posted April 28, 2014 02:35 PM            

If this is still open, I'd like to sit too.

My question is will I finally be free from my health problems and be able to be independent and free in the near future?

posted April 28, 2014 02:40 PM            

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Originally posted by KingofCups:
Hello and welcome!
Could I know what advances are to be made in my love life in the next few months?

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King,

From what I see you aren't going to have a new relationship in the next 3 months. 6 of Swords Rx, Judgement, Justice Rx
Tell me no. You are still carrying crap from your last relationship (6 of Swords rx). You also aren't being fully honest with yourself about why things happened the way they did. (Justice Rx) Once you make the decision to dig deeper and full examine yourself the doors will open. (Judgement)

Once you let go of the disappointment (8 of Cups) and better prepare yourself in the material world (Ace of Coins rx) then you will have the mental clarity to see what you really need and want out of a relationship (QUeen of Swords).

posted April 28, 2014 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Newrise:
Hi Ndnchick!

I would love you to read on my love life. Thank you so so much

I have this bond with A, but my heart fluctuates a lot, going from it's a superb idea to what I've gotten myself into, and I am not listening to my heart. I think it's unfair to him too, but sometimes I really don't think that's what I want. Like I make up my mind to end things. But something happens, either I back out from that decision or he doesn't understand/ I can't communicate properly to him, and I feel stuck. And in a few days, at most, I go back to its all going to be alright.

One of the things I fear that the bond is too superficial, or it has become so because of my hesitation. I feel like I have to please him, or he wants me to please, and I don't want to make my life about pleasing another person. I completely believe that what comes from heart is most effective of all things. And all this pressure that I feel just closes my heart more. I also fear that we are not on same wavelength on many things. But there are somethings that makes us similar too and I like that familiarity and part of me really wants to nurture this bond.

Then there is J. I don't see myself with and I have told him so. I have always prayed to Universe to bring me someone that I can work together, that can be a partner in my life's work, and he and I can work together, I can
Make that dream come true. But he and I have completely different backgrounds, not that I mind personally, but it's just something I have never imagined. And seriously, I just don't see it. And I have been honest about that to him, but he's hanging on that thread. And last thing I want to do is break someone's heart, or turn them against love.

So my question is what should I do in the matters of love, and especially with A. Thank you

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posted April 28, 2014 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by plutomercjup20:
If you're still doing these.. (If not then its fine) ... I am feeling very confused with R's feelings towards me ... Will he try to send me another message or contact me in some way any time sooner ?? Will he be more relaxed and open with me?? Thanks in advance

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Yes and you are the last one off of this post. I need to catch up on the the others first.

posted April 28, 2014 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by sweetdandelion:
Hey ndnchick26

If this is still open, I'd like to sit too.

My question is will I finally be free from my health problems and be able to be independent and free in the near future?

Thanks so much!

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posted April 28, 2014 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Newrise, You are what I was talking about in another post about "It's raining men" cause hun it's raining them in your neck of the woods. Are you sure you want me to post your reading? You brought up A and J but who is the is other person? Cause I have your head count on my table as 3 not 2.

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Hahaha. Then there is F

posted April 28, 2014 03:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Newrise:
Hahaha. Then there is F

Haha, well .. That too. F is someone new, Seems like a nice guy, I have minimized my communication with him because I don't want to advance anything until I am clear about A

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Some how I knew this was not going to be simple. LOL
OK, so I'm gonna give you a run down. First, all of your men have unhealthy aspects to them. A is co-dependent. J is overly emotional and needs to grow up, let me not forget to mention I see possible alcohol addiction with this one. F likes to be the man. He is emotionally shallow even though he talks a good talk. Chances are he will want you to be an FWB.

Lets talk about A first... A is injured right now and there is a great need for healing on his behalf (3of Swords). His overall being is kinda melancholy. I also feel like he is co-dependent (Devil) on you and scared as hell of you breaking off the relationship (Death)(Tower). He knows nothing about all your other men. And to be honest it shows that you don't even know what you are doing with him (Moon) and (7 of Cups rx). You guys do have an awesome time together. (Knight of Wands) Your outcome to the reading with A is the other man F (King of Wands rx)which tells me your not sticking around. Also what you are holding back in the relationship with A was J. (King of Cups rx)

I'm gonna be honest you need a new batch of men, these are all broken. When Kings are reversed it shows that the shadowy side of them is more prominent than the good qualities. All your men are reversed. You wanna work on what brings you to these men?

posted April 28, 2014 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Some how I knew this was not going to be simple. LOL
OK, so I'm gonna give you a run down. First, all of your men have unhealthy aspects to them. A is co-dependent. J is overly emotional and needs to grow up, let me not forget to mention I see possible alcohol addiction with this one. F likes to be the man. He is emotionally shallow even though he talks a good talk. Chances are he will want you to be an FWB.

Lets talk about A first... A is injured right now and there is a great need for healing on his behalf (3of Swords). His overall being is kinda melancholy. I also feel like he is co-dependent (Devil) on you and scared as hell of you breaking off the relationship (Death)(Tower). He knows nothing about all your other men. And to be honest it shows that you don't even know what you are doing with him (Moon) and (7 of Cups rx). You guys do have an awesome time together. (Knight of Wands) Your outcome to the reading with A is the other man F (King of Wands rx)which tells me your not sticking around. Also what you are holding back in the relationship with A was J. (King of Cups rx)

I'm gonna be honest you need a new batch of men, these are all broken. When Kings are reversed it shows that the shadowy side of them is more prominent than the good qualities. All your men are reversed. You wanna work on what brings you to these men?

Let me know.

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Haha, you're probably right. My intuition tells me the same.

But I really do care about A, and that's part of the problem, I don't know how to end with him.

I don't like how F is according to the cards. I like relationships based on equality, and the traditional roles do not jibe with me. That's why I like A because despite being macho in his own way, he is very level headed, his masculine and feminine sides are as balanced as I have seen, and I find that very attractive. F is just someone I have introduced to through my family. So I am only following up with him because I have to in a sense. Emotionally shallow? I did get that, but in a way it seemed good, because it seemed like he is light hearted and has a positive outlook. I have only talked to him couple of times.

I do get that J is emotional and need healing and that may be a reason for my lack of attraction. So you're right about that. He isn't much of a alcohol drinker, but he may have that tendency if he does. Who knows? He's actually one of the most positive people in my life. But I do think his relationship with opposite gender could need some work, definitely.

And haha, I wouldn't call them my men. The only one that could qualify is A

posted April 28, 2014 04:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Newrise:
Haha, you're probably right. My intuition tells me the same.

But I really do care about A, and that's part of the problem, I don't know how to end with him.

I don't like how F is according to the cards. I like relationships based on equality, and the traditional roles do not jibe with me. That's why I like A because despite being macho in his own way, he is very level headed, his masculine and feminine sides are as balanced as I have seen, and I find that very attractive.

I do get that J is emotional and need healing and that may be a reason for my lack of attraction. So you're right about that. He isn't much of a alcohol drinker, but he may have that tendency if he does. Who knows? He's actually one of the most positive people in my life. But I do think his relationship with opposite gender could need some work, definitely.

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A isn't a bad guy, but he has some serious work to do inside. It's nice to feel needed, but it isn't ok to be someones happiness. That is what you are for him. He treats you well but being the source of anothers joy is a hard thing to live up to, don't you think. J as the King of Cups is a good kind nurturing man, but the issues I saw were the other not so good parts will shine brighter once the honeymoon of a partnership deeper than just friends occurs. We are always different before we start slipping between the sheets and getting intimate in other ways. This will bring about his emotional instability.

F...hahaha I have to laugh because as soon as I thought of him I heard F for F'n A$$. It's so funny to be me sometimes. I get the most random stuff fly through my head. He is a smooth talker of the worst kind. Meaning he can walk it but there is a hidden agenda. He also has others waiting in the wing.

posted April 28, 2014 04:12 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
King,

From what I see you aren't going to have a new relationship in the next 3 months. 6 of Swords Rx, Judgement, Justice Rx
Tell me no. You are still carrying crap from your last relationship (6 of Swords rx). You also aren't being fully honest with yourself about why things happened the way they did. (Justice Rx) Once you make the decision to dig deeper and full examine yourself the doors will open. (Judgement)

Once you let go of the disappointment (8 of Cups) and better prepare yourself in the material world (Ace of Coins rx) then you will have the mental clarity to see what you really need and want out of a relationship (QUeen of Swords).

Let me know how it goes.

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I don't know if I'm exactly carrying crap from my last relationship. But neither of the two of us wanted it to end. It just had to. I'm over it, or at least I think I am.

I am a bit foggy on what I want in a relationship. It's a little confusing. I'm not sure if I should move away from where I've been or explore further into it. I was kind of planning on just letting things work naturally. I don't think I'm disappointed. I feel like whatever happened happened for the best. I WAS very disappointed for a long time though. As far as material preparation goes, I have almost none of that, so that makes perfect sense. I guess I need to taste reality before I can find myself and what I want.

posted April 28, 2014 04:47 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
A isn't a bad guy, but he has some serious work to do inside. It's nice to feel needed, but it isn't ok to be someones happiness. That is what you are for him. He treats you well but being the source of anothers joy is a hard thing to live up to, don't you think. J as the King of Cups is a good kind nurturing man, but the issues I saw were the other not so good parts will shine brighter once the honeymoon of a partnership deeper than just friends occurs. We are always different before we start slipping between the sheets and getting intimate in other ways. This will bring about his emotional instability.

F...hahaha I have to laugh because as soon as I thought of him I heard F for F'n A$$. It's so funny to be me sometimes. I get the most random stuff fly through my head. He is a smooth talker of the worst kind. Meaning he can walk it but there is a hidden agenda. He also has others waiting in the wing.

I will say you have an air about you that will allow you to replace at least J and F rather quickly in the love department. Don't cross that threshold with J he won't be able to handle you in that type of relationship. No point in losing a good friend if you don't need to.

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Haha, I relate, I have the randomest things fly through my mind as well

I agree with you on J, I think you've hit the nail on the head.

Disappointed to hear about F, but I already knew that instinctively. I wasn't expecting much either, just disappointed that I attracted him in my life. Which reminds me of your question, why am I attracting these guys? Thanks for the heads up

You are very correct on A too. And I understand what you are saying very much.

posted April 28, 2014 06:02 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Thank you so much for the warm welcome. I'm working through my list of who I need to respond to, so don't think I ignored your gesture.

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I know , you have a kind heart, I see it with these readings. I wish all the energy and good thoughts for you and your little ones.

posted April 28, 2014 06:42 PM            

Aha, no problem I can give you a horary reading if you want. Just thread me up. I understand the pressure of having so many sitters. That's why I limit how many people can sit on my threads. Just an advice. LOL

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What is hindering you from a new lover? Strength- This card is what makes me think you have one foot in wanting a relationship and one foot out. I heard "ehh" like it isn't a big deal one way or another. This is a card of beginning or initiators. You have to decided what you really want. You can't find a relationship if you aren't sure what you want.

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This is pretty accurate OMG. I just recently got over a year-long crush on my friend, N, and I decided to just keep myself busy thinking my guy might come when I least expect it. Because, you know... that's how it usually goes. LOL

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What can aide in finding a lover? Queen of Wands- This queen is all about action, making it happen... with pizazz! She isn't waiting for the relationship to come to her, she is making it happen. This lets me know your passive attitude and actions towards finding someone is the reason you haven't. Instantly "It's raining men hallelujah" started playing in my head which means... it's not!! You can't just wait for the man rain to happen and charming falls into your lap. If it were you wouldn't be asking. lol

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So you're saying it's me who should reach out to guys? My friends tell me to just wait. I'm honestly torn between being active and passive regarding this. My friends say be passive, my intuition says be more active. And it's funny how you mentioned that song. I was just singing that in the school choir at my school.

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To put it bluntly, your gonna have to kiss a few frogs. This card is about the energy that you put out and controlling it. I felt like I was on a roller coaster and I heard "just go along for the ride." You need to just throw yourself in dating and not into the I want a relationship.

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I been thinking that, too. It's just me trying not to get hurt so badly. I guess it's a good idea.

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How to act. - The World- This card makes me think of FREEDOM! You are free to do as you want, nothing is holding you down. The other part of freedom is a certain openness and receptivity to others. It's kind of like that thing they say when you want to attract someone... SMILE! Spend your days aware of the type of happy energy you put out and smile. Nothing tells a man that you are open to his advances or anyones for that matter, then a smile.

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That's definitely what I've been doing. Though, I'm not doing it to attract guys. It's just the way I am.

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The outcome- 4 of Wands- You have created an environment ripe for invitation and company. This card with you felt like the foundations of a good time but also a place of stability for the growth of a relationship. A lot of times individuals want a relationship but have to get certain things in order to be relationship ready. You have everything you need all you have to do is just that "DO" it.

When we place our expectations too high it doesn't allow for opportunities outside our comfort zone. I'm all about a list of what you won't tolerate, but the small things like his third big toe is longer than the rest of his toes and that's just weird... has to go.

Let me know how it goes.

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Okay, I'll take your advice Thank you so much for the read--what with all the others waiting in line, it must be pretty exhausting. I'll definitely update you if something happens.

Remember, just thread me up for the horary reading.

God bless your kind soul

posted April 28, 2014 07:45 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstarr77:
ndchick, did you see my question? looks like you are doing it in the queue and thinking you may have passed mine.

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Moon,

I add you to the queue. If you go through the topic you will see that some have wrote again to change the original question they asked prior to me getting to their reading. Sorry hun, but you have 16 people in front of you. I've also been working on readings outside of this forum.

I won't forget about you, I promise. Please be patient with me.

posted April 28, 2014 08:38 PM            

Are you taking new sitters? If not, I understand and wish you plenty of nice times here!

If you're able to answer, I'd like to know if you see a serious lasting relationship that occurs for me this year?

posted April 28, 2014 08:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Blissful:
Hi ndnchick26

Are you taking new sitters? If not, I understand and wish you plenty of nice times here!

If you're able to answer, I'd like to know if you see a serious lasting relationship that occurs for me this year?

Thank you

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So this is what I have decided, once I'm done with my original list I'm going to try and do a weekly offer for the first 10 people in the subject area of the week, ie. healing, relationship, career, ect.

posted April 28, 2014 10:24 PM            

Welcome to this forum. I guarantee that you will be very popular as everybody it seems wants to have a reading and if you are not asking for exchanges...yes you will be VERY popular! Unfortunately some of the members will act in an unscrupulous manner just to get their reading so something to watch out for. Don't let yourself become taken advantage of. You sound very generous. And if you are giving detailed in-depth readings don't burn yourself out.

posted April 29, 2014 08:42 AM            

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Originally posted by sid:
Hi Ndnchick,

I think i got skipped . If not then ill wait for my turn. Thank you.

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Hi Sid,

posted April 29, 2014 09:00 AM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Hi Sid,

I had wrote yesterday and asked are you B or S?

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posted April 29, 2014 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi ndnchick,

Welcome to this forum. I guarantee that you will be very popular as everybody it seems wants to have a reading and if you are not asking for exchanges...yes you will be VERY popular! Unfortunately some of the members will act in an unscrupulous manner just to get their reading so something to watch out for. Don't let yourself become taken advantage of. You sound very generous. And if you are giving detailed in-depth readings don't burn yourself out.

I am not in need of a reading at this time, just wanted to say hi and to pace yourself. You will be a busy lady. Poochy

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Poochy,

Thank you for the welcome and the warning. I don't mind not doing exchanges I just hope they do it for someone else. I enjoy doing readings and I guess I see it as if I was given the ability then why not use it. There are doctors who like making the big bucks and doctors who work for practically nothing. I'm not worried about repayment. I'm also very good at saying no if it is too much.

posted April 29, 2014 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by aah08:
Thank YOU for being kind and sharing your gift with all of us

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