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Topic: Soul connection, it was fated
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shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 07:08 PM
  
Hi Everyone, the moment we met it felt fated, like it was meant to happen. It's crazy because I have dreams about him and it turns to be true. I had a dream that he died: there was a funeral, the burial so sad. The same day I had that dream his father funeral was the same day, how crazy is that. Not to mention various other dreams where he has came to me, telling me things like his father was sick. In reality, his father had been diagnosed with cancer, he came to me in a dream and told me this and then it was confirmed through mutual friends. He has came to me telling me he's leaving, found out through a mutual friend that he's contemplating moving. What was crazy in several dreams he always come back to me, saying we need to talk and he confesses how he feels. I just feel like we share this deep soul connection, I know we had a past life connection together. I wonder will this ever manifest into something more. The is a 10 year age gap between us. I would appreciate any feedback on synastry/composite. I think I hurt him in our past life together. I get this vibe, that he wants to let me in, tell me everything about him, but he's hesistant like he doesn't trust me, like he know I have hurt him in the past. I also get this vibe that's he's scared of me, scared of what could potentially happen between us. We complete each other, we stimulate, we motivate and push each other to new heights. The love I feel for him is unconditional. I would move mountains for him. I have always been aggressive and I think he stop talking to me because I was making him connect with his emotions. Making him feel something, that he hasn't before. Synastry
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EmpressMendez
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posted May 04, 2013 07:22 PM
Maybe he's just not that into you.IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 07:32 PM
@ empress we use to tell each other i love you. Not to mention the chemistry and the attraction were all phenomenal. He told me best friend that he liked me but was afraid to fall in love with me. IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted May 04, 2013 07:47 PM
You guys have alot of 12th house going on in Synastry and Composite.That's probably why it's difficult.And it explains the dreams.Plus your Saturn is conjunct his Moon.Is there any reason he'd feel like he can't be honest with you?IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted May 04, 2013 08:04 PM
People change, things change. It's obvious by the many names, charts, stories that you have written about this man that he no longer feels the same, if he ever did at all. Just let it go. It's unfair to everyone here to keep addressing you. You don't want to listen to anyone/anything. quote:
Originally posted by shylioness07:
@ empress we use to tell each other i love you. Not to mention the chemistry and the attraction were all phenomenal. He told me best friend that he liked me but was afraid to fall in love with me.
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shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 08:04 PM
@ Gemmy thank you for your insight. I just get that vibe from him, I have always been honest with him. I know his past relationships were all bad. Which caused him to shut down emotional, every time I tried to get him to open up emotionally he would get defensive. The attraction between us would cause us to get aroused just by standing in each other presence. We would tap our feet uncontrollably and fidget. It was too much energy and no outlet to release it. Can you please explain to me how 12th house dream is causing me to have these crazy dreams? How does 12th synastry causes problems?IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 08:19 PM
@ empress thanks for the advice but if it was so easy to let go a lot females on this forum going through the exact same thing would all do the same and just let go. We all want this to be over and in time, it all will be. Until then, like anybody else we want answers. Why this one was so different. He is not the only guy I ask about, I just think we share a special connection. The thing about a forum people don't have to respond if they don't want too. If you are tired reading about my situation, then don't reply to my threads. I'm not the only female on here that's experiencing this, a lot of females are. I had a horary post asking about a completely different guy. I am trying my best to get over him, but it's not easy. Especially when I have these weird dreams and in reality, they actually happen. With the different transits moving, you could be right. He feelings have probably changed. And if they are then that's fine too. I have the memories to remember what time we shared. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 04, 2013 08:26 PM
I think it's his planets in your h12, that is really effecting you..
I have h12 synastry going on... When it hits it hit hard and fast....
It feels like a soul union, and touches deeply.. It really does open you up to your inner self.I'm curious how long has it been since you spoke?
Also what was his reasoning for not speaking anymore, if he told you? IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 08:53 PM
@ lioness we haven't spoken to one another in over two months. He never told me anything. We use to talk everyday then out the blue we wasn't. I think he's going through a lot personally. His father just passed away a week ago. We use to comfort one another when we did speak. I know that the 12th house is the open of the unknown, secrets, lies and enemies, but how does all this have a hold onto me now. I'm glad I can talk to someone who is actually went through something similar. What happened between you and your guy? IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 09:01 PM
It's not just me that he's not speaking too. All of our mutual friends say he doesn't answer their calls either. Even his best friend said, that he isn't the same. His best friend said he's going through something and he's very depressed. IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted May 04, 2013 09:04 PM
I have alot of 12th house going on too.The 12th house is Neptunes house,so any planets in the 12th will feel like neptune contacts. I have 4 personal planets in his 12th.He says he dreams of me and their really vivid.He hears me when he wakes up and sometimes he actually thinks I'm there. If you search LL you'll find many threads with people experiencing the same thing. IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 09:07 PM
@ Gemmy thanks! I will check into those threads. Since his planets are in my 12 house, it's affecting me. I get that. Question: is any of my planets in his 12 house IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 04, 2013 09:19 PM
I don't think everyone can deal with the h12 overlay..It can open up some unknown parts to you, or maybe you just have to be mentally ready..
Honestly I don't think I could have handled this energy when I was younger... Me and fishy, still talk just about everyday, but I have been working on moving forward...
I try letting him go totally, but idk it's just not going to happen... But I (try) unless asked or it really pertains to him, I have stopped posting and researching us...
It still comes up from time to time, but I try not to get to deep into it..
The posting and the research actually makes it worse, it keeps him in m head, and keeps me from moving forward...
So for the most part I have stopped, or at least but some control on it... We still talk just about everyday as friends, but idk... Deep inside I don't know if that's the best thing to do. We do have a nice friendship, but there is a but.... We did stop talking for a month, ironically it was because I got mad at him, so I refused to answe his phone calls and texts.. But here we are again talking... Honestly idk what's worse talking or not talking..
I have such mixed feelings..
Sometimes idk how I'm even going to feel/do..
It's very hot and cold between us... Shrug IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted May 04, 2013 09:20 PM
Actually your planets are in his 12th.But with the 12th house/Neptune it can go both ways.I have really depressing dreams that I hope never come true.His ASC is in your 12th.But I havn't read much on that. And if it's a personal thing with him,I don't know what degree his IC is in,but transiting Pluto is probably close to it.That's a pretty heavy transit to go through. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted May 04, 2013 09:49 PM
You are openly breaking the rules by creating multiple accounts. You keep asking the same thing over, and over, and over. He doesn't want you, if he did he would have you. It's clear as day. Not sure what else you're looking for. You keep contradicting yourself about him as well. First you say you only want friendship, then say you're in love..if he wanted you he would have you.
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Originally posted by shylioness07:
@ empress thanks for the advice but if it was so easy to let go a lot females on this forum going through the exact same thing would all do the same and just let go. We all want this to be over and in time, it all will be. Until then, like anybody else we want answers. Why this one was so different. He is not the only guy I ask about, I just think we share a special connection. The thing about a forum people don't have to respond if they don't want too. If you are tired reading about my situation, then don't reply to my threads. I'm not the only female on here that's experiencing this, a lot of females are. I had a horary post asking about a completely different guy. I am trying my best to get over him, but it's not easy. Especially when I have these weird dreams and in reality, they actually happen. With the different transits moving, you could be right. He feelings have probably changed. And if they are then that's fine too. I have the memories to remember what time we shared.
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shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 10:00 PM
@ lioness wow, I'm doing a lot if research hoping it will help me get over whatever this is or was between us. I started posting looking for answers, I never had this happen with anyone or if I did I wasn't aware of it then. I called him once and he answered we spoke briefly, but I ended up hanging up, he told me to call him back but I never did. We use to have this love/hate thing go on from time to time. I miss him and all, if it wasn't for the dreams I wouldn't even think of him. I mean I do really good, but then there is always one day that sets me back. For some strange reason, I will end up thinking about him out the blue for no reason at all,that one day leads me to posting and asking questions. I can't wait until this is all over with IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 04, 2013 10:10 PM
quote:
Originally posted by shylioness07:
@ lioness wow, I'm doing a lot if research hoping it will help me get over whatever this is or was between us. I started posting looking for answers, I never had this happen with anyone or if I did I wasn't aware of it then. I called him once and he answered we spoke briefly, but I ended up hanging up, he told me to call him back but I never did. We use to have this love/hate thing go on from time to time. I miss him and all, if it wasn't for the dreams I wouldn't even think of him. I mean I do really good, but then there is always one day that sets me back. For some strange reason, I will end up thinking about him out the blue for no reason at all,that one day leads me to posting and asking questions. I can't wait until this is all over with
I understand, I really really do...but researching actually makes it worse...
I started feeling better once I stopped researching so much..
It became an obsession, and it keeps him in your head and thinking about him..l
Of course things will come up from time to time, but sitting around researching becomes unhealthy..
I only say it cuz I went through it...
Yes I have those things that remind me if him.. A new restaurant opened near my house with his name, there is a tv show with both the characters are our names.. The commercials drive me nuts..
The list goes on and on...
I try to to make it my main focus anymore...
Of course I have set backs, but hey I'm human...lol My advice is do something to take your mind off of him, something that takes concentration.. I have been painting ceramics, you really have to focus on what your painting, and getting the little spots..
It keeps my mind completely off of him.. It's really your mind, that's driving you crazy and not him.. IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 10:23 PM
@ empress I already said thank you for your advice. I would appreciate if you bypass any of my threads from now on. i havent asked you fot anything. you are not reading my chart, so why are you even responding to my thread. also, There are many females experiencing, what I just found out is 12house synastry. Just found out too, that since its such a similar situation then all our stories would be similar, in some cases they may even be identical such as how the people met. From what others post, this 12th house synastry is a soul connection, it's different then just done random guy you met. I never said anything about wanting us to be together. I clearly ask if this would manifest into something more. Meaning more than what it is now, which is a feeling of being stagnated. I have never confess my feelings to him, maybe if I did we would be together. We were good friends, met through some friends never pushed him for more than just friendship. When I met him, I just recently gotten engaged with my current boyfriend. I'm noticing a lot of guys from my past are coming back into my life, so from time to time I post charts to see why they are reappearing. I apologize for having a similar story like 98% of the females on here. I'm not doing anything wrong by seeking insight. There are tons of threads all about fated connections, soulmate connections every story sounds identificatial. Either the female is in a relationship or she's married and the guy she's asking about is either in a relationship or married. Everyone going through this just want some insight. I haven't even ask for a tarot reading from anyone about this guy. There is no need when we have a lot of mutual friends. I'm friends with his best friend, his best friend anf he barely speaks to him too. IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 10:31 PM
@ lioness I graduate in July obtaining my masters. School has been doing exactly that, taking my mind off him. It's because we have a lot if mutual friends. I stop answering their calls because they would ask if I talked to him or they would talk about him. You're right, it's my mind driving me crazy. I just signed up for real estate financing courses, hopefully everything will change. I hope these course will keep me busy and my mind occupied. I wanted to say thank you again for sharing your story and for providing insight. I hope this whole obsessive feeling goes away real soon. IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 04, 2013 10:36 PM
@ Gemmy
Your Ascendant in partner’s 12th House - this indicates a strong karmic link between the two of you based on past life associations. It can also indicate a psychic-telepathic or intuitive-empathic link.
I think this would explain the dreams I have been having.IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted May 05, 2013 12:22 AM
You have asked me and a lot of others on here for readings pertaining this guy, more than once already. Enough is enough. quote:
Originally posted by shylioness07:
@ empress I already said thank you for your advice. I would appreciate if you bypass any of my threads from now on. i havent asked you fot anything. you are not reading my chart, so why are you even responding to my thread. also, There are many females experiencing, what I just found out is 12house synastry. Just found out too, that since its such a similar situation then all our stories would be similar, in some cases they may even be identical such as how the people met. From what others post, this 12th house synastry is a soul connection, it's different then just done random guy you met. I never said anything about wanting us to be together. I clearly ask if this would manifest into something more. Meaning more than what it is now, which is a feeling of being stagnated. I have never confess my feelings to him, maybe if I did we would be together. We were good friends, met through some friends never pushed him for more than just friendship. When I met him, I just recently gotten engaged with my current boyfriend. I'm noticing a lot of guys from my past are coming back into my life, so from time to time I post charts to see why they are reappearing. I apologize for having a similar story like 98% of the females on here. I'm not doing anything wrong by seeking insight. There are tons of threads all about fated connections, soulmate connections every story sounds identificatial. Either the female is in a relationship or she's married and the guy she's asking about is either in a relationship or married. Everyone going through this just want some insight. I haven't even ask for a tarot reading from anyone about this guy. There is no need when we have a lot of mutual friends. I'm friends with his best friend, his best friend anf he barely speaks to him too.
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Orange
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posted May 05, 2013 01:50 AM
You have this special synastry aspect of North Node( yours )conjuncting Vertex ( his). You can find more about it on Google.
Also, you have a double whammy Mars/Pluto conjunction which can create a very obsessive bond. It's your Pluto to his Mars, and his Mars to your Pluto.The 12th house is very spiritual but it's difficult to handle as well, because it creates disillusions, mistruss and misunderstandings.b Having your Venus in partner's 12 house more often than not indicates unrequited love. If it is a returned love - then it is a very magical love, because it has the Neptune overtone. It also seems that your South Node conjuncts his Venus - this is a primary indication of a past life love connection. I suggest you Google that aspect as well. I am not sure how close is the aspect - it's not clear from the synastry chart, but it looks close - should be no more than 4 degrees to be valid. Keep in mind, however, that while your Virgo stellium falls in his 12th house, his planetary stellium falls in your 11th house - the house of friends. It's possible he only considers you as a friend. With your Saturn on his Moon, your Pluto on his Mars and the Node/Vertex connection, it will be very difficult for you to move on and forget about him. You have a Scorpio Rising and that makes you a very passionate and deeply emotional individual. Hope things turn out good for you.
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cfall614
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posted May 05, 2013 02:13 AM
shylioness, I think you feel this connection because there are a lot of conjunctions between your planets. The moon-saturn I've heard is a big deal and makes people have an odd compulsion to be there for each other. The vertex-NN is another big one--I know NN connections mean that the NN person is suppose to learn something from the other person, but the vertex person also feel a huge connection--so both of you leave a huge impression on each other, at least based on the synastry. It also seems like your moon is conjunct his DC, which means your emotional expression is aligned w/ his partnership needs. So I can see why it's hard to move on. But even w/ those aspects, in reality, if you feel that you have already reached out to him and he isn't responding, it may be best to let him go for awhile. His reasons for being distant could be many, and it will be hard to pinpoint what they are. I know it's hard, because I've experienced something like that too. Constantly wondering why he won't talk, trying to make up reasons and scenarios for why he won't, and putting on one-sided effort can just make things harder for yourself. Hope you take care  IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted May 05, 2013 02:38 AM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
You have asked me and a lot of others on here for readings pertaining this guy, more than once already. Enough is enough.
She gets pretty rude/offensive when she doesn't like the outcome of the reading too and then is confused as to why people don't read for her anymore.
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shylioness07
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posted May 05, 2013 02:42 AM
@ Orange thank you for your insight. With your Saturn on his Moon, your Pluto on his Mars and the Node/Vertex connection, it will be very difficult for you to move on and forget about him. You have a Scorpio Rising and that makes you a very passionate and deeply emotional individual. Hope things turn out good for you.
Wow, it has been hard. No matter how much progress I make, something happens to set me back and I end thinking about him. I desperately want to move on and let go, there are times when I do extremely no thoughts of him. To me this all seems one sided. Your aspects explains how this feel for me, but no aspects mentioned how this has affected him in anyway. IP: Logged | |
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