posted April 29, 2014 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by sid:
Oh i didnt see that post. I apologise. I am S, female.

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Sid,

I'm having a really hard time tapping into you. I think a big part is that my twins best friend's name is Sydney and I call her Syd. Do you have another way that I can try and tap into you? Like a nickname or something a family member calls you.

posted April 29, 2014 02:42 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Good advice!!! I've been in this situation and had to learn the hard way. As a side product I learned a ton about Synastry. My Pluto conjunct his Venus, my Pluto Conjunct his Mars, my Pluto square his NN. Hard but productive lesson. I didn't say it before because I stay as neutral as possible. I'm not here to sway but give information and hope it's enough to help others make a informed decision.

But I feel like you are trying to help her steer away from the rocks on the shore. Your intentions are good, cause dude is a bit of a narcissist. But if I said that, how will she learn, this situation is there for a reason. I don't like FWB it's demeaning in my own thoughts, but an escape from responsibilities in others thoughts. It isn't my place to decide what lessons there is to learn. That was based on a soul contract before incarnating. So the middle is where I ride. I did say it was a warning.

Fairy... I do totally agree with Haples. But it is for you to decide your life, your lessons, your decision.

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FairyDust, I too agree with Hapless and ndnchick26. Having feelings for the guy and lending yourself to a FWB is like exposing yourself raw to heartbreak. I get it that it is, as ndnchick26 says, a situation there for a reason and lessons to be learned. I also think that she has given you an insight of the situation so you can make your own mind, perhaps take a step back and be cool, confident and pleasant when the guy contacts you, keeping the upper hand and knowing what his intentions may well be.

ndnchick26, welcome on board! You've introduced yourself to us in a smashing way

posted April 29, 2014 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Sid,

I'm having a really hard time tapping into you. I think a big part is that my twins best friend's name is Sydney and I call her Syd. Do you have another way that I can try and tap into you? Like a nickname or something a family member calls you.

Thank you for your patience I was having a really hard time setting in today. I feel energized, but in a way that it has taken a lot for me to ground myself.

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posted April 29, 2014 03:13 PM            

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Originally posted by niyasa:
Hi, I'd like a reading if you can
I'm changing my question, if it's not a problem!
I would like to know how L. sees our relationship and if there are still good feelings on his part.

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Niyasa,

I want to say "Thank you" for your patience. Your situation with L is precarious. I did a Talk vs Walk spread. The first thing I felt was a block, not from you but from this individual like they don't want anyone prying. It's intentional as well. Is this person into metaphysical things?

What they are saying - The 2 of wands is telling me this L thinks he/she has the upper hand in your relationship, the one in control.

What they are thinking- The Magician rx is telling me that there thoughts are not good in nature. More of the manipulative sort.

What they are feeling - 6 of Pentacles rx is another card of manipulation or as I call it stacking the favor in their odds.

How they are walking there talk - Page of Pentacles this is the card of opportunities. Meaning they are walking like they have it all figured out, focused and goal oriented. Is this person younger than you? It feels like it.

Outside influences - 7 of Swords rx- There is clear deception with this individual. Not just surround you but other aspects of their life. This person has a lot of things shrouded around them.

Outcome- Death- Doesn't always mean the end of a relationship it can also mean the transformation of one. But in this case you might want it to die. There is too much controlling going on and not just straight out controlling but sneaky manipulative type.

Did you loan this person money at any point. I feel like there is a debt owed. I also feel like you are not quite financially stable yourself. You have great passion and enthusiasm, but this person doesn't feel good for you. Not to help you grow in the direction you need.

I pulled something different because I was told I needed to look at you closer. You aren't relationship ready hun. You have some overindulgences going on (9 of cups rx) with (Devil) you might want to address this issue before getting in a relationship. This clarifies to me why I see this other person the way I did. I don't think you are in a healthy place right now. I'm not going to put the whole reading out there, because I think this is not the place. If you want to chat more we can email. I will say I see a chance for healing here (4 of swords).

posted April 29, 2014 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by sid:
Yes i have a nickname "sang". 01 april 1982,female. Thanking you in advance

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Sid,

When I do a reading I write my email or post at the same time because it allows me to get everything as I see it and feel it. I have to ask did you guys meet through someone he dated at one point? The Queen of Wands in it's position shows me that either you or him were in a relationship when yours started.

You and B both have 10's as a relationship lesson. This means your lesson (10 of Cups) is telling you to learn to be content with what you have. Everything in life doesn't have to be difficult. His lesson (10 of Pentacles) although this is a pentacle that is grounded there is a theme of security. Enjoy the emotional and material security.

The 10's also point to a change in the relationship. But the tricky thing is that may not happen until you spend time apart. You have a couple cards showing this time out. You have the (Hanged Man) and this is a signal of stagnation but also your outcome card is showing me that one or both of you need a break to clear confusion between you two. (7 of cups) B also shows that he is not being honest about (withholding) his feelings of imbalance in the relationship (2 of Cups rx).

There clearly is love between you two (Page of Cups) and (King of Cups). But I also so that you don't really see this relationship going far yourself, it kinda stresses you.(2 of pentacles rx)

The relationship can work but I think you guys have some things to clear up first. That may take a break before you can get back on track. He see's you as the Queen of Swords, which tells me that you are quick witted and highly intelligent.

posted April 29, 2014 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
I think I got 'skipped' : ( will u give me a reading whenever it is possible?

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I didn't skip ya hun. Some of the posts are about changing the original question. I've been working from the 1st page forward and I have a trusty list. ; )

posted April 29, 2014 03:56 PM            

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Originally posted by jenny415:
I would love one! My question is how will the outcome be with this man who complained about me and now wants to talk with me. I don't understand him or what he wants with me. Thank you so much!

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Jenny,

posted April 29, 2014 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by SandyShore:

FairyDust, I too agree with Hapless and ndnchick26. Having feelings for the guy and lending yourself to a FWB is like exposing yourself raw to heartbreak. I get it that it is, as ndnchick26 says, a situation there for a reason and lessons to be learned. I also think that she has given you an insight of the situation so you can make your own mind, perhaps take a step back and be cool, confident and pleasant when the guy contacts you, keeping the upper hand and knowing what his intentions may well be.

ndnchick26, welcome on board! You've introduced yourself to us in a smashing way

Of course, I too would love a reading from you whenever you can, maybe when you open a new post.

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posted April 29, 2014 04:08 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I appreciate your advice as well. Fwb is not somethin I've ever actually done so I don't know that I can see myself doing that. And given how I do feel about him it probably wouldn't be a great idea anyway. I'm not sure how to handle him if he does contact, and I don't trust that his contact would really be just a fleeting thing for him. We shall see when it happens. For now I'm going to try new things and not stress about it so much. Whatever will be will be

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posted April 29, 2014 04:20 PM            

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Originally posted by lngriders:
How kind of you., if you are still giving them, may I ask about my romantic future for rest of year? Thank you for sharing your gift.

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How about we meet in the middle with 6 months.

I got a "no" when it came to a relationship in the next 6 months. Can I ask you a question? Did you find a way to make more hours in the day? If not, how are you going to find time to have a love life? You are working, working, working...

9 of coins rx + 9 of Wands + The World rx

You are working constantly, trying to be resilient, but you haven't reached your goal. I got a "there is no way you will put love before your goal right now." So why are you asking about love?

The other 3 cards pulled are all Pentacles. 2 of Pentacles + 6 of Pentacles + Page of Pentacles.

Bottom line this is saying you are trying to find the time to balance your worlds....all of them. You want to give back in someway, but finding the time while you are still trying to manifest is a challenge.

posted April 29, 2014 04:26 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Niyasa,

I want to say "Thank you" for your patience. Your situation with L is precarious. I did a Talk vs Walk spread. The first thing I felt was a block, not from you but from this individual like they don't want anyone prying. It's intentional as well. Is this person into metaphysical things?

What they are saying - The 2 of wands is telling me this L thinks he/she has the upper hand in your relationship, the one in control.

What they are thinking- The Magician rx is telling me that there thoughts are not good in nature. More of the manipulative sort.

What they are feeling - 6 of Pentacles rx is another card of manipulation or as I call it stacking the favor in their odds.

How they are walking there talk - Page of Pentacles this is the card of opportunities. Meaning they are walking like they have it all figured out, focused and goal oriented. Is this person younger than you? It feels like it.

Outside influences - 7 of Swords rx- There is clear deception with this individual. Not just surround you but other aspects of their life. This person has a lot of things shrouded around them.

Outcome- Death- Doesn't always mean the end of a relationship it can also mean the transformation of one. But in this case you might want it to die. There is too much controlling going on and not just straight out controlling but sneaky manipulative type.

Did you loan this person money at any point. I feel like there is a debt owed. I also feel like you are not quite financially stable yourself. You have great passion and enthusiasm, but this person doesn't feel good for you. Not to help you grow in the direction you need.

I pulled something different because I was told I needed to look at you closer. You aren't relationship ready hun. You have some overindulgences going on (9 of cups rx) with (Devil) you might want to address this issue before getting in a relationship. This clarifies to me why I see this other person the way I did. I don't think you are in a healthy place right now. I'm not going to put the whole reading out there, because I think this is not the place. If you want to chat more we can email. I will say I see a chance for healing here (4 of swords).

You have been through a lot haven't you. You are in a period of transformation the (Tower) tells me you had to do it rather suddenly. But the (5 of cups) is showing you have regrets still. Get back to me and let me know how you would like to proceed.

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ndnchick, I have read with my heart beating fast. Thank you!
He's like you described. He's surrounded by walls. And he wants it this way.
His life has always been complicated - we've known for 5 years - and things only get worst in time. He's a year younger than me. I don't know if he's into metaphysical things but I know most of the time he's not mentally "here".
As you said, maybe this is not the place to talk about all the things you have highlighted... I'd love to chat more if you have time. This is my email: -

posted April 29, 2014 04:27 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Glad you're feeling better. I think you have some good stuff ahead. What matters is if YOU believe you have good stuff ahead. You are a beautiful soul. :-)

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posted April 29, 2014 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by niyasa:
ndnchick, I have read with my heart beating fast. Thank you!
He's like you described. He's surrounded by walls. And he wants it this way.
His life has always been complicated - we've known for 5 years - and things only get worst in time. He's a year younger than me. I don't know if he's into metaphysical things but I know most of the time he's not mentally "here".
As you said, maybe this is not the place to talk about all the things you have highlighted... I'd love to chat more if you have time. This is my email:

Thank you again!

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posted April 29, 2014 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Aphrodite,

Your reading made me smile. X is trying to decide (2 of wands) what to do with you. He thinks you are Beautiful (Empress) and has feelings for you (Knight of Cups). But he is acting hot and cold (Magician). The thing about the Magician that irritates the crap out of me is he is what I call an infinity man. These men tend to pop in and out of your life, like the infinity sign. The Magician in a relationship reading in my experience tend to be relationships that are had to pin down. The outside influence shows the 5 of swords which in this context shows some selfishness on his behalf. He'll come for you in the next 6-8 weeks but keep in mind his nature.

Also I always like to disclaimer, he can feel all of this and nothing happen because we need to put ourselves in a position to create an environment for it to happen. Some people think these relationships happen like osmosis and nothing has to be done on their behalf.

Have a great day

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The reading sounds like him. As for your disclaimer piece, this is what he's told me in return.

I think we are too opposite to stay together online or apart at all. When we met in person, I have never felt so connected and comfortable with anyone like this. How can I go back to just being an online relation? I think because I am impatient and immediate, I want to be with him again.

Of course I love him and want to be with him. I feel like I have to bite the bullet in order to make it work, but I don't understand why it seems like I'm the one taking all the chances and risks in order to keep this relationship going.

posted April 29, 2014 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Jenny,

Where do these men come from? OMG it's hilarious sometimes. I got (Death rx) as his intentions meaning he can't get over what happened between the two of you. The Knight of Swords shows he is an intellectual guy, but the problem with intellectuals from time to time is they can't see past themselves and their own opinions. The (4 of wands rx) issues at home or work and he's projecting on you. Don't worry about this guy. He is trying to work through his own stuff. He has no malicious intent, he just wants to be understood.

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posted April 29, 2014 05:52 PM            

there have been a lot of activity on here so I'm not sure if it's reopen but if it is I would love one on when I can expect.... or anything about a new romantic partner hopefully for long term?!

I can also exchange with you as well

QUOTE]Originally posted by ndnchick26:
I'm new to the board so "Hello" everyone! I love doing readings, so if you want one let me know. Practice makes perfect.

***Closed for today. Will finish those who have already inquired. ***[/QUOTE]

posted April 29, 2014 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by jenny415:
Ndnchick26,
Hey, thanks for the read... I guess it's hilarious but it kind of sucks. I used to want to have a boyfriend but it seems men keep showing me how much they hate me. I was abused as a child and from then on have only experienced negative men. :/ I maybe will be a nun or crazy cat lady.

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I know all about child abuse and bad men. When I get through the list I would like to do healing readings. The things we can work on to bring better things in our lives. I might be good at readings but I still work on healing my past and my invisible wounds. Even if life feels like smooth sailing we all can use healing.

I have another person I need to get back to in regards to attracting damaged men. Don't give up! There is love out there for everyone. We just have to fix our lens to the world to find it. We aren't broken it's the lens we choose to wear that seems to be out of whack. Think about it, if you were nearsighted would you wear farsighted glasses? No. It would make everything look crazy.

When we heal our pasts but keep acting in a manner that reflects past wounds life gets difficult. That is the Universe's way of trying to get your attention that you are where you don't belong.

posted April 29, 2014 06:09 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Hi

there have been a lot of activity on here so I'm not sure if it's reopen but if it is I would love one on when I can expect.... or anything about a new romantic partner hopefully for long term?!

I can also exchange with you as well

QUOTE]Originally posted by ndnchick26:
[b]I'm new to the board so "Hello" everyone! I love doing readings, so if you want one let me know. Practice makes perfect.

***Closed for today. Will finish those who have already inquired. ***

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Cherful,

I'm playing catch up from all my previous requests. I'm not taking any new ones right now. Just keep an eye out for future threads.

posted April 29, 2014 09:58 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
How about we meet in the middle with 6 months.

I got a "no" when it came to a relationship in the next 6 months. Can I ask you a question? Did you find a way to make more hours in the day? If not, how are you going to find time to have a love life? You are working, working, working...

9 of coins rx + 9 of Wands + The World rx

You are working constantly, trying to be resilient, but you haven't reached your goal. I got a "there is no way you will put love before your goal right now." So why are you asking about love?

The other 3 cards pulled are all Pentacles. 2 of Pentacles + 6 of Pentacles + Page of Pentacles.

Bottom line this is saying you are trying to find the time to balance your worlds....all of them. You want to give back in someway, but finding the time while you are still trying to manifest is a challenge.

I have a feeling that your Second house in your natal chart is well aspected.

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Thank you soooo much for the reading. I totally get that I should spend my energy and efforts on concentrating on my finances and my career. It is an important time for me as I am competing for a promotion. But, like most women, I want it all. Career and a love. (Smile). Thank you, again.

posted April 30, 2014 12:38 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Sid,

When I do a reading I write my email or post at the same time because it allows me to get everything as I see it and feel it. I have to ask did you guys meet through someone he dated at one point? The Queen of Wands in it's position shows me that either you or him were in a relationship when yours started.

You and B both have 10's as a relationship lesson. This means your lesson (10 of Cups) is telling you to learn to be content with what you have. Everything in life doesn't have to be difficult. His lesson (10 of Pentacles) although this is a pentacle that is grounded there is a theme of security. Enjoy the emotional and material security.

The 10's also point to a change in the relationship. But the tricky thing is that may not happen until you spend time apart. You have a couple cards showing this time out. You have the (Hanged Man) and this is a signal of stagnation but also your outcome card is showing me that one or both of you need a break to clear confusion between you two. (7 of cups) B also shows that he is not being honest about (withholding) his feelings of imbalance in the relationship (2 of Cups rx).

There clearly is love between you two (Page of Cups) and (King of Cups). But I also so that you don't really see this relationship going far yourself, it kinda stresses you.(2 of pentacles rx)

The relationship can work but I think you guys have some things to clear up first. That may take a break before you can get back on track. He see's you as the Queen of Swords, which tells me that you are quick witted and highly intelligent.

The one think I can say is there is nothing better then letting love grow, even if that means taking a break and coming back together. I hope I've been of some help.

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posted April 30, 2014 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
You snuck in before I got to post my last. Yes but you are it!! For right now. Please be patient with me. Thank you

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Oh sure! That is not even a question. Please take as much time as you want, and thanks so much for doing these readings! They're really quite in-depth.

posted April 30, 2014 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by ndnchick26:
Yes and you are the last one off of this post. I need to catch up on the the others first.

Thank you

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