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Topic: Tarot Reading? Will the relationship last?
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ShyVirgo1979
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posted May 23, 2013 03:25 PM
  
@VenuscorpioI actually did that too. It shows I registered in May '11 and I made a few posts and then lost my password. I almost made another user name but I ended up emailing the webmaster here and asked him for my password which was in Jan '12. If I was unable to retrieve my password I would have 2 user names as well. Understandable cuz it happens. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 23, 2013 04:23 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
@Venus
Everyone reads in a different way. Not everyone is going to be sympathetic. Some have a more realistic approach without any sugarcoating. Take it for what it is
I got a similar bitter attitude from readers when I first started asking for readings.
Just wanted to requote this again. No one is going to be sympathetic, face the facts of what happened. Did he love you? Maybe. Is he with you now? No.
Solve the equation. The cards everyone has pulled convey the fact that you must move on.
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venuscorpio86
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posted May 23, 2013 10:55 PM
Asclibra....I don't need your negative attitude...obviously it's not going to happen a reconciliation after all that was happened why would I? Second of all I'm looking for answers and closure NOT an answer of YES he loves you etc. etc. I'm in search of answers in regards to what was, what happened, if it was cheating. Not saying oh I want him back. His ex girlfriend played this like a Lifetime movie and like I said, I still deal with her harassing me after our break up he ended up in rehab and other things in between this wasn't just oh, we can't stand eachother we are done, it was slow quiet fade away, it literally went from one day him saying for me to move my clothes over to his place because he wanted me there with him everyday and night to 5 hours later I'm getting a false police report made on me by his ex. 4 days prior I was getting threats from her boyfriend or ex or whatever they consider each other to my work....being lied about, slandered, she tried play God and break us up against our will made terrible things happen, things were said....it goes beyond a regular break up. Trust me, I been through a break up that was normal this just left me traumatized, broken confused. I don't need or want you negative responses. It is not mandatory you respond either so you don't have to.As for everyone else, like I said you all been so kind and I take every bit of information you give and remember it and also the advice you give as well. I'm very grateful to all of you who have helped me out on here...I didn't try to abuse this site or use anyone or be deceitful. I have given everyone a very nice response and have shown my gratitude to everyone who has helped I feel. IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted May 24, 2013 04:58 AM
Hey Venusscorp, Aah, okay, I see, with the 2 accounts. Perhaps it's an idea to let one of the moderators know? I personally felt a bit like 'huh? But isn't she...?' Might be nice to let the others know your other name, because we all communicated a lot under that too.
Perhaps a psychic can give you more info on what exactly happened, but sometimes it just turns out we will never know how and why. For what I can remember from the card reading the thing that brought you together was seeking balance (meaning you were both unbalanced which is never a good base for a relationship. It makes it very difficult.) And there were feelings from his side, but more immature and less stable than yours and you looked at him with pink glasses on & the argumenting was a main reason for the change between you. I also still believe you are absolutely better of without him. Wish you luck and hope you are able to let it go soon, so there will be space in your heart for a new loving love interest  IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted May 24, 2013 05:38 AM
Isn't that hypocritical of you? You get all hurt & defensive when people (ahem-me) are blunt with you, then you turn around and do it to others? Makes no sense whatsoever, practice what you preach. quote:
Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Just wanted to requote this again.No one is going to be sympathetic, face the facts of what happened. Did he love you? Maybe. Is he with you now? No.
Solve the equation. The cards everyone has pulled convey the fact that you must move on.
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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted May 24, 2013 08:07 PM
Thank you Twirl! Yea, I remember our reading. I was actually looking through my email for it so I can re-read what you wrote. Thanks everyone for being so great IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted May 24, 2013 08:13 PM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Isn't that hypocritical of you? You get all hurt & defensive when people (ahem-me) are blunt with you, then you turn around and do it to others? Makes no sense whatsoever, practice what you preach.
One thing is being honest but saying things in a nice way, and another thing is being blunt and mean, which is what asclibra did. I think twirl was honest and said what venusscorp needed to hear, but in a nice and sympathetic way. Said by asclibrasagsun: "no one is going to be sympathetic" Excuse me? Shouldn't we all have sympathy for another human being? ------------------
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EmpressMendez
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posted May 24, 2013 08:17 PM
I agree of course! 100%. I was blunt with her in the past, but definitely not mean. The reason I was blunt is because she's a very negative person. She always flames me in every thread if she doesn't like the answer (although it is the truth & others state the exact same thing to her). Very bitter and negative - not sure why she is that way. She claims I don't know what I'm doing, & insults me. Then, she tells me I don't have tact, but now look at the way she acts. Typical hypocrite. Her theory: if the answer is negative, then you can't "read" -"thanks for trying.." (it's a prediction, why are you saying thanks for trying? you don't know the outcome, and if you did, then why get a reading?)  Kind of off topic. Sorry Venus. But she needed to be called out for her hypocritical ways. quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
One thing is being honest but saying things in a nice way, and another thing is being blunt and mean, which is what asclibra did. I think twirl was honest and said what venusscorp needed to hear, but in a nice and sympathetic way. "no one is going to have sympathy with you." Excuse me? Shouldn't we all have sympathy for another human being?
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted May 24, 2013 08:29 PM
^ I guess it was in another thread. but i havent seen her be mean yet. Saying thanks for trying isn't mean :PIP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted May 24, 2013 08:35 PM
Who are you talking about? I'm confused..
Asclibrasagsun is a very negative person. That's why Venus was telling her she doesn't need her negative energy. Thanks for trying in the tone & manner she typed it, plus flaming is negative. She is a negative person overall. quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
^ I guess it was in another thread. but i havent seen her be mean yet. Saying thanks for trying isn't mean :P
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EmpressMendez
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posted May 24, 2013 08:38 PM
I wasn't the one being negative to venus, asclibrasagsun is. I was agreeing with Venus. I wasn't the one being unsympathetic with her, or telling her she didn't need sympathy. I called asc out because she's a hypocrite who flames people that tell her the truth, or try to help her.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted May 24, 2013 09:25 PM
Ohhhh okayyy i understand now empressmendez Yes that's what I saw too.
Asclibra is mean. She was mean to me too once when i told her something about moon sq venus being good in synastry lol. Idk. There's no reason to hurt someone, especially when they're down, like venusscorp is at this time. Venusscorp <3 we sympathize with you and we understand this is a very difficult process. You will get over it eventually even though it seems now like you never will. I recently went through a similar thing. Getting the tarot readings i did certainly helped me a ton bc they gave closure and talking to him about what happened also helped. One day i literally just snapped out of it and my feelings for him just disappeared. And the sweet moments we shared in the past no longer meant anything to me anymore. Take care and please do get all the closure you need for yourself until you feel healed. It worked that way for me. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 24, 2013 10:31 PM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
I wasn't the one being negative to venus, asclibrasagsun is. I was agreeing with Venus. I wasn't the one being unsympathetic with her, or telling her she didn't need sympathy. I called asc out because she's a hypocrite who flames people that tell her the truth, or try to help her.
Empress, you have never been sympathetic to me ever only super harsh and blunt. Here you are calling me out for being blunt. Once again, I'm so pleased that you have so much time on your hands to thoroughly discuss me.
How about you stop flaming me now?
Seriously stop with the harassment. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 24, 2013 10:34 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
The 8 of Cups really is a sign for you to move on.Just don't think about it. Let them be. You can find your own happiness that way much easier. Remember what you went through with him definitely wasn't love because love isn't about cheating and suffering or pain. So why even bother to care about if they will last or not?
How is this unsympathetic? IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 24, 2013 10:35 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Sooner or later everything will work out for the best. Blessings to you and I hope you heal from the painful situation
How is this unsympathetic? IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 24, 2013 10:36 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Hey RAS no offense but I have given her at least 5 or 6 very thorough readings,
She is going to keep asking until she finally accepts the fact of the whole situation in her heart and there is nothing us readers can do about that. She already knows the answer but she keeps coming back not because she hasn't received a proper reading, WHICH she has because this is probably thread number 25 on the same topic, going all the way back to a few months ago...and quite honestly I have not seen any true gratitude on the side of the poster, not even a simple thank you to anyone, last time she made a thread was Saturday and she was being so pushy telling me to keep pulling cards even though I already did a very thorough reading for her... She feels like she is entitled to the readings that we do here and this is not how free readings are to be taken!
We have all told her to move on, now it is up to her to just do it.
I don't see the point in asking over and over again why someone cheated on you, just accept it and deal with it for what it was. This is the only way will you be able to rebuild your life especially considering the fact that THE CARDS SAY, since she was interested in a tarot reading, that it is over
being blunt.
because sometimes people just need to hear others be blunt. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 24, 2013 10:40 PM
Once again Empress, I don't know nor understand why you think so highly of yourself as some tarot/astrology master, I have NEVER received a good quality reading from you that included constructive criticism, it has all been a bunch of crap.
I can name several people on this forum that HAVE BEEN accurate and constructive on various topics however, so don't be going around saying I have a problem with anyone, because I actually don't have a problem with anyone at all.@RAS ... what is your deal?
When was I mean to you?
Not that I like you either but you helped me with a few composite readings a couple of times and I always said thank you and thought they were pretty good. You just did a most recent one for a friend and I and that was very accurate. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted May 24, 2013 11:20 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Once again Empress, I don't know nor understand why you think so highly of yourself as some tarot/astrology master, I have NEVER received a good quality reading from you that included constructive criticism, it has all been a bunch of crap.
I can name several people on this forum that HAVE BEEN accurate and constructive on various topics however, so don't be going around saying I have a problem with anyone, because I actually don't have a problem with anyone at all.@RAS ... what is your deal?
When was I mean to you?
Not that I like you either but you helped me with a few composite readings a couple of times and I always said thank you and thought they were pretty good. You just did a most recent one for a friend and I and that was very accurate.
-___- geez.
calm down tho
I'm not saying I dislike you...
I just think you can be mean sometimes. Empress wasn't attacking you, so there's no reason to attack her. We are just saying don't be MEAN.
Okay, I remember you said thank you and everything. I do. I just remember you also being mean somewhere inbetween. Haha.
Just take it easy.
"What is your deal?" Please calm down. It's not like I am looking for a fight. We were just commenting on how you were being unnecessarily unsympathetic with the OP IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 24, 2013 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
-___- geez.
calm down tho
I'm not saying I dislike you...
I just think you can be mean sometimes. Empress wasn't attacking you, so there's no reason to attack her. We are just saying don't be MEAN.
Okay, I remember you said thank you and everything. I do. I just remember you also being mean somewhere inbetween. Haha.
Just take it easy.
"What is your deal?" Please calm down. It's not like I am looking for a fight. We were just commenting on how you were being unnecessarily unsympathetic with the OP
She was attacking me in the past and she sure is attacking me now so don't be defending her!
Really don't see how she is allowed to just run her mouth like that.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted May 25, 2013 12:06 AM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
She was attacking me in the past and she sure is attacking me now so don't be defending her!
Really don't see how she is allowed to just run her mouth like that.
"Really don't see how she is allowed to just run her mouth like that." - do you see how rude you're being? IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
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posted May 25, 2013 12:19 AM
EmpressMendez, I think your do an great job as a tarot reader and give great well explanations to everyone on here it seems like from previous threads your always very courteous and nice as well.IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 25, 2013 12:26 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
"Really don't see how she is allowed to just run her mouth like that." - do you see how rude you're being?
Yeah RAS because she is allowed to harass me and I'm just supposed to sit there and take it. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 25, 2013 12:27 AM
Guess what? You're both rude.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted May 25, 2013 12:49 AM
It didn't sound to me like she was harassing you. She didn't say "why don't you quit running your mouth" and stuff like thatIP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted May 25, 2013 01:07 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
It didn't sound to me like she was harassing you. She didn't say "why don't you quit running your mouth" and stuff like that
Yeah because she said things which were worse. Like calling me a hypocrite. What business does she have doing things like that? IP: Logged |
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