posted November 05, 2013 04:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
It's not what you said but what was implied. You have serious issues, get help.

AND we're all speaking as people who care, if we didn't give a crap...Believe me, we wouldn't even bother replying or taking time out of our day to write posts to you.

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You don't really see that you are horrasing me again? You say "get help". And "what was implied". I never implied any of what you want to believe. I wrote all what I ment - nothing is to be read between the lines. You are the one doing that for reasons I don't know.

posted November 05, 2013 05:20 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
How old are you, Astrid?

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posted November 05, 2013 05:47 AM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Astrid, to be honest, no amazing/complementary/PERFECT synastry is gonna overcome the obnoxious, self-righteous, self-piting and victamizing vibe you give off. If you wanna spend your life away seeking answers in Astrology instead of actively working on your issues, that's up to you. None of us and certainly none of the people you've met or will meet are going to work on issues not of our own. If [b]everybody is telling you the same thing -- to seek (professional) help --, then you should at least do it to shut them (us) up.

I truly hope you find whatever it is you're seeking and get to keep it. [/B]

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posted November 05, 2013 06:23 AM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Astrid, to be honest, no amazing/complementary/PERFECT synastry is gonna overcome the obnoxious, self-righteous, self-piting and victamizing vibe you give off. If you wanna spend your life away seeking answers in Astrology instead of actively working on your issues, that's up to you. None of us and certainly none of the people you've met or will meet are going to work on issues not of our own. If [b]everybody is telling you the same thing -- to seek (professional) help --, then you should at least do it to shut them (us) up.

I truly hope you find whatever it is you're seeking and get to keep it. [/B]

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That was totally uncalled for. Please do not assume that you know someone 'by the vibe she gives off'on an internet forum.

Astrid, IMEANJ didn't mean to upset or insult you. I view her post very differently because I am someone outside peeping in. You sound like someone who's been through a lot hurt and pain. I respect that but at times it taints our perception of things because we are after all, humans. Emotions can become too raw to handle.

posted November 05, 2013 07:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
That was totally uncalled for. Please do not assume that you know someone 'by the vibe she gives off'on an internet forum.

Astrid, IMEANJ didn't mean to upset or insult you. I view her post very differently because I am someone outside peeping in. You sound like someone who's been through a lot hurt and pain. I respect that but at times it taints our perception of things because we are after all, humans. Emotions can become too raw to handle.

Everyone: Please play nice, otherwise I'll close this thread.

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I don't think it was uncalled for... This woman actually called us all out in her other thread, said we were EVIL because we are "unwilling" to understand her and her pov and told us to f*ck ourselves. In this thread, she has come short AGAIN of calling us evil and to scr*w us. Do we only excuse bad behavior on those that need help but won't accept it? That's a double standard, if I've ever seen one.

Anyway, I don't play nice, I am nice. Only I don't believe in sugarcoating the truth of the matter -- I'd rather someone tell me straight to my face what they feel I've done wrong, then them putting on a happy face while they're off laughing or badmouthing me behind my back. Does that automatically make me a bad person?

posted November 05, 2013 08:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
That was totally uncalled for. Please do not assume that you know someone 'by the vibe she gives off'on an internet forum.

Astrid, IMEANJ didn't mean to upset or insult you. I view her post very differently because I am someone outside peeping in. You sound like someone who's been through a lot hurt and pain. I respect that but at times it taints our perception of things because we are after all, humans. Emotions can become too raw to handle.

Everyone: Please play nice, otherwise I'll close this thread.

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posted November 05, 2013 08:30 AM            

Still my reaction to IMEANJ first message is not being viewed the right way either. I never said she was evil. I said "I see her as being that" and I made a question about it for her to answer. We could had cleared the situation instantly. I was only putting my angle of it through. My feelings. I left it for her to answer. I haven't judged any of you as being all the character you show me here otherwise in life. I havn't become personal. Unlike some of you.

You are judging me for being an all-the-way-through bad or sick person with serious issues, and I have now heard loads of times from you that I need to seek help. It's like you have god complex. And no matter how many times I respond telling you how much you hurt me - you still continue, being more personal and evil time after time. i am being objective. I stay at the subject. I tell you you hurt me and that what you are telling me is wrong - ON HERE!!! I am not asking you to seek help because you are "****** up enough to not understand me" Im not saying "you are stupid idiots with low IQ" or anything personal am I? I do not hurt YOU! I do not imply anything outside this forum. You do, and that is bullying. In my country that is illegal and can bring you to court. From my angle you seem to enjoy this. That is why I would like to report some of you as bulliers on here to the moderator. I think you should be banned from the forum.

Bulliers love to hurt those who seem available for the pain. You read that I was in pain, you have the story from the other tread saying that a lot of people misunderstand me. So you interpreted the weaker parts I wrote about myself as being tons worse than they are by putting them in other areas of my personality instead, at the same time minimizing my true weaker side - my permanent invisable handicap. If you met me you would be totally embarrassed. I am being misunderstood because people normally look up to me. I am a leader type. I am beautiful, I am charming. I am intelligent. They men are always gathering around me, leaving the other women to envy... and hate. The misunderstandings come from that - the fact that I seem to be a person in social high standard and high profile and that are in total control over what I say. So instead of being a person who may express herself differently because of choosing socially not really correct words (Note: correct words, but not 'socially' corrrect in the context), they think that what can be interpreted as bad, then probably must be. It is never about me being weird or a sick person. No one told me to "get help" before. I am mostly being put on a piedistal. My life situation now is viewing only how I hate not being viewed for who I really am. People always see me as being too perfect, or the complete opposite. I feel I am definitely neither and that is truly enormously painful to me.

posted November 05, 2013 09:00 AM            

filleaspirant: I am hereby reporting filleaspirant for being a true bullier. Wanting to bring another tread to the attention only to make sure to convince people that they did right to not like me in this tread. She also wrote stuff only to be hurtful clearly stated by herself as "I know I'm gonna get cursed and hated ". She also described me as "...obnoxious, self-righteous, self-piting and victamizing" in the meaning that its how I am as a person generally - not the way she sees me only in the tread. She also wrote "Go see a therapist. I think if you do make the effort, a couple of years in therapy will do a lot of good"... still knowing that it would be really hurtful. At the same time as she is trying to convince everyone "how nice she really is".

Haplesschild: I hereby report Haplesschild for being a true bullier. She got very personal writing "You have serious issues, get help."

zarea: I am hereby reporting zarea for bullying. She wrote the following clearly to hurt me. So clearly that she actually writes herself that she is going to be cursed out: "I know I'm gonna get cursed out but I'll say it nonetheless: No wonder the online dating guys ran off to better pastures..."
She also jumped to the harmful conclusion that many guys didn't want to be in contact me, when all there had been mentioned was ONE, and he never left - I did!

imeanj: For being patronising and once again repeat "awake" and telling that "I make my life" knowing it would hurt me, considering my clear earlier response where I got through my feelings about it.

posted November 05, 2013 09:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Sarahwood:
I agree with Jessica 2407, I been reading this thread. I kind of know what Astrid is going through. And I have an opinion but do not want to say it. Because if I did. Why a my here in this website of Linda. But anyways, as human to human.... No one should have the right to offend anyone. Astrid you seem angry and hurt and at the same time playing am strong n not hurt but you are. It is okay it is not your fault. I went through a lot and I do as well look at synastry just for fun. I personally do not take astrology seriously. Yes sometimes it is true Hun. However, sometimes it does not work. Because life is unknown you do not know after this what you will be doing and where is your success in 10 years even if someone predicts... It's just a prediction can happen n can't. Life is 50/50. But life gives plenty if chances so in the end you will receive your award.
I my self is looking for love n being successful making a change. Although, I have mental problems my
Mind is far too strong (negative thoughts) but I am helping my self cuz I love my self and want to be happy. Many men have used me physically n I my self was not perfect am happy it did not grow even if I felt he is everything. No he is not everything. There is always someone better than the one you met. Till you have reached to that person that the universe wants to be with and know that you two are meant to be.
I hope you do not take this as crticism or saying you need help mentally... U don't. Just hope you understand n u analyze your situation n then you will find it I wish you to be with the one who treats you right. Without tarot cards or astrology. Just you finding it n trust ur guts n intuition . Take care.

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Thanx! You are a truly nice person Sarahwood! Nice not only because you wrote some nice thing to me, but also because you saw that someone needed to because of all the pain the others are giving me. Being a good soul, I am gonna keep your kindness in my heart and wish for you to get that wonderful life you deserve. I wish you will find you true love who will treat you as a princess! Thank you for taking the time for me.

But one thing though, I am not angry. I stated in the first sentences of my posting that I wasn't angry. After that all the bulliers here have just made me hurt and sad. I havn't been angry at all.

posted November 05, 2013 09:20 AM            

However, I don't appreciate being called a bully, since I was bullied myself when I was 15. You don't know my life story and that's something that is in my past that I've overcome, so I'm not going to take offense at you calling me a bully. If you want to still think I'm a bully, that's really up to you. I will, nevertheless, refrain from talking to you and posting in your threads, as I don't think you'll ever want to hear the things I want to say and share.

I'll also apologize for even commenting here in the first place, as I brought up what you did in the other thread into this one. I have an opinion on how you should've addressed your last post on the other thread, but you're a grown woman and I don't want to go there again anymore.

Lastly, I know I come off patronizing and as a know-it-all, but that doesn't bother me. The people I care about that end up on the receiving end of my patronizing ways (that you may have called a God complex -- which I'm choosing to not see as a jab) don't enjoy it but they see my heart is in it and that I only want to help them the best way I know how. Obviously, I don't know the best way to help anyone; I'm not qualified, academically or God-wise, to give the correct answer. I can, at most, hope to direct them to an answer.

I stand by everything I said, but I am sorry that it brought you pain and hurt. For that, I apologize.

posted November 05, 2013 09:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Astrid:
I AM HEREBY REPORTING SOME OF THE FORUM USERS HERE TO THE MODERATOR TO BE BANNED BECAUSE OF HURTFUL INTENTIONS, so called bulliers:

filleaspirant: I am hereby reporting filleaspirant for being a true bullier. Wanting to bring another tread to the attention only to make sure to convince people that they did right to not like me in this tread. She also wrote stuff only to be hurtful clearly stated by herself as "I know I'm gonna get cursed and hated ". She also described me as "...obnoxious, self-righteous, self-piting and victamizing" in the meaning that its how I am as a person generally - not the way she sees me only in the tread. She also wrote "Go see a therapist. I think if you do make the effort, a couple of years in therapy will do a lot of good"... still knowing that it would be really hurtful. At the same time as she is trying to convince everyone "how nice she really is".

Haplesschild: I hereby report Haplesschild for being a true bullier. She got very personal writing "You have serious issues, get help."

zarea: I am hereby reporting zarea for bullying. She wrote the following clearly to hurt me. So clearly that she actually writes herself that she is going to be cursed out: "I know I'm gonna get cursed out but I'll say it nonetheless: No wonder the online dating guys ran off to better pastures..."
She also jumped to the harmful conclusion that many guys didn't want to be in contact me, when all there had been mentioned was ONE, and he never left - I did!

imeanj: For being patronising and once again repeat "awake" and telling that "I make my life" knowing it would hurt me, considering my clear earlier response where I got through my feelings about it.

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posted November 05, 2013 09:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Astrid:
filleaspirant: I am hereby reporting filleaspirant for being a true bullier. Wanting to bring another tread to the attention only to make sure to convince people that they did right to not like me in this tread. She also wrote stuff only to be hurtful clearly stated by herself as "I know I'm gonna get cursed and hated ". She also described me as "...obnoxious, self-righteous, self-piting and victamizing" in the meaning that its how I am as a person generally - not the way she sees me only in the tread. She also wrote "Go see a therapist. I think if you do make the effort, a couple of years in therapy will do a lot of good"... still knowing that it would be really hurtful. At the same time as she is trying to convince everyone "how nice she really is".

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I'm only going to address my part on this.

I didn't describe you as all that. I SAID that is how you come off to me. What I perceive from everything you've said in this forum so far. Nice way to take what Jessica2407 interpreted of my words and put a bad spin on it.

I didn't bring the other thread in to "convince" people you're a bad person. I brought it in as an example of how you react to replies that are not according to what you want to hear. Nothing more, nothing less. Oh, and let me give you this little advice: if you don't like when people read into what you write for an underline meaning, you should refrain from doing so to others. Just, you know, food for thought on that one.

But what is really ******* me off is this: "She also wrote "Go see a therapist. I think if you do make the effort, a couple of years in therapy will do a lot of good"... still knowing that it would be really hurtful. WHERE did I say anything like that? That was someone else, concurring with something I truly said. Oh, and for your information, libel and injury is a "two-way street" in my country.

You have reported me and I will accept any consequences that come from it. If you want to reply to what I'm writing right now (this last post), you're certainly entitled to, but I am asking you to henceforth abstain from using my username.

posted November 05, 2013 09:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
That was totally uncalled for. Please do not assume that you know someone 'by the vibe she gives off'on an internet forum.

Astrid, IMEANJ didn't mean to upset or insult you. I view her post very differently because I am someone outside peeping in. You sound like someone who's been through a lot hurt and pain. I respect that but at times it taints our perception of things because we are after all, humans. Emotions can become too raw to handle.

Everyone: Please play nice, otherwise I'll close this thread.

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Thank you for your message. I can see that she wasn't really that bad. There was an angle of "I wanna help", but it was also patronizing. I wouldn't had taken it so bad if it would had been a response to my actual posting. But it wasn't. Her message doesn't have noting to do with my posting. She has jumped to the wrong conclusions about all of it. She saounded like I was stupid (but in a far nicer way) for looking at astrology trying to make a relationship with those with perfect synastry. When the fact is I never did. I didn't even have the chart until the end. I didn't even have the chart at all for the first one.

Anyway my reaction wasn't really about this either. It was more because of the experience of the other tread that one of the bulliers brought up here. As I said, I have a permanent handicap that makes a lot of people (note: people who 'do not know' me) think I am evil. They choose to THINK I am - although I never did them any but good. Anyway, the handicap is permanent, but on the other tread some said that I have myself to blame for how I am treated. And that is really low - to blame someones handicap on them self. Her saying "I make my own bed" really hit me right back on that soar spot. i wasnt angry - I was really hurt. And that should be what you see in my response. Still it sounds like people took me for being angry... Well it doesn't really matter. I still think she was rude. What I wanted on this astrology site was, of corse, ASTROLOGY!!! But what I got was someone elses 'opinion' and patronizing bahavior against me. I think she did wrong. And yes, when I read what I wrote I can see it sounds quite bad. I am actually sorry for that. But that could had been cleared out quite much easier. I didn't need all the bullying.

posted November 05, 2013 09:46 AM            

filleaspirant, I appreciate your humble gesture which was to provide an apology.

posted February 08, 2014 10:24 AM            

Apologies for the late response to your email.

I only checked my inbox today.

posted February 08, 2014 10:53 AM            

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Gemini Ascendant
Sun in Leo
Moon in Cancer
Mercury in Virgo
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Libra

posted February 08, 2014 11:29 AM            

It's like a circuit that conducts energy from one person to other - the more the circuits connects in compatible ways, the more fluid the energy exchanges goes. With that said, if at least one side's energy is negative, then a good synastry only means toxic energy flowing more effectively. :/

For checking the relationship itself, you have to do composite. Even so, aspects to/between midpoints also counts, and not many pays attention to these relevant aspects that can affect the whole picture.

posted February 08, 2014 12:06 PM            

If you have any issues editing your posts in this thread, please do not hesitate to let me know. I would gladly edit them myself on your behalf.

posted February 08, 2014 02:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Astrid:
I AM HEREBY REPORTING SOME OF THE FORUM USERS HERE TO THE MODERATOR TO BE BANNED BECAUSE OF HURTFUL INTENTIONS, so called bulliers:

filleaspirant: I am hereby reporting filleaspirant for being a true bullier. Wanting to bring another tread to the attention only to make sure to convince people that they did right to not like me in this tread. She also wrote stuff only to be hurtful clearly stated by herself as "I know I'm gonna get cursed and hated ". She also described me as "...obnoxious, self-righteous, self-piting and victamizing" in the meaning that its how I am as a person generally - not the way she sees me only in the tread. She also wrote "Go see a therapist. I think if you do make the effort, a couple of years in therapy will do a lot of good"... still knowing that it would be really hurtful. At the same time as she is trying to convince everyone "how nice she really is".

Haplesschild: I hereby report Haplesschild for being a true bullier. She got very personal writing "You have serious issues, get help."

zarea: I am hereby reporting zarea for bullying. She wrote the following clearly to hurt me. So clearly that she actually writes herself that she is going to be cursed out: "I know I'm gonna get cursed out but I'll say it nonetheless: No wonder the online dating guys ran off to better pastures..."
She also jumped to the harmful conclusion that many guys didn't want to be in contact me, when all there had been mentioned was ONE, and he never left - I did!

imeanj: For being patronising and once again repeat "awake" and telling that "I make my life" knowing it would hurt me, considering my clear earlier response where I got through my feelings about it.

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