-critical of yourselves or each other. This could have created problems that were brought about more by your perspective than actual issues.

7 of Cups rx is the outcome, and since your question was about his feelings, I'd say for whatever reason he doesn't want to deal with the sober reality of what's going on. This is probably his own internal issue and unwillingness to examine what he really wants or why he's in the position he's in now. So instead of dealing with the situation in a straight forward way, he dodges the issue and fills his time with distractions. Basically he's confused and either doesn't know how to do anything about it or doesn't want to yet. But this was in regards to how he feels now, so hopefully things clear up soon.

Anyway I'm sorry these cards weren't more positive, let me know what you think.. Sending you good wishes!

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posted April 10, 2013 11:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Enlightened:
And do you see the blocks being removed anytime soon between us?

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I pulled a few more cards...

Root of current issue: 3 of Cups
Not entirely sure what to make of this, but my first thought is maybe an excessive amount of socializing or having fun in whatever form that might be is causing problems and preventing you guys from getting down to more emotional topics. You might feel like he's not willing to take anything seriously right now. This card is about enjoying and indulging yourself, but maybe there's been too much of a good thing..

Advice: Queen of Cups rx
this card represents feeling out of touch with your emotions or spirituality, since it's not easy to express strong emotions they may build up to the point of being uncontrollable, or dictating your behavior. In this context I'd say that means try to not let things get to that point. Reach out to others even if you can't communicate with him, keep yourself busy and don't let yourself be tortured by not knowing what he's thinking or feeling

Will things improve soon?: 8 of Swords rx
This card represents emerging from a difficult time and learning to change your perspective and accept yourself and the things you've been through. The light at the end of the tunnel is within reach, and you'll see the ways you can change old patterns and take control.

So that could mean you'll both feel free of the emotional difficulties you've been having and be able to communicate openly again... But even if not, I think you'll be able to walk away from this as a stronger person free of all the doubts and uncertainty. So hang in there, hopefully things should start turning around soon

posted April 10, 2013 11:57 PM            

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Root of current issue: 3 of Cups
Not entirely sure what to make of this, but my first thought is maybe an excessive amount of socializing or having fun in whatever form that might be is causing problems and preventing you guys from getting down to more emotional topics. You might feel like he's not willing to take anything seriously right now. This card is about enjoying and indulging yourself, but maybe there's been too much of a good thing..

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posted April 11, 2013 02:35 AM            

The reading about personalities was pretty spot on. We are friends so the relationship reading was probably muddled b/c a relationship would be unlikely. Essentially, he's always had very strong feelings for me, and though I care about him quite deeply. I am looking to settle down and he is unfortunately the wrong match. I did try last year, I asked him to do some growing up - though the situation was less than perfect. In the end, I gave him an ultimatum that he took badly, but someone needed to say something as his behavior was self destructive.

We have recently started contact again, and I just wanted to get a feel for how he feels and how he is doing. He seems to be hot/cold and I'm wondering if he's still hurt and what actions I could take on my part to heal the situation...I want him in my life, but different then the way he wants it.

If you feel like pulling some more cards that would be nice, but I also feel that one of the most important aspects of learning to read is also to establish boundaries. And I am already grateful! Thanks again for your reading. You are quite talented - hug! (I want a general one for my love life now - wink!)

posted April 11, 2013 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by blindpainter:
Wow! Dead on! I defunatly jumped in haha but i jnew it was the right thing in my heart. We both know that we are soulmates its crazy to think that we actually met in some random chat room neither of us were looking for love we were just bored but we have been living together for two years now. Its the relationship ivr always dreamed of.

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posted April 11, 2013 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by imeanj:
@Firemoon

The reading about personalities was pretty spot on. We are friends so the relationship reading was probably muddled b/c a relationship would be unlikely. Essentially, he's always had very strong feelings for me, and though I care about him quite deeply. I am looking to settle down and he is unfortunately the wrong match. I did try last year, I asked him to do some growing up - though the situation was less than perfect. In the end, I gave him an ultimatum that he took badly, but someone needed to say something as his behavior was self destructive.

We have recently started contact again, and I just wanted to get a feel for how he feels and how he is doing. He seems to be hot/cold and I'm wondering if he's still hurt and what actions I could take on my part to heal the situation...I want him in my life, but different then the way he wants it.

If you feel like pulling some more cards that would be nice, but I also feel that one of the most important aspects of learning to read is also to establish boundaries. And I am already grateful! Thanks again for your reading. You are quite talented - hug! (I want a general one for my love life now - wink!)

EDIT: I think the Tower Rx and 4 of cups makes sense now, the only one I don't understand is the Ace of Wands Rx. Thanks again!

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Thanks for your feedback and sorry about the confusion!! I still definitely have a lot to learn so I really do appreciate it!

So I pulled a few more cards and honestly I'm not sure if this will be at all helpful in clarifying things so I apologize in advance, but I got..

His overall state of mind: 7 of Swords
What he wants from the relationship: 9 of Pentacles
Advice: Ace of Wands rx (again!??)
Where the relationship is headed: The World

With 7 of Swords it's possible he could still feel hurt and betrayed, but judging by the next card I'd say it's more likely he's feeling timid with re-approaching the situation, and possibly tyring to hide his real feelings and intentions, maybe out of fear of not knowing where you're at with everything?

With 9 of Pentacles I'm not sure if that indicates he still has feelings for you in that way or not, my first thought is yes because of the secrativeness of the last card, but either way it seems like he feels that he's in a better position to have a mature, healthy, stable relationship with you. Like a situation where you can support each other and enjoy material things/accomplishments together, but still have your own seperate lives and interests.

I have no idea what to make of the Ace of Wands rx again lol, but I'm guessing since this can represent a lack of clarity, or feeling weighed down and unmotivated... maybe this is saying you guys need to define where things stand and what you both want out of the relationship, and also get old baggage out into the open so there isn't the feeling of being weighed down by the past. If there's that general feeling between you right now (current situation in last spread), maybe this is just saying you guys need to address that to move forward.

So then the World as the outcome, this is generally a happy card representing that things are finally starting to pay off, the struggles you've endured have served their purpose, and things have now come full circle. So I guess I'd say if you're able to clear the air and be honest with each other, there's the potential for him to understand and accept your point of view, and also feel like he's learned from the reasons things didn't work out in the past, so that you'll still be able to have a fulfilling relationship in whatever form that is, even just as a friendship.. Or if you can't find enough common ground you'll at least be able to walk away from things with a sense of closure

So I'm sorry if this just made things even more confusing lol hopefully you can get some more meaning out of these cards than I was able to! Anwyay good luck, and thanks again for your feedback and kind words!

posted April 12, 2013 12:28 AM            

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Originally posted by suireen:
May I please join in?
I was wondering how me and J's relationship progress throughout the month? Thank you very much for the offer. :3

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Your Position: 4 of Swords rx
His Position: 8 of Cups
Past/Foundation of relationship: Queen of Swords
Current Situation: Judgment rx
Future/Outcome: 6 of Swords

You might be feeling like things aren't moving along at as fast of a pace as you'd like, and this could leave you feeling very restless or frustrated. Taking time to examine or reflect on some of the deeper aspects of the relationship might make you feel nervous or impatient, and you'd rather just be seeing action than sitting back passively. You may have been willing to do that in the past, but now the lack of movement is leaving you feeling stressed.

He may seem a bit out of reach at this time, as he seems to be in a period of self-reflection, and might be analyzing the deeper meaning of things, or looking for ways to break out of his comfort zone.

Judgment rx as current situation shows that a lot of energy may have built up in this situation, but it's hard to find a good outlet for it or get down to the core of the issue. He might feel the need to withdraw for the time being, which would make you even more anxious for answers and progress, and it seems meeting each other half way could be a bit difficult. Both of you might be afraid of really hashing things out from the heart, so things may just seem stagnant and frustrating for a bit.

With Queen of Swords as the past/foundation card, maybe you guys always felt comfortable communicating on a more intellectual level so emotional differences or misunderstandings could be harder to breach, and things may have built up past the point of disscussing things in a detached way

I wish I had a more positive outcome card, but with 6 of Swords it seems like you might need to part ways or put things on hold for a bit so that you can sort through everything and see things with a fresh perspective. If this ends up happening don't let it get you too down or see it as a failure, because it will ultimately lead to a lot of growth and clarity for both of you. And since this question was just about the month, that might be exactly what you guys need to re-connect again on smoother grounds.

So let me know what you think, and hopefully I'm wrong about the outcome card.. Sending you positive thoughts and wishes!

posted April 12, 2013 03:00 AM            

Do you mind helping to read into Y & K's relationship for me?
If there's reconciliation and when ?
When will be the communication of them both?

posted April 12, 2013 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Your Position: 4 of Swords rx
His Position: 8 of Cups
Past/Foundation of relationship: Queen of Swords
Current Situation: Judgment rx
Future/Outcome: 6 of Swords

You might be feeling like things aren't moving along at as fast of a pace as you'd like, and this could leave you feeling very restless or frustrated. Taking time to examine or reflect on some of the deeper aspects of the relationship might make you feel nervous or impatient, and you'd rather just be seeing action than sitting back passively. You may have been willing to do that in the past, but now the lack of movement is leaving you feeling stressed.

He may seem a bit out of reach at this time, as he seems to be in a period of self-reflection, and might be analyzing the deeper meaning of things, or looking for ways to break out of his comfort zone.

Judgment rx as current situation shows that a lot of energy may have built up in this situation, but it's hard to find a good outlet for it or get down to the core of the issue. He might feel the need to withdraw for the time being, which would make you even more anxious for answers and progress, and it seems meeting each other half way could be a bit difficult. Both of you might be afraid of really hashing things out from the heart, so things may just seem stagnant and frustrating for a bit.

With Queen of Swords as the past/foundation card, maybe you guys always felt comfortable communicating on a more intellectual level so emotional differences or misunderstandings could be harder to breach, and things may have built up past the point of disscussing things in a detached way

I wish I had a more positive outcome card, but with 6 of Swords it seems like you might need to part ways or put things on hold for a bit so that you can sort through everything and see things with a fresh perspective. If this ends up happening don't let it get you too down or see it as a failure, because it will ultimately lead to a lot of growth and clarity for both of you. And since this question was just about the month, that might be exactly what you guys need to re-connect again on smoother grounds.

So let me know what you think, and hopefully I'm wrong about the outcome card.. Sending you positive thoughts and wishes!

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