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Topic: Exchange anyone?
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2740 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 07:19 AM
is he happy with who he's with and do you think that they would lastbe right there with yours IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2740 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 07:22 AM
first off I think you're going to be a mother younger than what you might be hoping for..... I'm sure right now your thinking nothing about children..... but this guy seems to have had younger sisters definitely... maybe a younger brother too, but he wants kids around all the time. if you had your first kid at 30 or later I would be shocked I think it's going to be before then.I don't get any warning signs from him or from you. I know you said you haven't really been in a relationship but I don't think your going to be one of those people that go through in an out of relationships. so if you were hoping to play the field date a lot and getting all of your system, I don't see that. are you Catholic or religious or something really kind of the church for the firm foundation..... he seems to be from a family that has a good foundation in religion so if you are not a Sunday worshiper you might start with this man. are you from the south I almost have a feeling he's from like Tennessee somewhere around there IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4475 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 31, 2014 07:29 AM
Apparently JS is not happy in his relationship right now, however, for one reason or another he's is afraid to let this person out of his life. Maybe because he feels like she is his last resort. Either way, he's having major trouble letting her go.IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2740 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 07:35 AM
and what does he think and feel about me?... I know why... he told me he married her out of convenience and his friends had told me it was more to do about the finances involved, and is now a baby and family connections, her family comes from the DC connection if you know what I mean and he is in law............. but can you look into why he's having a hard time letting her go/ ending it with her quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: Apparently JS is not happy in his relationship right now, however, for one reason or another he's is afraid to let this person out of his life. Maybe because he feels like she is his last resort. Either way, he's having major trouble letting her go.
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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4475 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 31, 2014 07:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: first off I think you're going to be a mother younger than what you might be hoping for..... I'm sure right now your thinking nothing about children..... but this guy seems to have had younger sisters definitely... maybe a younger brother too, but he wants kids around all the time. if you had your first kid at 30 or later I would be shocked I think it's going to be before then.I don't get any warning signs from him or from you. I know you said you haven't really been in a relationship but I don't think your going to be one of those people that go through in an out of relationships. so if you were hoping to play the field date a lot and getting all of your system, I don't see that. are you Catholic or religious or something really kind of the church for the firm foundation..... he seems to be from a family that has a good foundation in religion so if you are not a Sunday worshiper you might start with this man. are you from the south I almost have a feeling he's from like Tennessee somewhere around there
Oh wow, thank you for the insight. it's true I'm not into dating around, having children, but yes I am Christian. However, it makes me uncomfortable of those who are strictly religious who live by every word of the book. I feel like his expectations of me will be too high, and I consider myself a free-spirit. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2740 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 07:44 AM
I will say this it seems like a very traditional family.... Meaning you being a traditional wife and him being a traditional husband.I don't sense that he will try to change u in anyway. it does look like service is important to him. but I don't think he's going to B very Bible Belt. I really don't get any warnings or caution so I think this is going to be a very good match
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: Oh wow, thank you for the insight. it's true I'm not into dating around, having children, but yes I am Christian. However, it makes me uncomfortable of those who are strictly religious who live by every word of the book. I feel like his expectations of me will be too high, and I consider myself a free-spirit.
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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4475 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 31, 2014 07:45 AM
JS thinks of you as his healer and spiritual teacher. In his eyes, you embodied grace and unconditional love that more often than not, put him at ease. He might not say it but sometimes he fantasizes about you as his soulmate.Edit: in one point of there relationship this woman was able to achieve JS's most loving and sensual desires. Although that has faded, he does not want to let go of those memories he once had with her. IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4475 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 31, 2014 07:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: I will say this it seems like a very traditional family.... Meaning you being a traditional wife and him being a traditional husband.I don't sense that he will try to change u in anyway. it does look like service is important to him. but I don't think he's going to B very Bible Belt. I really don't get any warnings or caution so I think this is going to be a very good match
My Venus square Uranus is having trouble with this XD He must be really hot to get me to commit on that level lol IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2740 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 07:57 AM
I'm being shown is yes he really is very good looking. like I know this is the cliche reading but he's good looking you're very smart he comes from a good family background totally upscale class good with money. he looks like a young Matthew Perry quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: My Venus square Uranus is having trouble with this XD He must be really hot to get me to commit on that level lol
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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4475 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 31, 2014 08:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: I'm being shown is yes he really is very good looking. like I know this is the cliche reading but he's good looking you're very smart he comes from a good family background totally upscale class good with money. he looks like a young Matthew Perry
Nice! Matts pretty good looking. I just hope for his sake I don't leave out of the blue, though I do want to be in a serious relationship I've always been a commitment phobe IP: Logged |