posted August 07, 2013 06:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

More important than the astrology itself is how does he treat you? How do you feel around him? How do you feel when you are alone with him? How do you feel when you are with others?
Any alarm bells should be taken seriously; however if you trust him and he has never given you any reason to mistrust him, I wouldn`t get scared.
Of course you always need to reflect (in general, in connections to people), how they treat you and if they act with kindness and compassion towards people, or if they are more the selfish kind.

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Welcome Fluffy There was more to your cards, but would take some time to explain & work on that. The behaviour you describe are patterns that you picked up from a young age (we all have those patterns but they play out different for everyone), but since they are so 'old' they normally don't fit in the current day & age anymore.
I very much agree with what Ceri writes above & I think that's excellent advice

Have a great day

posted August 07, 2013 12:20 PM            

Thank you.
Ok lets see... When we are together he makes it priority that my communication/time with him is undisturbed. He comes across as a little paternal.. also a little possessive. When I am with him I feel as if I am in a transcendental state. We communicate more with our eyes, than our speech. We are both aware there is a spark, but we both do our best to cover it up, although we have both acknowledged the mutual attraction. He has looked straight through me. He out-stared me. He is very kind and patient, a little like a loving parent.

If we were teens (or stupid) or both, LOL Im sure we would have had wild sex 3 years ago, but probably crashed and burned. But Im not that type of woman.

Its out of the bedroom that matters to me as I know in the bedroom it would be electric.

to sum up, hes always respectful, I never feel at risk and he treats me like a lady.

Thats why I was so surprised at reading AND even more so of the 2 divorces. WHY would two women divorce a man like that???

posted August 08, 2013 04:05 AM            

It is hard to count the number of stressful influences that draw people together who think they are destined for each other. This is why Synastry astrology can be so helpful.

If you are open to the information it bestows upon you, it may help you circumvent potential landmines in your path.

Even a person who has VE conjunct MR aspec, typically a favorable sex appeal aspect, in his / her natal chart will have difficulties with some people relating to them in a turbulent way. It all depends on the positioning of the aspects in the Synastry Aspecting Charts.

If you have stressful aspects, then you are being forewarned about the potential behind the indicators.

Treat Astrology like statistics, everything in it is a possible outcome, never factual.

There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting

Slowpoke

posted August 08, 2013 09:52 AM            

I just want to be sure Ill be getting the 'right' type of
with this guy.

Ill check back in a year with a link to my wedding photos for you all to see