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Topic: Soul connection, it was fated
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shylioness07
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posted May 05, 2013 02:49 AM
  
@ Happyaskings I haven't had anybody on this forum read for me. I think you and empress have me confused with somebody else. I would never get rude over a reading, it wouldn't make sense to become rude in the first place especially since I'm a appreciative person. This thread alone, shows how I appreciate everyone insight, their advice and their opinions. I personally believe everyone is right, to let go and move on. I'm just learning that this whole 12th house synastry it is dealt to just let go. I have a lot coming up as far as career achievements, meaning my graduation in July. IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 05, 2013 02:55 AM
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Originally posted by cfall614:
shylioness, I think you feel this connection because there are a lot of conjunctions between your planets. The moon-saturn I've heard is a big deal and makes people have an odd compulsion to be there for each other. The vertex-NN is another big one--I know NN connections mean that the NN person is suppose to learn something from the other person, but the vertex person also feel a huge connection--so both of you leave a huge impression on each other, at least based on the synastry. It also seems like your moon is conjunct his DC, which means your emotional expression is aligned w/ his partnership needs. So I can see why it's hard to move on. But even w/ those aspects, in reality, if you feel that you have already reached out to him and he isn't responding, it may be best to let him go for awhile. His reasons for being distant could be many, and it will be hard to pinpoint what they are. I know it's hard, because I've experienced something like that too. Constantly wondering why he won't talk, trying to make up reasons and scenarios for why he won't, and putting on one-sided effort can just make things harder for yourself. Hope you take care 
Thank you! This has been extremely hard and now I know why. It's not like I don't want to move on, I really do. I want this whole thing to be over with. Like I mention before I never even told him how I feel, which seems like a good thing that I didn't. We were good friends and it's the friendship I miss. What makes it harder to move on is having a lot if mutual friends. I can definitley attest that this was life changing.
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dyedye08
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posted May 05, 2013 04:05 AM
@ shylioness I want to say, I know exactly what you are going through. Like a lot of women of this forum, I have a 12th synastry story as well. My story and your story is almost identical. Except for the fact that I'm married, the guy I use to post about was married, we had a 17 year age gap between us, him and I met at work, we worked together actually became very good friends. I haven't heard from him since January. So it's been about 4months now. Differences in our stories: i see you and him met through friends, theres a 10 year agr difference, i see you are engaged. congratulations! i dont see any mention of his relationship status, so im assuming hes single. Word of advice, listen to all the women who have been through this. They are right in saying to let go. It's for your own good, if you don't this thing will become very obsessive, and life consuming. I want to apologize for all of the negative energy that you are getting. This whole thing for me became so obsessive that I created multiple accounts in which I got readings done and multiple chart readings done as well. They weren't all on the same guy though. I want to wish you luck and send you loads of virtual chocolate. The constant wondering, the what could have is what drives us crazy. I actually confessed to my guy how I felt. We share similar aspects, we share a love stellium as well, all of that still didn't change the fact that he hasn't called. Horary won't help, getting readings done only makes it worse and posting charts won't change anything either. What I learned through all of this it's not what the charts say, it's free will that counts. I have seen people have unbelievable synastry and they don't even get together. I think you should cherish what you two had and let go. If it meant to be you will only know if you set it free. I'm pretty sure, that he thinks about you too and if it's personal problems that he's going through then it's separation that he needs. I know that feelings of wanting to be there to comfort especially finding out that his father just passed away( im sorry to hear that) but if he doesn't want you there then it's nothing you can do. I'm studying magi astrology. I took a look at your horary post and just for some reassurance I think he does misses you. It’s not very strong, but he does. (Applying Moon to Sun, ruler of Ascendant = You)) He is overwhelmed with trying to resolve some kind of a partnership. (Uranus, ruler of 7th, in 8th house squared by Pluto) He is pretty desperate for solutions right now. I think he is focusing on a different relationship hence the no contact. Just from all of your other posts, you never mentioned his relationship status. I'm not sure you are aware, but just from intuition I get there is another woman in his life that has his attention. Also the house overlays between the 12th and the 11th can be pretty confusing. I think he sees you as a friend, but with the 12th house it's tricky. I think he may have wanted a secert relationship, a relationship that was hidden hence the love stellium in the 12th house. I see that your love stellium is widely conjuct Pluto and conjuct mars which makes this connection even more special. I had this same exact stellium with my guy, so trust. I know exactly how you feel and what you are going through. Do me a favor? Let this be your leave post about him, I think the sooner you let it go the better things will be for you. How's everything with your fiancé. I never see any posts about you and him, when is the BIG Day. My own relationship is barely a relationship anymore. I was stuck in stagnation too. I was feeling a lot of regret, but I'm better now. You are getting your masters which means you are smart, so please do yourself a favor and focus on self and your relationship. Especially with your guy focusing on another relationship. I think there is potentional for this to manifest: the chemistry, the attraction, the love stelliums, everything clustered to one area of the chart which means this is definitley a strong connection, it feels bonded because of the clustering of all the planets together in both synastry and composite. i think he's a soul mate. Look at how the Moon negative aspect to venus it shows that there is something that is keeping you two from being together. Always a family/race/someones currently still in a relationship issue. I would bet money it's because he's currently in a relationship of his own. You really should look up moon conj. saturn and sun conj uranus in synastry, I think this will give you a better understanding of the themes in the relationship was. I wished I had a magic wand to take away all the pain away from every female that has experience this or something similar. Hugs and good luckIP: Logged |
dyedye08
Knowflake Posts: 275
From: South Orange, NJ, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2013 04:26 AM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
You are openly breaking the rules by creating multiple accounts. You keep asking the same thing over, and over, and over. He doesn't want you, if he did he would have you. It's clear as day. Not sure what else you're looking for. You keep contradicting yourself about him as well. First you say you only want friendship, then say you're in love..if he wanted you he would have you.
@ empress leave this poor child alone. Can't you see she is already going through enough. Where is your empathy at? She doesn't need your false accusations right now. Everybody that has a similar story to mine, or like any of the women on here going through the exact same thing doesn't mean that they all created multiple accounts. For me, yes I did. I was so obessess with finding answers that I did create multiple accounts but I stopped posting charts and stop all the request for readings because it wasn't getting me anywhere. I'm letting go hence why you haven't said any recent posts created by me lately. I think she gets the picture, that she needs to move on. I just think you could have been a little more sympathetic in your approach and even nicer about how you went about everything.
For now, all we can do is offer advice if she listens anf takes the advice that's given, falls on her. For me personally, it wasn't easy to move on. No matter how many times people would advise me I still wouldn't listen. It's a mind thing, that takes some deep understanding and soul searching but I can be done, I never thanked you, it was because of you that I was able to let go. That day for me, I realize just how obsessive that this whole thing had become. I wasn't mad at you. You was what I needed, you help open my eyes and made me realize exactly how unhealthy my obession had become. Good Bye Empress.
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shylioness07
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posted May 05, 2013 09:29 AM
@ dye Thank you. Okay, I finally underdtand. I was confused initially when she came at me about the multiple accounts, I seriously had no idea what she was talking about. It's nice to meet someone going through the same thing. I seem to have a grasp or come to terms with what happened. When we 1st met, he had just broken up with a long term girlfriend, when we would talk he would mention her in the sense if how she treated him. If he cared about her I'm pretty sure you are right, that he's working to fix that relationship. As far as things with my fiancé at the moment they are good, the big day is in March 2014. I appreciate the advice and I am taking heed. I have read countless other threads where other ladies are experiencing the exact same thing and it all just seems like a never ending cycle. I think you have to face reality and accept things for what they truly are. I know with horary and readings, you can't keep asking questions slighting changing up the question because it won't yield a correct answer hence why I never consult tarot about this guy, that too becomes addictive just like chart posting. This will be my last post about him, like a mention before with the real estate courses and graduation steadily approaching I think that is enough to keep my mind occupied. I feel for you, with both you of you being married that must have been hard. I can only imagine. I do better most of the time though, there are my moments when I have a set back but I'm learning to channel that energy elsewhere as well. The researching is what's causes me to post charts because I see certain aspects, wonder how did the aspects play their part with us. I'm learning to take one day at a time and face that day how it comes. Hugs from me to you, thanks for the understanding. I think I will stop while I'm ahead before this thing becomes too obsessive, to the point where I'm posting multiple horary charts like other females I have notice do. It was good while it lasted and I should be happy for that. Thank you once again, also for the apology that alone takes courage to do. A lot of people wouldn't have been honesty, for that I'm grateful. I want to wish you luck as well. Hope things work out for both of us. It's not love that I'm looking for, I just miss talking to him. IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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From: South Orange, NJ, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2013 11:12 AM
@ Shy it's no problem. Truthfully, I don't even know if it was me who she had in mind, when she made the accusations. (Its like the person who has kids and one of their children ends up in jail because they were at the wrong place, at the wrong time. And the prosecutor, judge, or DA is being unreasonable and inconsiderate. For One,they can not sympathize with you, because they have never had kids, so they have no idea what you are going through) I think since she caught me with multiple accounts, every time she hear a story or situation similar to mine or anyone else she ever caught with multiple accounts she will feel the need to judge, instead of being sympathetic because she has never experienced this herself and if she has its possible that it ended terribly and she hasn't dealt with the pain. Because I know that one bad apple can spoil it for the whole bunch, I felt compelled to apologize. Hopefully, others who have created multiple accounts will read this and also feel the need to apologize. You are right when you said if Horary and Tarot is used frivolously and without seriousness, it does not yield correct answers! I'm afraid that is what I did initially and it seems to be that case with others too. It's happening more on this forum, with the repeated number of threads (at least 5 or so within a week's span) started - all - in regard to the same subject, only phrased slightly differently in each thread. I was one of these females that did this, is why I am even mentioning it now. Not that its harming anybody,because a person can easily choose to bypass a post/thread and never waste their time, but I think people do volunteer their energy and offer insight because they too, have experienced the same thing or something similar and feel compelled to help that person who is asking because they know that that person is very curious and concerned. I feel the more knowledge you have in a subject, the easier it is to explain to person who has the slightest clue to what is happening. Also, experience plays a factor. but at the same time I think others need to understand that this is just not the way to work with Horary and Horary thus will not give anyone correct answers. Synastry/Composite doesn't make a person love you, its their free will that does that. I learned this the hard way. The best thing you could possible do, is take a look at your own natal chart.
Study the basic aspects first and start understanding YOU, Yourself as a person. Start working towards your purpose in life, once you understand your natal chart, you'll understand why you attract these n type of relationships. For understanding, the way you love you'll need to study your moon aspects. Truthfully, for one to really compare Synastry you need to look at that person's natal chart and your natal chart and see how certain aspects in your Synastry compares to you two natal charts. Even though there are a lot of talented readers in Synastry,Composite and Horay its you who are not even learning if you don't even try interpreting. With me, I tried interpreting the charts I posted. Focusing on the basics of what I saw. Like I mentioned in my earlier post to you, us both being married only made a complicated situation worse. He would always talk about unhappy he was with his wife, but the truth was despite his happiness she was the bread winner. That wasn't always the case because at one point, he made more than her, but since she was making more money he felt the need to continue to be the do right man, that he was. For me, I was in his 12th house and he was in my 11th. I know why we stopped talking, we had a argument back in January. He asked me what I wanted in terms of a relationship with him. That day, we exchanged some hurtful words because my answer wasn't what he wanted to hear. In my mind, there was no way we could be together. He told me that he didn't have anything to offer me, due to his financial situation. Like any man, he wasn't providing the way he wanted to in his marriage. So, embarking on another relationship where he couldn't provide the way he wanted to; made no sense to even start something with me. With that in mind, I focused on our friendship, he was having trouble remaining friends with me because of the way he felt about me. Feelings were now involved and it only complicated and made matters even worse than before. Honestly, to this day I have no idea what I want from him. All i know, is sometimes I miss what we had. I have come to terms with everything.
With my sun sign being in Virgo, Virgos tend to over analyze and dissect every situation we face. I think, once you admit that it hurts and allow yourself to feel the pain it helps you to connect with your inner guidance which enables us to reason.
Instead of thinking with our emotions, we are able to think more logically and rationally, which allows us to really see how things truly are. I I feel like I could write book about this, then again there are already a millions of books out there about this exact thing. I can honestly say, letting go feels good. For me I use to reminiscence in the past, wishing I could go back in time and change some things but I can't. Hugs to you and wish you luck. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted May 05, 2013 11:51 AM
Dyedye08
Beijing07
Virgo36
Shylioness07 (notice how a moderator had to delete /edit some of her posts)I forgot the other names. This person lies through her teeth. Beware. She will make all sorts of stories up just to seem credible. They are all the same person. Same person. I'm not going to waste my time reading this obviously unstable person's replies. She really has some issues she needs to sort out outside of this forum. I'm not sure why she's doing it & why people are giving her attention. Also, why aren't any moderators doing anything to solve this? http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006200.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006231.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006553.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006236.html This thread she lies about being beijing07:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006831.html
Edit - I believe she thinks we're stupid. Look at the way she types. She lied on another thread where I think I meanj discovered she was beijing07 stating that she was only virgo36. She got confused and replied to the reading thread I gave her with the wrong account. I had to show her in order for her to finally fess up.
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EmpressMendez
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posted May 05, 2013 12:04 PM
Notice she says "it's not obsession, it's guilt and regret" every thread is a contradiction. Now she's aware (finally) that it is an obsession. They are both Virgos & she has posted this same exact synastry/composite before. I will post links to show. People have already discussed these charts with her. She doesn't seem to want to believe anything.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted May 05, 2013 01:38 PM
Composite does show soulmates. All planets conjunct with uranus and saturn not in the stellium.
Love stellium.
For sure a soulmate.I believe you when u say he loves you IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 05, 2013 01:59 PM
@ Ras Thank you. I appreciate the insight. Also thank-you for believing me IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 05, 2013 02:23 PM
@ Empress dyedye08 came on here and formally apologized. She admitted she was wrong for creating multiple accounts. You are sadly mistaken though, I am not here. To prove this to you. I pulled the links to all my posts on LL. Our charts are no shape in the least the same. Also, no moderator had to delete /edit some of any of my posts
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006955.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006899.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006889.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006601.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006668.html
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shylioness07
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posted May 05, 2013 02:25 PM
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Originally posted by shylioness07:
@ Empress dyedye08 came on here and formally apologized. She admitted she was wrong for creating multiple accounts. You are sadly mistaken though, I am not here. To prove this to you. I pulled the links to all my posts on LL. Our charts are no shape in the least the same. Also, no moderator had to delete /edit some of any of my posts
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006955.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006899.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006889.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006601.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006668.html
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EmpressMendez
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posted May 05, 2013 02:29 PM
I thought you were a "firm believer in Karma"?Guess not. Karma still exists though, so I would be really careful shylioness07/beijing07/dyedye08 or whatever other name you would like to be called next. Ras - just because people have a love stellium in their charts doesn't mean someone loves them. Strangers can share this, and that doesn't necesarilly mean love. People keep taking these charts so literal, it's insane to me how people srongly believe in these. No wonder this woman seems to be so unstable. Making all of these stories and things in her head up. Charts are for people who are actually together and how they interact, or thr possibility to interact. It doesn"t show if a "friend" or stranger loves you. For all we know, this is simply a man this person admires from afar. This man clearly does not love her. She needs to wake up and stop being so delusional. My kids father doesn't love me and we have a "love stellium". I share this with someone else that I'm not in love with, and a a guy who I was obsessed with for years as well. They don't "love" me. Charts don't show this. IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted May 05, 2013 02:43 PM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
I thought you were a "firm believer in Karma"?Guess not. Karma still exists though, so I would be really careful shylioness07/beijing07/dyedye08 or whatever other name you would like to be called next. Ras - just because people have a love stellium in their charts doesn't mean someone loves them. Strangers can share this, and that doesn't necesarilly mean love. People keep taking these charts so literal, it's insane to me how people srongly believe in these. No wonder this woman seems to be so unstable. Making all of these stories and things in her head up. Charts are for people who are actually together and how they interact, or the possibility to interact. It doesn"t show if a "friend" or stranger loves you. For all we know, this is simply a man this person admires from afar. This man clearly does not love her. She needs to wake up and stop being so delusional. My kids father doesn't love me and we have a "love stellium". I share this with someone else that I'm not in love with, and a a guy who I was obsessed with for years as well. They don't "love" me. Charts don't show this.
shylioness07/beijing07/dyedye08 or whatever other name you would like to be called next. you can take my name off this list it has already been established that she and I are two separate people. Its you who refuses to accept the truth I don't have to worry about Karma, when I believe that old saying " what you do in the dark must come to the light" Dyedye08 got caught, oh well but don't tie me to her empress . I can post pictures of us together to prove that he wasn't some stranger or some man that I was admiring from afar. I can't speak for dyedye, only for me.
All I know is what she has told me. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted May 05, 2013 02:50 PM
The only one you're fooling is yourself & other gullible people in this forum. Pathethic if you ask me. I felt the need to address this, and I am now done.You're the same person, and you need to seek professional help. No one can help you here. Good luck to you once again. The truth will set you free. Remember that. Edited to add: Yes, a moderator had to edit some of your posts because I believe you cursed someone out & pretended to be the original Shylioness. I will search for the post & post it here. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted May 05, 2013 03:05 PM
She has now decided to delete all the charts, lol. Seriously, whoever believes & continues wasting their time "helping" this individual is just adding to the overall unfairness of this forum. I don't even know if I should stay here. Hopefully I can find somewhere else better to go, where moderators & owners are actually strict & follow their rules.IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted May 05, 2013 07:02 PM
Sorry, but I'm not crazy. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006403.html quote:
Originally posted by shylioness07:
@ dye Thank you. Okay, I finally underdtand. I was confused initially when she came at me about the multiple accounts, I seriously had no idea what she was talking about. It's nice to meet someone going through the same thing. I seem to have a grasp or come to terms with what happened. When we 1st met, he had just broken up with a long term girlfriend, when we would talk he would mention her in the sense if how she treated him. If he cared about her I'm pretty sure you are right, that he's working to fix that relationship. As far as things with my fiancé at the moment they are good, the big day is in March 2014. I appreciate the advice and I am taking heed. I have read countless other threads where other ladies are experiencing the exact same thing and it all just seems like a never ending cycle. I think you have to face reality and accept things for what they truly are. I know with horary and readings, you can't keep asking questions slighting changing up the question because it won't yield a correct answer hence why I never consult tarot about this guy, that too becomes addictive just like chart posting. This will be my last post about him, like a mention before with the real estate courses and graduation steadily approaching I think that is enough to keep my mind occupied. I feel for you, with both you of you being married that must have been hard. I can only imagine. I do better most of the time though, there are my moments when I have a set back but I'm learning to channel that energy elsewhere as well. The researching is what's causes me to post charts because I see certain aspects, wonder how did the aspects play their part with us. I'm learning to take one day at a time and face that day how it comes. Hugs from me to you, thanks for the understanding. I think I will stop while I'm ahead before this thing becomes too obsessive, to the point where I'm posting multiple horary charts like other females I have notice do. It was good while it lasted and I should be happy for that. Thank you once again, also for the apology that alone takes courage to do. A lot of people wouldn't have been honesty, for that I'm grateful. I want to wish you luck as well. Hope things work out for both of us. It's not love that I'm looking for, I just miss talking to him.
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littlecloud
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posted May 05, 2013 07:02 PM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
The only one you're fooling is yourself & other gullible people in this forum. Pathethic if you ask me. I felt the need to address this, and I am now done.You're the same person, and you need to seek professional help. No one can help you here. Good luck to you once again. The truth will set you free. Remember that. Edited to add: Yes, a moderator had to edit some of your posts because I believe you cursed someone out & pretended to be the original Shylioness. I will search for the post & post it here.
I'm tempted to close this thread but will leave it open to see if you do find this. edited to add: Apparently we posted at the same time. Thanks for bringing this to everyone's attention Empress. Now closing this thread. IP: Logged | |
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