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sweet-scorpion
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posted July 21, 2014 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm trying to get practice with romance readings, as it's been a bit of time since I've done them and I enjoy doing them (how very Libra of me, LOL...). It would be fun to do romance-oriented exchanges with anyone who is interested!

EDIT: I have more time on my hands, so feel free to come to me for romance readings. I can work with more people than I expected.

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posted July 21, 2014 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
May I? I'd like to hear what you can see in the next 3 months for me and G.

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posted July 21, 2014 09:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 21, 2014 09:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leoeve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm in

Romance readings are my favorites!
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Leaving my question now: How is our relationship developing in the next 4 months? (I'm E, he's JP)

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posted July 21, 2014 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd like to !

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posted July 21, 2014 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yaaaay my favorite.

General relationship future? I'm single atm

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posted July 21, 2014 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm interested! My Q - will anything happen with B?

Happy to exchange with lenormands, angel cards or name comptability (although this can be done when i get home in a few hours)

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posted July 21, 2014 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 21, 2014 10:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
May I? I'd like to hear what you can see in the next 3 months for me and G.

8 of Cups Rx, 6 of Pents: Either one of you feels somewhat discontent with the situation at hand, but continues to give, trying to contribute to the relationship in the hopes of keeping it going. Unsteady ground. Material and physical contributions take place of emotional and spiritual offerings toward each other. You may feel emotionally discontent.

The Tower Rx/The Fool Rx/8 of Swords Rx/Knight of Swords: I have the sense that one of you is more temperamental than the other. You or G may feel that this is not the best relationship for you but you want to keep trying despite some serious issues that have come up. I have a feeling that you do care about G but things have not been sunny. G has some issues with temper or moodiness. One of you is not seeing the situation clearly, as it really is. 8 of Swords Rx is encouraging you to either move on or confront issues and change longstanding instabilities and negative patterns between you two. Knight of Swords shows that when you trust both the heart and the head, good communication is possible and the right decision will be made.

10 of Cups Rx/King of Pentacles Rx/2 of Swords: G may be excessively spending, drinking or involved in material pleasures and this can be taking a toll on the relationship. 10 of Cups Rx shows you might have high idyllic hopes for the relationship but G's indulgences can disrupt and upset you. G might have issues with maintaining a steady job and this can affect you and the relationship. The 2 of Swords can represent G's unwillingness to see the problem at hand, and you being at a crossroads about what to do in this scenario. Carefully examine what you want and communicate this to G.

Verdict: I feel that things aren't the best between you and G because you've been through ups and downs and you're trying to make it work, but serious issues still exist and may come up frequently in the next 3 months.

My question: What traits will my next girlfriend have?

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posted July 21, 2014 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow! There's a lot that resonates and speaks to me. It's 11:30 pm here and I'm about to hit the sack, but I'll be back tomorrow with feedback and your reading

Thanks!

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posted July 21, 2014 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leoeve:
I'm in

Romance readings are my favorites!
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EDIT
Leaving my question now: How is our relationship developing in the next 4 months? (I'm E, he's JP)


Me too!

King of Cups/King of Wands Rx/6 of Wands/8 of Cups Rx/5 of Cups: After a lot of chasing and pursuing, you two got together or established a new level in your relationship. One of you - I have the feeling that it is you, E - is more emotionally invested in the relationship than the other. 8 of Cups Rx can point to some commitment issues or emotional discontent in general due to past failed relationships. JP may have a bad romantic track record that has led him to try to not be as emotionally vulnerable...the 5 of Cups shows he's had affective disappointments and they've translated over into your current relationship in some ways since he can be a pessimist. The 6 of Wands shows that there has been some progress made but only after some significant struggle of trying to get him to open up and lighten up.

Ace of Cups Rx/Queen of Cups Rx: JP is enchanted by your sensitivity and compassion but feels you can be overly emotional at times. As someone who is trying to avoid being emotionally vulnerable, this is difficult for this person to be around someone who openly carries the heart on the sleeve. The Ace of Cups Rx shows that the relationship may not be turning out what either of you had hoped it to be as time goes by. Emotions run high and soon, they are drained...

There are two very different personalities at play. One, more likely you, has an open and sensitive heart and wants to give love a chance. The other, more likely JP, can be negative in his expectations and you may feel that the relationship borders on co-dependent or unbalanced at times [also shown by Ace of Cups Rx]. Overall this is not an easy match and the relationship has significant challenges. The 5 of Cups can point to one person having unrealistic expectations of the other. I felt the King of Wands Rx pointed toward JP and how he has fluctuating self-esteem...he can easily burn your sensitive heart with his more self-centered and unemotional ways. One person may try to change the other but it won't really work. I had some issues channeling JP's energy since he seems really guarded. I hope this was accurate.

My question: What do potential romantic partners see in me? What qualities do they dislike about me? (I want to improve myself so I can have a better love life.)

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posted July 21, 2014 10:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Wow! There's a lot that resonates and speaks to me. It's 11:30 pm here and I'm about to hit the sack, but I'll be back tomorrow with feedback and your reading

Thanks!


Glad it was accurate. I'll talk to you tomorrow! xo

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posted July 21, 2014 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MillyX:
I'd like to !

Of course, MillyX. What is your question?

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posted July 21, 2014 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Yaaaay my favorite.

General relationship future? I'm single atm


Sure!

Queen of Pentacles/8 of Pentacles Rx/7 of Pentacles Rx/The Hermit Rx/The World: I sense Earth energy for you, your ego. You're a warm, practical and nurturing person but I sense you're a careerist or hold high aspirations for yourself. Sometimes, you become overly involved in your own projects or work-related matters and other sectors of life, relationships specifically, can suffer as a result. 7 of Pentacles Rx here suggests that you need to change your patterns when dealing with others in order for your future love life to be successful. Sometimes, you can be overly logical about romance and this may make the relationship suffer since you don't trust your intuition. You've been shocked or confused when a partner has been unhappy in the past since you've worked hard to show you care but it was not in the 'right' or 'best' way for that person...they were seeking more of a spiritual/emotional commitment but that may have been hard for you at the time. You may be impatient or eager for love, but it might not be arriving as quickly as you'd like because you need to identify your weaker areas and change your negative habits that may carry over and make problems in relationships.

The Hermit Rx with the World shows that you have many opportunities out there in terms of finding someone special but you also have to come out of your shell for this to happen! Are you an introvert? I get the sense that maybe because of past issues you have become more introverted with time but don't shut people out in fear of getting hurt. The best partner might come unexpectedly or when you're least looking because this entire part of the spread shows trusting in intuition vs. logic and planning...let love happen naturally and your future love life will be more successful.

Ace of Cups Rx/Ace of Pentacles Rx: You may feel like someone you thought was really good for you slipped out of your grasp - 'the one that got away'. Sometimes you are depressed or listless because of your disappointing love life. Positive thinking is pivotal. The past is the past. The person you think seemed so good for you was meant to leave your life for a reason. It may feel like an opportunity or chance wasted but you can build new foundations with someone else.

Knight of Cups/Two of Cups/Page of Cups/7 of Cups/Death: I feel that sometime in the next 4-12 months a game changing relationship will occur. When you open your heart and mind to letting go of old patterns and beliefs and try to cosmically/karmically let 'the one' come in by opening the door to your heart with meditation, etc. the right person will come along for you when you least expect it and it will feel like a godsend. The 7 of Cups shows not only dreaming but, to me, astral projections and trying to materialize your fantasies. Your imagination and thinking are powerful tools you need to use to try to materialize the one you're looking for. Try to practice this! He will be an intuitive and sensitive man with Scorpionic qualities or Scorpio Sun. The entire relationship will be transformative and may change you or your way of life with Death present. I can sense it will be a good 'death' so to speak, and you will appreciate the sensitivity he brings and how he picks up your emotions. The relationship will be surprisingly sweet and soft with the Page of Cups present. Make sure to make yourself appear emotionally available, because this person will likely pick up on that and approach you first...and throughout it all you'll feel very attended to. I sense happy things for you if you open your heart to true love. Now is the time to push aside all flings and 'feet on the ground' relationships and give cosmic, compassionate love a chance. It may seem too good to be true, but it's not.

My question: Will I be able to have a happy relationship in my new location, or should I aim to stay single and focus on other pursuits?

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posted July 21, 2014 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by St@r2013:
I'm interested! My Q - will anything happen with B?

Happy to exchange with lenormands, angel cards or name comptability (although this can be done when i get home in a few hours)


Lovers Rx/Fool Rx/King of Cups/Justice/3 of Pents Rx: Did you two meet at work or at a job? I sense that there may be an issue with the workplace involving your relationship, i.e., you wanting to pursue some light chemistry that is there but feeling like you cannot because two employees or a superior and employee are encouraged not to be together outside of the work place. Lovers Rx show that two halves cannot fully join to meet, which indicates issues with romantic or sexual compatibility or literally hinderances in the physical world that keep you two from being together. Fool Rx shows that one of you either is pursuing a possible relationship recklessly and to get away from real-life responsibilities, OR illogically observing the relationship through rose-colored glasses... not good!

Justice here is telling you not to become too excited. Use your head and rely on logic. Examine the consequences of the relationship vs. trying to believe in what might not be there to begin with... Lovers Rx can also mean unrequited love. I see a few possibilities for this part of the spread and none of them are very positive to be honest.

7 of Wands Rx/The Wheel: It seems that outside forces really are not encouraging you to be together. The Wheel turns and turns and sometimes it can make your head spin because the outcome can seem good one day, then troubling the next! Perhaps you feel that some days, things seem hopeful with B while the next, something happens or B does something and your hopes come crashing down. I feel your confidence levels may be shaken. The timing may be off. Combined with the Lovers Rx, I don't see anything really taking place between you two...and if it does, the outcome might be painful.

Is B a flirt? Does B seem to encourage you without meaning to? If so, approach B and say that this is not OK. It would be best for you and B to remain good friends since it seems that there is a general lack of harmony in some areas between you two, and if any chemistry is present right now, it will be more lighthearted than anything vs. providing a solid foundation for a longer lasting love.

My question: I'm somewhat interested in someone, but this person may feel overwhelmed by me because of my strong personality. I am curious to see if this person will ever end up willing to give a real relationship a chance with me, since the chemistry is there...I guess I need to determine if this is a 'schoolgirl crush' or could be something more serious! I'm sick of wasting time on frivolous relationships so I'm really curious, thank you.

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posted July 22, 2014 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Lovers Rx/Fool Rx/King of Cups/Justice/3 of Pents Rx: Did you two meet at work or at a job? I sense that there may be an issue with the workplace involving your relationship, i.e., you wanting to pursue some light chemistry that is there but feeling like you cannot because two employees or a superior and employee are encouraged not to be together outside of the work place. Lovers Rx show that two halves cannot fully join to meet, which indicates issues with romantic or sexual compatibility or literally hinderances in the physical world that keep you two from being together. Fool Rx shows that one of you either is pursuing a possible relationship recklessly and to get away from real-life responsibilities, OR illogically observing the relationship through rose-colored glasses... not good!

Justice here is telling you not to become too excited. Use your head and rely on logic. Examine the consequences of the relationship vs. trying to believe in what might not be there to begin with... Lovers Rx can also mean unrequited love. I see a few possibilities for this part of the spread and none of them are very positive to be honest.

7 of Wands Rx/The Wheel: It seems that outside forces really are not encouraging you to be together. The Wheel turns and turns and sometimes it can make your head spin because the outcome can seem good one day, then troubling the next! Perhaps you feel that some days, things seem hopeful with B while the next, something happens or B does something and your hopes come crashing down. I feel your confidence levels may be shaken. The timing may be off. Combined with the Lovers Rx, I don't see anything really taking place between you two...and if it does, the outcome might be painful.

Is B a flirt? Does B seem to encourage you without meaning to? If so, approach B and say that this is not OK. It would be best for you and B to remain good friends since it seems that there is a general lack of harmony in some areas between you two, and if any chemistry is present right now, it will be more lighthearted than anything vs. providing a solid foundation for a longer lasting love.

[b]My question: I'm somewhat interested in someone, but this person may feel overwhelmed by me because of my strong personality. I am curious to see if this person will ever end up willing to give a real relationship a chance with me, since the chemistry is there...I guess I need to determine if this is a 'schoolgirl crush' or could be something more serious! I'm sick of wasting time on frivolous relationships so I'm really curious, thank you. [/B]


You are very accurate!

So B is someone I've met online and because I had readings before about my love life the way we started chatting fit those descriptions, so it made me think 'Can this be the guy??? ' I know justice card, I'm trying not to overthink it...

There's no connection with work but there's a physical distance - we live in different cities.

B is a flirt - he's been giving me compliments and being flirty. Meanwhile I haven't had a chance to check what he looks like so I could be disappointed.

I guess I got excited that I've actually met the guy others have predicted... But seems like a no... That's OK.

Thank you so much for the reading. I really want to do a good reading for you, so I'll do it in a few hours when I'm home. I promise I'll try to give you a reading as quickly as I can.

Thank you!

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posted July 22, 2014 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by St@r2013:
You are very accurate!

So B is someone I've met online and because I had readings before about my love life the way we started chatting fit those descriptions, so it made me think 'Can this be the guy??? ' I know justice card, I'm trying not to overthink it...

There's no connection with work but there's a physical distance - we live in different cities.

B is a flirt - he's been giving me compliments and being flirty. Meanwhile I haven't had a chance to check what he looks like so I could be disappointed.

I guess I got excited that I've actually met the guy others have predicted... But seems like a no... That's OK.

Thank you so much for the reading. I really want to do a good reading for you, so I'll do it in a few hours when I'm home. I promise I'll try to give you a reading as quickly as I can.

Thank you!


You are welcome. Initially I thought workplace because of the 3 of Pents but the internet connection makes sense since Justice came up along with the Fool Rx. A very unstable attraction that doesn't have a solid base because the internet can be very deceiving... especially since you do not know what he looks like! I definitely did sense B's flirtatiousness and if you want to be friends with him for now, that might be an issue. I sense that B might jut be an all-around flirt and I don't want you to get played. The physical distance is also going to be problematic and contributes to the Lovers Rx card, along with 7 of Wands Rx and the Wheel as outside influences preventing true love.

You will find the right one, don't worry. Thanks for taking on my question.

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posted July 22, 2014 01:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My question: Will I be able to have a happy relationship in my new location, or should I aim to stay single and focus on other pursuits?

Hmm. Interesting cards I got. For you I'm feeling you should stay single and focus on taking care of yourself spiritually and emotionally. Make a decision to free yourself from all the heaviness you carry around. It feels like it holds you back (cliche, but from these cards it does). I think you'll get a crush on someone at your new location and it has the foundation to grow into something, but there will be other things that get in the way first before that can be a priority.

The cards I got was Ace of Swords Page of Cups 7 of Cups rx 10 of Wands rx and Ace of Cups

If you have follow up questions feel free to ask!

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posted July 22, 2014 02:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
My question: Will I be able to have a happy relationship in my new location, or should I aim to stay single and focus on other pursuits?

Hmm. Interesting cards I got. For you I'm feeling you should stay single and focus on taking care of yourself spiritually and emotionally. Make a decision to free yourself from all the heaviness you carry around. It feels like it holds you back (cliche, but from these cards it does). I think you'll get a crush on someone at your new location and it has the foundation to grow into something, but there will be other things that get in the way first before that can be a priority.

The cards I got was Ace of Swords Page of Cups 7 of Cups rx 10 of Wands rx and Ace of Cups

If you have follow up questions feel free to ask!


Thanks for your input. I hope the reading I gave was accurate for you. I can see what you are saying as being very true... I feel like I have a lot on my mind right now besides relationships and I'm learning how to stop focusing SO much on love. So I think that remaining practical and Saturnine until I get stable foundations in my new location is really important!

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posted July 22, 2014 05:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
My question: I'm somewhat interested in someone, but this person may feel overwhelmed by me because of my strong personality. I am curious to see if this person will ever end up willing to give a real relationship a chance with me, since the chemistry is there...I guess I need to determine if this is a 'schoolgirl crush' or could be something more serious! I'm sick of wasting time on frivolous relationships so I'm really curious, thank you.

For your question I've done the lenormand couple's spread.

Let's start with you:
Your thoughts and plans - crossroads - it's seems that you are in two minds about him. It seems you have other options beside him so your thoughts (which is what you wrote as well is) - should I give this guy a chance?

Hopes and desire - moon - the moon is all about intimacy, desire and fantasies. Your wish to be closer/more intimate with him.

Qualities you display in the relationship - dog - you're so loyal to him and a good friend. Have you stuck by him for a while no? Not willing to give up on him?

Your feelings - scythe - it's interesting because you're feelings are that you need to "cut" it, to let this relationship go.

So with you although you have this romantic view of how it could be really good if the two of your were together, and you don't let him go - your head and feet are saying - time to move on.

His side:
His thoughts and plans - ship - is he planning to travel somewhere? (Or is he a from a foreigner?)

His hopes and desires - letter - he's happy to be pen pals with you. Do you guys communicate a lot by writing to each other? (emails/texts etc?) because if so he seems content for that to continue or my other thought if he is planning on some travel he hops to keep in touch with you.

Qualities he displays in the relationship - key - I'm not too sure about the key in qualities but to me it shows like he has all the necessary qualities you're looking for in a guy? Or that he holds all the power ... it's his decision whether to pursue something or not.

His feelings - lilies - well he definitely has very warm feelings towards you and sexual attraction.

I'm really curious if he's planning this oversea trip or something... Looking at his cards he enjoys your company and there attraction but I don't think he has as strong feelings for you as you would like.

Adding the cards we get:
Birds + scythe + crossroads

I think ultimately you (although you'll probably talk about it) will make the decision to cut this relationship and move to your other options. You guys will go your separate ways.

In this spread there weren't any cards that showed 'love' or 'commitment' .. I don't think this the guy for you or that anything will actually happen with him.


Please let me know if this resonates and if not I'm happy to do another spread or something else for you.

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I'll exchange with ya!

Thanks for being generous

Will anything happen with C and I?
Wht is his opinion of me atm?

Thanks! Post ya qs

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
For your question I've done the lenormand couple's spread.

Let's start with you:
Your thoughts and plans - crossroads - it's seems that you are in two minds about him. It seems you have other options beside him so your thoughts (which is what you wrote as well is) - should I give this guy a chance?

Hopes and desire - moon - the moon is all about intimacy, desire and fantasies. Your wish to be closer/more intimate with him.

Qualities you display in the relationship - dog - you're so loyal to him and a good friend. Have you stuck by him for a while no? Not willing to give up on him?

Your feelings - scythe - it's interesting because you're feelings are that you need to "cut" it, to let this relationship go.

So with you although you have this romantic view of how it could be really good if the two of your were together, and you don't let him go - your head and feet are saying - time to move on.

His side:
His thoughts and plans - ship - is he planning to travel somewhere? (Or is he a from a foreigner?)

His hopes and desires - letter - he's happy to be pen pals with you. Do you guys communicate a lot by writing to each other? (emails/texts etc?) because if so he seems content for that to continue or my other thought if he is planning on some travel he hops to keep in touch with you.

Qualities he displays in the relationship - key - I'm not too sure about the key in qualities but to me it shows like he has all the necessary qualities you're looking for in a guy? Or that he holds all the power ... it's his decision whether to pursue something or not.

His feelings - lilies - well he definitely has very warm feelings towards you and sexual attraction.

I'm really curious if he's planning this oversea trip or something... Looking at his cards he enjoys your company and there attraction but I don't think he has as strong feelings for you as you would like.

Adding the cards we get:
Birds + scythe + crossroads

I think ultimately you (although you'll probably talk about it) will make the decision to cut this relationship and move to your other options. You guys will go your separate ways.

In this spread there weren't any cards that showed 'love' or 'commitment' .. I don't think this the guy for you or that anything will actually happen with him.


Please let me know if this resonates and if not I'm happy to do another spread or something else for you.


Thank you! :Heart: It's actually with a woman, which I did not mention but it was still a highly accurate reading. I found truth in so many things you said here... excellent insights. We do communicate a lot as pen pals like you said. I feel like there's a feeling of warmth but we are both interested in travel and maybe she is not into the idea of having a real relationship with anyone in general? I really can relate to the Scythe card you pulled for me along with Crossroads since I have been agonizing over what to do! I feel like it's almost pointless for us to keep flirting with each other if it's not going to end up meaning anything in the end... T.Saturn is crossing over my natal Venus for the 2nd time and I am sick of meaningless love/flirting.

I feel like it's a shame because this person has SO many qualities I enjoy in a person and it's rare for me to be emotionally connected to someone like I am with her. Yet I feel like I need to get my head out of the clouds and stop being so romantic [thanks Saturn, haha...].

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I'll exchange with ya!

Thanks for being generous

Will anything happen with C and I?
Wht is his opinion of me atm?

Thanks! Post ya qs


You are welcome. My question: Why do I have such strong feelings about H? This feels rare for me, since it's on an emotional level too.

Your reading:

1. Will anything happen between you and C?

6 of Wands/7 of Swords/Queen of Cups/Page of Cups/6 of Pentacles/Knight of Swords/Death/Ace of Wands + Ace of Cups Rx

I feel that your spirit guides are giving you strong warnings about C and his true intentions. Initially the Lovers and the 7 of Swords also appeared. Is C interested in you only from a sexual and sensual standpoint? Whenever the Lovers and 7 of Swords appear, a person may be using the other for sex or trying to appear affectionate just for the purpose of sex - or getting whatever else he/she wants.

The 6 of Wands points to one of you fighting hard for this relationship to work and having a moderate but not total success toward what you want. The Queen of Cups and Page of Cups alongside the 7 of Swords shows that one of you will be content with your relationship and getting closer, more emotionally trusting with and open heart. I sense this is you. But your emotions and rose-colored vision of what the relationship is and who C really is may be disturbing your logic. I feel your intuition may be speaking up against C's ways.

The Knight of Swords shows that you must use clear, discerning logic to understand the basis of the relationship and what you want from C, and if this will really work longterm. I can see you being a sensitive and compassionate person...do you have any sexual planets in Cancer or Pisces? I do not think in the long run you want a non-commital partner and I have the feeling C might not have the resources to take love seriously.

Death comes to bring rapid change and resolution to the relationship. Either you will work out your issues with C and the union will totally transform, or it will come to an end. I am leaning toward the latter two, since below Death, the clarification cards are the Ace of Wands and Ace of Cups both Rx. All the chemistry, passion and flirtation, along with your hopes and dreams about what could happen, will be suppressed or drained away and this might call for you two to part ways. I can sense you are the more emotional one, so C's waning sexual interest or his inability to be the partner you want will crush your emotions. I feel you need someone who is more emotionally available and clear on what he/she wants out of a relationship than C.

2. How C views you/feels about you:

7 of Wands Rx/8 of Wands Rx/10 of Cups/8 of Pentacles/King of Pentacles Rx/4 of Pentacles/The Hermit/Two of Cups + 2 of Pentacles Rx

C views you as someone both compassionate and emotionally intelligent and a responsible, dedicated individual to whatever project, goal or relationship you take on. However, the 7 of Wands Rx shows that C cannot seem to make his mind up about you and what he wants from you... he is not used to this /type/ of attraction and this points to later issues. The 8 of Wands rx shows a sexual spark that might die out as suddenly as it flares up, and a relationship that becomes all about sex to survive... so C might see you as someone he wants to take to bed, but he isn't sure about letting you in.

I drew the Hermit and 4 of Pentacles and this confirms my suspicions about C's nature. C is a very reserved person and he might not trust others easily. He's possessive of what he wants, and he feels he MIGHT want you, even though he's never entirely sure of what makes him happy in life in general. The King of Pents Rx shows that C might feel like he is not 'good enough' for you or might let you down. He could secretly enjoy the victim role since it allows him to not change anything. He would rather just feel bad for himself about it and let other people feel bad about it. He likes how you're sensitive and could take care of him or attend to his emotional needs but I sense a lack of balance with give and take in this relationship. You're the more solid, 'real' and dependable one and C is not, despite his better qualities. The Two of Cups + the Two of Pentacles Rx shows how scattered C is with his energies... a person who can't balance out his work life with love or love with other responsibilities. He very may well let you down without meaning to.

Verdit: Overall, I feel this relationship requires a lot of caution. You have to ask yourself if you taking care of C so often is really worth the trouble, and if C will emotionally fulfill you as you need to be fulfilled.

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:

King of Cups/King of Wands Rx/6 of Wands/8 of Cups Rx/5 of Cups: After a lot of chasing and pursuing, you two got together or established a new level in your relationship. One of you - I have the feeling that it is you, E - is more emotionally invested in the relationship than the other. 8 of Cups Rx can point to some commitment issues or emotional discontent in general due to past failed relationships. JP may have a bad romantic track record that has led him to try to not be as emotionally vulnerable...the 5 of Cups shows he's had affective disappointments and they've translated over into your current relationship in some ways since he can be a pessimist. The 6 of Wands shows that there has been some progress made but only after some significant struggle of trying to get him to open up and lighten up.

What's interesting about this is that King of Cups has been popping up a LOT lately when I ask about my future SO. Not sure it represents me, I have not a single drop of water energy within myself. I'm not very emotional, or empathetic.
But I'm definitely wands. I'm thinking the roles here are reversed, but the truth is, I don't really know JP that well yet to identify him.

Ace of Cups Rx/Queen of Cups Rx: JP is enchanted by your sensitivity and compassion but feels you can be overly emotional at times. As someone who is trying to avoid being emotionally vulnerable, this is difficult for this person to be around someone who openly carries the heart on the sleeve. The Ace of Cups Rx shows that the relationship may not be turning out what either of you had hoped it to be as time goes by. Emotions run high and soon, they are drained...

There are two very different personalities at play. One, more likely you, has an open and sensitive heart and wants to give love a chance. The other, more likely JP, can be negative in his expectations and you may feel that the relationship borders on co-dependent or unbalanced at times [also shown by Ace of Cups Rx]. Overall this is not an easy match and the relationship has significant challenges. The 5 of Cups can point to one person having unrealistic expectations of the other. I felt the King of Wands Rx pointed toward JP and how he has fluctuating self-esteem...he can easily burn your sensitive heart with his more self-centered and unemotional ways. One person may try to change the other but it won't really work. I had some issues channeling JP's energy since he seems really guarded. I hope this was accurate.

I am sensitive although I don't really show it, just don't allow myself to... I like to be cool and colected. But I do want to give love a chance, think I'm obcessing about this, every guy that shows up I instantly start thinking "Is it gonna be this one? Oh, this one looks good as well! bla bla bla".
So, I can't really give you feedback right now, will depend on how everything develops. Maybe I'm going to turn up all Cups, I don't know!
Maybe it did resonated but probably the roles are reversed, not sure...



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posted July 22, 2014 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leoeve:

Coming right back with your reading

It could be a role reversal. I'm not sure why I sensed the emotionality coming from you... actually, it might not be far-fetched to conjecture that maybe, Cups energy has been coming up for your future SO because their water energy is a part of your 'ideal/higher' self. What you lack. So, it may very well be that JP might try to change you and try to bring out your emotionality/soft side and you might be resistant to this. The Ace of Cups Rx shows you might have a hard time letting your emotions out freely or finding emotional balance and this can affect your relationship with JP. I think good communication is a must in the future between you two, with you being honest about how hard it is for you to be emotional and/or empathetic.

Thank you for taking on my question!

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