posted April 07, 2013 07:02 PM            

But I just want to emphasize I'm extremely new to this, if you're looking for a professional reader I'm not the person to ask so please take these readings with a grain of salt lol. And also please give me feedback as this will help me learn.

If it's a relationship question I'll do a 5 card spread, or I can also do a Celtic Cross. If you're familiar with tarot and have something else specific in mind just let me know.

***edit: Ok sorry I thought I'd be up for doing a couple more readings tonight but am feeling kind of drained. But starting tomorrow I'll do readings for:

posted April 07, 2013 07:06 PM            

My question is: will E end up being important in my life?

Thanks a lot

posted April 07, 2013 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Hey thanks for offering

My question is: will E end up being important in my life?

Thanks a lot

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Your position in the relationship: Knight of Swords rx
E's position in the relationship: 5 of wands rx
Past/foundation of relationship: 2 of swords
Current Situation: The High priestess
Outcome: Queen of Cups

You are the Knight of Swords rx showing that you're full of drive and energy, but it may be a somewhat impatient or impulsive energy wanting to throw caution to the wind just to keep things moving. He is 5 of wands rx, he may be emerging from a time of intense conflicts and struggles and is now learning to keep both feet on the ground and stay focused, or he may want to avoid conflict all together. Whether this applies to life in general or your relationship, I see there being a clash between you wanting immediate action, and him seeming more reclusive and wanting to analyze things more slowly or reign in your energy.

With the High Priestess in the middle of these cards as your current challenge/situation, it seems one or both of you may be doing some soul searching or going through big changes forcing you to look inward, and your different approaches to life may be preventing you from connecting on a deep, intuitive level. The relationship itself may seem mysterious and confusing, but if you let go of trying to force or analyze things and surrender to the unknown, there could be very important or rewarding things this relationship can teach you spiritually

This need to let go is emphasized by 2 of Swords in the past position. In terms of which direction to turn there could have been a lot of confusion, indecision, avoidance, etc. A decision could have been difficult to make if you weren't able to see each other and the situation clearly, or felt that you couldn't understand each other's point of view. In order to move forward and grow, you'll need to accept each others differences for what they are.

Finally, Queen of cups is tuned in and at peace with emotional undercurrents, and is strongly connected to the unconscious. With this as the outcome card, I would say yes, E will be a very important person in your life. If you're able to put aside your differences and empathize with one another, the connection you have could be very caring and nurturing. Whether or not you end up together, it seems like you'll be able to help each other and learn a lot about yourselves in the process. You'll be able to make big strides on an emotional or spiritual level.

Anyway, please tell me what you think, if this sounds nothing like you or your situation, I apologize!!

posted April 08, 2013 02:10 AM            

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Originally posted by KayEvans:
Sure, Firemoon! I'll take you up on your offer

My question is relationship related.. should I let go of my situation with N and move on?

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Your position in the relationship: Queen of Pentacles rx
N's position in the relationship: The Moon rx
Foundation/past of relationship: 5 of wands rx
Current situation: King of Cups rx
Outcome: Judgement

Queen of Pentacles rx shows you might be somewhat preoccupied with your career right now, and are trying to determine if you'll really be able to balance a relationship with practical matters, or the dedication it will take to be successful financially/professionally. You also might feel like if you are in a relationship, it would be your responsibility to nurture the connection, maybe at the expense of your own needs. N as Moon rx shows confusion as well, but on a deeper emotional level. Maybe he's recently gone through emotionally challenging times and it's left him feeling jaded or inspired, or both, but either way he might not be able to fully know or articulate what he really wants, or how his emotions relate to overall goals.

Five of Wands as the past shows you may have come together as a result of common priorities or goals. But by focusing so much on what you have in common, or avoiding conflict to maintain harmony, you may have neglected to acknowledge how the relationship affects you as individuals.

King of Cups rx as current situation again shows extreme confusion over the direction of the relationship. Emotional communication between you may be far from stable, and this could indicate controlling behavior, manipulation, deception, etc. It seems you might be locked into a power battle of some kind...

Judgment as the outcome card shows there are major decisions you must make as individuals, and this might point you in the right direction as far as where you want the relationship to end up. Whatever happens between you two, this relationship will put you at a cross-roads which will force you to evaluate the major decisions you've made, and values you've had throughout your life. Through self-reflection and analyzing the past you'll be able to break through old patterns and move on to better things in the future, whether you do that together or separately

So again, sorry if this is way off lol, let me know if you can relate to any of it..

posted April 08, 2013 09:55 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Your position in the relationship: Queen of Pentacles rx
N's position in the relationship: The Moon rx
Foundation/past of relationship: 5 of wands rx
Current situation: King of Cups rx
Outcome: Judgement

Queen of Pentacles rx shows you might be somewhat preoccupied with your career right now, and are trying to determine if you'll really be able to balance a relationship with practical matters, or the dedication it will take to be successful financially/professionally. You also might feel like if you are in a relationship, it would be your responsibility to nurture the connection, maybe at the expense of your own needs. N as Moon rx shows confusion as well, but on a deeper emotional level. Maybe he's recently gone through emotionally challenging times and it's left him feeling jaded or inspired, or both, but either way he might not be able to fully know or articulate what he really wants, or how his emotions relate to overall goals.

Five of Wands as the past shows you may have come together as a result of common priorities or goals. But by focusing so much on what you have in common, or avoiding conflict to maintain harmony, you may have neglected to acknowledge how the relationship affects you as individuals.

King of Cups rx as current situation again shows extreme confusion over the direction of the relationship. Emotional communication between you may be far from stable, and this could indicate controlling behavior, manipulation, deception, etc. It seems you might be locked into a power battle of some kind...

Judgment as the outcome card shows there are major decisions you must make as individuals, and this might point you in the right direction as far as where you want the relationship to end up. Whatever happens between you two, this relationship will put you at a cross-roads which will force you to evaluate the major decisions you've made, and values you've had throughout your life. Through self-reflection and analyzing the past you'll be able to break through old patterns and move on to better things in the future, whether you do that together or separately

So again, sorry if this is way off lol, let me know if you can relate to any of it..

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Thank you! This actually resonated with me quite a bit.. I'm planning a career change very soon and have been questioning how I'll be able to balance something like that with the other things I want (a relationship that leads to marriage and kids)..but I told myself to not worry over something I don't even have yet. The description of him sounds spot on, and although our communication is actually pretty good (minus his silence the past two weeks) I would say that we do seem to have a bit of a power struggle going on. I hear this can be a common thing when I comes to a female Scorpio and male Libra relationship.
We met through work, but not in a traditional sense (he hired me for weekend help through an online ad). We had some really interesting things in common, and it seemed like life had pushed us together (odd coincidences/too much to mention here). That sounds representative of what you said about coming together for common goals.
Judgment sounds like it could be right too, but I'm not sure of how to interpret it based on my question.. Do you think the answer could be more of a "either choice will be the right one" kind of thing? I tried contacting him twice since he disappeared, but never heard back -which is unusual for him. That's what prompted me to ask.. :-/

posted April 08, 2013 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Vradec:
How will my meeting with L go?

Thanks!

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Your position: 7 of Swords
L's position: Knight of Swords rx
Past: Knight of Pentacles
Present: Knight of Cups rx
Outcome: 3 of Swords

7 of Swords indicates you may be trying to hide something from him whether that's your feelings, intentions, etc. Or it could simply mean that you don't feel entirely ready to deal with the situation and would rather escape it or figure it out on your own terms. Him as Knight of Swords rx shows someone who is scattered and impulsive with lots of rash energy. His moods or life in general might not seem especially stable, and you might sense that if you stick around there's the potential for him to suck you into that or drag you down with him.

Knight of Cups rx as present situation shows there might have been high hopes for this relationship initially, but now there may have been some disillusionment or disappointment on both ends. But the connection still hasn't been completely severed and emotions and jealousy could still be running high. Knight of Cups is all about following your heart and enjoying romantic emotions, but when reversed those emotions can become out of control. This could be either of you but judging by the cards I pulled I would guess that's more likely to be on his end than yours.

Knight of Pentacles shows the relationship may have provided a sense of stability and you could rely on one another for practical concerns. You probably felt loyal to him/each other, but this card is about providing so you also might have felt responsible for his well being or like it's your duty to make sure he's taken care of. And I emphasize you feeling this way because based on the card I drew for him, I'm guessing he may be trying to hold on a bit to tightly to that security, and it's becoming an emotional/physical burden for you.

So as the outcome I drew 3 of Swords, which to put it bluntly represents separation, heartbreak, rejection, etc. Someone will be making a decision, and the other person will probably not be happy about it. But keep in mind I was focusing on the outcome of your upcoming meeting with him, not necessarily your entire relationship. The cards in this spread show a lot of heavy emotion and responsibility, but I'm inclined to think he's more invested in it than you are at this point, so it might be his heart that's broken.

But I think this meeting is something you guys need to have to get everything out in the open and put an end to the spiraling emotions even if that means being in pain for a while. Plus that way you can stop feeling like you're avoiding him or the situation. Anyway good luck I hope you guys can find some closure

If you want to, free to update after you meet him with him, and also let me know if this sounds totally off..

posted April 08, 2013 05:19 PM            

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Originally posted by KayEvans:
Thank you! This actually resonated with me quite a bit.. I'm planning a career change very soon and have been questioning how I'll be able to balance something like that with the other things I want (a relationship that leads to marriage and kids)..but I told myself to not worry over something I don't even have yet. The description of him sounds spot on, and although our communication is actually pretty good (minus his silence the past two weeks) I would say that we do seem to have a bit of a power struggle going on. I hear this can be a common thing when I comes to a female Scorpio and male Libra relationship.
We met through work, but not in a traditional sense (he hired me for weekend help through an online ad). We had some really interesting things in common, and it seemed like life had pushed us together (odd coincidences/too much to mention here). That sounds representative of what you said about coming together for common goals.
Judgment sounds like it could be right too, but I'm not sure of how to interpret it based on my question.. Do you think the answer could be more of a "either choice will be the right one" kind of thing? I tried contacting him twice since he disappeared, but never heard back -which is unusual for him. That's what prompted me to ask.. :-/

Thanks again for your time and effort!

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No problem, I'm glad some of it made sense

Seems like overall you guys have a good and strong connection, but yeah hopefully the silence thing changes soon, that would be frustrating...

As far as the Judgment card goes, honestly I was a bit confused as to how to apply that to your situation as well. But I think you're right, mainly what I get out if it is that you're able to see things clearly because you've reflected on and learned from past experiences, so whatever direction you chose to take will be the right one... Ultimately it's a positive card though so if you feel like it's right, there's probably a good chance it could work out. Best of luck feel free to update later if you want!

posted April 08, 2013 06:22 PM            

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Originally posted by beijing07:
Is my friendship over with J? Should I let go and move on or wait it out

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Your position: 8 of Wands rx
His position: 7 of Pentacles
Past: 8 of Pentacles rx
Present: 6 of Cups rx
Outcome: 5 of Swords

8 of Wands rx shows this friendship is something you really want, but things seem to be going nowhere and that's extremely frustrating. There seem to be countless set backs and obstacles, and you've become fed up and impatient with all of it. This card shows that as difficult as it might be, you may need to sit back and wait for things to stabilize a bit before trying to move forward again.

While you're wanting to see things happen now, he as the 7 of Pentacles is thinking more long-term. He feels it's now necessary to decide what's really worth investing in and what isn't. He's focused on wanting to see tangible results in his life and that could make him a bit closed off, driving up your frustration even more.

8 of Pentacles rx in the past shows together you guys might have gotten so focused on the small details of your relationship that you forgot to take care of or look at the big picture. You might have put a lot of effort into fixing things or trying to make things a certain way, just to find that external changes out of your control were too much to deal with.

6 of Cups rx as the present shows that you are holding on tightly to the past and wish you could bring it back. One or both of you might have had unrealistic expectations, or been wearing rose colored glasses either about the relationship or other important aspects of your life. And now it may be painful to realize you might be forced to move in a different direction.

Five of Swords as the outcome card represents conflict, you may feel like you're fighting alone in a battle where others have turned against you or left you to fend for yourself. But in some cases 5 of Swords can also represent victory.

So ultimately, gaining what you want out of this situation will probably not be easy, but I think it depends largely on how you approach things.. As painful and difficult as it might be, if you're willing to let go of past expectations, and give him space for a while until he figures out whatever it is he needs to figure out, things might seem clearer in the future.

The cards in this spread weren't especially light hearted, so I'm sorry if this has been a difficult situation for you . But anyway, let me know what you think and good luck!

posted April 08, 2013 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Your position: 7 of Swords
L's position: Knight of Swords rx
Past: Knight of Pentacles
Present: Knight of Cups rx
Outcome: 3 of Swords

7 of Swords indicates you may be trying to hide something from him whether that's your feelings, intentions, etc. Or it could simply mean that you don't feel entirely ready to deal with the situation and would rather escape it or figure it out on your own terms. Him as Knight of Swords rx shows someone who is scattered and impulsive with lots of rash energy. His moods or life in general might not seem especially stable, and you might sense that if you stick around there's the potential for him to suck you into that or drag you down with him.

Knight of Cups rx as present situation shows there might have been high hopes for this relationship initially, but now there may have been some disillusionment or disappointment on both ends. But the connection still hasn't been completely severed and emotions and jealousy could still be running high. Knight of Cups is all about following your heart and enjoying romantic emotions, but when reversed those emotions can become out of control. This could be either of you but judging by the cards I pulled I would guess that's more likely to be on his end than yours.

Knight of Pentacles shows the relationship may have provided a sense of stability and you could rely on one another for practical concerns. You probably felt loyal to him/each other, but this card is about providing so you also might have felt responsible for his well being or like it's your duty to make sure he's taken care of. And I emphasize you feeling this way because based on the card I drew for him, I'm guessing he may be trying to hold on a bit to tightly to that security, and it's becoming an emotional/physical burden for you.

So as the outcome I drew 3 of Swords, which to put it bluntly represents separation, heartbreak, rejection, etc. Someone will be making a decision, and the other person will probably not be happy about it. But keep in mind I was focusing on the outcome of your upcoming meeting with him, not necessarily your entire relationship. The cards in this spread show a lot of heavy emotion and responsibility, but I'm inclined to think he's more invested in it than you are at this point, so it might be his heart that's broken.

But I think this meeting is something you guys need to have to get everything out in the open and put an end to the spiraling emotions even if that means being in pain for a while. Plus that way you can stop feeling like you're avoiding him or the situation. Anyway good luck I hope you guys can find some closure

If you want to, free to update after you meet him with him, and also let me know if this sounds totally off..

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posted April 08, 2013 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Your position: 8 of Wands rx
His position: 7 of Pentacles
Past: 8 of Pentacles rx
Present: 6 of Cups rx
Outcome: 5 of Swords

8 of Wands rx shows this friendship is something you really want, but things seem to be going nowhere and that's extremely frustrating. There seem to be countless set backs and obstacles, and you've become fed up and impatient with all of it. This card shows that as difficult as it might be, you may need to sit back and wait for things to stabilize a bit before trying to move forward again.

While you're wanting to see things happen now, he as the 7 of Pentacles is thinking more long-term. He feels it's now necessary to decide what's really worth investing in and what isn't. He's focused on wanting to see tangible results in his life and that could make him a bit closed off, driving up your frustration even more.

8 of Pentacles rx in the past shows together you guys might have gotten so focused on the small details of your relationship that you forgot to take care of or look at the big picture. You might have put a lot of effort into fixing things or trying to make things a certain way, just to find that external changes out of your control were too much to deal with.

6 of Cups rx as the present shows that you are holding on tightly to the past and wish you could bring it back. One or both of you might have had unrealistic expectations, or been wearing rose colored glasses either about the relationship or other important aspects of your life. And now it may be painful to realize you might be forced to move in a different direction.

Five of Swords as the outcome card represents conflict, you may feel like you're fighting alone in a battle where others have turned against you or left you to fend for yourself. But in some cases 5 of Swords can also represent victory.

So ultimately, gaining what you want out of this situation will probably not be easy, but I think it depends largely on how you approach things.. As painful and difficult as it might be, if you're willing to let go of past expectations, and give him space for a while until he figures out whatever it is he needs to figure out, things might seem clearer in the future.

The cards in this spread weren't especially light hearted, so I'm sorry if this has been a difficult situation for you . But anyway, let me know what you think and good luck!

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posted April 08, 2013 09:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Vradec:
Thank you so much! I feel this is pretty accurate indeed! When you said about the reversed Knight of Cups (L's position), what did you mean by there could be some jealousy? Do you mean I am jealous or he is jealous? And what of? Again thanks so much.

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No problem!! I drew the Knight of Cups as your current situation, his position was the Knight of Swords (a lot of Knights in this spread! lol) and I guess I shouldn't have said jealousy since I don't really know the situation, but seems like there might be emotional conflicts between you or at least things are a little touchy.. And being that his card was overly emotional and yours was more secretive I thought he could maybe be upset that he's not getting the amount of attention he wants and possibly acting childish or jealous of whatever he thinks your priorities are.. Of course it could be you that's feeling that way for some reason but that was just my first thought

posted April 08, 2013 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by beijing07:
The card resonates quote well actually. We did put a lot of emphasis on the smaller things. I'm done holding on, I'm taking the letting go approach like he did and focus more on my career and my own family. I think we both were looking through rosé colored glasses causing everything to get so complicated. We had a lot of people trying to destroy our friendship, even now people are still trying to influence us. I do feel like I'm alone. I feel like I'm the only one who believes this friendship is worth fighting for. Our lack of communicating our feelings, complicated things. I do live in the past, remembering the good times and the happy memories that we created. It's when I think about the past, I smile. Sometimes I wish I could go back in time and change things but I can't. There is a lot of pain and hurt, and im learning to let that go so I can heal and grow. His actions are lessons to me. I'm learning from this, that's the beauty about all of this complicated mess. I think when I truly let go. I think that's when he will come around, that's how life is. I appreciate the reading. I can definitely say you are very good. The reading was on point and described the situation perfectly. I kind of already knew this, someone who has been helping me deal with the situation, did a reading for me earlier.

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Aw I'm sorry you're going through that, it's always so much worse when we regret how things played out in the past or feel like we have no one supporting us. It seems like you have a good perspective on things though, and as awful as it seems, like you said these things can be important lessons, and things will get easier with time and you'll be stronger for it

Thanks for your feedback and I hope you feel better soon

posted April 08, 2013 10:39 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
No problem, I'm glad some of it made sense

Seems like overall you guys have a good and strong connection, but yeah hopefully the silence thing changes soon, that would be frustrating...

As far as the Judgment card goes, honestly I was a bit confused as to how to apply that to your situation as well. But I think you're right, mainly what I get out if it is that you're able to see things clearly because you've reflected on and learned from past experiences, so whatever direction you chose to take will be the right one... Ultimately it's a positive card though so if you feel like it's right, there's probably a good chance it could work out. Best of luck feel free to update later if you want!

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posted April 08, 2013 11:11 PM            

I'd like to know how my money will look for the year!

posted April 08, 2013 11:52 PM            

My question is, what is going to happen in my love life during the month of May? Anything important?