posted February 17, 2014 09:51 PM            

Here's our synastry:
(I'm the inside person)

Here's our composite:

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Gemini Ascendant
Sun in Leo
Moon in Cancer
Mercury in Virgo
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Libra

posted February 18, 2014 08:30 AM            

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Originally posted by KingofCups:
I am new to this, so Idk whether a good composite can compensate for bad synastry.

Your synastry does not seem to be particularly great as you already know, so I'll skip that and go to your composite. The first thing I noticed about the composite was Venus Opposite Mars. This is a complicated aspect. It makes for a love-hate relationship such that when you are feeling in love, you feel it with immense passion, and when you hate, you feel it just the same. There is a strong physical attraction, and it's possible that your relationship developed physically before it did verbally. However, because Mars is in Capricorn, it might not have. In any case, it'll be a difficult aspect to work with. Another feature I found to be eminent was the three Yods. This pattern makes your relationship feel fated. You feel very magically connected to each other, especially when involved in emotional conversation. You may get into bad arguments and even go through break-ups, but something will always pull you back together with him, whether it is good for you or not (and in this case, I'm leaning towards not; I hope I'm wrong though). You may be forced to make sacrifices to be with each other. But you will make whatever sacrifices are necessary because you feel an immense connection to him. This energy is very powerful and makes for obsession and great passion.

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posted February 19, 2014 06:54 AM            

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Originally posted by KingofCups:
I am new to this, so Idk whether a good composite can compensate for bad synastry.

Your synastry does not seem to be particularly great as you already know, so I'll skip that and go to your composite. The first thing I noticed about the composite was Venus Opposite Mars. This is a complicated aspect. It makes for a love-hate relationship such that when you are feeling in love, you feel it with immense passion, and when you hate, you feel it just the same. There is a strong physical attraction, and it's possible that your relationship developed physically before it did verbally. However, because Mars is in Capricorn, it might not have. In any case, it'll be a difficult aspect to work with. Another feature I found to be eminent was the three Yods. This pattern makes your relationship feel fated. You feel very magically connected to each other, especially when involved in emotional conversation. You may get into bad arguments and even go through break-ups, but something will always pull you back together with him, whether it is good for you or not (and in this case, I'm leaning towards not; I hope I'm wrong though). You may be forced to make sacrifices to be with each other. But you will make whatever sacrifices are necessary because you feel an immense connection to him. This energy is very powerful and makes for obsession and great passion.

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The fact that you said that I get pulled back to him no matter what the situation is, kinda is playing out already even when we're not yet in a relationship. I mean, I've tried to get over him countless times, but somehow, I just keep coming back. And from what you've said, it sounds like it's the kind of relationship with many ups and downs--which may not sound so good, but I guess it's better than a super easy relationship. Anyway, I'm still drawn to him like you said, but there are times when I don't feel like I'm into him. Now, I'm feeling exactly that and I guess that's a good thing. Thanks for your insight

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Gemini Ascendant
Sun in Leo
Moon in Cancer
Mercury in Virgo
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Libra