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Topic: Synastry and composite reading, please?
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filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 04, 2014 07:54 AM
Pfft. Why even bother getting into a relationship that has no future? I might as well not even bother or fret over it.I'll do your questions later today or tomorrow. If I don't exchange with anyone, I might do them all at once, but if I do, it'll take a bit more time. Sorry, but sometimes card readings can take more energy than what is expected. I've been meaning to ask, what do you make of that Moon-Moon and Moon-Pluto squares in synastry? I think I like the trine and sextile our Moons make to each other's Saturn, but I don't much like Pluto squares. IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 04, 2014 10:34 AM
…because it might help you to grow as a person? Just because you THINK a relationship isn't going to last because some random kid who doesn't know you or him told you so using something that isn't considered an exact science doesn't mean that it isn't going to work. That's fine. The orbs are wide, so I wouldn't worry about it too much. But if you'd like me to look into them, I can. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 04, 2014 11:10 AM
Haha, I know. I was being a bit meh because it's Carnival over here and I saw he went to a couple of street parades. I mean, he might not have done anything with anyone but - that's not what Carnivals are known for, is it? Humph.How far is wide for you? I always have trouble understanding what is too wide to be felt and what isn't. But yeah, if you wouldn't mind doing just a quick assessment of how those squares would play out... And the Moon-Saturn contacts seem tight, don't they? IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 04, 2014 12:22 PM
Oh, lol, don't worry about it. Just let things play out the way they do. And who knows, maybe you're not giving him enough credit. Looking at his chart, the only thing he has in his fifth house is Chiron and he has Cancer on the cusp of the fifth as well. Just from that, I'd say that he's not much of a "player".I read somewhere shortly before reading your chart that an orb of 3 degrees should be used in synastry. But I don't know enough to tell you what the range of weakened effect is. I just noticed that I did a terrible analysis of all of your Sun, Moon, and Mercury aspects (except the Mercury-NN one). I'll do all of those including the Moon Squares. IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 04, 2014 03:37 PM
Sun Sextile Mercury: You value each other's thoughts and want to help the other succeed. You like to talk to each other, and you have very easy conversation, especially on the intellectual level. He will help you to progress intellectually.Moon Square Moon: You are not in emotional sync with one another. When one is feeling one thing, the other is often feeling something very different. Tbh, this is usually a deal breaker in romantic relationships, but the orb is wide, so it might not come into play. Moon Opposite Mercury: You both will feel as though you differ on very basic things and in your backgrounds. What one may see as a very simple and straightforward matter may come off to another as something that is very interesting and of high importance. You don't particularly get the other person when it comes to ideas about domestic life, emotional needs, personal tastes, etc, but you will both be very interested in learning the other's views. Moon Sextile Saturn: You will both feel as though your partner is there for you if you need them, and this will make you feel comfortable so that you can focus more on progressing in life and not be worried about failure when taking risks. You will both be faithful and committed to each other and will quite possibly want to make this into a long term relationship. I've actually heard that a stronger aspect like a Trine between Moon and Saturn is relationship glue, but this might be a slightly weaker glue since it's a Sextile. Moon Square Pluto (again, with a wide orb): You will feel the intensity and the power of this relationship. There will be deep emotional transformation that accompanies the relationship. There may be much irrational energy that comes into play, and your views on love will change as a result of looking back at past relationships and reflecting on them as well as this one. Mercury Opposite Moon: It repeats, lol. This one will be very much felt in your relationships. The ways you two were brought up are probably total opposites of one another, and you'll both be fascinated and alarmed by each other's outlooks on many matters. And I realized I missed 3 aspects on my original one. Maybe some of the stuff was eaten. Or maybe these are new. In any case, here they are. Saturn Trine Moon: Oh, here's the relationship glue. Relationship goals will become important, and this relationship is likely to be longstanding. This will be a very stable and committed relationship. Uranus Trine Moon: This relationship will make you feel emotionally free. You'll be able to very comfortably express your emotions and "romantic spontaneity" in this relationship. You two will probably make your own rules together. And by that, I mean you will deviate from the normal relationship. You will be very ready to adapt emotionally together. You will find that he accepts and appreciates your originality. Neptune Sextile Pluto: I think I skipped this one purposely because these two planets move so slowly that you'd have this aspect with just about anyone born in the same couple months as him. There's probably a dream-like feeling of some sort in your relationship that you have to be wary of. It'll feel really nice, so enjoy it, but make sure to stay grounded. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 04, 2014 11:06 PM
Here's your reading, dear.Why are you so nervous lately? Have you felt an increased interest in religion or mysticism, or simply spirituality lately? You're brimming with the need to share your ideas on these things that have captured your interest, but I don't think you've found a crowd irl that you feel you can open up. You want to share all these findings, have conversation on it, but it's like you force yourself to not broach the subject, out of some fear of ridicule or simply because you don't know how to put the things that are running through your brain into words yet. You're trying to detach and analize what's going on - but you're unable to completely do this. Do not fret or rush this process: you're going through a life lesson. You're about to learn something about yourself - and you probably know this unconsciously, which only piles up the anxiety. Stop. Cards advise you to meditate and wait for things to play out. Why do you sense this girl's intensity? Okay. Looks like the cards even answered your third question. Yes, you're right to sense this because you're getting in touch with a higher plane. Some call it being psychic but as it seems to be only related to her, this looks more like you're in tune to her and her energy. She has a very strong energy and she IS as determined as you think. She's ambitious and she's highly in tune with herself - that's what's catching your eye. It's not so much about you as it is about her. You're communicating on a higher level, but this is unconsciously. I think that you have something to learn from each other, hence why you're noticing her so much. What do you do with this knowledge? Well, you can befriend her, because I see a beneficial friendship here. The cards are advising you to talk to her and see what is there to learn from her. Seriously, even if this doesn't turn out to be a long-lasting friendship, socialize with her. Let me know if these make sense to you. Will give feedback on the new synastry aspect tomorrow, as it's very late already over here.  IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 05, 2014 08:14 AM
Oh, lol, don't worry about it. Just let things play out the way they do. And who knows, maybe you're not giving him enough credit. Looking at his chart, the only thing he has in his fifth house is Chiron and he has Cancer on the cusp of the fifth as well. Just from that, I'd say that he's not much of a "player".Yeah, I don't get the vibe that he's a "player" either. It's just, well, the idea of something happening grates on my nerves.  So, er, feedback! Sun Sextile Mercury: You value each other's thoughts and want to help the other succeed. You like to talk to each other, and you have very easy conversation, especially on the intellectual level. He will help you to progress intellectually. I have some more "progressive" ideas, that I usually don't share with people, but I've been finding myself sharing them with him. He seems to - support is not the right word... More like, take them as valid ideas that he may or may not disagree with. Moon Square Moon: You are not in emotional sync with one another. When one is feeling one thing, the other is often feeling something very different. Tbh, this is usually a deal breaker in romantic relationships, but the orb is wide, so it might not come into play. Fingers crossed that it does not come into play! Moon Opposite Mercury: You both will feel as though you differ on very basic things and in your backgrounds. What one may see as a very simple and straightforward matter may come off to another as something that is very interesting and of high importance. You don't particularly get the other person when it comes to ideas about domestic life, emotional needs, personal tastes, etc, but you will both be very interested in learning the other's views. Mercury Opposite Moon: It repeats, lol. This one will be very much felt in your relationships. The ways you two were brought up are probably total opposites of one another, and you'll both be fascinated and alarmed by each other's outlooks on many matters. This looks like something that will keep my Aqua Moon excitment going. Even though I inflict upon myself some routine, I hate it. I'd much rather let things flow and go from there. Moon Sextile Saturn: You will both feel as though your partner is there for you if you need them, and this will make you feel comfortable so that you can focus more on progressing in life and not be worried about failure when taking risks. You will both be faithful and committed to each other and will quite possibly want to make this into a long term relationship. I've actually heard that a stronger aspect like a Trine between Moon and Saturn is relationship glue, but this might be a slightly weaker glue since it's a Sextile. Saturn Trine Moon: Oh, here's the relationship glue. Relationship goals will become important, and this relationship is likely to be longstanding. This will be a very stable and committed relationship.  Moon Square Pluto (again, with a wide orb): You will feel the intensity and the power of this relationship. There will be deep emotional transformation that accompanies the relationship. There may be much irrational energy that comes into play, and your views on love will change as a result of looking back at past relationships and reflecting on them as well as this one. This might actually be a good thing for me, in the end. We've been talking about how uncomfortable I get at opening up, so perhaps this relationship will help me change that and accept the idea that I can let someone else in. Uranus Trine Moon: This relationship will make you feel emotionally free. You'll be able to very comfortably express your emotions and "romantic spontaneity" in this relationship. You two will probably make your own rules together. And by that, I mean you will deviate from the normal relationship. You will be very ready to adapt emotionally together. You will find that he accepts and appreciates your originality. Great, because I do have a few different takes on how a relationship should be and how it should relate to people's daily life. Neptune Sextile Pluto: I think I skipped this one purposely because these two planets move so slowly that you'd have this aspect with just about anyone born in the same couple months as him. There's probably a dream-like feeling of some sort in your relationship that you have to be wary of. It'll feel really nice, so enjoy it, but make sure to stay grounded. I actually don't know many people born in the year he was born. Actually, make that that I don't know anyone born in 1986. Seriously, I know many who were born in '85 and in '87, but none that are from '86. Funny thing, that. IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 05, 2014 03:45 PM
Why are you so nervous lately? Have you felt an increased interest in religion or mysticism, or simply spirituality lately? You're brimming with the need to share your ideas on these things that have captured your interest, but I don't think you've found a crowd irl that you feel you can open up. You want to share all these findings, have conversation on it, but it's like you force yourself to not broach the subject, out of some fear of ridicule or simply because you don't know how to put the things that are running through your brain into words yet. You're trying to detach and analize what's going on - but you're unable to completely do this. Do not fret or rush this process: you're going through a life lesson. You're about to learn something about yourself - and you probably know this unconsciously, which only piles up the anxiety. Stop. Cards advise you to meditate and wait for things to play out.Perfect analysis. I guess I'll just have to be patient. Why do you sense this girl's intensity? Okay. Looks like the cards even answered your third question. Yes, you're right to sense this because you're getting in touch with a higher plane. Some call it being psychic but as it seems to be only related to her, this looks more like you're in tune to her and her energy. She has a very strong energy and she IS as determined as you think. She's ambitious and she's highly in tune with herself - that's what's catching your eye. It's not so much about you as it is about her. You're communicating on a higher level, but this is unconsciously. I think that you have something to learn from each other, hence why you're noticing her so much. What do you do with this knowledge? Well, you can befriend her, because I see a beneficial friendship here. The cards are advising you to talk to her and see what is there to learn from her. Seriously, even if this doesn't turn out to be a long-lasting friendship, socialize with her. OK, so at least I'm not crazy, lol. How? I see her in the halls once a day, sometimes twice. I have no opportunities to talk to her. Honestly, I would barely acknowledge her existence if she didn't radiate the aura that she does. I doubt she even knows my name. I have considered talking to her many times, but I seriously never get the chance. I've even considered telling her that I get this kind of vibe from her directly, but I feel like that probably wouldn't fly over so well. I have a question, one that I think can help resolve my inner conflict. Does she get the same kind of feeling from me? If she can sense my aura, then it might not be so weird that I can sense hers. Also, I think I have some sort of psychic capabilities, but Idk how to use them at will. I see stuff in my sleep that happens in life, but I can't control what I see and I forget most of it upon waking up only to remember the scene when I see it taking place irl. And it's always something irrelevant too. They're generally a couple seconds long and mute. Yeah, I don't get the vibe that he's a "player" either. It's just, well, the idea of something happening grates on my nerves. Lol, possessive before anything has even initiated  I have some more "progressive" ideas, that I usually don't share with people, but I've been finding myself sharing them with him. He seems to - support is not the right word... More like, take them as valid ideas that he may or may not disagree with. I think you're looking for "accept". I actually don't know many people born in the year he was born. Actually, make that that I don't know anyone born in 1986. Seriously, I know many who were born in '85 and in '87, but none that are from '86. Funny thing, that. That really is quite weird. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 05, 2014 09:09 PM
Perfect analysis. I guess I'll just have to be patient.Thanks. *-* I'm glad it resonates. How? I see her in the halls once a day, sometimes twice. I have no opportunities to talk to her. Honestly, I would barely acknowledge her existence if she didn't radiate the aura that she does. I doubt she even knows my name. I have considered talking to her many times, but I seriously never get the chance. I've even considered telling her that I get this kind of vibe from her directly, but I feel like that probably wouldn't fly over so well. I'm going to assume a lot of things right now, based on what I've seen in American movies. You guys go to the same school, so you have lunch at the same time - is there never a line to pick up the food or pay for it? A common place where you can just stop beside her and complain about waiting/people/the weather? She's a stranger but she's not an alien - she's bound to respond to you if you act normally and make small talk (especially if you don't come accross as flirty). I have a question, one that I think can help resolve my inner conflict. Does she get the same kind of feeling from me? If she can sense my aura, then it might not be so weird that I can sense hers. I don't get that she does, sorry. She's too much focused on herself, so everyone kind of fades away into background. She might feel something unconsciously, but she's not been made aware of it. Also, I think I have some sort of psychic capabilities, but Idk how to use them at will. I see stuff in my sleep that happens in life, but I can't control what I see and I forget most of it upon waking up only to remember the scene when I see it taking place irl. And it's always something irrelevant too. They're generally a couple seconds long and mute. Er, I'm not sure those are psychic capabilities. They're usually called deja vu and many people report going through them every now and then, without being psychics themselves. I've read that the real deal psychics control when the visions come and that they usually come by words being whispered or by images being shown to them. You're probably more intuitive than psychic, but I've also read that one can try to develope psychic abilities. I wouldn't know how to tell you how, though. Sorry. Lol, possessive before anything has even initiated Shh.  IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 05, 2014 09:19 PM
American movies showcasing high school life do an absolutely terrible job of it, tbh. I didn't realize that until I got to high school. They do so well that they managed to make me buy into it, and I live here, so not surprising that you would assume that, lol. But no, we do not have the same lunch. And even if we did, the chance that we would be next to each other in line would be very small (unless I somehow planned it).There is a line to pick up food and pay though. But there isn't any "common place" where I can stop her and make small talk. It would be very difficult for me to talk to her. One more, will I ever have the opportunity to talk to her? OK... well that's terrible, both in that she doesn't notice me too much and that she is so focused on herself that she doesn't focus on anyone nonetheless me. Idk if I want psychic abilities. I feel like I'd try and figure out everything and eventually know too much and get screwed over XP Also, what's considered every now and then? I know people have deja vu sometimes, but I have it about once every week or two. Lol. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 05, 2014 09:39 PM
Honestly, you're a guy. Even if you're not romantically interested in her, you should be able to create a situation where you can approach her. She's not gonna bite you, LOL.You're going to have an opportunity to talk to her if you create it. It's not going to happen naturally, I'm afraid. Lol, it's not *that* terrible. I was like that in my teens and there's nothing wrong with it. Most people at that age are too stupid and if you're a bit more mature and focused, you're bound to feel alienated. Shrug. It didn't bother me as much as it seemed to bother everyone else, lol. Well, you'd have to talk to a full-fledge psychic to get the low-down on the capabilities. I'm not a psychic, lol - I'm just a reader. I have no idea how often is considered normal to have deja vus. When I was younger, they freaked me out because I would get this ringing in my ears and goosebumps all over my body, so I tried my hardest to supress them and they've gone away. I might have one once in a year or two. They still freak me out. IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 06, 2014 07:04 AM
Lol, I'll see. I'm not really the best at initiating conversation, or maybe I just don't like to. It's probably the Mars Opposite Saturn coupled with Chiron in the 3rd. I'm much better at conversing once something has started. Ofc, I start conversations with people I'm comfortable with. But I find it hard to do so with strangers.Wonderful… It's different to feel alienated because you're mature and focused than it is to block out everyone in your surrounding and give attention solely inward. I fit into the former category myself, so I agree that it's not a bad thing. But I think myself reasonably aware of what's going on around me. It used to freak me out until I got really interested in it. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 08:27 PM
That reflects the fixedness of your Stellium.  To be fair to her, I'm still this way, turning my attention inwards and letting things slid. Reason why I miss guys I'm interested in trying to ask me out and make it sound like I'm a nerdy bore. -.-' Simply put, deja vus freak me out. Always have and always will. IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 09:30 PM
Lol. I guess all good things have their disadvantages. I can live with this one, lol. Who knows, perhaps I will talk to her at some point. I just need to get the chance; one good opportunity, and I can work it well enough to get into a conversation. No clue where it'll go from there.So then you're admitting to it not being a good thing, lol. Honestly, I am probably more disappointed by it because she is oblivious to the ridiculous energy between us than because of my personal belief of everyone needing to give equal attention outward as inward. Lol. Random question that I have no idea whether you can answer or not: Will I be 105, 106, or neither? Thanks  Actually, I'll continue my trend of asking questions in twos XP If I do end up getting into a conversation with her, how will it go? If it helps, her initials are AO. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 08, 2014 07:12 AM
Ah. Of course it's the fact that she doesn't notice you and your energy that matters the most to you. Men, honestly... LOL.Can't answer the age question, sorry. Like I've said before, I'm not a psychic and I can only answer what the cards tell me. "If I do end up getting into a conversation with her, how will it go?" It would be a wish come true to you, but you would still feel her emotionally distant and unyielding. It would feel like a wise investment towards a new friendship. Hope this helps you take a step in the right direction.  Btw, I won't be able to do any more card readings for a while. I have big exams coming up and this type of reading takes time and energy, which I won't be able to part with. Sorry. But you got lots of readings from me to last you a couple of months so you should be okay, LOL.  IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 08, 2014 12:27 PM
At least I was honest about it. Also, if she were a guy, I would still be annoyed by the fact that the energy is being missed. It's HARD to miss the energy. It is VERY HARD. Especially if she is as in tune with herself as you said, she would literally have to TRY to miss it. And I've been noticing the energy for the last year and a half. That's a long time to be missing energy. It's not an age question I word things vaguely. It's a question whose answer will be given to me in about a year. Her response is not assuring… it really isn't. And it's aggravating (actually THIS is what upsets me most) how oblivious she is. Whenever I can, I'll talk to her, and I'll see where it goes from there. I should be. And thanks a lot for all of the readings you've done for me. I really appreciate them. Good luck on your exams  IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 08, 2014 10:57 PM
But people are different. I've been told I project seriousness and focused energy, but I feel like the most scattered person ever. I've heard that my eyes are intense, but I wouldn't be able to tell you with a straight face that I think that's true - my eyes are my eyes, I just happen to have very expressive eyes, I guess.Can't answer vague questions either. LOL  Thanks, I'll need a bit of luck on top of all the studying I'm doing... Lol, not sure only studying will do! LOL. IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 09, 2014 12:21 AM
I'm saying whatever I am based on the assumption that your readings are right. Using that logic, she IS as focused and determined as she seems and there IS some kind of energy between us that she's missing because she's too focused on herself. Your case is different, because you are not what you appear to be, whereas she is.I thought of that question (worded unvaguely) and clicked on the the thread that says click with a question in mind. I got the King of Cups! I'm going to assume the outcome will be positive : P Lol, what else do you have planned? IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 10, 2014 10:35 AM
Right. I might be wrong about her, you know. Or she might notice once you put yourself in her radar. I don't get that it's a bad thing for her to be this way.Okay, lol. Hope it turns out to your best interest.  Nothing, really. Just studying my butt off and crossing my fingers I'll luck out in the end.  IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 10, 2014 01:51 PM
I feel like you'll be fine. You seem like you'd be good at what you do  IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 10, 2014 03:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by KingofCups: I feel like you'll be fine. You seem like you'd be good at what you do 
Thanks. *-* IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 05:01 PM
Unfortunately, it doesn't seem like I'm going to get into the internship… I wonder what the cards were picking up on. For some reason, I have an almost unbreakable faith in the cards, so I'm sure that they were picking up on something. I just don't know what.IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 15, 2014 10:15 AM
Oh I'm sorry, dear. I don't really know what to say... Perhaps you'll get in at a later date? Just wait until the whole process is complete before you lose hope, ok? Keep thinking positively.  IP: Logged |
KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 12:05 PM
I sent an email to the person who does the interviews. I had someone read for me right after, and they said that the results of the email would be positive. I'll just have to wait and see.On another note, I started a thread in Astrology 2.0 on critical points a few days ago. I got one response, and it was that they don't matter because of a constellation whose name is really long and starts with an O. It's supposed to be "the thirteenth zodiac sign" or something like that. Ophiuchus is the name. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 15, 2014 01:42 PM
Just be patient and let things play out.  I know who you're talking about, LOL. I'm going to look for your thread and bump it, to see if you get more replies from people who are actually more proficient in Astrology. I haven't been in LL all week, practically. IP: Logged | |