posted July 29, 2014 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
I'm baaack!

To answer your question, I pulled 10 of hearts, 3 of spades and Jack of spades, with 7 of spades basing. To be honest, what comes quite strong at me is that this would be an addictive relationship. Your sexual chemistry would be so flow-y, you would just mesh perfectly. The 10H is the pinnacle of happiness and success, so you would indeed achieve romantic bliss with H. The 3 and Jack of Spades, however, speak of miscommunication, confusion caused by an unsettled, erratic, emotionally inconsistent young person. Sexually, your compatibility is amazing and very addictive. Romantically, you should have times of uncanny romanticism, but misunderstandings are bound to happen, due to one of you mistakening the boundaries of the relationship. You're just not on the same foot on what means to be in a committed, monogamic relationship.

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My next question (if you still want to exchange) is: why hasn't V kept in touch with me?

We worked together in the past and he was interested in me. He moved away and we'd been keeping in touch by email, but after he agreed to meet me and another ex-colleague for lunch, he simply didn't reply to me when I sent an email to confirm he was coming to my city. I sent an email concerning work matters almost 3 months after, but he also didn't reply to that. I don't know what happened or what I did. Hopefully you can tap onto him and tell me.

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Thank you for this! I can see so much truth in your reading...I sense we're very sexually and mostly romantically compatible, however, I worry because she is younger than me and might be the more erratic one in terms of feelings when it comes to an established relationship.

If you'd like to continue, my next question focuses more about that, as a kind of clarification: will she [H] ever feel like she could be in a real, stable relationship with me if we end up hitting it off?

Your reading about V:

1. Issues with V's personal life: Death/6 of Cups/King of Swords: V seems to really like you and appreciate your company. However, old issues from the past are blocking his psyche. This card [6 of Cups] also indicates that V may miss speaking to you but finds that he cannot move forward because he is unsure about how he'll feel if things become different between you, more intense [Death].

2. Issues with V's professional life: King of Cups Rx/8 of Cups/5 of Cups/3 of Wands rx/8 of Swords/Hanged Man/5 of Pentacles: I sense that V has been going through some hang-ups, a lot of insecurities and some financial ups and downs that are also negatively affecting his mood. Is he also in entrepreneurial work? He seems to have mixed feelings about his success and his life may not be going as he planned, especially monetarily and professionally.

posted July 31, 2014 11:38 AM            

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Regarding your reading, I do feel she'll be the more emotionally erratic of the two of you, just simply because she is young and a rebel at heart. She doesn't want to conform and be in a labelled relationship.

To answer your question:

will she [H] ever feel like she could be in a real, stable relationship with me if we end up hitting it off?

Lovely! This is a yes: Jack Hearts, 5 Hearts, Jack Spades. You're going to soften her heart just by being yourself and endearing yourself to her. She'll never really stop being a rebel and a little erratic at heart, but you'll be able to touch her deep inside and show her that there's nothing wrong with "silly girly romantic things". You won't seduce her with guile, oh no, you will enchant her with your caring. It's funny, because the sexual energy between the two of you is very charged, but what I'm getting from this spread is sweet, like a spring breeze in field of wild flowers. Just. Calming and plesant and warming.

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My next question is a bit too private for the forum, I'm afraid. Do you mind exchanging emails? I really would like you to read on this question of mine.

posted July 31, 2014 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
This all makes sense. I know he likes me and my company, but that he has deep-rooted issues that would flare up in a closer relationship. He's financially secure, but I've never felt he was fully fulfilled by what he does. No idea if he's in entrepreneurial work now (or then, for that matter). Your verdict does sound like something he would do. To be honest with you, I don't care much for his reasons - he's hurt me, and that's all I need to know.

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Regarding your reading, I do feel she'll be the more emotionally erratic of the two of you, just simply because she is young and a rebel at heart. She doesn't want to conform and be in a labelled relationship.

To answer your question:

[b]will she [H] ever feel like she could be in a real, stable relationship with me if we end up hitting it off?

Lovely! This is a yes: Jack Hearts, 5 Hearts, Jack Spades. You're going to soften her heart just by being yourself and endearing yourself to her. She'll never really stop being a rebel and a little erratic at heart, but you'll be able to touch her deep inside and show her that there's nothing wrong with "silly girly romantic things". You won't seduce her with guile, oh no, you will enchant her with your caring. It's funny, because the sexual energy between the two of you is very charged, but what I'm getting from this spread is sweet, like a spring breeze in field of wild flowers. Just. Calming and plesant and warming.

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My next question is a bit too private for the forum, I'm afraid. Do you mind exchanging emails? I really would like you to read on this question of mine.

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Thanks again for this. I really enjoyed your reading. So much of it resonates with me...she is feminine, but I have the sense that she doesn't always open her heart to other people from past hurts and it would be nice to show her that a 'labeled' relationship with a delicate romanticism doesn't have to be a death sentence or restrictive. I'd like to discuss more about it privately, so email is a good idea for chatting more and further readings, especially the question you have in mind right now. You can find my email in the Brown Owl School thread where I'm listed as a mod.

posted July 31, 2014 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Thanks again for this. I really enjoyed your reading. So much of it resonates with me...she is feminine, but I have the sense that she doesn't always open her heart to other people from past hurts and it would be nice to show her that a 'labeled' relationship with a delicate romanticism doesn't have to be a death sentence or restrictive. I'd like to discuss more about it privately, so email is a good idea for chatting more and further readings, especially the question you have in mind right now. You can find my email in the Brown Owl School thread where I'm listed as a mod.

Also, I am sorry V hurt you. I sensed how he can be emotionally disconnected to others and how that negatively impacts his relationships. You deserve better, honestly! I have faith that he will get karma back for ignoring the people he should try to build relationships with... a man or woman who puts work and career at the expense of friendship, kindness, communication and love will always suffer the worst.

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Hi hun. Glad you're enjoying my readings and everything is resonating! I have sent you an email. Let me know if you don't receive it, so I can resend it.

Re: V. He is like that, but I don't wish him to be in my shoes. I just want him to learn from this and be happy. Truly. He's a good guy, he's just not good at relationships and emotional ties. It's okay. I'll live.