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venuscorpio86
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posted May 22, 2013 01:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Will the relationship between B and C last long? What are the cards saying in regards to this relationship?

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posted May 22, 2013 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for elixir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.crystalvisionstarot.com/8cups.html

I think this card is for you and tells you to move on.

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Will the relationship between B and C last long? What are the cards saying in regards to this relationship?

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posted May 22, 2013 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok thanks. Would you mind pulling a few cards in regards to the question itself? Or if anyone would like to?

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posted May 22, 2013 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[QUOTE]Originally posted by elixir:
[B] http://www.crystalvisionstarot.com/8cups.html

I think this card is for you and tells you to move on.


~I agree. I remember you (venuscorpio) from back in feb/march and I'm assuming this is the same guy were talking about. My intuition is telling me it is the same situation you are asking about. I remember you started like 13 to 14 different thread topics asking for readings and you were told the same thing over and over. Yet you still asked for more readings, just rewording the question. I truly sympathize for you as I have been thru a similar situation but its time to move on now. I can feel your hurt over this (I literally can sense it) but I also can feel your unhealthy obession with it as well. I know you are seeking some understanding but coming on here asking for repeat readings over and over isn't going to help you move on. It just further feeds the obsession. Not only that but I don't like to see anyone taking advantage of the readers here on LL. If its over between you and him, then its none of your business now what he's doing and who he's doing it with. You have some healing to do. Might I suggest a different site for you as maybe it will help:

http://www.allexperts.com/el/Psychics/

Heal and find your happiness my dear xx

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posted May 22, 2013 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I understand that & try or trying to move on. It just kills me to wonder if I was being cheated on or if this is new relationship or what I feel like he was cheating but also I may not be being rational. I'm just looking for answers and wish I could move on find someone who wont put me through this

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And I totally understand where you are coming from having been thru it. It sucks! I was the exact same way with someone from my past and it takes a long time to get over being betrayed. But eventually you can make the choice to let go. Once the hurt subsides some. No one new and wonderful can come into your life if you are still clinging to the past, as it blocks it from entering your life. You can never manifest anything in life if it comes from negativity (fear, jealously, etc). Google the law of attraction and you will better understand it. I sense you are afraid of being vulnerable with someone....knowing if your ex cheated or not won't help, only keep you locked in your past. With your earlier post, I was being shown an image in my head of a wilted flower. I don't know if you want to hear this or not but I will share it anyways. Specifically I saw a petunia. Only it was what's called 'spent'. In gardening sometimes you need to pull the 'spent' flower so the seed head will grow another flower in its place. You need to do some spritual gardening and do the same so you can flourish in life again. Rid yourself of anything that reminds you of him and whenever your thoughts turn to him, force yourself to think of or do something else. He has lessons to learn too and just remember, karma is a bi*** sometimes lol When you forgive him, you will open the door for someone else. I sincerely wish the best for you and hope you heal from this. Take care xx

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posted May 22, 2013 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you shy Virgo. I hate feeling this way. Yes, I agree I read some about law f attraction should prob read more. Your totally right, I should look into cord cutting maybe? I don't know people say great things about him that he is kind, loyal, etc. I felt like he liked me I guess it would be easier to forgive him if I knew why we crumbled. It would be easier if I was in the wrong, I did forgive him briefly in my heart I really did until he started arelaionship with C all my sadness anger and questions came back in my head. Thank you for being so kind

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posted May 22, 2013 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The 8 of Cups really is a sign for you to move on.

Just don't think about it. Let them be. You can find your own happiness that way much easier. Remember what you went through with him definitely wasn't love because love isn't about cheating and suffering or pain. So why even bother to care about if they will last or not?

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posted May 22, 2013 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks asclibra. I don't know that he was cheating, its a question I have within myself its not for sure. I understand I wasn't completely innocent in how I treated him either, verbally abusive to be honest. He ended up in rehab because his drinking was REALLY bad after our breakup ...some people joke & say I had to do with his drinking escalating so bad. I was so hurt by his ex & her lies took it out on him. I told him everything from he was unattractive to worthless that I was only with him to **** my ex off, threw his drinking in his face etc...I didn't mean those things obviously I have some negative things about myself I need worked on. I only said this things out of anger and sadness didn't think he needed take it to heart.

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posted May 23, 2013 01:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sooner or later everything will work out for the best. Blessings to you and I hope you heal from the painful situation

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posted May 23, 2013 03:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venusscorp, why do you use two accounts?

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posted May 23, 2013 08:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wanted to say something, sorry?

If the tarot isn't for helping you find answers to what really happened or how someone really felt, or what will happen...than what's the tarot for?

I think the reason why this poster keeps coming back to ask more questions is because she has never been given a proper reading that fully explains "this is what happened and why he left."

I sympathize because I am going through a similar thing now myself and also become disappointed when I see that most of the time, a tarot reading will not give you a real answer, or be very helpful at all. Yes, it's true, but usually not detailed, only because it only answers very specific questions---so you have to keep asking it questions to get all the information you want! Draining

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posted May 23, 2013 08:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey OP get a psychic reading, check the psychic reading thread. It will help trust me. Good luck.

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posted May 23, 2013 09:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:

I think the reason why this poster keeps coming back to ask more questions is because she has never been given a proper reading that fully explains "this is what happened and why he left."


I do disagree with this. And to me personally it feels a bit like you are not backing up the people that already did do readings for her. Is that what you meant or am I misinterpreting this?

In my opinion it’s sometimes just hard to face the answers that are given by the tarot, because we want to hear something else. If things are still unclear I recommend a live conversation with the person involved and confront them. In the end we are all responsible for how we deal with certain situations in our life and we always have a choice. That is also what I recommended in my reading that I did for scorpio (under a different account name).

Edit: I also do not mind to give as many readings as needed btw. That's a different subject. I do mind when readings are asked under 2 different names. That feels unfair, but perhaps there is a perfectly well explanation for that so I'm just waiting for Scorpio her reply on that.

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posted May 23, 2013 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wait, what?? I didn't know she had 2 names on here. I wasn't on here for a few months my gosh I missed a lot lol Why do ppl need more than one user name on here? I will never understand that....

And you're welcome venuscorpio.

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posted May 23, 2013 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey RAS no offense but I have given her at least 5 or 6 very thorough readings,
She is going to keep asking until she finally accepts the fact of the whole situation in her heart and there is nothing us readers can do about that. She already knows the answer but she keeps coming back not because she hasn't received a proper reading, WHICH she has because this is probably thread number 25 on the same topic, going all the way back to a few months ago...and quite honestly I have not seen any true gratitude on the side of the poster, not even a simple thank you to anyone, last time she made a thread was Saturday and she was being so pushy telling me to keep pulling cards even though I already did a very thorough reading for her... She feels like she is entitled to the readings that we do here and this is not how free readings are to be taken!
We have all told her to move on, now it is up to her to just do it.
I don't see the point in asking over and over again why someone cheated on you, just accept it and deal with it for what it was. This is the only way will you be able to rebuild your life especially considering the fact that THE CARDS SAY, since she was interested in a tarot reading, that it is over

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posted May 23, 2013 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Thank you shy Virgo. I hate feeling this way. Yes, I agree I read some about law f attraction should prob read more. Your totally right, I should look into cord cutting maybe? I don't know people say great things about him that he is kind, loyal, etc. I felt like he liked me I guess it would be easier to forgive him if I knew why we crumbled. It would be easier if I was in the wrong, I did forgive him briefly in my heart I really did until he started arelaionship with C all my sadness anger and questions came back in my head. Thank you for being so kind

And my ex that I spent 8 yrs with who repeatedly cheated on me put on a nice front for all the outsiders. Everyone else thought he was this great guy. Only since I was with him so long I got see his selfish side and knew what he was really like. Everyone still thinks that and I just laugh inside and smh lol And I don't say anything bc I would just come across as the jealous ex and I could care less what he does with his time. Him and I get along just fine now that we don't live under the same roof lol Just bc ppl say great things about him doesn't mean they know the true him. Its called hearsay lol

I agree that maybe you need a psychic reading at this point as it could provide you more answers than what tarot is giving you. Tarot sometimes only gives you so much and it isn't always what you want to hear. I've been reading tarot cards on and off for almost 19 yrs now. Chin up hun Don't let the darkness consume you in this matter as you have so much more in life waiting for you once you are past this xx

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Hmm well she seemed really courteous on this thread? Hmm I dunno. I was just trying to understand where she might be coming from. I'm sure she does feel bery grateful for the readings she's gotten. Things like this are just tough for anyone.

25 readings ARE a lot to ask in a matter of a month though lol. And yeah using two different names is shifty....also against forum rules. She could get banned.

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posted May 23, 2013 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes there is a explanation, for two names. I had forgotten my password information for my account started another. I didn't get on here for a nth or so? Forgot my info to new one. I came across my original info because I came across it in my homework journal. I didn't use two different names too be unfair anyone or trick anyone or be deceitful

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posted May 23, 2013 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes there is a explanation, for two names. I had forgotten my password information for my account started another. I didn't get on here for a nth or so? Forgot my info to new one. I came across my original info because I came across it in my homework journal. I didn't use two different names too be unfair anyone or trick anyone or be deceitful

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posted May 23, 2013 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, absolutely I'm looking for all kind if honest answers because his evil ex who still follows me around in town cussing me out the evil terrible things that happened is so traumatic to me. I'm very grateful for everyone help. Asclibra. Was very nice to you thanked you, be honest I never requested a reading from you & reading your tarot pulls are like a knew def in a heart, your brash you push alot when I asked another question...you not sift not sympathetic and say everything like oh yes def he was DEF cheating he didn't lovevyou in very brash way. You cone off as bitter yourself. Everyone else you Bern great and your advice has been very nice & warms me ..I sincerlt mean that.

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posted May 23, 2013 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Venus


Everyone reads in a different way. Not everyone is going to be sympathetic. Some have a more realistic approach without any sugarcoating. Take it for what it is

I got a similar bitter attitude from readers when I first started asking for readings.

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posted May 23, 2013 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I concur.


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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Yes, absolutely I'm looking for all kind if honest answers because his evil ex who still follows me around in town cussing me out the evil terrible things that happened is so traumatic to me. I'm very grateful for everyone help. Asclibra. Was very nice to you thanked you, be honest I never requested a reading from you & reading your tarot pulls are like a knew def in a heart, your brash you push alot when I asked another question...you not sift not sympathetic and say everything like oh yes def he was DEF cheating he didn't lovevyou in very brash way. You cone off as bitter yourself. Everyone else you Bern great and your advice has been very nice & warms me ..I sincerlt mean that.

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posted May 23, 2013 02:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Check out the psychic reading thread. Awesome lady who reads tea leaves. 10 dollar special for May only. It's detailed & she was spot on for me. Maybe you will find your answer through her

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Originally posted by Twirl:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
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I think the reason why this poster keeps coming back to ask more questions is because she has never been given a proper reading that fully explains "this is what happened and why he left."


I do disagree with this. And to me personally it feels a bit like you are not backing up the people that already did do readings for her. Is that what you meant or am I misinterpreting this?

In my opinion it’s sometimes just hard to face the answers that are given by the tarot, because we want to hear something else. If things are still unclear I recommend a live conversation with the person involved and confront them. In the end we are all responsible for how we deal with certain situations in our life and we always have a choice. That is also what I recommended in my reading that I did for scorpio (under a different account name).

Edit: I also do not mind to give as many readings as needed btw. That's a different subject. I do mind when readings are asked under 2 different names. That feels unfair, but perhaps there is a perfectly well explanation for that so I'm just waiting for Scorpio her reply on that. [/B][/QUOTE]

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